Th

eGi
rl
Wor
thCh
oos
ing
F
ort
heBOYwh
oCh
oos
esa
ndt
heGI
RLwh
owa
ntst
obeCh
ose
n.

ByRe
vDANI
ELA.L
ORDS.
J.

Th
isi
sfort
heboywit
hhiseye
sonth
efut
ure
.Buti
tisf
ort
hegir
lwhoi
sthi
nki
ngahe
ad.I
ti
sme an
ttohel
p
aboypi
ckoutt
heri
ghtgi
rl
,andt
ohel
pth
egirl
bet
heki
ndtha
twill
beh
appi
lyandpe
rmanen
tlypi
cke
d.

I
fyouareaboynotinlove
,ye
te xpects
ome da
ytob e
,thi
sbook
leti
sme an
ttogui
deyouinpi
cki
ngt
hegir
l
wort
hlovi
ng.I
fyouareinl
ove,
the r
eissti
l
lti
meforyou,
myyou ngfr
ien
d,toappr
ai
seth
egirl
andde
cid
e
whet
hershei
sthesortwhowil
lholdyourl
oveastheyea
rssl
ipby.

Asfort
hegi
rl
,th
esuggest
ion
sinthi
sbookl
etwi
l
lmakeyoumor
elova
ble
.Th
isi
snogui
det
oglamour
.But
i
tisagui
det
ot h
efemin
inechar
act
eri
st
icst
hata
ttr
actayou
ngmanandmakeamat
uremangl
adth
atin
hi
syout
hyouattr
act
edh i
m.

Choosi
ngt h
eri
ghtgi
rl
isoneofli
f
e’sgrea
td ec
is
ions.Uponitde
pendsmoreofaman’
sfu
turehappi
nes
s
th
ana ttheti
mehefa
intl
yguess
es.Roma nc
efadesa n
dr e
ali
smsetsi
n;t
hedrea
misgoneandthedamsel
re
ma i
ns.Theenc
hant
me ntoff
asci
nati
ondis
appearsbuttheencha
inmen
tcanrema
inadel
ight
ful
part
nersh
iporal
if
esentenc
e.

Whi
lesomegirl
s,i
nthebless
edprovi
denc
eofGod ,
a r
emea n
ttoknowHisfu
lll
oveandt
hei
rownperson
al
de
dica
tiontoHi
ma ndHislit
tl
eones,
formostgi
rl
st h
ema tt
erofwhopic
ksthemoutan
dsays,
“Wil
lyou?
”
i
sterr
ibl
yimport
ant.Iti
simport
anttobechos
enb yther
ightman.Bet
ternotbec
hose
natal
lrat
herthan
f
in
dt ha
tt h
ema nwh oasksyouhasas
kedyouforal
lthewrongreas
ons.

L
OVEI
SENOUGH?

“Aw,”pr
otestst
heyoungma n,“
whatki
ndofabus
ine
ssd
ealdoe
shethi
nkmar
ri
ageis?Loveise
nough.
Lovewil
lpoi
ntouttheperf
ectgi
rlf
orme.Onel
ook,a
ndI
’l
ls
ay,‘
Thi
sist
heon
e!’I
sn’
ttha
tt hewayt
h e
popul
arsongsgo?Doesn
’ti
th a
ppenli
keth
ati
nthemovi
es?
”
I
shoul
dn’
t,i
fIwereyou
,tru
sttoofa
rth
epopul
ar‘
son
g-plu
gger
s’ortheact
orsa
nda ct
res
seswh
opl
aya
t
l
oveonthescre
en.Thei
rmarr
iedl
i
vesa
res
eld
omapa tt
ernofs
ucces
sful
andendur
ingl
ove.

Fal
l
inginl
ovei
sa l
mosttooe a
sy.Peopl
edoita
llt
heti
me,a
ndsomet
imesmanyti
mesover
.Somedayi
n
gr
eyingmatur
it
y,youwill
lookbacki
namazementatt
henumb
erofgi
rl
syoubri
ef
lyt
houghtyoul
oved
.
Mostyoungmensay,“Thi
sistheone,
”af
teraqui
ckl
ooka
tali
tan
yofma i
den
s.

Ma
rryi
ngi
ssome
thi
ngve
ryd
if
fer
ent
.

Marr
yin
gi sth
eh ear
tandt heh e
adworkingtogeth
e r
.Itislovethatto“I
sn’tshel
ovel
y?”adds“Andwhata
l
ovel
yd i
sposi
ti
on;”to“I
s n
’tshebeauti
f
ul?
”q ui
ckl
yjoi
ns“ An dwhatab e
au t
ifu
lsoul
!
”Ma rr
ia
geturn
slove
i
ntoape r
ma nen
ts t
ate.Unti
l marr
ia
ge,thegi
rlyoulovec ome sa
n dgoes;withmarri
ageshest
ayson.L
ove
maybeb l
ind
;butma rr
iagegivesyouplen
tyoft i
met olooka tthegi
rlandr e
all
yseeher.

I
ti
seas
ytomarry;i
tta
kesal
otofc
o-ope
rat
ionb
etwe
ent
wowe
ll
-ma
tch
eda
ndc
onge
nia
lpe
opl
etos
tay
h
appi
l
ymarr
ied
.

BEF
OREANDAF
TER.

Thedi
si
ll
usi
one
dma rri
edmanwason ceth
ee nt
hral
l
edb r
ide
groom.Hecomestoafr
ien
dwithastar
tl
ed
l
ookinhi
seye,cr
yin
g,“I
fIh
adonlyknownh erbef
oreh
anda sI
knowh e
rnow!”Or
,angri
l
yandinfr
ustr
ati
on,
hewaveshi
sarmsatanunsympath
e t
icworl
d:“Whydidn’
tsomebodytel
lme?Whywasn’
tIgi
vensome
tes
tsth
atIcoul
dhaveappl
i
e db
eforeImarr
iedthegi
rl
?”

Nowthesi
mpl
efa
ctrema
ins:Agi
rli
snotch
ange
dbymarr
iage.Sh
eisth
es a
meindi
spos
iti
ona n
dabi
l
it
ies
,
i
ncha
ract
eran
dvirt
ueaf
tertheh
oneymoonass
hewasb
eforeshewasfi
tt
edforh
erbri
dalgown.

Moretha
ntha
t,t
h es
hre
wdob s
erverc
ouldhavesee
ninthegi
rl
thequal
i
tie
sth atwou
ldmak
eh e
ragoodor
poorwif
e—ah a
ppymot h
eroracompla
ini
ngshre
w.All
thesi
gnswerethere.Manyaca
sua
lpers
ons a
w
the
m.Itwast
helove
r,b
li
ndedbyhi
semotion
s ,
whomiss
edtheobvi
ous.Heinsomecase
sdel
ib
erate
ly
pr
efe
r r
edtob ebl
ind.“
She’
l
lchange
,”hepers
uadedhi
msel
f.Or,
“Il
i
ket h
efacttha
ts hec
an’
tcook...I
sn’
t
he
rcon ti
nuouscha
tterde
li
ghtf
ul
?...Ofc ou
rse
,shehas
n’tgr
ownu p,buts
h ewi
ll...I
knowshei
s
ex
travagantwit
hh e
rparent
s’money;butsh
ewon ’
tbethatwaywithmine
.”

THETI
METOL
OOK.

Be
for
ema
rri
age
,nota
fte
r,i
sth
eti
met
ofi
ndou
twh
ats
ortofpe
rsont
hegi
rl
rea
ll
yis
.

Laughifyouli
ke,b
utma nyahighl
ysucc
essf
ulmarri
agewa sworke
dou tbythepare
n t
soft heboyandthe
gi
rl
.Th elad’
smotherandfat
herknewthatthegi
rlwascharmin
g,good,vi
rtuou
s,anexcell
entcook
,afin
e
man a
ge r
,withapl
easantdi
sposi
ti
on.ShewasnoMi s
sUnivers
e;buttwentyyear
sfromn owwh enher
beauti
fulc
harac
terhadgive
nh ergr
aceandad ur
abl
esmileandcomfort
abl
eu nd
erst
a n
din
ga n di
nst
inc
ti
ve
goodma nners,
howluckythema nwhohadma r
rie
dh er
!

Sinc
epa rent
sh a
ven’
tmu cht odowithma r
ri
agechoice
st hes
eda ys,t
heyoungma nhadbetterdosometall
andseri
ou sthi
nki
ngforhimself
.WeAme ri
cansarewil
da dvocat
esoft her
oman t
icmarr
iage.Andwea re
als
oa ni
n ter
nati
onal
d i
sgracefort
hewa yourma rr
ia
gesgot opie c
esontherocks.Qui
teobviou
slya
“gl
amou rpuss”i
snotne c
e s
sari
lyasucc
essf
ulwif
e.Shema yb eaWowi naba
llgownbuts h
ema ya l
soshy
awayinh orr
orfromthewa vingofanapron.Shema yhaveac l
everli
neofch
attertha
tisholl
owa sthe
ratt
leofcastanet
s.

Sobef
orema r
ri
age,d
uri
ngwh a
tisfi
rstfri
e n
d s
hipandtheb
egi
nnin
gofc ourt
shi
p,t
hewiseyoungma nlooks
andl
i
stensandju
dgesanda
pprais
e s
.Heq uitereas
onabl
yexpe
ctsthatt
h egi
rli
sse
nsi
b l
eenoughtogive
hi
mthesamet r
eatment
.Pr
e c
isel
ythes ortofpersonn
ottoma r
ryisthepers
on(maleorfemal
e)who
ru
she
sintoma r
ri
agewit
houtthought,pla
n ni
ng,ormoreth
anah e
art-t
hrobbi
ngacqu
a i
nta
ncewithalif
e-
ti
mepart
n e
r.

L
ook
,you
ngma
n,a
nds
tud
yth
esi
gns
.

Don
’t,
you
ngl
ady,
eve
ncon
sid
erma
rryi
ngama
nwh
odoe
sn’
tl
ooka
nds
tud
y.
Don’
tbehu
rt,
you
ngf
el
low,
ift
hegi
rl
iss
lowt
ode
cid
ewh
eth
ers
het
hin
ksyoua
reu
ptot
hes
tan
dar
dsh
e
ha
sset.

Runl
ikeas
tar
tl
eddee
r,you
ngmi
ss
,fr
omt
heh
unt
erwh
osh
out
sfi
rs
tath
isq
uar
rya
ndt
hena
skswh
atk
ind
oft
rophyh
ehasba
gged.

Topu
tits
impl
y:L
ookb
efor
eyoul
ove
.

Orforthegi
rl
s,l
et’
ssay:Becompl
i
men
tedb
yth
elon
gan
dth
ough
tfu
llookofagoodma
nan
dbes
ureyou
ca
ns ta
ndinhonestsc
ruti
ny.

SI
MPL
ETESTS.

Wh
ats
hou
ldayou
ngma
npl
ann
ingma
rri
agel
ookf
or?

Wha
tq u
ali
ti
essh
oul
dayou
ngwoma
nde
vel
opt
hatwou
lda
ttr
actaf
i
ne,
int
ell
i
gen
tma
n,a
ndh
oldad
evot
ed,
f
ai
thf
ulhus
band
?

L
et’
sst
artwi
tht
hata
ll
-i
mpor
tan
tth
ingc
all
edd
isp
osi
ti
on.

“
Disposi
ti
on”isawordthatcomesfromthever
b“di
spose.
”And“di
spos
e”means“a
rra
nge”
.Howisth
egir
l
di
spose
dt owardst
hin
gsa n
dp eopl
ea r
oundhe
r?Howd oe
sshear
rangehera
cti
onstof
itt
hepeopl
eshe
meetsandtheci
rcumsta
ncesthatar
ise?

Th
ean
cie
ntve
rseu
sedt
osa
y(a
ndwec
han
geon
lyt
hen
oun
):

“
It
’se
asye
nou
ght
obepl
eas
ant
Wh
enl
over
unsa
lon
gli
keas
ong;

Bu
tth
ema
idwh
o’swor
thwh
il
e

I
sth
ema
idwh
oca
nsmi
l
e

Wh
ene
ver
yth
inggoe
sde
adwr
ong”
.

Thatwa ss
aidf
irstofmen.Bu td
isposi
ti
onisnots odiff
ere
ntinme norwome n.Howisshed i
sposed
towardspl
easa
n tdaysorgloomywe ather…t owardsplen
tyofs pe
nd i
ngmoneyoras uddenshorta
ge...
toan e
ws pri
ngou tf
itorl
astyear’
sthatmu s
td oforthisse
ason...t owar
dsthepart
ywh ens omeother
gir
lta
kesthespot l
i
ght...towardsoldpeopl
ea ndyou ngchi
ldre
n...t owar
dsawe ekful
lofdatesanda
weekwh en—f orsomer ea
son—t hephonedoe s
n’tri
ng...t owardsthes
choolel
ect
ionthatchoseher
QueenoftheMa yandt h
ec l
assel
ecti
onthatfoundh ermis
singthepresi
den
cyb yonevote?

THATPRECI
OUSSMI
LE.

Al
otoff
utu
rel
i
fewou
ldb
esi
mpl
i
fi
edf
ort
heyou
ngma
nwh
ole
arn
edt
ore
adgi
rl
s’s
mil
es:

Th
equ
icks
pon
tan
eou
ssmi
l
eofgoodh
umou
r...

Th
esmi
l
eth
atb
rea
kswh
ent
hin
gsh
aveb
rok
enb
adl
y...

Th
esmi
l
ewi
thwh
ichah
ardj
obi
sac
cept
ed...

Th
esmi
l
eth
ati
sth
eou
twa
rds
ignofi
nwa
rdgr
ace...
Forcheer
ful
nessisju
stoneofthere
all
yimpor t
a n
te l
eme n
tsofawoma n
’sdis
posi
ti
on .Ama nbat
tle
sthe
worl
da l
lday,
an dit
’sof
tenenoughatough,rattywor l
dthatcuff
shi
ma n dgr
owlsath i
ma ndsna
psa b
out
hi
sears,a
ndd i
gspointedel
bowsint
oh i
sr i
bs.Whenh ecome shome,hehasarigh
tt oa s
kchee
rful
ness
.The
smil
eofhi
swifea tthedoori
stherea
llove-l
ightthatshoul
db ebur
nin
gf orhi
m.An dh ecandr
opintoan
armcha
irofpeaceifhei
swe l
comedbyt hecheerf
ulgoodh umor,t
hedimpledsmil
e,t
h eeasygai
etyofhi
s
wif
e.

Ma
nyawoma
nha
swi
sel
ycu
lti
vat
edas
mil
e.

Gi
rl
swithch
armi
ngdimpl
esma
ywe
llh
avel
ear
nedb
efor
eth
eirmi
rr
ort
hatas
mil
eist
hewa
ytowa
ket
hem
i
nful
l
estfa
sci
nat
ion
.

The
rearef
orc
edsmil
es...andart
if
ic
ial
smil
es...ands
mil
est
hata
ret
urn
edona
ndof
fwi
ths
omes
ortof
i
nners
witc
h,a
ctu
all
yemotion
les
sasa nel
ect
ri
cbulb
.

Publ
i
cent
erta
iner
sle
arntofl
ashthei
rsmil
es,nomoresi
ncer
et h
ant h
etearssh
edb yaJohn
nieRayora
si
ngi
ngcr
ocodi
le
.Ast h
echor
u sl
inedanc
e sontoth
estage,
thetir
ed,gl
oomy,unsmil
i
ngfac
esofthegi
rl
s
wi
lls
eemtocatc
hfir
efromthefootl
i
ghts;andpra
cti
cedsmi
lesi
nma gni
fi
centi
nsi
ncer
itywi
ll
burs
tonevery
f
ace.

I
naway,asmi
l
eisl
essoft
heli
psandth
ed i
mpl
esth
aniti
softhee
yes.Amouthma
yc u
rvei
nasmil
ea n
d
t
heeye
sremai
ndeadandl
if
el
ess.Bu
teyescan
notsmi
l
ewithou
tthewhol
efa
cewaki
ngtoch
eer
ful
nessand
c
har
m.

CHEERF
ULNESSF
IRST.

Th
ete
stofc
hee
rfu
lne
ssi
s,ofc
our
se,
anys
ortofd
if
fi
cul
ty.

Agir
lca
nnotbeothe
rthanc
heerf
ulwhe
nayoungmandanc
e sa
tte
nti
ononh
er,
whenshei
she
avi
l
ydate
d,
whenhe
rfroc
kisf
resha
ndfl
att
eri
ng;whenDa
dlet
sherb
orrowtheca
r,a
ndMot
hers
li
pshe
ranex
tra
gr
eenbi
ll
fori
nci
den
tale
xpens
es.
Th
eti
met
ose
ewh
eth
erorn
otagi
rl
isc
hee
rfu
liswh
ent
hin
gsgob
adl
y:

I
tra
insa
nds
poi
l
sth
epi
cni
c.

Youar
esor
rybu
twh e
reasyouexpe
cte
dtota
keh
ert
otheex
pen
siver
est
aur
antwi
tht
hen
ameb
and
,you
admi
tyouar
eabl
etoaff
ordonl
yamoviea
ndaha
mbur
ger
.

Moth
ersays
,“Sor
ry,
d e
ar,yourf
ath
era
ndI
jus
tha
vet
ogoou
tton
igh
t;a
ndyouh
avet
ost
ayh
omea
nd
ta
kecar
eoftheyoungst
ers.
”

Sh
eha
saf
res
hma
nic
ure
,bu
titi
sal
soh
ert
urnt
odot
hed
inn
erd
ish
es.

Sh
eex
pec
tedt
obet
hes
chool
’
spr
omq
uee
n,b
utt
heot
hergi
rl
win
sth
epl
ace
.

De
spi
teh
erh
one
ste
ffor
ts,
shed
oesn
otwi
napl
acei
nth
esc
hool
compe
tit
ion
.

Sh
eca
pta
insat
eamt
hatl
ose
s.

He
rba
byb
rot
herr
unsh
ish
and
s,h
eavywi
thc
hoc
ola
tea
ndj
am,
ove
rhe
rne
wli
nens
uit
.

Yous
inc
ere
lywa
nte
dtot
akeh
erou
t,b
uti
fyoud
on’
tst
ayh
omea
nds
tud
y,you
’l
lba
rel
ysc
rapet
hrou
gh.

SMAL
LTESTS.

Smal
lt
est
sar
eth
ebigte
sts
;forbi
gtes
tscomerar
el
yinl
if
e.Theche
e r
ful
wif
eandth
ec h
eerf
ulmothe
rwi
l
l
bet
hegir
lwh
ocant
akesmal
lmis
hapswi
thagri
n;whodoes
n’tge
tu ps
etbythet
ri
cksofeve
ryday
i
nci
den
ts;wh
oca
nsmi
l
ean
deve
nla
ughal
i
ttl
eatt
het
ri
fl
i
ngd
isa
ppoi
ntme
ntsofl
i
fe.

Watchthegir
lforth
esmal
lth
ings
.Thosea
ret
hethi
ngsyoua
ndyourwif
ewil
lha
vetofac
ela
teron.
Che
erfu
lnessi
st h
eprec
iou
ssunsh
ineofah
ome;a
ndifth
ewif
ehasi
t,t
hehomeisbr
igh
tandbeau
tif
ul
i
ndeed.

MANNERS.

Al
waysayou
ngma
nca
nth
inkofagi
rl
int
hes
etwowa
ys:

Some
dayI
sha
lld
epe
ndu
ponh
erf
ormype
rson
alh
appi
nes
s,on
ces
hei
smywi
f
e.

Some
daymyc
hil
dre
nwi
l
lta
ket
hei
rma
nne
rsa
ndt
hei
rmor
al
sfr
omh
er,
onc
esh
eist
hei
rmot
her
.

So,i
nth
isd
a ywhenmanner
saren
ottoomuc
hprize
dbytheyounge
rge
ner
ati
on,
you
’db
ewi
set
ota
kea
goodl
ookatthemann
ersofth
egir
lyoua
ret
hin
kin
gofch
oosing.

“
Man
ner
s”—t
hewor
d—e
xpr
ess
ese
xac
tl
ywh
ati
tin
ten
dst
osa
y:

Th
ema
nne
r,t
hewa
yinwh
ichape
rsonh
abi
tua
ll
yac
ts.

Th
ema
nne
r,t
hewa
ysh
eta
lks
.

Th
ema
nne
r,t
hewa
ysh
eac
tst
owa
rdspe
opl
e.

Th
ema
nne
r,t
hewa
ysh
eea
ts.

Al
lth
oseex
ter
nal
ges
tur
esma k
eth
edi
f
fer
enc
ebe
twe
enas
ava
gea
ndac
ivi
l
ize
dpe
rson
,ab
arb
ari
ana
nda
pl
eas
antmemb
erofs
oci
ety.
Awomanwit
hple
asantmann
ersisadel
i
ght
ful
per
sont
oh a
vearound
.Awoma nwith
outpl
eas
antma
nne
rs
c
anbeash
rew,ahar
ri
d a
n,abac
k-fe
ncegos
si
p,ar
ude,
il
l
-bre
d,f
i
s h
-wif
el
y,gu
tte
ris
hpers
on.

Soyoumi gh
tnicel
ydoalit
tlel
is
teni
ngtoh e
rvoic
ea ndth
eways hespe
aks.Youwil
lha
vetoli
st
entothat
voi
cefortheres
tofyourd a
ys.Goodgramma r
?Ple
asantmodul
ati
on?Shar
pnessoft
one?Sudde
ns q
uea
ls
orbl
astsoroutc
rie
sofrageorindi
gnat
ion?Tooma nywordsf
ortoofewideas?Nowordsa
tall
,orsof
ew
tha
tyouq ues
ti
onifsh
eh aside
as?

Doesshesa
y“than
kyou ”foryourgi
f
ts,a
ndsayitch
armin
glyandwit
hrea
lappre
cia
tion
?Youmigh
tnot
ice
wheth
er“pl
ease
”fi
guresi
nh ernorma
lspe
ech,notmer
el
yt owar
dsyouwhoms h
eistryi
ngtoi
mpres
sbu
t
towar
dsyoungerc
hil
dren,
s a
les
peopl
e,wai
ter
sa n
dwait
resse
s,h
erteac
her
s.

Age
ntl
eton
gu emaycomeunderth
eh e
adofvi
rt
uerat
hert
hanma
nne
rs,
yete
venwh
enat
ongu
eisn
ot
c
onc
ern
edwithsi
n,i
tisc
ert
ain
lyconce
rnedwi
thourc
omfor
t.

Heavendel
ive
ragoodma nfr
omac omplai
ni
ngwoman...fromon ewh oisafaul
t-
fi
nder,wh
oconsta
ntl
y
se
eswh at’
swrongwitheveryt
hin
ga ndmakesapoi
ntofl
ayi
n ghertonguevigor
ousl
yu poni
t...f
romthe
cr
it
icalwomanwh oca
ns potandind
icat
eab l
emi
sh,
howeversmal
l ...f
romt hegossi
pwh ok
nowsonlyt
he
mis
t a
kesandsl
ipsofh
e rf
rie
ndsandma ke
sthemhercon
stantsu
bjectofconvers
ati
on.

Ama nwa nt
stob eproudofhi
swife.Hehadb ett
e rnoti
cewhethe
rh eisproudofthegir
lwithwh omh e
goesout.Ther
ea r
eaf ewtest
s:Sheshouldknowh owtome e
tpe opl
e;sheshoul
dbec onsi
derateofolde
r
peopl
e,notab
lythoserel
ate
dtoh er
;shes houl
dbee a
syandcomfortab
leinaresta
urant,wh e
theritbe
super
lat
ive
lygoodorf i
tt
edtoh i
sdeplet
edwa ll
et;sheshou
ldknowh owt owe a
rtheclothessui
tedforthe
occas
ion;s
heshouldwatchandle
arnfromt hosewh oh a
vemoree xper
iencetha
nshe;ifshema k
e smis
takes
,
shesmil
esatthe
m, apol
ogiz
esbri
efl
y,putst h
ema side,a
ndtri
esnottor epea
tthem.

GRATI
TUDE.

I
sgr
ati
tud
eama
tte
rofma
nne
rsorofd
eepi
nne
rvi
rt
ue?
Youwill
besmartifyouexpectgr
ati
tudefr
omt hegi
rl
youma rr
y.Here,asi
nmos tcas
es,youc anjudgeh
e r
fu
turegrat
it
udetoyoub yh ergr
ati
tud
et oherpar
entsher
eandn ow.Thegirl
wh oacc
ept sthemone ya
n d
cl
othes
,thehouseandfood,thes
chool
ingandfunmadepossi
bl
ebyh erpar
entswith
outa ppreci
ati
onor
grat
it
udewill
lat
ertakewh a
tyougiveherasherri
ght
, h
erdue,a
ndn othi
ngforwhic
hyous h
ou l
dgetasign
ofthan
ks.

L
ist
enc
are
ful
l
ywh
il
esh
eta
lksa
bou
tDa
dan
dMot
her
.

“
Oh ,Dad’
ssoti
ght
.Hehatest
ole
ta nyonehaveth
ecar...I
hadtowheed
leandcoaxtoge
tthisnew
d
ressoutofMothe
r.You’
dthi
nkever
yd ol
la
rb i
l
lwass
kinof
fhern
ose...ForChr
is
tmas?Oh,I
gotalotof
c
lothesandt
hin
gsli
keth
at;bu
tthen
,ape rs
on’spa
ren
tsareex
pect
edtoprovi
dethose
.Iwi
shIrea
ll
yhad
r
ichpare
nts.
”

L
ist
ent
ohe
rass
hed
isc
uss
esh
erf
ri
end
s.

“
Hazel
hel
pedmewi thmyb ookr e
port.Butt
hen,Haze
lisab ookworm;she’dr
atherst
udythangotoa
d
ance...If
eels
orryforJune;shedoessowell
inherst
u di
es,butsh
es i
mplyhasnoc h
arm,doyouthi
nk?..
.If
i
nal
lyper
suadedmyl i
tt
lesist
er,t
hat’
sNan,tole
tmet akeh e
rn e
wn ylonscar
f;Ipr
omis
edt ol
ethe
r
h
avemyglovesonSu nda
y;bu tI
’l
lke
ept h
emh i
dsoshec a
n’tfi
ndthem;Id on’
twantthatk
idusin
gmy
s
tuf
f.
”

AL
ADY,
PLE
ASE!

Anyfemalei
sawoma n.Butonlycer
tai
nwome narelad
ies.Foryoursake
,Ih
opeyouh aveth
egoodlu
ckto
marryoneofthe
m.F orala
dyh ast
hosema r
ksofgoodb r
e edi
ngthatyouwi
llwan
th e
rt opas
sontoyou
r
ch
il
dren.Aladyhasgr
aci
ousma nne
rstha
tma keherchar
mi ngi
nh erownhome,pl
easa
ntincompan
y,a
pr
izethatyoucanhappi
l
yb r
ingtoaparty,
theconfi
dent,
r e
stfu
lcompani
ononyou rar
m.

Al
adyi
sca
ref
uln
ott
ohu
rtot
her
s;a
ndi
fsh
ein
adve
rte
ntl
ydoe
s,s
hei
squ
ickt
oapol
ogi
ze.
Al
adyi
scon
sid
era
teoft
heve
ryol
d,t
heve
ryyou
ng,
thet
ir
esome
,th
esi
ck,
thewe
ak,
theu
nde
rpr
ivi
l
ege
d.

Alad
ydres
seswe
llwi
thou
tbe
ingi
nad
van
ceoft
hes
tyl
esorh
old
ingon
toas
tyl
ewh
eni
tha
sgon
ein
to
hi
st
ory.

Al
adyi
sex
tre
mei
nnot
hin
g,b
utn
ota
bleb
eca
usewh
ats
hed
oesi
sri
ght
.

Al
adyi
sth
elove
lypa
rtn
erofal
i
fet
ime
.Pr
ayGodt
ose
ndal
adyyou
rwa
y.

TOL
ERANCE.

Youa n
dI a
rema l
es,a
ndasmale
swearegoi
ngtodoourf
ull
shar
eofba
rgi
ngi
ntof
ragi
l
eobj
ect
s,
thought
les
sl
yk i
cki
ngthi
ngsa
round
,sa
yin
gthewrongt
hin
gsa tt
her
igh
tti
me,mak
ingth
emis
take
sfor
wh i
chwewill
beverysorr
yandofwhi
chwesha
llb
eash
ame d
.

Th
ankHe
aven,
wes
pen
tth
eea
rl
yan
dmos
tna
tur
al
lyc
lums
yye
arsofou
rli
vesu
nde
rat
ole
ran
twoma
n—
ou
rmothe
r.

Sh
epi
cke
dusu
pan
ddu
ste
dusof
fan
dki
ss
edu
swh
enwef
el
l.

Shega
the
redtoge
the
rou
rbr
oke
ntoysa
ndwi
pedu
pou
rspi
l
tmi
l
kan
dse
tupr
igh
tth
ech
air
sweh
ad
th
rownover
.

Sh
etookusi
nunde
rst
and
ingar
msandki
ss
edou
rbr
uis
esa
ndb
and
age
dou
rcu
tsa
ndt
oldu
shows
orr
ysh
e
wasa
ndhowsur
ewewou l
dn’
tdoi
taga
in.

Whe
nwerash
lyjumpe
dofft
hetool
-sh
eda n
dlan
dedonth
ec e
me nta
ndi
nb ed
,shes
aidn
otawordof
r
epr
oac
h;b
utn u
rsedusb
ack,k
nowi
ngt h
atourst
upi
di
tyhadtau
ghtusa
llt
heles
son
swen e
ede
d.
Shedi
dn’
tmuchl
i
kethatb
igki
doverwhomwewa xedent
hus
ias
ti
c;butwhenh
et u
rnedoutt
ob eabul
l
y
an
dat hi
ef
,sh
edi
dn’
tsay,“
Ikn
ewital
lthet
ime
.”Sheacce
pte
dou rb
itte
rne
sstoward
shimassh
eh a
dfi
rst
ac
cept
edourent
hus
ias
m,wordl
ess
lyan
dwithund
ersta
ndi
ng.

MENAREGROWN-
UPBOYS.

Well
,un
fl
atte
rin
ga si
tmayseemtoou rmal
evanit
y,noth
ingtr
ueri
seversa
idb
yawomanth
an,
“Af
tera
ll
,
amanisju
stalit
tl
eboygrownup”.Andby“grownup”,th
eyusual
l
yme a
nphys
ica
ll
y—pe
rha
psi
nsome
waysmental
l
y;butnote
mot i
ona
ll
ya n
dn oti
na n
yma st
eryofourmis
tak
es.

Soyouh
adb
estl
ookt
oyou
rfu
tur
ewi
f
eforad
eal
oft
ole
ran
ce.

I
sshetol
era
ntofherownd a
d ,
hista
lka
tiv
ene
ss,hi
snotoverwhel
min
gsuc
cessi
nbusi
nes
s,h
isten
den
cyt o
bra
ga b
outhi
sgolfs
coreorwh a
thes a
idtot
heboss,h
isconst
antre
membranc
eofth
epast,h
isr
epe
tit
ion
ofthesa
mejokeonall
occas
ions?Ordoesasne
ercurl
herli
psandpi
tyna
rrowhere
yeswhenshementi
ons
hi
m?

Youwilln
eedalotoftol
era
ncefr
omyou rwif
eastheyearsgoon.Shemustbewi
ll
i
ngtobes
ati
sfi
edwith
mod e
ratesu
ccess
.Thegirl
(pe
rhapsfor
tuna
tel
yrare)whoiscont
emptuou
sofanyt
hin
gbutt
hemos t
expens
ivere
sta
u r
ants
, t
hebes
tseatsatth
eb a
ll
et,
thetop-f
li
ghtcl
ubs
,cl
othe
sfr
omt h
esu
perl
ati
veshops
,
ma yf
indyou—i nt
ole
rabl
e.

Herte
nde
ncyt
ode
spi
sea
nyt
hin
gbu
tre
alwi
tma
yma
keyou
rmod
esth
umou
rse
emh
ard
lywor
thl
i
ste
nin
g
to.

Andi
fsh
ehasabi
ti
ngwayoft
ear
ingd
ownther
eputa
tionoft
hosesh
ekn
ows,wi
l
lyourr
eput
ati
onand
f
ameandac
hie
vement
sbeofs
ohi
ghasta
nda
rdtha
tthe ya
reoutoft
her
eac
hofhers
arc
asmandsc
orn?

Gen
tle
nes
sandtol
er
anc
einawi
f
ear
ealmoste
ssen
tia
lforah
usban
d’sha
ppi
nes
s.Thegi
rl
wh ol
ack
sthes
eis
goi
ngtobet
oughonth
emansh
emarr
ies
.Hehasmypitywel
li
nadvan
ceofth
escornwhi
chwi
llb
li
st
erhi
s
s
kina
ndt
hed
isa
ppr
ova
lth
atwi
l
lemb
itt
era
ndpr
oba
blys
tun
thi
sef
for
ts.

AH,
SWEETCONTENT!

Thepe
rfe
ctwif
eisastr
angeble
ndofc on
tent
mentandambit
ion
.Youc anst
udythatrat
here
asil
yint
hegir
l
wit
hwhomyoua r
egoing.Her
ea n
dn owshewil
lt
ell
you,a
ndme anit
,howmu chbett
eryoucandothan
youar
edoin
g;yetsh
ewi l
lbepl
easedwit
hwhatyouact
ual
lyaccompl
is
ha n
da c
hie
ve.

“I
’msogladthatyouaregoin
gou tforfootbal
l.I
’
llbeinthes t
andsc h
eeri
ngyouwh enyousnarethe
for
wardpa s
s.”And,i
fthecoachdoesn’
tob j
ect,sheisaroundwh enyoupract
is
e ,
givi
ngyout h
einspi
rat
ion
andcoura
geyoun eed.Butyoun evergetofftheb enchforthefi
rstfewgames.“I
knowyou ’
rechaf
ingto
geti
ntothega me;bepati
ent;i
t’
sa nol
d ,s
easonedt eam, a
ndb e
foretheendoftheseasonyou’
ll
beinther
e,
andnextyear...that
’sgoi
ngt obeyou ryear.”

Amb
iti
onf
oryou
,ye
tcon
ten
twi
thwh
atyoua
chi
eve
.

“Areyougoin gtoentertheshor
tstorycon
tes
t?Il
i
ke dthatl
aststoryyoupubli
she
dint h
es c
hool
maga zi
ne.Rememb ertha
tplotyousketc
hedoutf
orme ?Wh ydon ’
tyouwritethat
?”Youd o,bu
twhenthe
awa r
dsaregiven,yougetanh onou
rabl
ementi
on,a
ndn oneofth ecashpr
ize
s.“Butrememb er
,youa
re
onlyaJunior
.Th ewinner
swe remostl
ySeni
ors
.”Mer
c i
fu
ll
ys h
ed oesnotmentionthatSophomorewhogot
thesecondprize
.“Wr i
tethatpl
otoveragai
nandnextyearI’
mb ett
ingonyou .
”

Herdi
sc
on t
ente
xpr
ess
esi
tse
lfi
nherambi
ti
onsf
oryoua
ndf
orh
ers
elf
.He
rcon
ten
tre
stsu
pona
n
ac
c e
ptan
ceofwhat
eve
rcomesoutofhon
estef
for
t.

DI
SCONTENT?

I
ntoyourli
tan
ypu t“Fr
omd isc
onte
ntedwif
e,OLord,del
i
verme!”Fromthewomanwh oisal
wa ys
c
ompa ri
ngunfavour
abl
ywh atsheha
swithwhatsomeoneel
sehas.Fromthewomanwh oisangryatt
he
s
uccessofothe
r s
.Fromthewoma nwhon e
verse
e mstohaveenough.I
fyougi
veherapou ndboxof
c
hocol
a t
es,he
rlookindi
cat
essheexpec
tedthr
eepoundsinafa
nc ycont
aine
r.I
fDa
dgivesh e
rad yedf
ur,
s
headmi
tspetti
shl
ythathereal
lyc
oul
daf
for
dbroadta
il
.Shedoe
sn otl
ookatwh
atshege
tsbu
ta twhat
s
heha
sn otgot.Shed
oe s
n’thavef
uni
nthebl
ess
ingsandgi
ft
sthatcomehe
rway,b
utiss
ourandres
entf
ul
a
tth
eb l
essi
ngsandgi
ftsthatgotoot
her
s.

Youn
eedn
otb
elon
gwi
thagi
rl
tome
asu
reh
erc
ont
ent
men
tofmi
nd.

Heratt
it
udetowardsyouwil
ls
oonsh
owwh et
herh
erdes
ir
eforyoursuc
cessi
spri
deinyouandambi
ti
on
foryou
rful
ldeve
lopment,
orgree
dandenvyan
danappe
tit
eforth
ingsandmorethi
ngsands
til
lmor
e
thi
ngstha
tnomill
iona
ir
ecoul
devers
ati
sf
y.

You
’l
lca
tchth
atint
hewa
ysh
eor
der
she
rsma
ll
erb
rot
her
san
dsi
st
ersa
rou
nda
nda
ctst
owa
rdspe
opl
e
whowaitonher
.

I
ti
stou
ght
obet
iedt
oab
oss
ywoma
n.

I
ti
sas
lave
ryt
obema
rri
edt
oad
ema
ndi
ngwoma
n.

Doesshen
owexpe
ctyout
os pe
ndmor
eth
anyouc
ana
ff
orda
ndt
obu
yhe
rlu
xur
iest
hata
rec
lea
rl
y
beyon
dyoura
ll
owanc
eori
ncome?

HOME-
LOVI
NG.

I
nth
enor
mal
cou
rseofl
i
feyou
rwi
f
ewi
l
lspe
ndmos
tofh
ere
ner
gie
sru
nni
ngyou
rhomef
oryou
.

Perh
apsr
ighthereandnowaboyd oe
sn’
tr e
ali
zehowimporta
nthish
omeist
ohi
m.Hee nt
ere
dhi
spr
esen
t
homeini
nfa
n c
ywi th
outmuchre
sponsi
bi
li
tyfori
tshappi
nes
s.Foryea
rsth
ehomeex
ist
sforhi
m,a
ndhe
acc
eptsi
tscomfortandi
tss
afe
ty,i
tsmealsandit
speaceashi
ssi
mpledu
e.

I
twi
l
lbeal
ongt
imeb
efor
ehek
nowsh
owmu
chofh
isc
har
act
erd
eve
lope
dou
toft
heh
omea
tmos
phe
re
t
hathi
smotherandfat
herha
dc re
atedforhi
m.Hewill
—on lywit
hdeepmat
uri
ty—cometoseet
he
r
el
ati
onsh
ipbetweengoodmealsandgoodheal
th,
quie
ta n
dc a
lmandsou
ndner
ves
,pl
eas
antl
augh
tera
nd
f
amil
ygai
ety
,an dh
isatt
it
udetowardsrecr
eat
ionandsport
sandfun
.

Wel
l
,onceyoumarr
yagir
l,
youha
veta
kent
hepart
neruponwhomwil
lde
pen
dth
eha
ppi
nes
san
d
wh
oles
omenessoft
heh
omey oua
ret
ooccu
pyformanyalon
gyear
.

Wi
l
lsh
ebeh
ome
-lovi
nga
ndagoodh
ous
e-k
eepe
r?

“
Howi
nth
ewor
lds
hal
lI
bea
blet
ote
llt
hat
?”youd
ema
nd.

Ea
sy,
lad
;ju
stt
akeal
ooka
tth
egi
rl
inh
erownh
ome
.

Howdoe
sshefe
ela
bou
th e
rpr
ese
nthome?Doessh
elovei
tandi
ssheproudofi
t?Doess
hetak
eyouther
e
wit
hanai
rofh
appi
l
yshowi
ngi
toff
?Doessh
ein
troduc
eyoutoherpar
entswit
hreal
pri
dean
dsati
sf
act
ion
?

Youc
anc
are
ful
l
yke
epyou
reye
sope
nan
dma
keaf
ewmor
eimpor
tan
tdi
scove
rie
s.

Whatdoeshe
rmot he
rlookli
ke?Wel
l
,al
l
owingf
orth
eb e
tterf
oodeat
enb
ymoderngi
rl
san
dthef
actof
cur
ren
tdieta
n dexe
rci
ses,
yourwif
ewil
lsomed
ayprob
ablyl
ookve
rymucha
she
rmotherl
ook
stoday.
Howdoesthatst
ri
keyou?

Canyouryou
n gl
adycook?“Cansh
eb ak
eac h
errypie
,Bil
l
yBoy?
”th eoldfol
ktuneus
edtoask.Orisshe
theki
ndofgi
rlwhos
emot he
rc a
ref
ul
lybake
sthechocol
ateca
keprepar
e dforyou
rcomin
ga nd
, j
ustbe
fore
yourar
ri
val
,coac
hesherdaught
erwith“
Rememb er
,whenyoutel
lhi
mi tisyourc
ake,
say,‘
Thi
sisacakeI
bakedf
oryou,
’andnot,‘
Thi
sisacak
eI c
ookedforyou’
!”
?

I
ssh
eproudofherhomeinsu
chawayth
atshewi
ll
i
ngl
ypla
ysapar
tinitsupk
eep?Youma
ywe l
ls
hyaway
f
romthegi
rlwho“j
ustha
testowa
shth
ed i
she
s;t
heyr
uinmyhan
ds.”Yourdi
rtydi
she
swi
ll
rui
nthemj
ust
a
sfasta
sherfa
ther
’s.
“Moth
e rn
everle
t smedoanythi
ngaroundthehous
e;sh
ejusts
poil
sus,b
utIl
ovetobespoi
le
d.”“
Next
weekMotheri
sh ouse
-cl
ean
ing;I
’
mgoi n
gt ospe
n dth
ewe e
kwithmygirlf
ri
end
;hous
e-c
leani
ngdri
vesme
cra
zy.”Dangersi
gns,myl
ad!Greatb
igfl
ashi
ngdangers
ign
s!Notethe
ma ndtak
ethene
a r
estdet
our.

Yourhomei s
,youh ope
,goin
gt obeaplaceofsaf
etyandh a
ppi
nes
s,ofmeal
swel
lprepa
redandfl
oor
s
spotl
ess
lycl
ean,foryouandyourchil
dre
n.Youcanfores
e ei
tasaref
ugeatthee
ndofthed a
y,aret
reat
fr
oml i
f
e’sbatt
le,
a noasi
sinth
et ou
ghjourneyoverth
ec ommerc
ial
sands
.Goona n
da ddyourownfi
gur
es
ofspeec
h .

Wel
l
,youal
onec
anneve
rma k
eahomeanyofthos
ethi
ngs.Onl
yawomanca
nt ur
nahousei
ntoahome.
On
lyawif
eandmot
hercanmakea
napa
rtmentorfl
atath
ingofbe
aut
yandcal
ma nds
ecu
rit
yandpeac
e.

Doy
out
hin
kyou
rgi
rl
isc
apa
bleoft
hat
?Be
tte
rbes
ure...oh
,ve
ry,
ver
ysu
re!

CHI
LDREN.

Allt
his
,Is
aid
,istob ef
oryour
sel
fandyourc
hil
dre
n.Ti
mewa swhenphi
losoph
e r
sma
int
ain
edthatt
he
i
n s
ti
nctofmotherhoodwasoneofnat
ure
’sdeepe
st;n
oth
ingcou
ldrootitout.I
’
mnotsosur
e.Onemee
ts
someprett
ys el
f
ishwomentheseda
ys.

Theyd i
sl
ikebab
iesbeca
use,theys
tat
eincorre
ctl
y,babi
esrui
nthei
rfi
gur
es.Theyaretooner
vousforthe
noi
sea ndsqual
l
sofinf
ancy.Theydon’
twa ntthe
irhomescl
utter
edupwithdi
sorder
lychi
l
dre
n.Theya r
e
i
ndivid
ualswi
thar i
ghttoli
fe
, l
i
ber
ty,
andt h
epu rs
uitofhap
pines
s;an
dchil
dre
nh a
veawa yofdema n
dinga
sha
r eofthei
rl
if
e—c ut
ti
ngd ownthe
irl
ib
e r
ty—a ndres
tri
cti
ngthef
ormsthei
rhappi
nessmaytak
e .

Un
happyt
hegoodma
nwh
oma
rri
esagi
rl
whor
ese
ntsc
hil
dre
n.

Howc
anyouk
now?I
t’
snott
ooh
ard
:
F
indouthowth
eyoungl
adyf
eel
san
dactst
owardsh
erl
it
tl
ebr
oth
ersandsi
st
ers
.Ifs
heregar
dsth
ema s
b
rats
,nui
san
ces
,in
con
veni
enc
es,
bot
her
s—s hewon’
tch
anget
oonota
blywhenthechi
l
drenar
eyour
s.

Wat
chherwi t
hchanc
echil
dre
nwh ocomeyourwa y.Li
stentothewordssheusestod
esc
rib
et h
ed i
rt
y-
f
ace
dk i
dwh osecl
umsyandsti
ckyhand
simperi
lhe
rs pr
ingoutf
it
.Wa t
chfordis
tast
ewhensheseesa
mot
herwiththre
eorfoursmal
lste
pstrai
l
ingal
ongb eh
ind.L
ist
enforhertoneofpi
tywhenshesays
,
“
Susanhashadherth
ir
dbabyinthre
eye a
rs;t
hepoort h
ing!
”

L
oveofc hi
l
drenisadeep,mater
nal
,beau
tif
ul
lyf
emini
nein
sti
nct.Butith
asbeenlef
tforourhighly
c
ompe t
enta ndoft
ensavagel
ysel
fi
shmodernwome ntotea
ritfromthei
rhea
rts.Youarelu
ck yifyour
f
utur
ewifeloveschi
l
dren.Youmayfin
dh e
rregar
din
gyoua sab r
u t
eandatask
ma ste
rifyoue xpecth
erto
b
earandlovea ndbr
ingupchi
ldr
en,whenshere
gardsmother
hooda sacur
se,
andc hi
l
drenasa n
i
nte
rfe
rencewi t
hherpeaceandper
sonall
i
fe.

WHATABOUTGOODL
OOKS
?

“
Whatki
ndofbooki
sthi
sanyhow?He
rehe’
sbeengoi
ngonforpagesandnotonewordabouthowt h
egirl
l
ook
s!I
wanttoma r
ryabea
u t
ymysel
f.L
if
eforahusb
andmustbeprettyd
ull
ifh
iswif
eis
n’tpr
etty.I
’
dh a
te
t
ospen
dmyl i
f
elooki
ngatsomeofth
egirl
swhoseonl
yre
comme nd
a t
ioni
sapleas
antdi
sposi
ti
on.”

Oneth
ingt
hathasal
wayspuzz
ledmeisth
efacesofsomemenI’veknownwhodemand
edb e
auti
fu
lwives
.
Howcomethath
omelymenthi
nktheyar
ee nt
it
ledtopre
ttywives?You’
l
lhe
arsomemostunat
trac
ti
ve
mal
edemandi
ngforh
imsel
fanext
remel
yattr
acti
vefemal
e.Th
ereou ghtt
obesomebal
ancei
nlooks
,I’
dsay.

Whenth
eonlookerssa
y, “
Wha
tahan
dsomecoupl
e!
”If
indmyse
lfth
ink
ingi
tqui
ter
igh
tth
atb
eautys
houl
d
dr
awbeaut
y;wh e
nI hearamand
emandi
ngb
e a
utyinh
ispar
tner
,Ial
waysl
ooktwi
cetos
eei
fhi
spar
tne
r
wi
ll
fi
ndgoodlooksinhi
m.

However,
ifourne
ws pa
perrecordsa
rea c
cura
te,
mar
ri
agetoaravi
ngbeau
tysee
mstole
adtosomera
vin
g
di
vorceproce
edi
ngs.Beaut
yisn a
tur
alinsomewome
n,pai
nfu
ll
yacqu
ire
dinot
hers
,an
dinst
il
lot
her
s
ret
ain
edon l
ythr
oughalif
eti
me ’
sser
vic
e.
Ic
ant hi
nkofnohusba
ndasli
kel
ytobeneglec
tedasthehusbandofaprofes
sion a
lbeaut
y.Sh eowestoo
muchofh e
rtimetothec
areandcul
ti
vati
onofhergoodlooks.Andwh e
ns heisou t
,shei
sc onst
antl
y
walk
inginthepr
esenc
eofanaudi
encetowh i
chsh
ec a
reful
l
yplays.Beau
ty,l
ikea l
lnatu
ralgi
fts,d
emandsa
l
otoftime.I
fawoma nha
sn’
ttheinne
rspir
ittoke
eph erbea
utif
ul
, t
hensheha stoputintir
eles
sthough
t
andconti
nuedeff
ortt
okeepthefr
agi
lef
lowerofphys
ical
beautyfromwitheri
n g.

WHATDOYOUMEAN,
BEAUTY?

I
ti
simport
ant
,howeve
r,bef
oreans
weri
ngth
edemandsoft
heyou
ngma
nbe
ntonf
i
ndi
ngab
eau
tif
ulwi
f
e
t
oaskjus
twhatheoranyon
ee l
semea
nsbybea
uty.

Re
gul
arf
eat
ure
s?

Ape
rfe
ctc
ompl
exi
on?

Af
i
gur
eme
eti
ngt
hel
ate
sts
tan
dar
dsf
romt
hePowe
r’sAge
ncy?

I
doubti
fth
osea r
ethetypesofabeau
tywithwhic
hitwoul
dbepl
eas
anttol
ive
.Forre
gula
rfea
ture
s,l
i
ke
a
nyth
ingel
seregul
ar,
soonseemles
sregul
artha
nrouti
ne.Ri
ghtn
owHoll
ywoodisf
arl
essi
nte
rest
edin
r
egu
larf
eatu
resthaninth
ee x
pres
si
ont h
atli
esbac
kofthem.

Therear
eat hous
andgi
rl
swit
hregula
rfeatu
reswai
tingc ount
eri
nc a
fet
eri
asa n
dpou ndi
ngtypewr
ite
rsi
n
LosAngel
es;thegi
rlwh
oregi
ste
rsintheprese
nttes
tsf orgoodl
ookshasla
ckoft hos
efeat
ures—r e
gul
ar
orir
regul
ar
,accordi
ngt
othecl
assi
ctradi
ti
onorinthecu rr
entec
lec
ti
cvogue—a l
ivenes
s,i
nter
est
,
char
acte
r,cha
r m,a
ninn
ergl
owt ha
tc omesoutinh
ere yesandhergener
alexpres
sion
.

Th
eda
yofb
eau
ty,
cla
ssi
can
dor
der
ly,
come
san
dgoe
s.

I
nth
ee n
d, b
eautyi
swh a
tple
ase
sthebe
hol
der
;a n
ditisamazi
nghowat
tra
cti
vepeopl
ed e
fyther
ule
sof
a
rtandarebea
utif
uld
espi
teasl
i
ghttwi
stt
oan ose,
frec
kle
s,e
yesth
atar
ejus
tali
ttl
eoffal
ign
ment,a
mou
thwi
thaf
asc
ina
tin
gqu
irk
,an
dac
hint
hatwou
ldl
ookod
din
dee
donVe
nusofMi
l
o.

Beau
tyiswor
thh
avi
ngon
lyi
fi
tat
tra
cts
.Be
aut
yiswor
thpos
ses
si
ngon
lyi
f
,af
tert
hepa
ssi
ngoft
ime
,it
re
ma i
ns.

An
dth
ati
swh
ysu
rfa
ceb
eau
tyi
sapoort
hin
gtol
ookf
ora
ndawor
set
hin
gtoma
rryi
nagi
rl
.

Goodheal
th,
tha
twh ol
esomelook,
the“
wel
l-
scru
bbe
dlook”prai
sedbythecu
rre
ntnovel
i
sts
,th
efacea
nd
eyesandf
i
guretha
tme anali
f
e t
imeofd
ece
ntfoodanden
ou ghf
reshai
randcl
eanl
i
ving—thesea
rewhat
matte
ronthephysi
cal
side
.

Butl
ookswi
llf
ade.Si
ckne
ss,c
hil
d-b
ear
ing,
thepas
si
ngoft
heye
a r
ssi
ngul
ar
lyal
tert
heph
ysic
alas
pectsofa
woman.The
nt hei
nnergi
rlb
eginst
oshowmor ea
ndmore
,todomin
atet
helook
sandbr
ingthecha
racte
r
toth
esurf
ace.

Herfac
eisc h
armingbecaus
es h
eisconsta
ntl
yc h
ee r
ful
.Herf
ea t
uresremains
urpri
si
nglyu nl
i
nedbeca
usesh
e
smil
eseasi
ly,h
ermou thcur
vesupwa r
d,andshedoesn’
tletworryora nn
oyancedigfurrowsin
toher
for
ehead.Shemove srapi
dl
ya n
de as
il
ybecau
ses h
eh asaninn
e rspar
kthatkeepsherali
ve.Shehas
somethi
ngb et
terthanregul
arfea
tures
;shehasregul
arhabi
ts;andtheregul
arposse
ssionofvir
tueandof
sanc
tif
yi
n ggrace
.

I
tisamazi
nghow,wit
htime,thesoulcomestod ominat
et hebody.Sel
fi
shpeopl
egetthehar
d,sel
fi
shlook
.
Gener
ouspeopl
egrowmor ephysi
cal
lyattr
acti
vee achday.Peopl
ewiththepeaceofGod’
sfr
iends
hip
devel
opexpr
essi
onst
hatin
s t
antl
ya t
tractandcon s
tant
lycharm.Amou ththats
peakski
ndl
yb e
come sa
beau
tif
ulmout
h.Hand
sthatservegene r
ousl
ybec omecharact
erfu
lhands
.Eyesthatl
ookoutforaf
fecti
on
onma nk
indar
eeyestha
tradiat
ea ni
n nerb
eautyn otdi
ff
icul
ttofind.

Ayou
ngma
niswi
set
oas
kofh
isf
utu
rewi
f
eawh
ole
some
nes
san
dmod
era
teh
eal
th
.

He
rsmi
l
esoonc
ome
stoc
ompe
nsa
tef
orr
egu
larf
eat
ure
s.
Andifshehasal
ovel
ychar
act
er,sh
ewil
lyea
rafte
ryear
,in
d e
edd a
yb yd
ay,growin
toacomf
ort
abl
e,
at
tract
ive,gr
aci
ous,
bel
ovedad
ornmentofhi
shouse
.Hervi
rtuei
stheonl
ykin
dofbeau
tytha
tdoesnot
dec
ay;a n
dt h
evir
tueofhe
rsoulwi
ll
tak
eoverandmoul
dt oful
lch
armthebeaut
yofhe
rwhol
epers
on.

HERPERSONALGOODNESS.

All
thi
smea
nstha
tayoungmanshou
ldex
pecth
isfu
tur
ewife
,th
egu
ard
iana
ndi
nawa
yth
ema
kerofh
is
home,t
hemot
herofh
isc
hil
dre
n,t
ohaveper
sona
lgoodne
ss.

Mod
ernyoun
gme nhavefr
eel
yexpr
esse
datheor
ywhic
hIfi
n dhor
ri
ble
.Theyf
eel
the
yha
vear
igh
tto“
tes
t
agi
rl
.”Th
ati
sth
ef a
mou s“
pass
”aboutwhi
chs
oma n
yu gl
yjoke
sa r
ema d
e.

“Afel
lowh asari
ghttofi
ndouthowfaragi
rlwi
ll
go.Ifs
heiswi
ll
i
ngtole
thi
mge tawaywi
thsometh
ing,
tha
t’sherlookou
t.I
fsheis
n’t
,th
enl
eth e
rtakeasta
ndan dade
centc
hapwi
llr
espe
c th
era
tti
tude
.You ’
ve
gottoex peri
menttofi
ndoutwhet
heragir
li
sgoodorn ot.
”

Horr
ibl
easiti
st hatthesel
f
-confe
s s
ed“str
ongersex”sh
ouldmakewh a
tt heycal
l“
thewe a
kersex”dec
ide
howgoodt heybot hwil
lbe
,gir
lsmightaswel
lknowt h
atma nyamod ernyoungmanac t
ual
lyputsth
emt o
thete
st.Hisat
t i
tudei
sc on
temptibl
ebutcommon .Hedoesnotma k
elovetot he
mb ecaus
eh el
ovesthem;
hemakeslovetot hemt of
indoutwh et
herth
eya rewort
hyofh i
spossi
blel
ove.And,i
nstrangeandsavage
cont
radi
cti
on,ifthegir
lsac
cepthisi
nsis
tentl
ove,hedeci
desthe
ya r
en otfi
tformarr
iedandma t
ernal
love.

Ju
stasma nyapagan-mi
n d
edgi
rl
tod
aythi
nkssh
ehastoindi
cat
etotheyou
ngma nwh otak
esherout
th
atsheisa“goodsport
,”soma
nyaneq
uall
ypagan-
mindedyoungmanmakesth
et e
st:I
sshegoi
ngtobe
a“goodsport
,”ori
sshesomeon
ewhomImightcon
side
rforapart
neri
nmarr
iage,
mywi f
e,themoth
erof
myc h
il
dren
?

Th
erei
snor
eal
nee
dfors
uchc
ont
empt
ibl
eex
per
ime
nts
.

Good
n e
ssha
sawa yofma
nifes
ti
ngit
sel
finat
hous
andi
nsti
ncti
vesi
gns
.Iti
ss h
owninspee
chandi
n
re
act
iontospe
ech
.Thegi
rlofper
sonal
goodn
essi
scl
eanoftongu
eandq u
itecl
ear
lyi
snotha
ppywhe
nth
e
s
pee
chofot
her
sar
oun
dhe
rgr
owss
oil
ed.

Per
son
algood
nessshowsit
sel
finth
ekindofa
mu se
me nt
sagirl
en j
oys
,an
dinherat
ti
tud
etoaf
i
lmi
nwh
ich
su
ddenl
ysometh
ingoff
-col
orappe
ars,
ortoan i
ght
clu
bpe r
for
me rwhotur
nsb
lue.

I
tappear
sinthewa ychi
l
drenta
ketoheratt
it
udetowa r
dsboysandmen;ab oyma yfra
n k
lywonderabit
whenagir
lisali
tt
leaggre
ssi
ve,i
ncl
i
nedtobetoofre
ewi thh
ergestu
resofaffe
c t
ion,
hangsonh i
m,si
tstoo
cl
ose,
hasawa yoffi
ndi
ngt h
earmofthecha
irheoccupi
esandsi
tt
ingther
er at
h e
rthaninachai
rofher
own.Noneofthesethi
ngsaret
oomor a
ll
ywronginthemsel
ves
;theyarethesignsofherhab
itu
alatt
it
ude.

Agoodgirl
isaple
asantcompan
ion.Shel
i
kestodance
,butsheda
n c
eswit
hblend
edve r
veandmod e
sty.
Sh
eenjoyshappycon
ve r
sati
onbutnotof
f-c
olorc
onvers
ati
on.Herl
augh
teri
stel
l-t
ale
;fori
tshou
ldbe
whol
esomeandn a
tur
alandnotstra
ine
dortooloudorri
si
ngali
ttl
ehyst
eri
cal
l
ywh enthi
ngsar
edoubtfu
ll
y
de
cent.

Shei
sagir
lwholoveshe
rhomea n
di sc
ontentwit
haquie
teveni
ng.Shedoe
snote x
pectth
eboya
tthe
movi
estoputhi
sa r
ma r
oundhershoul
der
,andshegoe
swe l
lf
orwardi
nthethe
ateranddoesn
oth
ers
elf
st
aybac
ka mon
gt heyoungcou
pleswhosein
tere
stint
hefi
lmisl
argel
yse
condar
y.

Whens
herideswit
hayou ngmani
nh i
scar,
shedoesnoti
mpe r
ilhi
sdri
vi
ngbypl
ast
eri
ngher
sel
fagai
nsth
im;
an
difh
es ugges
tspar
kin
g,sheund
ersta
ndsanddif
fer
enti
atesb
etwe e
npark
ingt
oadmiret
hebeaut
if
ulvi
st
a
an
dparki
nga si
nst
antprel
udet
ou nd
ecla
redcou
rtshi
pandlove-maki
ng.

Noboyhasto“tes
tagi
rl
”asthemod e
rnswoulddo.Thet
hous
andsi
mpl
e,ea
sy,q
uick
lyri
si
ngsi
gnstel
lt
he
st
oryofgoodne
ssori
tsl
ack
.Wh atdoessh
er e
ad?Wh a
tmagazi
nesd
oess
heeager
lypagethr
ough?Who
ar
eherfr
iend
sandwhatk
indofboysandgir
lshassh
ebeengoi
ngwit
h?

PASSEDAL
ONG.

I
ti
svi
tal
tor
emembe
rth
atth
egoodne
ssoft
hech
il
dre
nis
,nex
ttothegr
aceofGod,goi
ngtoc
omefrom
t
hegood
nes
soft
hemot
her
.Agir
lofea
syvi
rt
uemaybe“f
un”
;sh
eisnobod
ytot r
ustwit
hafa
mil
y.She
maybeagoodsport
,butwi
l
lsh
eb eagoodmoth
er?Aft
erma r
ri
ageshemayref
orm,
buti
tiswa
stef
ul
ef
for
tforagi
rl
toma r
ryadr
unkar
dtorefor
mhi
m;a n
ditispre
ludet
oh e
art
achewhe
nama nmar
ri
esagi
rl
ofea
syvir
tuei
nthedete
rmi
nat
iontotur
nheri
ntoavir
tuouswif
eandmother
.

Yourf
utu
rewif
eshoul
dhavet
hehea
lt
hfromwhi
chwil
lcomest
ron
g,vi
gorousyou
ngb
odi
es.Bu
tsh
esh
oul
d
havet
hespi
ri
tua
lhea
lthf
romwhi
chwil
lar
is
est
ron
g,vi
gorous
,vi
rt
uoussoul
s.

HERMI
ND.

Whi
lewear
eonth
esubj
ectofwh
atawoma
npa
sse
sal
ongt
ohe
rch
il
dre
n,wema
yta
kea
tle
astas
wif
t
gl
ancea
tth
egi
rl
’
smin
d.

Cer
tai
nl
y,unl
essyouyours
elfa
reayoungEi
nstei
n,younee
dn otdemandt
hatyourf
utur
ewi
febeaPhi
Bet
aKappa.Ab ook
-wormort her
idi
cul
edc
oll
egegrin
disnotnec
essa
ri
lyaper
sonwitht
hek
indofmi
nd
you
’denj
oyli
vi
n gwit
hforyear
s.

Ye
tthi
sistheda
yofun
ive
rsa
ledu
cati
on.Despi
tetheval
ueofmod
erns
chool
s,c
hil
dre
nwi
l
lal
waysf
i
ndt
hei
r
moth
ersth
eirb
est,
ast
heysur
el
yarethei
rfi
rst
,te
acher
s.

Youwil
lbeha
ppyifyoumarr
yagi r
lwi
thanaler
tandinqu
iri
ngmind.Thephys
ica
l a
spect
sofmarr
ia
gea r
e
ext
remel
yli
mit
ede veni
nact
ualt
ime.Ther
e s
tofthedayy ouli
vewit
hawoma n’sdi
sposi
ti
ona
ndmi n
da nd
soul
.Whats
hedidinsch
oolan
dh owmuchformaleduc
ati
ons her
ecei
vedi
sfarl
essimport
antt
hanthe
qua
li
tyofhe
rthi
nkingandt
hekin
dofme nt
alatti
tud
essheh a
sd e
vel
oped.

Wereherpare
ntspeopl
ewh oli
kedbooks
,tookhert
ogoodfi
l
msan dpl
ays
,hadgoodmus
iconther
adi
oor
th
eird
isks
,andbel
ie
vedi npl
easan
tconver
sati
onamongt
hemsel
vesandwit
hint
ell
i
gen
tfr
ien
ds?Or,
ift
hey
werenot,h
asshehers
elfdeve
lopedsu
chatti
tude
s?

Di
dsh
edet
estbook
sandcl
assa
ndal
mostd
eli
ber
ate
lyd
oba
dlyi
nhe
rst
udi
es,
sot
hatn
ow,
sel
f
-de
fen
sive
ly,
sh
ebr
agsa
boutwhatr
ott
enmarkss
hemade?
Wh e
nyoua retogeth
er,wh atd
oe ssheta
lkaboutandwhatdoesshel
i
keyout ot
alkabou
t?Issh
ebore
dif
theconvers
ati
onri
sesa bovethel
a t
estVoic
ewi t
hthename-ba
n d
sorthelas
tpie
ceofgossi
pa b
outher
gi
rlf
ri
ends?Doessheknowa tle
a s
tsome t
hin
gofwh ati
sgoin
goni nth
ewor l
d,an
dwh enyoutal
kofyour
ambit
ionsanddrea
ms ,yourworkinli
fe,
wh atyouhopet
oma keofyours
elfa
ndyou rj
ob,i
ssheal
er
t
enoughtofoll
ow?

Wecan’
tst
res
sthi
stood
ema n
d i
ngl
y;yetyouwil
lha
vetodependdur
ingalongmarr
iedl
i
feuponth
e
i
nter
est
sandmin
dandal
ert
nessofthi
sgir
l.An
dyourch
il
dre
n ’
smin
dswi l
lt
akethe
irf
ir
stcha
ract
erand
f
ormati
onf
romhers
.

TASTES.

Theuseofcosmeti
csandth
es t
yleofherdr
essrea
ll
ya r
eimport
antc
hief
lyint
his
:theyil
l
ust
ratehern
a t
ura
l
tas
te.Agir
lwithtas
tedoesn’
tpain
tli
keafres
hlydes
ignedci
rc
uspost
er.Hercl
othe
sa r
eattr
acti
veandnot
ext
reme.Theyarenei
thert
oos h
ortnortoolong,t
oofulln
ortoosc
ant,notth
es t
yle
soffi
veyearsagoor
oftheSpa
ceCa de
te r
a.

Whens heeat
s,s
heiscuri
ousaboutnewfoodbutcontentwi
ththepl
aindis
hesofthere
staura
ntyoucan
af
ford.Shei
scur
iousaboutandrece
pti
veton e
wmu s
icandnewbooksa n
da r
t;butdoes
n’tgooverb
oard
f
orthelates
tcra
z eth
a tmaydiebef
orei
tsnamesgetintoth
eloose-
leafdi
cti
ona
ri
e s
.Sheshowshonest
enth
us i
asmbutdoes
n’tgushorra
ve.Sheissweettopeopl
ebutdoesn’
t,i
ntheIr
is
hph r
ase,pal
ave
rthem.

Al
lth
esear
eth
esi
gnsofgoodtas
te;a
ndaft
era
ll
,upontheta
steofyourwif
ewi
l
lde
pen
dth
eta
ste
ful
or
ch
aoti
chomei
nwhi
chyouaregoi
ngtospe
ndagoodd e
alofi
mportantti
me.

MOSTI
MPORTANTOFAL
L.

Ther
ea rec
h ar
ming,wel
l
-manner
ed,
attr
act
ive
,b e
aut
if
ul
,tastef
ul,
we l
l
-di
spos
it
ion
edgi
rl
sineve
ryfai
th.Al
l
re
li
gionsha
v ethei
rgoodandvi
rt
uousmembers
, d
epend
ing,ofcours
e,onwhatthe
ser
el
igi
onsbel
i
eveand
pra
ctis
e,andwh a
ttheydemandi
nvir
tueofth
eirmembers.
Bu
tyoua
reagr
eatf
ool
ind
eedi
fyoua
ll
owyou
rse
lft
ofa
lli
nlovewi
ths
ome
onen
otofyou
rfa
ith
.

I
fyourrel
i
gionme an
sa nyt
hingatal
ltoyou,
iti
sCh
ris
t’
sownreveal
edtr
uth,
Chr
is
t’
swa
yofl
if
e,Ch
ri
st
’s
roa
dt osa
lvati
on,Chri
st
’sexpl
anati
onofhowtopl
eas
eHisF
ath
e r
,Chri
st
’spr
ogr
ammef
ors
avi
ngtheworl
d.
Chr
ist
’swayistheonlywayt osal
vati
on.

I
tisn
otama t
terofbei
ngaRepubl
i
canoraDemoc r
at,anEl
k,aRotar
ianoraKni
ghtofCol
umbus.I
ti
snot
aque
sti
onofpref
err
ingth
eDodgerst
ot heCa
rdi
nal
s,golft
otenni
s,h
amb ur
ger
stohotdogs.I
ti
spartof
God’
spl
anf
oryout omakeasuc
cessofyourl
i
fe.

Soyouf
al
li
nlovewi
thagi
rl
whod
oesn
ots
har
eyou
rfa
ith
.Al
otoft
hin
gsi
nevi
tab
lyf
ol
low…

Youhol
ddeepdownin
sid
eyouagrea
tmanytru
thstha
tshet
hin
ksaref
al
se,
non
sen
sic
al,
orc
ert
ain
lyn
oti
n
thel
eas
timpor
tant
.Agreats
ect
orofyou
rli
f
eistot
al
lyal
i
entoher
.

Asyou
rwif
e,sh
eh aspr
omi
sedt
orai
seth
echi
ld
reninyourf
ai
th.Wh a
tar
eyoua
ski
ngoft
hepoorgi
rl
?
Whatde
mandsareyoumak
ingu
ponhert
act
,pati
encean
dinge
n u
ity?

Sh
emu
stt
eac
hth
emt
rut
hss
hed
oesn
otr
ega
rda
str
uth
s.

Sh
emu
sts
tar
tth
emof
fi
nre
li
gi
ouspr
act
ic
est
hats
heh
ers
elfd
oesn
otpr
act
ic
e.

Sh
emu
stc
rea
tear
el
igi
ousa
tmos
phe
ref
ort
heh
ous
ewh
ens
hed
oesn
ota
cce
ptt
hatr
el
igi
on.

Shemustbesoc
leve
rthats
hei
nspi
rest
hechi
l
dre
ntorever
encea
ndf
ol
lowar
el
igi
ouswa
yofl
i
fewh
ichs
he
he
rsel
fnei
the
runder
sta
nds,
acc
epts
,norex
ter
nal
l
ypra
ctic
es.

Youa r
easki
n gagir
lwhomayn otbe
li
evei
nmi r
acl
estowor kthem.Youaregoin
gt oaskyourch
il
dre
nt o
acce
ptaf a
iththa
tthei
rdarl
i
ngmot h
erdoesnotacce
pt .Youarefa
cingali
f
eofreli
gi
ouslonel
i
nes
s;f
oryou
cannevertal
kaboutyourf
aithtot
hegir
lwhod oe
sn otu n
derst
andwh a
tyoua r
es a
yin
g, a
ndyoumu stgo
offa
lonetoMa s
s,toconf
ess
ionandCommu n
ion,t
oth eparis
hmissi
onorretr
eat.
Andyoumu s
tins
is
tonaCathol
i
ce d
uca
tionforth
ech
il
dre
n,f
ol
lowi
ngthe
irCat
hol
i
cBapt
is
m,Communi
on
andConf
i
rmati
on,whi
chmea
nslessmoneyinthef
ami
l
ybudget
,andsa
cri
f
ice
sshemus
tmakej
ustb
eca
use
youdemandthe
mofher.

Doe
sits
oun
dli
kepr
el
udet
oah
appyma
rri
age
,th
isf
actt
hatt
hegi
rl
doe
sn’
tac
ceptyou
rfa
ith
?

Thepl
ainf
acti
sthatn
oth i
ngs
odi
squ
ali
fi
esagi
rl
forma
rri
agetoyouasth
elac
kofyourre
li
gi
ousfa
ithor
th
ea c
cept
anceofarel
i
gionth
atr
egar
dsyourr
eli
gi
onasf
als
e,mi
sl
ead
ing,a
ndper
hapsevenoft
hede vi
l
.

Ma
rryt
hegir
lofyourownfa
ith
.Don’
tas
kagir
lwit
houtyourf
ait
htoac
ceptyouwhenacc
ept
ingyou
mea
nsali
f
eti
mes epa
rat
ionf
romthes
oulan
dmindandprac
ti
cesoft
hemanshehasmar
ri
ed.

AS
KAL
OT,
GIVEAL
OT.

Per
hapsbyth
isti
meyouh
aver
eache
dt h
ec on
clu
siont
hatI
amt
ell
i
ngyout
oas
kal
otoft
hegi
rl
youma
rry
.
Ia
m.Bu tI
ama l
sote
ll
i
ngt
hegi
rl
stoaskalotf
romyou.

Thesi
mpl
ebutvi
tal
pri
nci
pl
efors
ele
cti
oni
sthi
s:Youou
ghttodemandal
otoft
hegi
rl
youma
rry
,fort
he
gi
rlwhomar
ri
esyouough
ttobegetti
ngj
usta
sgoodasshegi
ves.

As
kagr
eatd
eal
oft
hegi
rl
;bu
tbr
ingt
hegi
rl
agr
eatd
eal
you
rse
lf
.

I
t’
sashabbymarr
ia
gewhene i
therpar
tyshort-
chan
gestheoth
erindi
sposi
ti
on,
vir
tue
,d e
vot
ionandfa
ith
.
I
t’
sabl
essedmarr
iagewhenvi
rtuewedswithvir
tue,
heal
thf
in
dsh e
alt
h,agooddi
spos
it
ionun
iteswi
tha
goodd
isposi
ti
on,a
n daf
ai
thisconse
crat
eda tthea
lta
rtoasi
mila
rfai
th.

Mar
ri
agei
stooi
mpor
ta n
ttob ef
ool
edwi
th.I
fsh
abby,
thi
rd-
rat
epeopl
emustma
rryshab
by,
thi
rd-
rat
e
pe
ople
,th
eworl
dwil
lconti
nuetokn
owit
sma k
eshi
f
t,unh
appy,
for
e-doome
dmarr
iage
s.
Youwoul
dn’thavere
adthi
sbookl
eti
fyoud i
dnotwantt
heri
ghtgir
lforth
eide
alandbl
esse
dma r
ri
age
.
Looku
nti
lGodle a
dsyoutoher
.Andlether,
whenyoumakeyourof
fer,k
nowthatyouarebri
ngi
nghe
ra
manofi
ntegri
ty,pl
eas
antha
bit
sanddi
s pos
it
ion
,vi
rt
ue,a
ndad e
e pandshi
ni
ngfai
th.

Th
enGodb
les
syoub
oth
.