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11 Sexuality Myers
11 Sexuality Myers
with Disabilities
By
Leslie A. Myers, MS, CRC, CDVC
What Is Sexuality?
Development of Sexuality
Parts of our society believe that individuals with disabilities will not
marry or have children, yet people with disabilities have an increased
realization of their rights, more independence and self-sufficiency, so
many are choosing to marry and/or become sexually involved.
Children and youth with disabilities need to learn about sexuality and
the responsibilities that goes along with exploring and experiencing
one’s own sexuality. They need information about values, morals,
and the subtleties of friendship, dating, love, and intimacy. They also
need to know how to protect themselves against unwanted
pregnancies, sexually transmitted diseases, and sexual exploitation.
(From: Sexuality Education for Children and Youth with Disabilities (N I C H C Y)
Volume I, Number 3, 1992)
Professionals often use this as an excuse for not discussing sex and
sexuality and should not be used as a reason to deny people the
opportunity to learn and express their feelings and concerns.
People with disabilities may believe this myth, which indicates the
extent to which negative attitudes affect the views people with
disabilities have about themselves. This idea suggests that the
person without the disability can be a status symbol and that people
with disabilities are less worthy.
While in some cases this may be true, this myth reduces sex to one
particular moment, and ignores the fact that sex can be satisfying
without orgasm and that sexual relationships are about giving and
receiving pleasure.
While disability may make the actual mechanics of sex more difficult,
it is more likely that the sexual problems experienced by people with
disabilities are due to negative and stereotyped attitudes in society
and the associated feelings of lack of self-esteem. (Naudé, J. Sexuality
& disability: integrating the two? Echoes. Issue 19/2000 at http://www.wcc-
coe.org/wcc/what/jpc/echoes/echoes-19-08.html)
For some people with disabilities the question of body ownership can
restrict their view of themselves as sexual beings. Someone who
requires help in dressing, undressing, washing and the management
of continence, may begin to switch off from their bodies. As things are
done to them rather than with them, the bottom half of the body
becomes a separate entity, not owned by the individual but by
everyone else who comes to help dress and change.
Neistadt, M.E. and Freda, M. (1987) Choices: A Guide to Sex Counseling with
Phsically Disabled Adults. Malabar, FL: Robert E Krieger Publishing Company,
Inc.
In 1927 the Buck v. Bell Supreme Court decision ruled that forced
sterilization of people with disabilities was not a violation of their
constitutional rights. This decision removed all restraints for
eugenicists. Thirty-three states had sterilization laws in place by
1938. Between 1921 and 1964, more than 63,000 disabled people
had been sterilized. (Pfeiffer, D. (1993). Overview of the Disability Movement:
History, Legislative Record, and Political Implications. Policy Studies Journal, vol.
21(4) p. 726.)
Sexual Abuse
Sexual Perpetration
Final Thoughts
• To decide who can touch your body, when, where, and for how
long... you have the right to object to anyone touching your
body... you have the right to say 'no'.
Sipski, M.L. & Alexander, C.J. (1997). Sexual Function in People with
Disability and Chronic Illness: A Health Professional’s Guide.
Gaithersburg, Maryland: Aspen Publishers, Inc.