DAY 1

INNER GAME
& Dealing with Approach Anxiety
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 FEW WARNINGS
BEFORE WE START ⚠️
This Course is the Starting point & not the End
(Doesn't Replace ULM, just compliments it)

You can't approach women Unless you Genuinely

Love & Appreciate Women as a Gender (Even 1% of
unwanted Negativity towards random women -
Game Over !!)

You need to BELIEVE 100% in your OWN Power to

Change your DESTINY

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 PICK-UP CAN BE
DANGEROUS

They train themselves to be ____________ & never SETTLE...It's

like a Dog chasing it’s own tail

Most of them end up being miserable and Depressed. Most of

them are just in the BUSINESS OF TEACHING PICKUP (1 Master
Vampire creating a team of Mini Vampires, Like a Cult)

They are very different from ____________ (Ex: CCD Example of

friend)

Pickup Artist approach is a different Approach (Ex: Fest of

Mumbai)

The reason my courses are all Unedited is not because I'm Lazy
but Life is not Edited. It doesn't Create any Pressure on you to
be PERFECT while understanding anything or practically
applying these tools and Understanding

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 REAL REASON WHY YOU DON'T
APPROACH WOMEN?
Fear is one thing but...real reason is ____________________________

Reason 1: Approach Anxiety (Discussed later)

Reason 2: Missing ______________ (Permission to do - You constantly

keep thinking you are doing something WRONG)

The Naturals in approaching girls actually have a different incantation

to say in their mind - WHO THE FUCK WILL STOP ME? rather than WHO
AM I APPRAOCH THIS PRETTY WOMAN?

How Bootcamps work:

The instructor just says: It's okay dude, even if you mess up it's okay :)
The problem is that...IT TAKES AWAY THE POWER FROM YOU to the
INSTRUCTOR, and after the BOOTCAMP it becomes difficult for you to
do it again...

Reason 3: Lack of ________________ - One thing which holds you back is

the BELIEF that you'll not have success with it (end result)

Where does it come from? - When you have already accomplished the
results...but you can also MANUFACTURE THE RESULTS (To be done at
the end)
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 APPROACH ANXIETY
It can only be _____________, not eliminated fully

Girl's don't become Easier, you become Smoother with 100

Approaches like WATER (Not Rock). 101st girl doesn't know you
(Unless you're a Celebrity) so their resistance NEVER goes away.

You are NOT in the game of Not getting Rejected ever, you are here to
___________________________________________ no matter what...So no
Strategy is Perfect, but Bad strategies will 100% Screw up for you

You need to work Inside first to show results Outside (You have No
problem connecting when you're on a Roll (Ex: Bangalore Meet-up
Student)

Like any other DIS-EASE, you learn how to create anxiety with time
(Creating a Pathway of that Pattern of Responses)

- You train your body to produce anxiety by

__________________________little things
Ex: Gym Workout

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 4 MAJOR PSYCHOLOGICAL
CAUSES OF APPROACH ANXIETY

1) Multiple ________________ Nodes

They make you go into the
SURVIVAL MODE

2) Striving for _________________

(Procrastination): Constantly in
search of the Next big research or
information to get “READY” TO
APPRAOCH

3) Living in a __________ Identity

Incongruent Self Image - I'm not that kind of guy who
approaches beautiful women

How to Solve this? - (Few Examples)

Activity: Let’s make a FOOL

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 4) LACK OF _________________
(Deservingness & Belongingness issue)

“Am I their second option?” Syndrome

- Parents
- Friends
- Colleagues
- Dog
- Girls/GF/Wife

Anything good happens with them seems to be just a Fluke,

Luck by chance or a Gift given out of Pity.

Relatives & groups don't want them? They are just begging for
Validation but they NEVER FEEL IT. They always have a LACK
INSIDE THEM EATING THEM ALIVE
(Even if they get it from others)

JAS (EXTREME INTROVERT)

VS
SHRUTI (EXTREME EXTROVERT)

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 HOW TO BUILD YOUR
SELF ESTEEM
The principle of ________

Improvement in your :-
a) _____________________ about Women, Attraction, Dating, Relationship, Life, Mind
& Emotions actually works
b) _____________________(Examples)
Note: If you keep dating same quality girls and having casual hook-ups/short
term relationships which almost end up in similar stories...You won't raise the
confidence in yourself
c)____________________ -
d) ____________________ -
e) ________________ of LIFE - This Made me Complete 100%? (There is no Singular
purpose for most people and it doesn't have to be Glandulous)

All the Steps above are important to have an Extra - ordinary Self esteem where
you feel Girls will love to talk you & you have something to give to them (Smile,
Joke, Story, Sex, Presence, Help, Romance etc.)
YOU DESERVE IT MAN

Note 1: Magic is not in the Improvements you go though, it's in the what you
FEEL ABOUT IT & where you FOCUS in that moment
Note 2: We all keep Juggling between Lack of Self Esteem (when you haven’t
done anything) & Bubble Identity (When you do too much)

My Story of obseravtion
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 Activity:
Write 3 Reasons each why they are so
Blessed to have you ❤️
(Anything you BELIEVE is true for You :))

Parents:
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Friends:
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Pet:
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Women:
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Colleagues/Boss/Company:
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 FACT OR MYTH?
LET‘S PLAY THE GAME

1) _________ : Evolutionary Psychology or any other age old study has no

relevance in today’s world...
It could be as Basic as the ________________________________ which grabbed her
attention than your face

2) 6 Pac Abs: What are Kneejerk Reactions? (First GF example)

3) World is so Unfair - Why am I learning

so much?
Just because a Hot guy has no problem
with girls, doesn’t give you a justification
to GIVE UP (IQ Example)

You need to MAKE THE WORLD BEND

ACCORDING TO YOU
by mastering yourself

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 FACT OR MYTH?
4) I’m an “Introvert”, Only Extroverts can approach girls
_______________ vs _____________ Person
Most girls are Introverts or Ambiverts & high over-enthusiasm of an
extrovert can scare them off

5) You can talk to Any girl/Anytime/Anywhere with same Ease &

Confidence once you become a ____________?

- Multiple Unfamiliar Nodes will always be an issue

(Ex: Retreat vs CA Interview)

Note: There is a Difference between Talking to a Girl and Approaching her

Pro Tip : Slow Down your Life & Observe the Grocery Story, Mall, People.
Relax & get comfortable in yourself walking & stop Worrying about
WOMEN or some other Stuff (Deep breath whenever your heart races).
Subconsciously after a week you'll start feeling as if it's your home :)

6) “All of my Friends” are Fucking around & Enjoying?

7) My area is Backward & not appropriate for Approaching girls

8) Role of ___________? It just makes you more of what you already are...

Activity
Let’s drive a Ferrari

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 FACT OR MYTH?

9) I need to Copy a Frame

(Biggest Controversy among Coaches)

2 Things to be careful from

a) Watching Approach _________ -
b) ____________________ - Very Costly Pep Talks & also can be Intimidating
Experience as it is no longer about women and now the GROUP SOCIAL
STATUS has also come in the picture
(Better go with a Wingman friend willing to explore with you TOGETHER)

Ex: Octane PT Example

Ex: Hop-up Falling Example

It all boils down to 1 Word = _______________ (80% Game is all that)

20% = Strategy/Routines/Openers/Jokes/Comebacks/Closers etc. - Most

of you are so stuck in your head Decoding their Conversations rather
than actually going out and doing it yourself

Pro Note: Approach is never learned or Copied, it is always DISCOVERED

(My life, career, experiences have been majorly different than yours...You
need to see how to talk and what works for you)
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 8 GOLDEN RULES OF
APPROACH

1) You don’t need to “MASTER” APPROACH (Blueprint is what you need)

2) The More you do, the better you become (Even Bad Approaches)
- Always start small/slow & approach 1 alone girl without any
expectations or closing (Minimize your Discomform as much as you can)

3) Stop having Unrealistic Expectations

- In the starting don't focus on Closing...Just focus on having good
Conversations & leaving the scene (Unless she's Too hot to be left
without No. Or Instagram)

4) Give your 100% of Being & _____________ to her : Most guys are lost in
their own world & get freaked out when someone says Hi
- Women become what you THINK OF THEM IN THAT MOMENT
(Ex: Fights with Wife)

5) Become ____________ :

6) _________________ is Power: More you Gather information about them,

more ways you can open up the Conversation in any direction

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 8 GOLDEN RULES OF
APPROACH

7) You can't Approach girls if you are too attached with your Identity/Ego
or you're too scared to push it a little far & make her Angry etc. (After
anger you can switch to a Puppy Mode)

(Ex 1: Shruti agrees to go on a Date & said No chance that I'll ever Kiss
you or Hug you...I said Sure :)

8) Good News Psychology: (Write few instances where you used it)
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 MOTIVATION
TO APPROACH
Motiv-ation = Motive to Action

How to MANUFACTURE THE RESULTS in advance

a) ___________________________: Your Most Comfortable to Most

Uncomfortable zone

b) Shadow Boxing: Actually say out loud in your room the

things/Phrases you would want to say to a woman...AS IF THE WOMAN
is in front of you, once you said those funny jokes, lines 100
times...Once you approach it'll be a second nature to you already

Visualise in a and b - stretch the confines of your imagination (not the

actual words of what you are going to say but, THE RESULT YOU WANT
AND FEELING YOU'LL GET OUT OF HER POSITIVE RESPONSES)

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 MOTIVATION
TO APPROACH
Motiv-ation = Motive to Action

c) True Intent:
i) Have an intent to just improve the game, rather than sleeping with
Pretty girls
ii) Always raise 1 level at a Time: If you can't even say Hi, then just say Hi
and have a Small talk...without any strings attached
If you can talk but never asked for Number...Then ask for Numbers from
now on
iii) Start talking to Average Quality girls...Rather than pretty girls

d) ____________________ (Delusional Self talk):- I'm the Fucking man, I can

do this MoFo...I'm the No.1 Chick Magnet of the whole Planet (I do this
before the Workshops) Say it and Feel it and Move your Body that
way...Again and again and again (While Driving, while sleeping, While
sitting - BECOME A CRAZY MANIAC)

e) _____________________

- How to Model a Confident Physiology? (ACTIVITY)

Pro Tip: Fear vs Excitement

When you get a Blood rush while going up on stage or calling a girl for
the first time or approaching someone…That is EXCITEMENT, don't
mistake it for FEAR…
There is just a thin line between the 2

Whenever you are about to approach - Create so much of Pain inside

your brain to GUILT, rather than REJECTION (To be done tommorow)

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 DAY 1
CHALLENGE

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