Proven Openers That Spark

Attraction
First Impressions Are Crucial
Starting A Conversation
During The Day
Types Of Day Time Openers

Direct
Indirect
Functional
Observational
Situational
Types Of Day Time Openers

Direct
Indirect
Functional
Observational
Situational
“Hey real quick….this is totally random, but I
just saw you over here and thought you
were really cute, And I just wanted to say hi”
 “Do you know where Starbucks is?”
“Actually I’m not even looking for Starbucks,
I just thought you were absolutely adorable
and wanted to meet you”
“Can you help me with something? Okay let’s
say you are this (describe yourself) and you
are talking to a (describe her), what would
you say to her if you wanted to flirt with her?”
Starting A Conversation
At Night
Types Of Night Time Openers
Direct
Indirect
Functional
Situational
Teasing
Physical
“Hi, my name is Matt, I don't think
we've met yet.”
 “Hi I’m Matt, I just think awesome
people should know each other. You
are awesome right?”
“Have you noticed that you and I are like
the hottest people in this entire place?
It’s true, so I figured we have to meet”
 “Are you shy? Because I’ve been here
for 10 minutes and you haven’t talked to
me yet, or flirted with me or bought me a
drink...you must be shy.”
“Listen girls I have this rule that I have to
say hi to the cutest girls in the entire
bar…….so will you help me go say hi to
those girls over there?”
“I would so flirt with you right now if I didn’t
have to X”
X = get back to my friends, go get a drink,
etc.
 If they are sitting, you can sit next to
them and say, “Sorry I’m late girls traffic
was horrible. Did you order me a drink
yet?”
 “Has anyone ever told you how
beautiful (long pause) my eyes are?”
“Hi I’m Matt. You’re my girlfriend for
the next 5 minutes. What are we
going to do?
 Remember:
It’s All About Your Delivery
 Exercises:

1. Pick one day time opener that you want to try out
 Exercises:

1. Pick one day time opener that you want to try out
2. Pick 3 night time openers that you want to try out
 Exercises:

1. Pick one day time opener that you want to try out
2. Pick 3 night time openers that you want to try out
3. Go out and use them