Wedding Blessing

SONG: (last verse, congregation standing)

VOTUM: In the name of the Father, and His Son the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy
Spirit. Amen.
PRAYER: O Lord God, our Father is in heaven. You are the one who decrees, so that
Man is married and becomes one flesh. O Lord, You see us who now stands before Thee,
asking Thy gifts and blessings unto both The bride and groom are having their wedding
today. Have mercy and help them, that they may be a happy family and always glorify
the Your Name. O Holy Spirit, enlighten and lead them, that from beginning to end
Their marriage was always imbued with love, peace and joy. Listen to this prayer of
ours, O God, in the name of Your Son the Lord Jesus Christ, Our Savior. Amen.
SONG:
SERMON:
SONG:
GUIDANCE AND ADVICE:
And the LORD God said: “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him
an associated helper for him”. Then the Lord Jesus said: “For this cause shall a man
leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; And they two shall be one flesh: so
then they are no more two, but one flesh”. (Genesis 2:18; Maret 10:7-8).
Then the Lord Jesus said: “What therefore God has joined together, let not man put
asunder. And whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall
marry another, commits adultery: and whoso marries her which is put away does
commit adultery”. (Matthew 19:6,9)
Listen also to what God's Word said to the man: “Husbands, love your wives, even as
Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; hat he might sanctify”. (Ephesians
5:25,26a).
And to the woman, He said: “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto
the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the
church” (Ephesians 5:22,23a). Thus husbands should love their wives equally like
himself, he was obliged to nurture and care for him, like Jesus Christ nurturing and
caring for His church. And wives should be noble, chaste and holy souls true, patient
and meek, for thus they honor their husbands.
Let both of you always live in the Word of the Lord. Live in humility and simplicity of
heart, sustaining one another, complementing one another, and praying for one
another.
Avoid from your daily life bad qualities and behaviors, such as pride, anger, lies, harsh
words and all forms of violence. Let love, joy, peace, mutual respect and sincerity mark
your entire married life. Make love the binding of all that is good.
The peace of God, which passes all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds
through Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:7).
So according to the Word of God that you have heard, you have understand and
understand God's will regarding the marriage.
If so, answer the following question, before the Lord and witnessed, His fellowship
congregation today in this place:
Now I ask the bridegroom: (menyebutkan nama)...........
Are you willing to declare before an omniscient God and before His congregation in
fellowship at this time, that with all thy heart, thou earnestly choosing a sister.........
(menyebut nama)............ Your fiancee is be your wife? Will you love him with all your
heart and will Do it to the best of your ability? Will you keep Your marriage to a sacred
way of life before God? Will thou shalt forgive his weaknesses, especially if at some point
his behavior is lacking good and hurt your feelings? Are you willing to guide and lead
her with affection and patience? Will you remain love him, whether in times of trouble,
sickness, poverty or suffering? Will you promise, not to waste and divorce her, except for
being divorced by death? If thou wilt do these things in a sincere and righteous heart,
Answer: Yes, I want, may God give me strength.

Then, I asked the bride: (menyebutkan nama) Will you speak before God and before
His church? fellowship at this time, that with all thy heart thou shalt earnestly receive
brother........ (menyebutkan nama)............. This fiancée of yours became your husband?
Will you love him with all your heart and will do it? with all your ability? Will you
promise to keep? your marriage, as befits a Christian woman, with holy and righteous
behavior? Will you still love him, good to times of trouble, sickness, poverty or
suffering? Are you shall not leave him, and divorce from him, except by death? If thou
wilt do these things in a sincere and righteous heart, Answer:
The answer: Yes, I want, may God give me strength.

CHANGE THE RING:

Bridegroom: I pin this ring on your finger as a symbol of my love and loyalty to you.
Bride: I pin this ring on your finger as a symbol of my love and loyalty to you.
EDIFICATION:
Now we have heard your promise and determination, which you pledged before the Lord
and His church on this day. So as a sign of the firmness and sincerity of your pledge of
allegiance, let you shook hands with each other.
(The bride and groom shook hands and the pastor took both of them by the hand and
said):
I am a servant of God, who delivers His Word to a brother: In the name of
God the Father, and His Son the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Ghost, I
tells you: "Whom God has united, let not be divorced human." Amen.

BENDICTION: (the bride and groom kneel, laying on their hands the pastor said):
The LORD bless you, and keep you:
The LORD make his face shine upon you, and be gracious unto you:
The LORD lift up his countenance upon you, and give you peace. (Numbers 6:24-26)
SONG:
OFFERINGS:
PRAYER OF THANKSGIVING: (congregation stands)
O God our Father who is in heaven, we confess with all our hearts, You are the source of
all blessings and gifts in our lives. Here we present our sacrifice of thanksgiving to Thee.
Accept the offerings of your people and bless them become instruments of testimony,
fellowship, and service of this Church of Thy Church.
Make our life an offering that pleases thee, and put to life We are to present the signs of
Your Kingdom in this world: love, justice, peace and joy. Open our hearts by Your Holy
Spirit, that we may ever give thanks and thanks Thee in the name of Jesus Christ our
Lord. Amen.
SONG OF THANKSGIVING:
LORD PRAYER: Our Father, in heaven, hallowed be Your name, Yoou kingdom come,
Your will be done on earth, as i tis in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And
forgive us our debt, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into
temptation, but deliver us from evil. For Thine is the kongdom and the power; for Thine
is the kingdom, for Thine is the power, the glory and forever. Amen (Numbers
6:24-26 (UKJV))
BENEDICTION: The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the
communion of the Holy Spirit be with you all. Amen (2 Corinthians 13:13)
CONGREGATION RESPONSE: (singing) AMEN! AMEN! AMEN!