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Magdalene Bailey
GSWS 0500
14 December 2023
In the Lifetime-turned-Netflix show “You,” the plot centers on the main female lead,
Guinevere Beck, from the perspective of her stalker-serial killer boyfriend Joe Goldberg. Beck is
an MFA student at NYU when she bumps into Joe at the bookstore he works at. Immediately
upon their meeting, Joe takes to the internet to find out everything he can about her, narrating it
to the audience as if we are Beck. How does the format of the show change how the audience
connects and relates to Beck? How does the audience perceive Beck based on the information
given through the perspective of Joe? Why do viewers not connect with Beck, and why do they
From the moment Guinevere Beck, referred to simply as “Beck,” appears, she is
characterized through someone else’s perception rather than leaving the interpretation up to the
viewer. Much of the first few episodes consist of Joe stalking Beck online, trying to learn
everything about her. In dominant culture, specifically in cinema, the male gaze “…projects its
fantasy onto the female figure, which is styled accordingly” (Mulvey, 808). Beck’s character is
built underneath Joe’s perception and his actions, and from the first episode, there are scenes
where Joe is having fantasies about Beck while watching her inside her apartment. In Elizabeth
Cowie’s book Representing the Woman: Cinema and Psychoanalysis, she references and builds
on Mulvey’s ideas. She writes, “Dominant ideology, however, Mulvey argues, requires that it is
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the male hero of the film who is the active controller of the film’s fantasy, and who has the look”
(168). Because of the structure of “You,” Joe is seen as “the male hero,” even though viewers
watch him murder time and time again. Mulvey’s argument continues, saying, “At the extreme, it
[scopophilia] can become fixated into a perversion, producing obsessive voyeurs and Peeping
Toms whose only sexual satisfaction can come from watching, in an active controlling sense, an
objectified other” (806). In the pilot episode, Joe watches Beck and her “boyfriend” have sex and
says that she “probably isn’t satisfied” before proceeding to watch her finish while fantasizing
about sleeping with her. Joe gets satisfaction in watching and knowing things about Beck without
her realizing. He memorizes her routine, following her around campus, New York City, and just
about everywhere she goes. He gets to see her when she does not think she is being watched at
all, which gives him a sense of control over her and her life.
“You” was created to flip typical tropes on Lifetime and show their stories from a
different perspective. As Ani Bundel argues in her NBC article, “Expected, clichéd stereotypes
are revealed to be creepy when viewed through the lens of a controlling man like Joe. This also
changes how we think about Joe’s victim Beck, because the audience doesn’t identify with her.
She is, after all, not us. She is ‘you.’” Lifetime is a network that airs shows like “Sleeping with a
Killer” and “#TextMeWhenYouGetHome,” which places a show like “You” in context and
conversation with those true crime tropes. Seeing the perspective of Joe and what his motivations
are add to the discomfort, but this same concept can make him human. The way cinema and
media in popular culture exist rose from “…its skilled and satisfying manipulation of visual
pleasure” (Mulvey, 805). Joe’s actions are pushed as a guy who is in love and will do whatever
he can to make the girl he fell for have a better life. He tries to justify his actions, and for some,
they feel he did. Ani Bundel explains, “Even when the show switches to Beck’s perspective in
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the final episodes, it feels almost too late for the audience to get in her corner or feel much
sympathy for her fate.” Because the audience is shown Joe’s actions and told his motivations by
Joe is a complex character that creates a mixture of feelings that can be hard to name. He
kills people, yes, but he is trying to help his neighbors get away from an abusive relationship. He
stalks Beck, but he tries to tell her that her graduate advisor wants to sleep with her. He seems
like a nice guy despite the creepy behavior he exhibits. Because of the show’s centrality on Joe
and his relationship with Beck, “…audiences figure out this romantic love story is too good to be
true long before the heroine does. But by taking the story and telling it from the killer’s
perspective, viewers are in on it from the start, changing how Joe’s actions are perceived”
(Bundel). Beck seems foolish and ignorant to the gravity of the situation she is in, but she does
not know about any of Joe’s behaviors. He is completely offline, so she cannot stalk him as he
does her. It is in Cowie’s work that an explanation of this disconnect between the audience and
Beck and the audience’s feelings toward Joe. She writes, “[I]t is through identification that film
narratives are assumed to produce their emotional effects upon us” (109). The audience is
primarily shown Joe’s thoughts, feelings, and actions, which makes the viewer more likely to
identify with him. They understand him, which they cannot do with Beck. Branding and the
network on which a show airs are incredibly important. “You” is a prime example of this, as
explained by Bundel: “On Lifetime, viewers went in expecting to sympathize with the heroine,
and the show’s bending of those tropes stuck out far more prominently. It felt more purposeful.
Stripped of the Lifetime branding, however, the weaknesses inherent in the show’s writing left
‘You’ more open to misinterpretation. On Netflix, many viewers seem to see the series less as a
response to standard romantic tropes and more the saga of a misunderstood anti-hero in the vein
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of ‘Dexter’ or Walter White in ‘Breaking Bad’ — but without the nuance that made both ‘Dexter’
and ‘Breaking Bad’ worth watching.” Netflix houses shows like “Monster: The Jeffrey Dahmer
Story” and “Mindhunter,” which focus on getting into the mind of serial killers and other violent
offenders. Without the context the show had on Lifetime, the satirical nature of “You” does not
come across.
Even then, each choice made on the show impact the reaction of the audience. As Cowie
puts it, “Cinema is not simply filmed reality; it frames the world in order to picture it on
celluloid, hence it selects and excludes” (26). There are scripts written, actors hired, scenes
filmed. All of it is meant to portray a certain feeling. Because of this, the characters do not
always have the time to come to life. Cinema “…and the conventions within which it has
consciously evolved, portray a hermetically sealed world which unwinds magically, indifferent to
the presence of the audience, producing for them a sense of separation and playing on their
voyeuristic fantasy” (Mulvey, 806). What is generally consumed by the public is something they
want to be mindless, something that does not require a lot of thinking, but consuming a show like
“You” cannot be taken that way. The world created is one that should be learned from, not
promoted.
The format of “You” creates an environment where the victim is not seen as that: a
victim. Cinema generally produces a spectacle, but “You” is even more so. This idea ties back to
one mentioned in Visual Pleasure: “Going far beyond highlighting a woman’s to-be-looked-at-
ness, cinema builds the way she is to be looked at into the spectacle itself” (Mulvey, 815). The
central plot is Joe watching Beck and learning more about her by stalking her online, and that
makes Beck a spectacle, even if it is not in the typical way. She is not being overtly extravagant,
but her entire life is analyzed and pulled apart by Joe. Cowie argues that the images of women in
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cinema help create the spectacle that is “woman.” She writes, “For images, it was argued, not
only exploited women…but, and more importantly, they produced definitions of women and
femininity that were presented as true, timeless, and hence ‘natural.’ Such representations
presented not woman, but mother, virgin, whore, or just image. She was a sign of everything and
anything but herself” (16). Beck does not get to characterize herself to the audience; Joe is
creating the image of her. The patriarchy controls how woman is represented, “…assigning it a
function and value determined by and for men, and in the service of the construction of the
definitions…” of masculine desire and the male gaze (Cowie, 19). Because of the viewpoint of
“You” being from Joe’s perspective, the audience only sees the other characters out of his
perspective. Cinema and photographic images outwardly appear to be the “real” world, but those
objects and people depicted in cinema and photographic images do not have meaning until they
are organized (Cowie, 18-19). The argument that the point of view switches to Beck’s is “too
late” for viewers to sympathize with her falls under this idea. Viewers do not see how or care
about Beck because everything they learn about her is through Joe’s stalking. Him watching her,
reading her texts, pretending to be her boyfriend (that he murdered before becoming Beck’s
boyfriend) while he figures out what to do with him; all of those are entrenched in the patriarchal
ideal of man. Because Beck is only shown through Joe’s eyes, there is no room for her to develop
The format that made “You” a popular show is the format that makes it questionable in its
representation of women. The show was intended to play with the true crime tropes it uses, but it
has lost that nuance upon the switch from Lifetime to Netflix. This switch also exposed the poor
writing of the show, leading audiences to humanize Joe and his actions. Many viewers reported
that it was “too late” to sympathize with Beck at the end of the season because her perspective
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was only seen toward the end. The lack of sympathy for the heroine of the story exemplifies the
true crime culture we have cultivated. We as audiences love to see the nitty gritty of why a killer
committed their crimes. We love to get into their heads, to understand them. Most consumers of
true crime content neglect to think about the victims in the stories, not when there is a killer to
psychoanalyze. “You” walked straight into the pitfall within the empire of true crime content.
Everyone romanticized Joe and could see the human in him when he killed several people over
the course of the first season alone, let alone the other three. “You” preys on the inherent
disconnect that we feel while consuming media and feeds into the fantasy of watching another. It
goes even farther by watching someone watch someone else, something most television shows or
movies do not do. Despite all of the negative criticism “You” has gotten, it is an incredibly
popular show. People watch it because of its perspective, not despite it. That is the trap viewers
Works Cited
Bundel, Ani. “‘You,’ Netflix’s New Hit, Darkly Satirizes Romance and True Crime Stereotypes.
but Do Fans Get It?” NBCNews.Com, NBCUniversal News Group, 20 Jan. 2019,
www.nbcnews.com/think/opinion/you-netflix-s-latest-hit-darkly-satirizes-romance-true-
crime-ncna960736.
Cowie, Elizabeth. Representing the Woman: Cinema and Psychoanalysis. Macmillan, 1997.
Mulvey, Laura. “Visual Pleasure and Narrative Cinema.” Film: Psychology, Society, and