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Per Dev Quarter 2 Module 10
Per Dev Quarter 2 Module 10
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Personal
Development
Quarter 2 – Module 10:
Social Relationships in Middle
and Late Adolescents
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Personal
Development
Quarter 2 – Module 10:
Social Relationships in Middle
and Late Adolescents
Introductory Message
Each SLM is composed of different parts. Each part shall guide you step-
by-step as you discover and understand the lesson prepared for you.
In addition to the material in the main text, Notes to the Teacher are also
provided to our facilitators and parents for strategies and reminders on how
they can best help you on your home-based learning.
Please use this module with care. Do not put unnecessary marks on any
part of this SLM. Use a separate sheet of paper in answering the exercises and
tests. And read the instructions carefully before performing each task.
If you have any questions in using this SLM or any difficulty in answering
the tasks in this module, do not hesitate to consult your teacher or facilitator.
Thank you.
CG CODE : EsP-PD11/12SR-IIb10.1
Let Us Learn!
Let Us Try!
PRE-TEST
MULTIPLE CHOICE:
Directions: Read each question carefully. Select the LETTER of the best
answer. Use a separate sheet for your answers.
Let Us Study
ACTIVITY 1
Direction: In here, you are tasked to review how you think and act
considering some factors (parents, peers, culture, and society) that affect you.
In most cases, how does each factor affect your thoughts and action? Provide
a course of action or decision with short explanation relevant to your own
experience.
Scenarios:
1. Choosing your strand/track to take in studying.
2. Joining a club or organization inside and outside school.
3. The way you dress or your clothing style.
PARENTS PEERS
COMMUNITY SOCIETY
QUESTIONS TO ANSWER
Directions: Read and answer each question. All the questions here are
related to the previous activity. Take time to answer honestly and truthfully.
Use a separate sheet in answering the questions.
1. What are the factors that affect on how you think and act? Explain briefly.
2. How does each factor affect your thoughts and actions?
SOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS
As you grow up, you get to know people and build relationships by
which you have first had with your family. As human persons, it is expected
that you build relationships or social relationships by which also affect the
way you think, decide and even act on certain things.
There are four (4) main types of relationships that influence you as an
adolescent: (1) Parents, (2) Peers, (3) Community and (4) Society. However,
these factors are shaped by culture. Culture can have a positive or negative
effect on your development.
Now, as you commit into social relationships, you also have various
roles to represent. In the society, you can be someone based on a social
situation that you decide to take. This is what we call as role(s), as of the
following:
• Political Leaders
• These are the people who create and
implement the laws of the land. They are the
role models through which we follow the laws.
Source: https://onenews.ph/dissecting-villar-s-
baliw-sa-research-statement
• Religious Leaders
• These are the individuals who guide their
followers according to their faith. They are
keepers of religious traditions and are also
moral leaders.
Source:
https://www.pexels.com/photo/people-in-
white-robe-standing-in-church-6134078/
• Teacher
• They are the educators of young minds.
They impart knowledge to the young
generation to become the next generation of
leaders.
• Children
• They are the ones that need to be cared
more and ensured that they are supported
with services they mostly need.
• Church Members
• They are the people who commit to practice
their faith. They let their faith grow and carry
out their faith traditions.
Source:
https://www.pexels.com/search/mass/
• Celebrities
• They are the people who promote ethical
behavior, responsible personal decisions,
social justice. They are also expected to show
good behaviors.
Source:
https://www.pexels.com/search/celebrities/
Again, as you commit into social relationships, you may also find
yourself either leading or someone being led. From your experience with the
game, you may have found out that you are a good leader or a good follower
which you can also see yourself in the context of the society where you belong.
Hence, being either a leader or a follower influences other people.
QUESTIONS TO ANSWER
Directions: Read and answer each question. Before answering some of the
questions, you may go back and read the lesson about Socials Relationships
in Middle and Late Adolescents. Use a separate sheet in answering the
questions.
1. What are the various roles of different individuals in the society? Cite them
all.
Let Us Practice
Activity 2
TRUST WALK GAME
C. Directions:
1. Divide the group into pairs; each group chooses who will be Player A and
B.
2. Player A will close her/his eyes (or put on a blindfold) and then Player B
will guide A on a journey around the space. (Depending on comfort levels, B
can place a hand on each of A9s shoulders, one arm around A9s shoulders
and/or hold A9s inside arm/wrist/hand in order to guide them physically as
well as verbally.) Player B should try and explore levels, tempo, and space,
being sure to vary how s/he moves and where s/he moves in the room.
3. Once directions are explained the group begins their work. After a set
number of minutes, switch roles so that Player A can lead Player B and repeat
the process.
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Activity 3
What responsibilities did you have as the leader? As the person being led?
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What does it take to trust someone to lead you? What does it take to be
trustworthy leader?
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Lesson
Perception of Oneself and
2 of Others
After learning that you are a human person capable of building and
engaging in different relationships with other people, you are now challenged
to do more of discovering yourself and how others see you.
Let Us Study
ACTIVITY 4
THE FUNERAL TEST
Which kind of person will people think I was when I9m gone?
___________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________
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It9s about a pregnant Tigress who goes out hunting one day.
She finds a whole herd of goats. And
she goes after the goats because she
is very, very hungry.
She is ravenous. So, she attacks
them desperately, and she gets so
tired and runs so hard that she
collapses in exhaustion and she dies
giving birth to her cub.
When the goats return to the field,
they find the motherless newborn.
Those goats decide to adopt him. So,
he grows up repeating behaviors like
those around him. He bleats. And he
eats grass. He believes himself to be a
goat.
So, this little cub who grows into
a tiger now is wandering with the
goats and acting like a goat and
bleating like the goats and eating the way the goats eat.
Then one day a tiger, a big male tiger, comes into the goat herd and all
the goats scatter except this little tiger. He is about a year old now and looking
at this big male tiger somehow, he is sensing an affinity with this tiger. But
he freezes in his tracks and he stands there staring at the tiger.
The big tiger comes over to him and says 8What9s wrong with you?9 The
little one says 8What do you mean what9s wrong with me?9 The big tiger says
8What9s wrong with you? What are you doing? You are acting weird.
You are acting like a goat.9 The little tiger says 8I am a goat!9 The big one says
8No you9re not. You are not a goat.9 He leads the little tiger over to a pond.
A very still pond. He said 8Now look at yourself. Really look at yourself.9
The little cub looks at himself, and he looks at the big tiger, and he is
confused. The tiger says 8Come with me, come with me.9 He takes him back to
his den, and in the den, there is some leftover meat from a gazelle that had
been his recent kill.
So, he says to the little tiger 8Eat this.9 The little cub says 8Well no way.
I am a vegetarian. 8The tiger says 8Try it. Just try it.9 So, the little tiger reaches
over and he takes a bite off the bone.
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will contribute to his self-esteem. By the end of the class, Pedro likely thinks
of himself as a good public speaker, which may then become an important
part of his self-concept. Throughout these points of connection, it9s important
to remember that self-perception affects how we communicate, behave, and
perceive other things. Pedro9s increased feeling of self-efficacy may give him
more confidence in his delivery, which will likely result in positive feedback
that reinforces his self-perception. He may start to perceive his professor more
positively since they share an interest in public speaking, and he may begin
to notice other people9s speaking skills more during class presentations and
public lectures. Over time, he may even start to think about changing his
major to communication or pursuing career options that incorporate public
speaking, which would further integrate being <a good public speaker= into
his self-concept. You can hopefully see that these interconnections can create
powerful positive or negative cycles. While some of this process is under our
control, much of it is also shaped by the people in our lives (Perceiving and
Presenting Self).
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Let Us Practice
Activity 5
What do
Can talk
strangers
about
say about
effortlessly
you?
Note: Take a while to write these things down in four overlapping circles and
see where they all meet. This may take time and serious thinking, but it can
result in defining and refining your purpose in life. This will provide you with
a framework to form your future and a basis of self-awareness.
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Let Us Study
ACTIVITY 6
Direction: In here, you are tasked to review at least five (5) TV commercial
advertisements and tell what Filipino values are shown in each advertisement.
You can write as many values as shown in the advertisements.
2.
3.
4.
5.
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FILIPINO VALUES
Values are guide to man9s behaviors and actions as they relate with
others in most situations in life. With Filipinos, values are somehow the
symbol of identity which help them keep harmonious relationships.
Some of the Filipino values that we are known with:
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Let Us Remember
Activity 7
Every culture has its own strengths and weaknesses by which people
who belong to that certain culture may find it difficult as strength or weakness
because those are the things that they are used to. As someone who has
undergone all the lessons of this subject, it is expected from you that you can
now compare different things and think a little more critically.
Hence, your task before this module ends is to recall or research some
weak characteristics Filipinos have and what can you do to make it better
when similar situations come your way.
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Let Us Assess
POST-TEST
MULTIPLE CHOICE:
Directions: Read each question carefully. Select the LETTER of the best
answer. Use a separate sheet for your answers.
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A. Self-concept C. Self-efficacy
B. Self-esteem D. Self-confidence
9. Which of these are the specific evaluations or judgements a person creates
about the self-concept?
A. Self-concept C. Self-efficacy
B. Self-esteem D. Self-confidence
10. Which of the following is developed through experience which is about
the person9s extent of seeing himself as an effective individual?
A. Self-concept C. Self-esteem
B. Self-efficacy D. Self-confidence
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Let Us Enhance
Activity 8
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Activity 9
Directions: Divide your paper into two columns and identify healthy and
unhealthy relationships
1. You feel good about yourself when you9re around the other person.
2. You do not try to control each other. There is equal amount of give and
take.
3. You feel sad, angry, scared, or worried.
4. There is communication, sharing and trust. You feel safe to share secrets.
5. You feel that you give more attention to them than they give to you. You
feel controlled.
6. You don9t communicate, share or trust.
7. You like to spend time together but also enjoy doing things apart.
8. You feel pressured to spend time together and you feel guilty when you9re
both apart from each other.
9. You feel the need to be someone that you are not.
10. It9s easy to be yourself when you are with them.
11. You respect each other9s opinion. You listen and try to understand their
point of view even if you don9t always agree with them.
12. You feel the need to be someone that you are not.
13. There is no fear in your relationship.
14. You feel there9s no respect for you or your opinion. You are not able to
disagree.
15. You feel fear in your relationship.
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Activity 10
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Let Us Reflect
Source: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3150158/
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References
A. Website:
1. https://onenews.ph/dissecting-villar-s-baliw-sa-research-statement
2. https://www.pexels.com/photo/people-in-white-robe-standing-in-church-
6134078/
3. https://www.pexels.com/search/mass/
4. https://www.pexels.com/search/celebrities/
B. Module:
1. Sumagang, Ivy Ann R., 2020, Personality Development, Social Relationships in
Middle and Late Adolescents pages 1 to 31
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