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Cosmopolitan India - August 2023
Cosmopolitan India - August 2023
Cosmopolitan India - August 2023
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(We’ve got you
A SECOND
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covered!)
Like a
Boss
59 FEMALE
FOUNDERS
SHARE WHAT
IT TAKES TO
BUILD A
BRAND
FROM
SCRATCH
Shanaya Oh,
Kapoor Also,
FASHION
One step closer INSPIRATION
TO HELP YOU
to her dream BRING THE HEAT
Flagship Store
121, Park Street, Kolkata, West Bengal – 700017
JUL-AUG 2023
On the Cover
80 Cover Girl
Actor Shanaya Kapoor
on carving her own path,
fulfilling dreams, and
coming into her own.
Upfront
15 Not Your Regular Boy
Next Door
18 Movies on me...Popcorn
on you?
20 Congrats, You’re a
Famous Influencer! Find
Out Why Your Followers
Love You
22 Gen-Z Can’t Get Enough
of Rich Lady Style
24 6 Page-turners That
Deserve A Place On
Your Bookshelf
Fast Glam Beauty
27 Too Hot to Handle
32 Fuss-Free Pimple
Patches To Heal All
Kinds of Breakouts
34 This Happy Hour
Essential Is Not In
A Glass
36 Multitasking Marvels
For That Girl On
The Go
38 What to Expect
From Skincare’s
90
Inside Cosmo
India’s first-
Biggest New Trend ever ASMR
40 Beauty News cover shoot
125
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ART
Assistant Art Director Satender Sharma
Chief Designer Mandeep Singh
Chief Designer Ravi RG
Contributing Designer Vineet Singh
Video Editor Manav Purohit
Video Editor Sanjana Bhalerao
ADMINISTRATION
Editorial Coordinator Shalini Kanojia
Editorial Assistant Pooja Singh
DIGITAL
Digital Editor Sonal Ved
Digital Assistant Editor Pratishtha Dobhal
Digital Assistant Editor (Entertainment) Adit Ganguly
Digital Copy Editor Tanvi Parekh
Digital Features Editor Stuti Agarwal
Digital Senior Features Writer Akanksha Narang
Digital Features Writer Mitali Shah
Digital Features Writer Sarah Khalko
Digital Junior Writer Maahi Shah
Social Media Executive Tanmay Ashar
Rajeev Gandhi
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While on this subject, there’s no way we can forget our individual selves,
and the solo journeys we are on. Our cover star Shanaya Kapoor (this is her
FIRST cover ever!) reveals that her mantra is to keep her eyes on her own
goals and not on what others are doing. Most importantly, she’s her biggest
competition, and her biggest cheerleader. And that’s exactly what the
Cosmo girl is about—confident and comfortable
in her own skin.
Team Cosmo
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ALSO INSIDE
ON STAND OFFERS:
Cosmo: Tell us about the great, and the actors were equally with were all on the same page.
experience of working on your powerful. Every person [in the I had the freedom to portray the
recent release, Jee Karda? cast] was in sync, and I think character just how I wanted to,
Aashim Gulati: Jee Karda was the energy was just right. I had and could go beyond what the
all about good energy. This was a wonderful time—the director, role demands. In the end, it all
a show where the writing was co-actors, and team that I worked came together beautifully.
Movies on me...
Popcorn on you?
No more FOMO because you’re going to sit back Made In Heaven S2
August 10, Amazon Prime Video
and live up to the hype thanks to our list of shows Picking up from where MIH
and movies that are far from basic. left off, this season also
By Ria Singh revolves around the
professional lives of Tara
Khanna (Sobhita Dhulipala)
and Karan Mehra (Arjun
Mathur) who are navigating
their wedding business
when troubles come
uninvited at their doorstep.
As the show unfolds, it
introduces the viewers to a
diverse array of
characters, each with their
unique stories and
Heartstopper S2 Heart of Stone Dream Girl 2
August 3, Netflix August 11, Netflix August 25, In Theatres backgrounds. While, also
Teen romances—the obsession with it There’s a little something The much-awaited sequel dealing with several social
never really ends, does it? Sometimes for those craving for some is back! Tracing the journey issues circling around
these are tear-inducing and at other spy action on celluloid. of a small-town boy Karam
relationships, marriages,
times, darn spicy. Heartstopper, in Gal Gadot, who stars as (Ayushmann Khurrana) who is
particular, always chooses ‘heart- Agent Rachel Stone—the trying to live a serious life in infidelity, dowry and other
stopping’ romance over trauma—TBH only intelligence operative Mathura, falls in love with Pari such taboo topics.
that is quite a welcoming tone for working for a shadowy, (Ananya Panday), whose father
teen coming-out stories. The series is global peacekeeping has kept strict conditions to
about Charlie (Joe Lock) who develops agency—stands between marry her. On the other hand,
a crush on his jock classmate Nick her powerful global he also struggles to pay his
(Kit Connor)...and it follows their high peacekeeping organisation father’s debt. In a comical
school lives. With exams and a school and the loss of its most turn of events, Karam takes
trip to Paris on the horizon, as well valuable asset: The Heart. on the role of Pooja in order
as a prom to plan, the friends have Watch on to know if Rachel to make ends meet. Get ready
a lot to do as they navigate can stop the hacker from for a rollercoaster ride that
the next stages of love, life, stealing the most guarantees wild chaos and
and friendship. dangerous weapon. heart-filled laughter.
It’s Your Chaos It’s Your Methods It’s Your Sparkle It’s Your Realness
Your extroverted, sometimes Honestly, your well-edited It doesn’t matter whether So, your followers feel like
outrageous ‘I’ll try anything content is satisfying to you’re live streaming a GRWM they really know you (in, like,
once’ existence means your absorb. People love that you or posting short clips of your a sweet, non-creepy way),
fans want to live vicariously are all about the details and snacks—your happy-go-lucky probably because you are
through you. Which they do, as treat you like an aspirational energy keeps people tapping 100 per cent ‘emotionally
your hot takes and guiding light. Thousands have in. Thanks for helping us engaged’. Or actually because
unpredictable storytimes keep bookmarked your 10-step turn off our brains so we can you’re always engaging with
them on their toes. skincare routine. appreciate life’s tiny joys. them in the comments.
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sually, you’ll find my social media searches full of interior
design inspo and commentary from dog behaviour experts.
But lately, I can’t hop on Instagram (or anywhere else,
really) without seeing slideshows of old English manors,
tennis whites, Ivy League campuses, pearl necklaces, and way too much
Aperol spritz. All of it stickered with the hashtags #StealthWealth,
#QuietLuxury, and especially #OldMoney and #OldMoneyAesthetic.
Yes, it is an ode to the lush lifestyle that comes from having
generational cash (new money is not welcome here) and all the
matching sets, sleek tailoring, and polished accessories that entails. The
whole thing, with its understated neutral palette, is undeniably chic—
and currently trending on most social media platforms.
I was going to say an obsession with the über-rich is a surprise in
2023, but then I took a look at the other recent internet aesthetics that
have made a name for themselves:
the playful “coquette” (preppy pink
hair bows and frilly socks), the
Labelling it
“coastal grandmother” (linen #OldMoney calls
trousers, second homes), the
Harvard- and Yale-adjacent out what we’re
“academia” (both “dark,” aka slightly
murder-y, and “light,” aka She’s the
truly talking
Man boarding-school-esque). You about: the
seeing the actual trend here!?
The truth is that while all these glorification of
moods feel very “right now,” there’s
not much that’s new to this fixation.
socioeconomic
(See: the power suits of the ’80s, the privilege.
logomania of the ’90s, the blinged-
out rhinestone accents of the early ’00s.) The big difference is that
labelling it #OldMoney explicitly calls out what we’re truly talking
about: the glorification of socioeconomic privilege in the name of
flexing what you (want people to think you) got.
Listen, aspiring to Succession levels of assets isn’t wrong. I, too, like to
picture myself summering in Europe or playing croquet on the lawn
with a chilled glass of mint lemonade. It’s just a little, you know, rich
that the same young people known for outspoken progressiveness and
inclusivity are also idealising a lifestyle—even potentially ironically—
that holds up everything they’re supposed to hate. The math isn’t
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Too Hot
to Handle
Photographs: GETTYIMAGES.COM
M
y relationship with my
hair straighteners is
the most reliable, long-
term one I’ve ever had.
After I got my first pair, I didn’t look
back. They perfectly smoothed my
candy floss-esque hair texture and
helped revive limp noodle curls in a
single twist. What wasn’t to love? The
damage, that’s what!
I was already hooked by the time
I realised the havoc that heat was
wreaking on my tresses, and while
I’ve tried to go teetotal over the
years, those ceramic plates keep
calling me back. So you can imagine
my scepticism when, on one evening
online scroll session, I discovered
the ‘heatless curl method’. Lo and
behold, Gen Z were cutting out the
need for heat, using the most random
of objects.
It was entertaining, to say the least.
Watching people wrap locks around
towels, men’s ties, even socks—
there was no household item left
untouched. But it wasn’t until a satin
heatless headband set landed on my
desk, complete with matching silk
scrunchies, that I decided I just had heat can pull moisture from the as they’re unnatural,” says Eagland.
to give it a go. hair, changing its protein structure, “A way of helping your hair is by
My first attempt left me wrestling causing cracks to the cuticle using different temperature settings,”
with the silky headband, wrapping layer (the F-layer) and making it he explains, adding, “Sadly, the more
my damp hair around it before going vulnerable to damage. If you don’t stubborn your hair, the more heat
to sleep. But by the end of the week protect strands prior to heat styling, you’ll need to use.”
I was a pro, and I had brilliantly it can cause damage, change your Looking for a tool that goes as low
bouncy curls in the mornings. As a texture and shift your colour.” as 150°C is a great start, according
self-proclaimed lazy girl, this seemed Hairstylist and Virtue educator and to Eagland. He mentions that heat
too good to be true...You get extra ambassador Jonathan Eagland says protectors and other reparative
sleep and skip the heat damage!? Just heat is a major factor in your hair’s products do work, but they’ll only put
take my money. health. “Other back in what we’ve
than chemical already taken out
It’s gettin’ hot in here processing (such “Heated hair using our irons.
A couple of months later, my hair
wasn’t only shinier, but growth was
as colouring
and bleaching),
tools will So, depending on
how much heat
happening at a faster rate than I’d heat is the main always be you’re subjecting
ever seen. I started to wonder: Was it aggressor,” he says. your hair to, all
just heat that was stunting my hair’s “You may not notice damaging” the products in
potential all this time? it right away, but the world can be a
I voiced my theory to textured before you know it, split ends and bit... moot.
hair specialist and Living Proof pro breakage will begin.” And let’s not forget there’s also the
expert Errol Douglas, who confirmed So, is there a happy medium we sun to (hopefully) contend with over
my suspicion. “Preventing damage can all strive for—where heat can be the summer months, meaning you
is always better than looking for a used for good? “Heated hair tools, in could be doubling up on damage.
cure,” he says. “Exposure to high my opinion, will always be damaging “UV rays penetrate the hair shaft
at the roots, causing damage to method’. “It involves pulling your Is it all easy-breezy?
the scalp and hair structure,” says damp or air-dried hair into a high It’s worth mentioning that everything
Hannah Gaboardi, trichologist and ponytail just before bed, securing it has its drawbacks. For example, my
Viviscal ambassador. This heat also with a satin scrunchie then shaking it heatless band will only be able to
compromises hair health and leads out in the morning,” he explains. “Or provide one type of curls—unlike
to split ends and breakages. Other tie your hair into Bantu knots—divide straighteners, which can achieve
than wearing your trusty bucket your hair into sections and twist each poker-straight strands as well as
hat 24/7, Gaboardi recommends section into a knot, and secure it with beachy waves in one flick. At the
using a nourishing hair treatment a hairpin. You can leave the knots same time, I’m not going to be able to
to give strands that extra TLC. Or, overnight, or until your hair has air- wrap my hair in exactly the same way
apply an SPF that’s been specifically dried; then release them.” every night, so results may vary. It also
formulated for your scalp. Both get to work overnight, but if means I must wash my hair before
you’re experimenting in the daytime, bed, so it is prepped and damp, and
The heatless wave analogue curlers still work a treat. gives my silk curling noodle time to
During the warmer months, heatless If you left these in the 50s, let me do its thing.
curls are a game changer. But finding introduce you to pin curls. “These Douglas also mentions that if
‘the one’ is all about your hair type, are small curls created by twisting hair is prone to frizz or subjected
length, and texture. For those with sections of hair and securing them to humidity, it might cause styles to
pin-straight strands or waves, Douglas with hairpins,” says Douglas. “Apply drop faster than if they were crafted
advises using a ‘curlformer or silk a styling product, such as mousse, to using a heated hair tool. Although,
rods’—aka, my new bestie. “You damp tresses, twist small sections of Eagland argues the opposite can also
simply wrap your hair around the hair, and secure them in place with be the case. “Heat can sometimes be
rod or curler, leave it overnight, then hairpins. Leave the pins in for several too much for certain hair types and
release the curls in the morning. Use hours or overnight.” can force curls to drop out faster. I’ve
a styling product on damp hair to get If your hair isn’t properly prepped, found spritzing hairspray does the
that long-lasting bounce.’” curls will deflate faster than an trick,” he says. To help set it in place,
A simple wrap-around takes me underbaked soufflé. Eagland says, he advises scrunching in a mousse
less than a minute—absolutely time- “The drier your curls, the less prior to styling, too.
saving. Also, it requires minimal skill: definition you’ll get.” After my experiment with the
It’s like plaiting your hair, only the To keep locks quenched, Eagland heatless curl method, I can definitely
third section is the silk rod. If you advises cutting back on your wash say that I’d rather my hair looked
need more oomph at the back, split days (to at most once a week for those healthier and grew faster than stayed
the hair into four sections (instead of with well-established curls), to help perfectly curled for 24 hours. Breaking
two) and wrap the section nearer the strands retain natural oils. He also up with heat has really taken my hair
back of the head first. stresses that “air drying is by far the to a good place. One that would’ve
For those with curls and coils, best way of getting the most out of been difficult to achieve with my
Douglas recommends the ‘pineapple your curls if you have time”. straighteners in the palm of my hand. Q
Scalp & Hair Mist Sunscreen Satin Heatless Bye Bye Frizz Leave In 4-Pack Silk Eimi Boost Bounce Curl Waver Hair Clip Pretty
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Multitasking Marvels
For That Girl On The Go
No-fuss beauty buys to get you ready and out the door, stat.
By Shubhangi Jindal
MASCARA
A fail-proof formula that promises fuller,
voluminous lashes with just a simple
wiggle and swipe.
Too Faced Better Than Sex Mascara
Travel Size, `1,150
HYDRATOR
Get the best of both
worlds with this potent
gel-based blend. It
penetrates deep to nourish
the skin and also gives a
dewy glow.
Clinique Moisture Surge 100h
Auto-Replenishing Hydrator, `1,050
ROLLERBALL
PERFUME
Just a quick dab of this
fragrance on your wrist and
you will smell as fresh and
fabulous as ever.
Victoria’s Secret Eau de Parfum
Rollerball, `2,299
SUNSCREEN
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Folks, listen up! Here’s
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Shiseido Clear Sunscreen
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BLUSH STICK
A long-lasting, one-sweep
blush stick for that instant
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PIXI On The Glow Cream
Blush, `1,950
LIP OIL
Want a glossy lip tint without
the stickiness? This lightweight
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worth the hype.
Rare Beauty Soft Pinch Tinted
Lip Oil Joy, `2,400
2. THE PREP
A week before, I stopped using skincare
What to with active ingredients because things
like retinoids and AHAs/BHAs can make
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meadowfoam seed oil, apricot
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Kit—this handy mix of in a tussle between feeling sticky and very,
concealer, tint, illuminator, and very dry, which is when we got our hands on
setting powder is the dream Neal’s Yard Remedies’ Women’s Balance Body
travel bag. And the formula, Cream and instantly fell in love with it. This
made with beeswax, castor- aromatherapy blend, formulated with
jojoba-apricot-rosehip oil, and macadamia oil and omega-rich sea buckthorn
cocoa butter, is perfect for the oil nourishes, softens, smoothens, and
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Barely There Concealer, `1,299; Glowlight will definitely stand the
Cream Illuminator, `1,399; A Touch of Colour And, extra credit for zero stickiness.
Multi-use Tint, `1,299; Soft Touch Loose 12-hours stress test.
Powder (above), `999, All from Bindt Beauty
YOUR CURL ER A IS
CALLING
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Anastasia Beverly
Hills, `5,800 what works for you. The Body Shop’s Jamaican Black Castor
oil hair care range—a 100 per cent vegan formula made with
Jamaican Black Castor Oil, Community Fair Trade Shea Butter
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cared-for, silky, defined curls. The Cleansing Conditioner
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to stay, this time with more than the simple from Body Shop
white and silver glitter and instead a softer,
more playful palette. Playing to this love for all
things sparkle is Anastasia Beverly Hills’ latest
Cosmos Palette. Inspired by the galaxy, this
12-shade palette has a mix of highly-pigmented
matte and glitter shades, which offer great
room for artistic exploration. We’re especially in
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C H I L LO S O P H Y b y
PRITHI MONGA and
S I L K Y A H L U WA L I A
Just believe in the vision you have and have no
regrets. All you need to do is go with the flow.
At the age of 40 (that’s when we both started),
we were mothers and housewives. But the
2
idea to launch a brand was to do something
for our daughters.
RADHIKA
SONI by
RADHIKA
SONI
Honestly, every day is a
learning because I am
a one-woman army as it
is a new brand. I don’t
have a massive team;
I manage everything
myself. So from
designing to production
to execution, everything
is done by me.
3
Q U A b y D I V YA
A G A R WA L
The one thing I want to tell people starting
their own brand is to be confident and believe
in yourself. There will be tough days and
difficult roads to traverse. Get a co-founder
on board since it is hard to do things on your
own. You need all the support you can get.
4
FOR MORE GREAT STORIES, VISIT COSMO.IN JULY-AUGUST 2023 COSMOPOLITAN 45
fast glam
5
THERE! by
A N K I TA
BANSAL
AND
G AYAT R I
MALLIKA
BANSAL
The biggest learning
in business has been
knowing how to create
a safe environment
for everybody who
works with us. Also,
as someone launching
a brand, take that
chance on yourself.
6 7
H O P P I N G C H I D I YA b y
K A N U P R I YA A H U J A
ASNANI
Never restrict yourself. Don’t think about things
such as ‘who will buy my product?’. Just keep
hustling and eventually it will all work out. The only
thing you need is to put your heart and soul into it,
be true to yourself and to what you’re doing.
PREEVIN
DESIGN by
P R I YA N K A
B AT R A
Just be confident, believe
in yourself and you can
achieve whatever you
want in life.
10
BRIJ BARI by
S WAT I M I T TA L
and AANCHAL
M I T TA L
Just be strong, consistent and
persistent. Don’t give up based
on market trends. It is very easy
to give up and lose interest in
the whole process.
fast glam
11
K I LC H U b y
AKANKSHA
R AT H O R E
Be sincere and do what
you believe in. If you
are a plus-sized person
and hardly find the right
garment size, it is best
to create that [size] first.
The opportunity is right
there. You don’t need to
go by what other people
are doing or what the
popular thing is.
A C R E ATO R S
12 STUDIO by
S O U M YA
WA D H WA N I
Once the foundation for a brand is
set, you can never know how quickly
things pick up or come shattering
down. So don’t worry about being
late, about time, your age, or about
not knowing a thing...because
everything can be figured out.
13
N AT VA b y A N A N YA G A B A
It is important to just go ahead and take the first step without thinking
a lot about it. Even if you don’t know everything about launching a
business, you will get the hang of it eventually. Just try new things
because execution is very important.
15
ENN by
N A N D I TA
M A N C H A N DA A
As a founder, you have to be
passionate about what you
want to do. Otherwise, you
will quit in no time.
M A E b y J AY E TA
ROHILLA
Stay stubborn. It is not easy
and people will try and sway you
because they’re trying to look out
for their interests. But the reason
you are starting your business is
because you have a vision. If you
are going to keep changing it, then
it won’t really be your
business anymore.
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M E LT b y A R U S H I
PA R A K H
Go slow. It takes time to figure out HOUSE OF KEISHO by
what you want to do, what you want H E E N A S U R I TA N E J A
to say, and how you want to say it. It There were times when I couldn’t fulfil
is important to say it in a way that is the demands of the customer. So, as a
authentic and true to you. founder, you should be well prepared. Also,
remember that your quality matters.
T H E S LO W S T U D I O b y A S M I TA
KULSHRESHTHA
If you’re going to start a brand, understand your client through and
through, like the back of your hand. People and customers are even
more conscious and understanding of fashion these days than we
give them credit for.
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19
G I O I A b y D I K S H A B H AT I A
We usually wait for the right time to start a brand and
before we know it, we haven’t even taken a step. So, I
would say, just start your brand, and then figure things
out along the way.
TWINKLE
20 H A N S PA L
by TWINKLE
H A N S PA L
I feel it is very important
to find your own design
language. Because if
someone else is already
doing something, there
is no point in creating a
similar product as you
will never stand out.
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D ’ YO U b y
22 SHAMIKA
HALDIPURKAR
The biggest learning that has
helped me sail through this
journey would be resilience.
Resilience and grit are two
very important qualities
to have.
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TWENTY
NINE by
S A N G I TA
G U P TA
If and when you build a
brand, make it a point
to be passionate about
it to an extent that it
becomes the only thing
you do. You need to
make sure that you just
focus on the same.
25 HOUSE
OF FETT
by ESHA
BHAMBRI
Concentrate on the
product. Everything else
will fall into place. If the
product is good and
viable, the other things
will not be a problem.
26
E A RT H R H Y T H M b y
H A R I N I S I VA K U M A R
Entrepreneurship is about taking risks at the right
time. Also, it is a very lonely journey. If you have
27
someone to just be with you—a friend, a partner,
or someone else—grab them right away; the TINKA TINKA
entrepreneurial journey only gets lonelier with time. b y I S H I TA
YA S H V I
AND SUDHA
YA S H V I
Don’t go with what
you think you want to
do. You have to see
whether the consumer
needs it or not. It is
important to research
and understand the
market, and find out
if there’s a consumer
problem you are trying
to solve as a company.
30
MEDIUM
by RIDDHI
JAIN
S AT I J A
Be honest, keep
a sense of play
alive in almost
everything that you
do. Also, keep on
experimenting and
try to bring out
new things.
31
MOIRRA
by RAMIKA
AHUJA
I practise Buddhism
and we are always
encouraged to make
our own destiny. This is
something that I wanted
to promote through my
brand and through my
story. I promote positivity
towards destiny, and that
is important.
32 AMOSHI by
A R U S H I C H AW L A
There will be days when you will
not even feel like getting out of bed
because things won’t work in your
favour. But on such days, don’t give
up. Take it one day at a time.
33
H E A RT U P M Y S L E E V E S
b y R I YA K H AT TA R a n d
C H A N D N I K H AT TA R
If you have an idea, and if you think you have the mind
to execute it, just go for it. Women who are entering
this industry are afraid of putting their ideas out. So
don’t be afraid and just listen to your heart.
35
SKINOREAL by
SREEJA SHRESTHA
I think motivation is overrated and
discipline is underrated. You need
to have the ability to stick through
because you’re not going to be
motivated all the time. But if you’re
disciplined, you are going to see the
change. So that is something that you
know, and can move forward with.
34
JUNISA by SARU
GARG
Don’t ever get demotivated. Don’t
gauge your success with just one
37
collection. If a collection does not
E T E BY N I K I TA TA N E J A
Nothing comes easy. You have to really work
work, just go forward and make
hard and give your 100 per cent to your brand.
something new. What is most
Also, your team is your responsibility; work really
important is providing value to
hard because they depend on you.
the customer.
38
39
TRUE BROWNS
b y U D I TA
BANSAL
Perseverance is key. There will
be many days when you feel
low, but stay at it. Because
when the time is right and the
L A FA A N I opportunity knocks at your
by door, you should be there on
DRISHTI the other side to open it.
MODI
No matter how
difficult the
situation gets
around you, if
you truly have the
passion for doing
something, you
will get through it
somehow.
41
VA N I T Y WA G O N b y
40 NAINA RUHAIL
The biggest challenge while building a brand is
getting people to trust you. Securing funds can be
another challenge along with building the right team.
Focus on these challenges early on.
R E FA S H b y
AKANKSHA
KAILA
AKASHI
It is important to have a
unique voice...I think just
being true to who you
are, and looking within
yourself to find your own
voice is necessary.
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45
B A D C O M PA N Y
43 COSMETICS by
B H AV N A A H U J A
Be agile; this is a very
dynamic market. You need
to be on your toes to
troubleshoot ideas every
single day.
A DA G I O
b y S U TA A
ARVIND
YA DAV
Consistency and
discipline are very
important. Also,
starting a brand is a
lot of hard work; make
sure you have the
passion for
your product.
46
D I E R M E I S S BY
THE DRAGON
L A DY b y J YOT I
SINHA
Consistency is the most
important thing; you just
cannot give up. You’ll always
think about whether I am going
in the right direction—but
just have patience. Don’t
start a brand unless you are
absolutely sure about it.
47
A LITTLE
EXTRA by
DIKSHA SINGHI
I think you need to be a good
person to be able to run a
business. My biggest learning
is to invest in people. Also,
action is more important than
everything else.
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W E AV E R S
S TO RY
b y S WAT I
M A L H OT R A
We should look
at every product
from a global
perspective. I think
as a brand, you
have a responsibility
towards craft
and have to stay
authentic.
NECESERA by RIDDHI
JAIN and SUDIKSHA
JAIN
Try not to be stuck up on an idea.
Be fearless and honestly, believe
in yourself because there will be a
49 number of people who will come and
pull you down.
S WA R O O P BY S WAT I
B H AT I A b y S WAT I
B H AT I A
Whatever I have learnt during the course
of my entrepreneurial journey has
been all by myself. So, if you believe in
something from the start and have the
52
vision to do it...just go ahead and do it.
50
MAISON DE
F O U Z DA R
by DIMPLE
F O U Z DA R
Avoid creating cookie-cutter
products—understand your L AVA N YA A H U J A b y
USP and then go ahead and L AVA N YA A H U J A
build that brand. I think having a clear vision in your mind
about the aesthetic of your brand is very
important. Also, it can be very tempting
to experiment but learn to stay true
to your vision.
NASHIONAL
PERMIT
by NEHA
PA N D E Y
55
It is important to just
LITTLE THINGS
take that step and
STUDIO by
then, from there, it’s
A N K I TA
your journey...you
S R I VA S TAVA
Focus on what you genuinely
make it! There will be
feel about in fashion, and
ups and downs for
how genuinely you care
sure, but that’s life.
about what’s happening in the
industry. Also, just be yourself
out there.
53
54
DUSALA by
SUGANDHA
KEDIA
Branding is important, but
eventually you also need
to make money. Also, your
story should be your hero.
56
KNGN by
KANGAN
KHANNA
Don’t try to put your
customer in a box. You
never know what might
work and what might
not. Customer research
is important, definitely...
but don’t try to
restrict yourself.
57
AMAMA by
N I K I TA G U P TA
Be at it...do not let go of your passion even for
a day. You will have to treat your brand like your
baby who needs nurturing every day.
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Z I D D I b y PA L L AV I
L A LWA N I a n d
M A LV I K A L A LWA N I
Having a co-founder is great as
working together can be very
helpful...you get to do a lot more SUHI & SEGO by SEJAL
than you would have been able to G OYA L a n d
by yourself. Find somebody who I S H A A N I G OYA L
will understand exactly what you The most important thing is to talk to your
want to do. customer—it can give you insight into what
you need to do, and that is the only way to
grow your brand exponentially. Q
Nothing To Hide
We’ll be thoroughly transparent—PVC handbags, clear footwear and
see-through jewellery in striking iridescent tones might be the only
way to stand-out this season.
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Transparent
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slingback
pumps,
Charles & Keith, Oversized sunglasses,
`8,499 Tom Ford, `22,000
Isabella Sandals,
Cult Gaia, `33,700
Sunglasses,
Giorgio
Armani,
`23,090
Lucite Sandals,
Steve Madden, `15,000
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but Make it Hot
These trends will ensure those fire emojis are thrown right at you.
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DIOR
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“The piece I’m wearing is from a
conscious fashion label named
APZ by Apoorva Gupta. I love
that it’s tailored to perfection
and screams luxe. Being a
minimalist, I like classic pieces
with a unique twist, and that’s
exactly what drew me towards
this bold power suit in the most
stunning rust colour. The fact
that most of APZ’s outfits are
one of a kind, crafted in limited
edition styles and fabrics is
what makes these pieces akin
to collectibles. I, for one, make
sure to add one piece to my
wardrobe each season, and I’ll
wear it a 100 times over yet
cherish it through the years.”
ANKI TA R A I
T I WAR I, MO DEL
“I picked an all-black fringed
dress by a new and emerging
homegrown brand called
Limoncello—it was love at first
sight for me when I saw their
silhouettes, fabrics, and print
choices, and it will be so for any
modern woman. Not to forget
the attention to detail that makes
their designs stand out. I love
how they cater to everyone from
chic to edgy. I wanted to pick an
outfit that’s minimal yet bold and
this low back, sexy black number
defines my effortless style, my
mood, and personality, all at once.
A short black dress can be so
basic but the fringe placement and
the neckline add so much oomph,
character and glam to it.” Q
LOUIS VUITTON
ACNE STUDIOS
SANDY LIANG
VALENTINO
VALENTINO
MOSCHINO
ASAI
Take A Bow
Get set to have a ‘knotty’ affair as the statement bow
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is having its moment RN.
By Shubhangi Jindal
ANIYE RECORDS
SIMONE ROCHA
MICHAEL KORS
SANDY LIANG
CORMIO
HUISHAN ZHANG
MALAN BRETON
SANDY LIANG
BORA AKSU
VALENTINO
MELKE
PINKO
I
t is time to get ‘knotty’ as fashion officially enters vibe. Off the runway as well, we witnessed celebrities such
a flirtationship with the humble bow and all its as Florence Pugh, Elsa Hosk, and Tamannaah Bhatia take
stylish associations. Think dramatic, ultra-feminine, a liking to this fancy sartorial element.
oversized, and even delicate...there’s a stylish knot Want to opt for something bold? Take a cue from Acne
for every IT-girl to flaunt this season. The bow aka the Studios to pin your bow slightly off-kilter or from the ones
ultimate symbol of the girly-girl does not have to merely at Victor&Rolf that spelt chic, not schoolgirlish. You can
accentuate your pieces—its ultra-chic iterations also help even choose from a mix of the two as was done by ASAI.
channel main character energy like never before. On the opposite end of the spectrum we witnessed models
The message on the runway is clear: Go big or go home! at shows for Simone Rocha and Cormio walk down the
Designers such as Moschino, Nina Ricci, Valentino, runway adorning a subtle interpretation, adding dainty
among others, added gallant bows to tops and dresses, bows to give their looks an elegant update. We’ve got
reinterpreting them in vivid folds to create groundbreaking you covered no matter what the look—prim, preppy, or
looks. Lacey bow collars and pussy bows added a whimsical even chic schoolgirl style. Embrace nostalgia as you pay
twist at Huishan Zhang and Bora Aksu, while others such heed to designers who fashioned a beribboned moment
as at Melke and Aniye Records brought about a punk-like this season. Q
VIKTOR&ROLF
SOPHIE COUTURE
ZUHAIR MURAD
BALMAIN
GUCCI
NINA RICCI
GMBH
VALENTINO
Verona Platform
Sandals, Isa Beaded
Charles & Keith, Heart
`12,499 Piccola Top, Clutch, Doux
Malie, `4,500 Amour,
`10,499
Lilah Medium
Quilted Bag, Michael
Kors, `28,000
Hot pink sequin
mini dress, Dash &
Dot, `4,990
Coraline Handcrafted
Stud Mini Skirt,
moonray, `12,500
Mixed Fruit
Bracelet, Olivia
Dar. ` 11,000
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Tote, Stem,
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Hunkemöller, Shoulder Bag,
`4,595 Cult Gaia, `33,999
T Timeless
Shopping Bag,
Tod’s, price on
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Green bikini
top, Ted Baker, White abstract
`2,500 print swimsuit,
Vero Moda,
`3,299
SHIVAN & NARRESH
Crochet floral
slingback
sandals, Charles
& Keith, `12,999
PRISCAVERA
SANAH
MALHOTRA, 34
“I had picked up
this pastel floral
dress from a
boutique shop in
Milan. This time,
I’ve teamed up
the number with
striking pink heels
from Zara and
a vibrant green
Bottega Veneta
Bag—it makes the
look more fun
and playful.”
RASHMI
CHAWLA, 24
“The floral vest
is reminiscent
of my childhood
memories as
I picture my
grandmother
knitting floral
motifs. The look is
super-relaxed; it is a
mix of modern and
cottage core.”
Street
Style
We took the battle of the best-dressed
to the streets, and were so impressed
CHATANYA KUMAR, 22 by your style picks.
By: MANVEEN GULIANI
SHANAYA JOSHI, 23
“The play of different
hues in this outfit:
a denim-on-denim
jacket, maxi skirt, and
a knot-tie top, makes
a cohesive yet ‘stand
out from the crowd’
statement look. To me,
street style is really just
what you make of it.”
ISHITA
CHOPRAA, 24
“This outfit exudes KHUSHI KARKI, 19
confidence and “I am wearing a striped
sophistication, long pants with a matching
while also adding striped sleeveless
a playful twist to waistcoat, paired with
the classic formal a casual white crop top
look. Street style underneath, which makes
for me is all about for a casual-chic look.
stepping out of my The silver accessories, an
comfort zone and elegant watch, and a smart
embracing vibrant brown leather bag further
colors with unique accentuate my outfit.”
combinations.”
fast glam
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such a sport
n observation most millennials I have I do...in fact, I don’t look at it as a job. Of course,
spoken to have about twentysomethings sometimes it can get overwhelming. It is a lot of fun to
is how comfortable the younger cohort constantly be around my team as well as in front of the
is in their own skin—they come armed camera...I feel it is an extension of me.
with confidence unlike the generations
before them. It was no different with C: We started this shoot early [at about 8:00am]. Are
Shanaya Kapoor while on the set of Cosmo India’s July/ you a morning person?
August cover shoot—also her first-time ever as cover girl. SK: Honestly, I am not a morning person at all (laughs);
“Can someone play Rihanna’s songs?”—was the only I’m a night owl. When the lights are out in the house and
demand she made, and we obliged. In the hours that everyone’s in their respective rooms, that is when I’m
followed, Shanaya—she’s not even a movie old, mind wide awake. That’s also when I munch on something and
you—brought forth, for want of a better word, main rewatch the films that I’ve already watched a million
character energy. Later, as I sat down to interview the times...I keep rewatching scenes—mostly from Hindi,
23-year-old, I gauged a sense of ease that one would English, and sometimes even Korean films—time and
mostly correlate with the concept of ‘older and wiser’. again. Recently, when I was shooting [in Mysore] for my
Here’s a girl who is self-assured (credits to her Scorpio film [Vrushabha], I would wake up and watch scenes
personality as well?) and insightful. However, she from Devdas, which is one of my favourite films. I have no
mentions that she didn’t develop this self-belief overnight. idea why I do it (laughs). While I’m definitely not a
Over the last five years, she has learnt to distance herself morning person, waking up to be here for a cover shoot
from the rat race and is unfazed by the unnecessary is exciting.
chatter because she is focussed on her own goals. And she
intends to keep it that way. C: So, what’s your day like?
Read on as Shanaya talks about her passion for the SK: On days when I’m not shooting, I wake up early and
craft of acting, how she’s one step closer to her dream, attend dance class—here, I get to switch off and be free. I
and more. feel very confident looking at myself. Dancing is about
expressing what I feel and it is an art form that
Cosmo: It was your first cover shoot ever, and that’s I have worked on for a couple of years now. I’ve restarted
got to be memorable, right? How do you feel my Kathak classes, so I’m currently dancing on songs
right now? from films such as Pakeezah (1972) and Umrao Jaan
Shanaya Kapoor: The experience has been amazing (1981). I’m also exploring belly dance as an art form; it
because I’ve worked with a team I know, and that makes helps me understand a different culture altogether. Then
so much of a difference. Also, being a part of Cosmo there’s Bollywood, of course...right now I am going
India’s cover shoot helps me connect with an audience through the entire Katrina Kaif playlist—I am a big fan.
that’s close to who I am [age-wise]. I always feel that the
projects you are a part of should reflect who you [as a C: Given you hail from a family of actors and
person] are so you get to showcase a side of you. This filmmakers, there must have always been immense
cover has allowed me to do just that. So, I’m happy. pressure about bagging the right project for your
debut. Did you worry about these things while
C: I’m curious to know—who is Shanaya as a person? growing up?
SK: I think that my personality revolves around my SK: I am from a film family and I acknowledge that...but
work a lot. I am extremely passionate about the job that I didn’t have any massive pressure from my parents or
facing the camera, you have to be thick-skinned, and SK: Everyone has their ups and downs no matter the field
when you are facing the camera, you need to be they are in. But, it [this constant scrutiny] is something that
vulnerable. It is important to keep that balance. I am I have signed up for so I am not going to sit here and
never going to lose my vulnerability; I am never going to complain about it. These things overwhelm me and even
completely become this rock-solid person with blinders make me feel nervous, both in a good way. In fact, I am just
on as if I don’t feel anything. I honestly don’t want to lose grateful that I have not even started out yet and I don’t feel
that side of me either. These are things that I’m constantly like I deserve it at this point, but it is happening. So, I’m not
working on. going to sit and complain that it exhausts me or upsets me.
But yes, when it comes to trolling, it is something that you
C: Let’s talk about your style—what’s it like? learn to snap out of because it is a part of your job in a way, so
SK: Comfort is important to me, but I’m also very you can’t really do anything about it.
passionate about my looks. When I go for important I am not all confident every day, every second...there are
events, I am ready to sacrifice comfort for when I want days when I’m feeling really low and insecure. But I
my look to express what I feel. However, on a day-to-day constantly remind myself that I am here to face the camera
basis, you’ll find me wearing sweatpants or denim shorts and to work hard. I am here to be a part of the industry—
with a tank top. That is my personality—I’m laid-back, acting is an art form that I’m really passionate about. This
chilled out, and slightly tomboy-ish...I’m very sporty. My noise is just a part of it, but that’s fine because the end game
style is minimal and easy-going. is worth it. Like I said, I built this mindset over the course of
a few years after I turned 18.
C: You’re an addition to the Puma family,
congratulations on that. Tell us about the C: So, what would the 23-year-old Shanaya tell the
association and what one can expect from this 18-year-old Shanaya?
partnership. SK: Chill out (laughs) and be patient, your time will come
SK: For me, being part of Puma is, firstly, about wanting when it has to. Everyone’s journey is different and
to send out a message to the younger generation (my everyone has their own destiny. So, keep your head down,
generation), especially to the girls that it is okay to be keep training and working hard. Keep working on
yourself—be chilled out, be a little goofy, and mess up a yourself and also reminding yourself that you are here for
little bit. Also, it’s okay if your day, your look, your hair, or the art form and not for the noise—don’t let that mess
skin is not perfect all the time. with your head. When it does, just shut it off.
My association with Puma is also about me showing my
sporty side—not many people know that I was extremely C: Apart from doing good work and being part of
athletic when in school. From participating in races, great projects, what would you like to achieve
playing basketball to being part of long jump and shot before turning 30—which is a long time from now!
put...I have done it all. Puma [her association with the SK: There is a lot I want to do. When I graduated from
brand] will allow me to showcase that [sporty] side of me, school, I had a clear-cut plan—but nothing happened. It
and I am excited for people to see that. was my destiny, and I realise that when the timing is right,
things will happen. There is always a reason for
C: We recently celebrated International Friendship everything. So now, I don’t have a plan in place. I want to
Day, and at Cosmo India, we believe that female be part of great projects, I want to be the best version of
friendships are extremely important. Friends often myself, and I want to work harder tomorrow than I have
have healthy competition—is it the same for you? today. I want to keep pushing my boundaries and be
SK: I am constantly learning from my friends [who are in versatile as a performer. Also, I want to launch my own
the same field] because they understand what happens on business later in life—I am very passionate about
set, on social media; they know the feeling of being skincare. I have always dealt with acne-prone skin; it was
rejected, feeling insecure, or even overthinking at times. my biggest insecurity and it still is. Yes, I am a confident
We are always there for each other. I am constantly girl, but while you’re growing up, having acne doesn’t
learning from them and that is what motivates me. I would make you feel good. When my skin changed, I felt happy
say healthy competition is also about constantly pushing about myself. But, yes, I remind myself that it is
each other to be your best versions. And, as friends, we keep temporary. It doesn’t affect me much now, but it was such
doing that. an important phase that I went through. So, I want to tap
into skincare eventually because it is something that’s
C: We live in times of constant scrutiny, and the close to my heart. Q
privacy of celebrities is a thing of the past. Does the
constant chatter and prying exhaust you, and how Hair: Mike Dasir; Make-Up: Riddhima Sharma;
Fashion Assistant: Stacey Cardoz
do you deal with it?
C’mon...Let’s
Hear It! For the world’s first-ever ASMR shoot, Cosmo India
quizzed nine creative individuals about the sounds that
have a calming effect on them.
Photographs: Kushal Gandhi
NARGIS FAKHRI, Actor CI: What is the last thing you laughed at on the
Internet?
Cosmo India: Do you believe in astrology? NF: “A super-hilarious compilation of cat and dog
Nargis Fakhri: “Back in the day, when I had an videos.”
astrologer read my birth chart, he was fairly accurate
about a few of my personality traits during my childhood CI: Do you believe in fate...or do we chart our own
and young adult years. I do believe in astrology; astrology destiny?
gives you a time frame for what you NF: “We should hold ourselves
should be doing at certain points in accountable for the happenings in our life,
your life, based on planetary
positions and whatnot.”
Ocean waves and what we do with it... I believe in the
power of manifestation; we do exercise
crashing some control over our lives. We must focus
CI: And has any astrological on what we can control, and do our best to
prediction about your life against the move forward.”
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come true?
NF: “While I thoroughly enjoy tarot
shore, the CI: Tell us about the sounds that have
card readings—and even possess my rustling of a soothing effect on you...
own set of cards—no particular NF: “Ocean waves crashing against the
prediction has actually come true.” leaves... shore, the rustling of leaves, birds
chirping, crickets buzzing, and the purring
CI: Any particular videos that of a cat, to mention a few.”
you are watching on YouTube
these days? CI: How was your experience shooting for the first-
NF: “I love watching educational videos—doctors ever ASMR cover?
discussing the latest discoveries in the medical field, NF: “It was a lot of fun shooting with Cosmo India for the
psychology and human behaviour, holistic healing, and so ASMR cover. I have watched a few ASMR videos in the
on. I find esoteric, metaphysical stuff interesting as well.” past, and I find the concept to be very interesting.”
tours. I also keenly watch food recipe videos so that I can have
my chefs recreate those dishes at home.”
ALI FAZAL,
Actor and Producer
Cosmo India: Ali, tell us about the sounds
that have a soothing effect on you...
Ali Fazal: “The crunch of a Ferrero Rocher
chocolate, the sound of my breath when I
meditate, the crackling noise of [tearing] paper,
my face against the pillow, and the sarota [betel
nut cutter] in my grandmother’s hands cutting
the dali [nut] for paan [betel leaves].”
The crunch of a
Ferrero Rocher, the
sound of my breath
when I meditate...
CI: What does date night look like for Ali and
you?
RC: “When we travel for work, every night becomes
a date night; it is fun being away from
responsibilities, and the limelight, for a while.”
DIIPA BÜLLER-KHOSLA,
Digital Content Creator and Founder of Inde Wild
Cosmo India: Tell us about the first memory of your birthday.
Diipa Büller-Khosla: “The first memory is a bit hazy and I don’t remember the year,
but I faintly recall celebrating it with my family in my hometown. I was so happy
wearing a pink dress, and have a number of photographs from that day.”
CI: What is the one thing that you focus on when celebrating milestones in
your life?
DBK: “The focus is always on the occasion rather than the extravagant celebrations.
Because, in the end, it is all about creating beautiful memories together. And I believe
in keeping it simple and meaningful. I enjoy celebrating with my family and loved ones
because I am always happy around them. I involve my community of followers, too, as
they have supported me since the beginning of my journey.”
CI: Are there any particular sounds that have a calming effect on you?
DBK: “Sounds of nature such as ocean waves or raindrops have a relaxing effect on me.
Even listening to calm music while practicing meditation helps create a peaceful
ambience and makes me feel at peace. Also, my daughter’s [Dua] laughter brings me
immense joy.”
CI: What made you laugh the last time you were scrolling on
My daughter’s your phone?
DBK: “It was probably a funny reel that I stumbled upon; I love
[Dua] laughter watching reels and TikTok videos as they never fail to bring a smile to
brings me my face and provide much-needed comic relief when the days are
hectic. In this fast-paced digital world, it is wonderful to have these
immense joy. bite-sized moments of laughter at our fingertips.”
CI: Lastly, how was your experience shooting the world’s first-ever ASMR
cover?
DBK: “Exploring the world of ASMR was something I had never done before, and I
am glad I had the opportunity to do so. That is why shooting this digital cover was such a
unique experience. It introduced me to a new immersive way of connecting with my
By SHAMBHAVI DUTTA; Styled by: ZUNAILI MALIK
audience, which was both relaxing and enjoyable. The process was fun, and I enjoyed
creating content in a way that offers a new kind of sensory experience.”
CI: What do you enjoy doing when you are free? CI: Tell us about your favourite hobbies.
PV: “I enjoy taking care of and nurturing my plants because it PM: “I love educating myself
makes me happy and offers a sense of fulfillment as I watch on various topics and I
them grow and flourish. And since I am someone who is deeply I actually particularly enjoy reading
fascinated by the vastness of the Universe, learning about its articles on genetic testing and
mysteries fuels my curiosity and leaves me struck with like the historical features. I even like
wonder.” going through Reddit gossip
tumbling threads as I binge-eat in the
CI: Are there any sounds that are soothing to you? sounds comfort of my bed. Lastly, I
PV: “Some of my favourite sounds include birds chirping, love to plan an adventurous
which also signals the beginning of a new day. Also, the gentle of the itinerary for us; it gets me
rustling of leaves on trees as they sway in the breeze outside excited.”
our home. Even, classical music has a calming influence on my washing
state of mind. Lastly, the sound of heavy rain because it helps machine. CI: What are the sounds
me introspect and serves as a reminder of nature’s power.” that are soothing to you?
PM: “I actually like the
CI: Tell us about the last thing you laughed at on the tumbling sounds of the washing machine and even
Internet... the sounds of long hair being brushed. It reminds
PV: “I follow this page on Instagram me of my summer vacation when I’d brush my
Classical known as Recess Therapy—the grandmother’s hair.”
team interviews children across age
music has groups, and asks them simple, CI: What is the last thing you laughed at on the
a calming fascinating questions. The responses Internet?
by these young minds are hilariously PM: “I saw a video of Rakhi Sawant dancing at the
influence entertaining, but also surprisingly airport terminal...I admire her confidence and
thought-provoking.” indefatigable ability to entertain not only us but
on my state herself, too.”
of mind. CI: What’s on your YouTube
watch list? CI: What are videos you watch on YouTube?
PV: “Spiritual videos are a PM: “I enjoy videos on spiritual discourses, food
significant part of my routine because spiritual concepts help vlogs, music, travel, health or anything I want to
me with my growth. I also enjoy watching videos that focus on learn about. I also enjoy watching YouTube shorts as
space exploration and astronomical discoveries. I also like it offers bite-sized, engaging content to its users.”
By SHAMBHAVI DUTTA; Styled by: ZUNAILI MALIK
CI: How was your experience shooting for the world’s first ASMR
covers?
NNM: “Never in my life did I think I would shoot an ASMR video
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only in cosmo
C: How was your experience shooting for the first-ever ASMR cover?
SA: “It was really interesting and unique... It gave me a great sense of how rapidly
technology is changing, and how we need to move with the times.” Q
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What is the
Orgasm Gap,
Actually?
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I
f you open any porn tube site heard the narrative that men don’t
and click a video starring a man care about women’s pleasure, and
and a woman, chances are, she’s sure there’s a few out there,” but,
writhing around in pleasure The other “gap” is between Mintz says, research shows that most
seconds after penetration (and she’s heterosexual and queer women; men do care about the pleasure of
almost certainly being penetrated). women who have sex with other their female partner. Although for
She’s also most definitely orgasming women report more frequent some, it can be more about affirming
before her male partner(s). Despite orgasms (no surprises there!). In their own masculinity than pleasuring
being almost ubiquitous in porn, most a study into orgasm frequency by the woman.
women will tell you this scene doesn’t sexual orientation, straight, gay, and The Orgasm Gap is a cultural issue,
look like their own sexual experiences bisexual men were more likely to say Mintz believes, and in part a product
at all. they usually or always orgasm during of societal views that devalue women’s
The Orgasm Gap, sometimes called sex (95%, 89%, 88%, respectively), pleasure. “[Men] have been duped
the Pleasure Gap, is a term coined while lesbians reported a rate of by the culture, just like women have,”
in the early 2000s, to describe the orgasms similar to that of men (89%). she says. “They watch movies or porn,
difference in frequency of orgasms Bisexual and heterosexual women which shows women having these fast,
achieved during sex between cis men were the least likely to report always fabulous orgasms from penetration
and cis women (although some of the or usually climaxing—at 66% and 65% alone.”
first studies suggesting a gap were respectively. In fact, research shows that only a
done in the 1990s). Spoiler alert: When looking into the experiences few percent of people with vaginas
There’s a big difference between the of bisexual women, the gender of orgasm from penetration alone—
two experiences. And the odds are not their first sexual partner also played a only 18% say vaginal penetration
in women’s favour. role in whether they were more likely makes them climax. Yet, penetration
But why do women orgasm less to report always or usually reaching is considered to not only be the sole
than men? Are we just hardwired to climax. “When their first time hookup aim of sex, other sex acts are often not
be harder to please? Or is it more to partner is a woman, they orgasm even considered to be sex. As women,
do with what sexual pleasure looks like 64% of the time,” explains Mintz, we constantly find ourselves asking,
for women? We spoke with UK-based instructing me to hold my breath “what really counts as sex?” because,
sexuality psychologist Dr Laurie before she reveals the difference. according to the data, we are cumming
Mintz, author of Becoming Cliterate: “When their first hookup partner is a way more solo than we’re with our
Why Orgasm Equality Matters—And man, [it is] 7% of the time.” Wow, just male partners.
How To Get It to find out more about 7%.
the Orgasm Gap. As of yet, there appears to be very ARE MEN REALLY ENJOYING SEX
little research into how the Orgasm MORE THAN WOMEN?
WHAT IS THE ORGASM GAP? Gap plays out for trans people. Florence Schechter, founder of the
Overall, men are far more likely than Not only does this mean we don’t London-based Vagina Museum and
women to say they ‘always orgasm’ understand the full extent of how the author of the book V points out that
during sex. In fact, there’s a long Orgasm Gap affects all women, this the suppression of women’s sexual
line of studies and data from all over data could go a long way to help dispel desire throughout history contributes
the world that suggests women are the myth that biology is behind the to the lack of importance given to our
climaxing less frequently. deficit of women’s pleasure. This is yet orgasms today.
Mintz explains that we’ve historically another example of how cisnormativity She says that historically, while
put the orgasm gap down to women’s can hold us all back. women of colour were portrayed
bodies being “difficult”. She says: as being sexually aggressive, white
“But two other gaps make it clear WHAT CAUSES THE ORGASM GAP? women were pathologised as
that [the problem] is the culture and So, if it is not just because vulvas are “hysterical” for expressing what was
not our body. When women pleasure tricky or because (cis) women don’t considered “excessive” sexuality. We
themselves, 95% reach orgasm easily know their bodies well enough to still see this today in both slut shaming
and within minutes.” climax with a male partner, what and the fetishisation (and increased
causes the orgasm gap? rates of sexual violence against)
While it might be tempting to chalk women of colour. FYI: There is also
it up to a skills deficit among men,
Mintz cautions against this. “I’ve
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a lack of research around how the Orgasm Gap is lower in countries with gap is not something we can do
orgasm gap affects women by race. comprehensive sex ed. overnight, and women still deserve
But does all this mean that women Mintz adds, “Having the media more pleasure in the meantime. And
don’t enjoy sex or want to have sex? portray women’s pleasure accurately, while it may feel counterintuitive,
Absolutely not. We’ve been sold a showing clitoral stimulation instead Mintz believes that focusing less on
lot of myths around female sexuality of showing women having fast and orgasms may help address the gap.
and all of them make the Orgasm fabulous orgasms with one thrust “Adding a destination (an orgasm)
Gap worse. alone. Are we going to fully close it to the route (sexual intimacy) is
Even our language around sex till we dismantle the patriarchy? No, important, but maybe isn’t like the
contributes to the Orgasm Gap, we’re not. [The gap] is a reflection of most important part, right?” she says.
Mintz says. “We use the words sex the male gaze.” Closing the orgasm gap doesn’t
and intercourse as if they’re one How can we expect people to have mean women’s pleasure needs to
and the same. I often say if women’s equal orgasm or sexual pleasure mirror the narrative around men’s
pleasure were the number one when they’re working the “double pleasure—that sex is a journey that
priority, we would call foreplay sex shift”, taking on the lion’s share of ends with an orgasm. “To me” Mintz
and intercourse post-play. But even childcare and housework outside of says, “it means that the way we most
our language reflects and perpetuates their nine to five, more likely to be reliably orgasm is considered to be
this devaluing of women’s pleasure. affected by the cost of living crisis, ‘sex’ just as much as the way men most
Foreplay is just an act leading up to and worrying about what might reliably orgasm.” And that doesn’t
the main event,” she explains. happen if they get pregnant? have to mean P in V, it could really
This phenomenon even gets down Unfortunately, dismantling the look like anything, what matters is that
to how we discuss our own bodies. As systems that perpetuate the pleasure it counts. Q
Mintz points out, up until recently, the
vast majority of people referred to the
entire genital area as the ‘vagina’ (and
many still do). In actuality, the vagina
is the internal part of genitals whereas
the vulva—the outer part of the
genitals (including the labia majora
and minora, and the most sensitive
part of the clitoris) is linguistically
erased, despite it being key for most
women’s pleasure.
“We’re calling our entire genitals
by the part that’s more sexually useful
to men rather than to ourselves. So
yes, underneath all this is sexism,
patriarchy, the devaluing of female
pleasure,” says Mintz. “It is a
reflection of men’s sexuality being
overvalued and women’s being
feared, devalued.”
G
oing on your first date is going on our first date all over again. You About Sex, Relationships and
a milestone experience; But dating as a queer person can be Bodies. “Many of us can feel quite
it’s as intimidating as it is tricky - particularly as there’s no social overwhelmed when we first start
exciting. But, that delicious script for how a date is supposed to go. dating as queer people because we
mix of anxiety and excitement is While rules of dating may be outdated, might have a sense of excitement and
something you only get to experience we often ask ourselves, if there are two giddiness about finally exploring the
once, right? After all, how many times boys or no boys, who’s supposed to ask kinds of relationships we want to have,
can you go on a first date? out who? If you’ve previously been on or we might have a lot of anxiety and
Well, if you’re queer - the answer “straight” dates (although, it’s feel a lot of pressure for our
might be ‘more than once’. While not a important to remember that dates relationships to go right.”
universal queer experience - especially between people of different genders To help you navigate your first queer
as more people are able to come out aren’t necessarily straight), it can feel date, we asked Milly and Moe Ari
and be themselves at younger ages - even more scary to jump into the Brown, a therapist and Hinge’s Love &
many of us went on our first date as a world of queer dating. Connection Expert to give us their top
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version of ourselves that didn’t reflect “Queer dating can sometimes be tips. Here’s what they told us…
who we really are, or who we really more intense and there often aren’t as
love. After we’ve come out (and many many unspoken ‘rules’ as there are for Lay out your
of us have several “coming outs” as our non-queer dating,” says Milly Evans, a expectations early
understanding of ourselves develops), queer sex educator and author of “Even before the first date, it is so
we get to experience the magic of HONEST: Everything They Don’t Tell important to be clear about the type of
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relationship you’re looking for by out in the mirror. Then, you’ll exude
having an “expectation check.” After we’ve come confidence and self-love when you’re
According to Hinge’s recent
LGBTQIA+ Date Report, 71% of
out, we get to on your date. Most importantly, you’ll
feel good about how you’re expressing
trans daters already do this!” says Moe.
Hinge’s report also found that
experience the yourself.”
LGBTQIA+ people on the app were magic of going on It’s your choice when you
more open to non-monogamy and disclose your gender
other relationship styles, with 15% our first date all identity
saying they are exploring different
relationship models. So, whatever
over again. For trans and non-binary people,
when to disclose your gender identity
you’re looking for - whether it’s casual, is an important decision - particularly
serious, monogamous or not - it’s Choose a safe venue when thinking about your safety.
important to be upfront. Choosing a date venue can be tricky; No one is entitled to information
you’ve gotta think of the ambiance, an about any person’s identity or
Be present in your body activity, and how far you should travel. anatomy. However, intentionally
Your first date as a more authentic and And for queer people, there are other choosing to disclose your gender
open version of yourself might feel logistical hurdles to consider. identity on your profile or in early
exciting and a little overwhelming - “LGBTQIA+ people aren’t always communication can help you sort
which can make it hard to focus on the embraced in certain spaces, and “bad through dates who would not be
person in front of you. To deal with energy” can throw off a connection. arming or supportive much more
this, ‘try to be connected to what’s Checking in with one another about quickly,” advises Moe.
going on in your body’ and don’t worry where you feel safe and celebrated “Sharing your gender identity early
about being ‘good’ at queer dating, can help you create a first date that on can also support intentional
says Milly. relaxes you both,” says Moe. conversations about how you wish to
“Like all dating, it might be a be treated and your dating intentions.”
brilliant date, or it might not. Just Wear something that Dating is about connecting with
because a date doesn’t last for hours, makes you feel aligned and likeminded people who you feel
or you’re not sure if it’s more of a let’s- confident attracted to, so don’t second guess
be-friends vibe than something more, “For many gender-expansive people, yourself and remember, this is
that doesn’t mean it wasn’t a good date clothing that doesn’t allow them to supposed to be enjoyable for you.
or a helpful learning experience.” express themselves in a way that feels Sure, when we go on a first date we
aligned can be a source of real want to impress the other person to
Take the pressure off discomfort,” says Moe. some extent, but in this situation,
Because we *still* have to fight so “This can also make it hard to be remember that impressing someone
hard for our identities and sexualities present and feel good about yourself. I comes second to how comfortable and
to be recognised and accepted, it can recommend wearing the thing in your authentic you feel, and how much you
feel like there’s a pressure to prove closet that has you checking yourself feel you can enjoy the process. Q
that your queer relationships are just
as valid and good as non-queer ones.
Plus, if you’ve had to deny your real
self, it can be tempting to rush into
relationships to make up for lost time
or to prove your queerness to others
or to your community.
“We put a lot of pressure on queer
relationships (and sex) to always be
good, and I’ve noticed that many
people question their own identity
when a relationship doesn’t work out,
rather than considering that it just
didn’t work out with that person,” says
Milly “Take the pressure off by being
open to all outcomes and exploring
this new side of dating.”
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t’s just so tempting. All those happy memories. All that
major problem?
great sex. And your ex really knows you, you know? Plus,
Well, we had only One Big Thing that
dating around again can feel like a colossal challenge,
we could never resolve.
and said ex seems sincerely willing to try again...Look,
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we get it. We truly do. Which is why we consulted relationship
Maybe, but I’m willing to do whatever
therapists Leanna Stockard and Laura Heck to bring you
it takes to fix them.
a pretty definitive answer. Add up your points and let this 6 points
expertise guide you to making a decision.
Nah. We’ve grown a lot during our
time apart.
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We asked the experts...
By Olivia Blair and Chloe Bowen
F
izzy water has long been
heralded as a healthy drink
choice. One to turn to once
you’ve finally weaned
yourself off that hardcore Diet Coke
addiction. Or when you’re trying to
keep hydrated but are getting bored
AF with plain old tap water. It is water
after all... It might be fizzy, but it’s still
water, right?
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My Job Is
Destroying
My Mental
Health...
but the
Pay Is
Great.
WTF Do
I Do?
Advice columnist
and therapist Minaa
B. on what happens
when your financial
well-being comes
at too high a price.
DEAR MINAA,
Most of my career has been temp
work—zero benefits, measly pay—but
now I have a permanent position and it
is a major relief. I am an administrative
assistant at a hospital and I love the
job. But my boss? An unbelievable
micromanager. When I am knocking out
paperwork, she asks for updates every
hour until it is in her hands. And she What sucks even more is that those It sounds so high school, but I was
continues to monitor my every move, co-workers aren’t great either. They bummed out.
despite regularly acknowledging that have been here for years and are super My mental health has taken a serious
I’m a hard worker. It has started to make cliquey. I gathered the courage to hit with all this—yet I am making the
me doubt my abilities. It’s not just me— ask three of them out to lunch, and best money of my professional life. I’ve,
other colleagues have started pushing they each gave me a separate excuse of course, interviewed elsewhere...but
back, challenging her authority on the and declined. At noon, I watched nowhere that pays as much. Should I
daily, and things have gotten heated. them leave together for the cafeteria. stick it out for the money or GTFO?
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I live with this for another year and a half?' Depending
on what’s on your list, you might realise that you can
deal until you find a high-paying job somewhere else.
Ask yourself, 'Can I find But if it feels too daunting and you know you just can’t,
any of these perks it’s likely not worth pushing through.
someplace else?' Now, the pros. It is great that you’re making more
money than you ever have! But what other perks
are there? Are you learning skills you can use in the
future? Are the company’s healthcare benefits really
freaking good? For each positive, ask yourself, 'Can
I find this someplace else?' If the answer is yes, keep
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out for while you interview for your next gig. You can
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styles to see if you’ll mesh.
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force a relationship with this group. It sounds like you’ve
made a big effort to get to know them, and if it is still
worth it to you, maybe give it another shot. But if you
get the same response, make peace with the fact that
these are people you’ll have surface-level conversations
with—and that’s okay. Accepting these relationships for
what they are could make your life easier for the long
term...or at least until you find a better job. Q
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India about their culinary journeys, the trends in the F&B industry, and
their major takeaways.
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and Goa to test the idea of a Burmese
restaurant. These were huge hits. I then
approached my school friend Chirag Chhajer
with the idea and we opened the first Burma
Burma restaurant in 2014 at Kala Ghoda,
Mumbai.
Since 2014, we have grown to seven
restaurants across Mumbai, Delhi NCR,
Bengaluru and Kolkata, and are all set to
launch in Ahmedabad and Hyderabad in the
next couple of months in addition to a new
location in Bengaluru.
At Burma Burma, we constantly strive to
retain the authenticity [of the dish] and ensure
that the flavours and techniques are on point
and are reflective of the country that inspired
us. To bring a bit of Burmese cuisine to
people’s homes, we also launched the Burma
Burma Pantry and our own range of artisanal,
small batch ice creams. We have a brand-new
menu as well—it’s one of our biggest and most
extensive menus yet.
There are plenty of new and exciting things
ANKIT GUPTA , Co-founder, happening in the food space right now. Many
Burma Burma micro and niche cuisines are coming to the
forefront along with real stories around them.
“My connection with Burma began right from childhood—my Instead of menus being vast and
mother and her family grew up in the country. She then moved to multi-cuisine, they are now toning it down to a
India after her marriage, but her Burmese roots had a great influence limited selection of dishes that are well
on me. I remember her cooking Burmese food for us at home, and it thought out and perfectly executed. This is
was an integral part of my childhood. We had a separate pantry filled because people are travelling much more
with Burmese ingredients, and friends and family would drop by for within India and are open to exploring new
Burmese meals prepared by my mother. All of this inspired me to cuisines and looking for authentic
delve deeper into Burma’s culture and culinary landscape. experiences.
In 2011, I travelled to Burma along with head chef Ansab Khan to Another trend is of single product-centric
explore the idea of a specialty restaurant. While travelling across spots—so, if there is a place that offers
Burma, it is common to come across a wide range of vegetarian croissants, there would be just seven eight
dishes. We recognised the significance of this vegetarian aspect of the different offerings of croissants with a few
cuisine and felt it was crucial to showcase that through our menu. dishes offered on the side rather than a full
After returning from the trip, we held several pop-ups in Mumbai café-style menu.”
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AVANTIKA BAHL, Founder and rising number of
MD, KAMPAI people travelling
and being exposed to
“I am passionate about cooking and enjoy experimenting diverse cultures and cuisines.
with different cuisines and ingredients. Cooking is a This adventurous spirit is not limited to restaurants alone;
cherished pastime for me. The idea of Kampai is to it extends to bars as well. Curated cocktail concepts are
showcase a contemporary interpretation of Japanese gaining popularity and finding success in the market.
cuisine, with commitment to authenticity and precision These concepts offer unique and carefully-crafted drink
in the cuisine. We focus on authenticity and providing a experiences, appealing to consumers who are seeking
traditional Japanese experience with quality food something beyond the traditional bar offerings. The
offerings. Overall, the experience at Kampai aims to emergence of these trends signifies a positive shift in the
transport you to the streets of Tokyo. F&B industry.
Following its success, we embarked on further My advice to someone looking to start their own
expansion. Currently, we have a second location at DLF restaurant would be to avoid being lured solely by the
Promenade, Delhi, and we have several more openings glamour and enticing facade of the industry. While it may
planned this year. appear glamorous from the outside, it is crucial to enter
One notable trend that has caught my attention is the this field out of a genuine passion for F&B rather than for
increasing experimentation with newer cuisines and the external allure. Embark on your journey because you
concepts in the F&B industry. It seems that there is a have a deep love for the industry and the work it entails.
growing acceptance in the market for fresh ideas. My recommendation is to find your niche, discover a
Whether it is the introduction of Japanese cuisine, unique concept that hasn’t been explored in the market
Vietnamese dishes, or even the fusion of different yet, and differentiate yourself from other competitors by
concepts from Singaporean cuisine, there is a willingness doing so. By pursuing your passion and carving out a
among consumers to explore and embrace novel culinary distinctive space for yourself, you will stand out and gain
experiences. This trend can be attributed, in part, to the recognition for your work.”
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KANISHK TUTEJA,
Director, Flying industry can be challenging, but with dedication, attention to detail, and
continuous innovation, success is attainable.
Sparrow Hospitality My vision is to establish our cafes and restaurants as the epitome of
quality-driven dining, where customers can savour the best of
“My earliest memory of food goes global cuisines and standards right here in India. I aspire
back to my childhood when my to expand our presence across the country,
mother used to prepare delicious introducing more people to exceptional culinary
meals for the family. I remember experiences, while never compromising on the
being fascinated by the aromas and premium products and high-quality service that
flavours that she crafted in her define our brands. Additionally, I want to
kitchen. Also, cooking is my passion continue pushing the boundaries of innovation
and a way to stay connected with the and sustainability in the F&B industry, setting
diverse culinary world. I find joy in a positive example for others to follow.”
experimenting with global flavours
and incorporating them into our
restaurant menus.
Those early experiences ignited my
passion for food and inspired me to
pursue a career in the F&B industry.
My first restaurant venture was 1
Oak Cafe & Bar, Delhi...I opened it
with a focus on serving comfort food
with a modern twist. It was a humble
beginning, but it allowed me to gain
valuable experience in the industry
and learn the intricacies of running a
successful eatery. We aimed to serve
unique fusion dishes using premium
ingredients, setting the foundation for
our commitment to offering the best
culinary experience to our customers.
The emerging trend in India’s F&B
industry is the increasing demand for
international cuisine prepared with
top-notch ingredients and global
standards. Customers are now
seeking authentic and quality-driven
dining experiences, which align
perfectly with our vision. As the
Indian palate evolves, we will be
exploring lesser-known international
cuisines with a focus on authenticity
and premium ingredients. We are
excited to lead the way in introducing
our customers to these delightful
flavours.
An advice I’d give to young
entrepreneurs is to remain
committed to delivering the highest
quality in every aspect of your
restaurant business. Embrace global
influences and offer an extraordinary
dining experience that exceeds the
expectations of your guests. The F&B
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RIZWAN AMLANI, Partner,
Mezcalita we aimed to strike the right balance and appeal to a
broader customer base. Beyond the menu, we focused on
“My first restaurant was called Del Italia, Mumbai—I was creating an immersive and inviting ambience that
21 then, and we were trying to do something reflected the vibrancy and warmth of Mexico. The decor,
path-breaking by serving wood-fired oven pizza for the music, and overall atmosphere were all carefully curated
first time outside of a five-star hotel’s restaurant. We also to enhance the dining experience and make Mezcalita
launched a grappa-based beverage menu at a time when stand out as a destination restaurant. Ultimately, we
no one had heard of it. We even launched prosecco in believe that a successful restaurant is built on a
India. These were all exciting experiences. It was only combination of factors. While a unique concept like
after this that I went to culinary school to become a chef. Mezcalita certainly helps in attracting initial attention,
I ventured into opening the Mexican restaurant consistent quality in food and service, genuine hospitality,
Mezcalita [Mumbai] after Dope Coffee. By introducing and an understanding of the local market are crucial in
authentic Mexican dishes and carefully-crafted Tex-Mex order to sustain success in the long run.
creations, we have tapped into a growing demand for These are things that apply to aspiring chefs wanting to
international flavours while maintaining a distinct identity. enter the industry too. Passion for food is essential
As a restaurateur, you can certainly hope for success, because the food industry can be challenging, demanding,
but I know that success in the restaurant industry is never and highly competitive. Gaining hands-on experience is
guaranteed. However, we believed that Mezcalita had the equally crucial. Work in a kitchen, a restaurant, or any
potential to thrive for several reasons. We recognised the food-related establishment to understand the day-to-day
growing interest in global cuisines among the operations, learn from experienced professionals, and get
cosmopolitan population of Mumbai. Mexican food’s bold a feel for the industry’s pace and demands. This
flavours and cultural appeal were relatively experience will provide invaluable insights into the
underrepresented in the city’s culinary landscape, intricacies of running a food business and help you make
presenting an opportunity to fill a niche and cater to a informed decisions when you start your own venture.
diverse audience seeking unique dining experiences. Also, keep an eye on the latest developments in the
Additionally, by adapting some dishes to suit the Indian industry, attend workshops, and network with fellow food
palate while retaining the authenticity of Mexican cuisine, enthusiasts and professionals.”
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MANIK KAPOOR, Director, spirited as ever, a testament to the enduring adoration for
Gola Sizzlers our delectable sizzlers and our welcoming ambience.
In today’s dynamic culinary landscape, the younger
“Throughout my time in the food industry, and from my generation has an insatiable curiosity and enthusiasm for
very childhood, I have enjoyed an array of culinary exploring international flavours, and embracing culinary
delights across cuisines. Yet, it is the soul-nourishing experimentation. While their adoration for the rich craft
meals crafted by my mother that I have the fondest of Indian cuisine endures, they revel in the art of infusing
memories of. Her culinary creations—beautiful with a it with innovative twists, elevating traditional dishes to
profound essence of simplicity—continue to fascinate my captivating new heights.
palate. There is also a growing consciousness towards health,
It was about 37 years ago when my father embarked on which is why the dining choices are changing.
a journey to the United States. There, he witnessed the For those aspiring to venture into the food industry, I
exuberant joy with which people relished sizzlers—a would say that your success lies well within your grasp if
culinary delight that sparked a brilliant idea within him. you have genuine intent. In this pursuit, allow patience to
We contemplated venturing into restaurants and unfurl as the master key that unlocks the doors to
embraced the vision of introducing sizzlers to India, achievement.
offering an enticing array of flavours to tempt the taste Also, learn to navigate the twists and turns of the food
buds. Our inaugural restaurant found its home in the industry’s dynamic landscape, trusting that the fruits of
vibrant heart of the city, Connaught Place. The love and your labour will ripen with time. Embrace the lessons
appreciation showered upon us by our patrons have been offered by challenges and view setbacks as stepping
nothing short of heartwarming. The footfall remains as stones towards growth.”
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PRIYANK SUKHIJA, Founder, are looking for complete immersive experiences when
they go out. It is no longer just about the food, or the
First Fiddle Restaurants music. Now, they want an experience that indulges all
their senses in harmony, from the ambience and vibe to
“I recall an unexplained excitement as a child whenever the food and cocktails. This trend will only become bigger
we would go out to eat, or when we’d try new restaurants as more brands jump on the bandwagon. In fact, I am
and cuisines during our travels. I think, subconsciously, I excited to see newer concepts and experiences come up
aim to be able to create a similar feeling of child-like across the country.
giddiness in my patrons when they think about visiting Also, technically-advanced foods or the use of sciences
one of my brands. to create interesting tastes and textures is another trend.
I grew up indulging only in fine dining. Back in 1999, We’ve touched on this trend with Wolf’s Cocktail Lab,
there was only fine dining for the industry and hence, my Delhi, and the response has been phenomenal. People
first restaurant Lazeez Affaire was also a fine-dine have really taken to ‘experimenting’!
restaurant...catering to a market that was already For those looking to start a business in the F&B space,
well-versed with the concept. Even though Lazeez the only advice I have is ‘don’t be afraid to try’! If I have to
Affaire received immense love from Delhi, I didn’t feel walk away from this industry after having been in it for
completely at ease. It was during one of my travels that I more than 20 years, I will walk away with the knowledge
discovered casual dining and brought the concept to my that I have failed a lot more than I have succeeded. But I
hometown. There’s just been no turning back since. would have never succeeded and reached where I am if I
The one trend that will dominate the F&B industry is hadn’t failed. The key is to analyse your errors and ensure
experiential dining. More so after the pandemic, people that you don’t repeat them.”
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VISHNU MIDHA, Founder,
Zooey Indian cuisines. Restaurants are now offering traditional dishes as
well as cocktails from different states, showcasing the diverse
“We launched our family’s first business culinary heritage of our country. There have been cocktails on offer
venture, Uber Lounge, back in 2011...while with flavours, ingredients, and names of different states of the
I was still studying. Ours is a casual dining country, and people are absolutely loving it.
space where one can just sit back at ease, The country has seen growth in plant-based food and healthy fast
relax, and have never-ending conversations. food. Plant-based proteins such as soy, quinoa, chickpeas, etc., have
Later, I joined the family business in 2015. been gaining traction as well. Also, with busy lifestyles, there has
What was meant to be a destination where one been an increasing demand for healthier, convenient food options
could party became a space where I felt like and that is what has led to the rise of healthy fast-food concepts with
I belonged. a focus on fresh, nutritious ingredients and customisable meals.
Being a part of an already operational When starting a business, it is important to stay passionate about
restaurant helped me quite a lot as I received your craft and embrace innovation. Along with this, it is also
insight into how the industry operates and important to gain hands-on experience in the food industry through
understood the challenges and opportunities. internships or part-time jobs at restaurants, cafes, or any food
It was also a means for me to build a network establishment. This will only help provide you insights into how the
of contacts. industry operates, as it did for me. By working in the industry, you
I think, over time, there has been great also get the chance to learn from experienced professionals; you get
appreciation for regional and indigenous an understanding of different roles and aspects of the food business.”
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VANIKA CHOUDHARY,
Chef and owner, Noon
and Sequel
“My first restaurant Sequel was born out
of a desire to radically change my life. I
launched Noon that is a modern Indian
fine-dining restaurant that reimagines
Indian cuisine through ancient practices
with contemporary interpretations.
Before taking the leap and pivoting to
the restaurant industry, I was overcome
by fear of failure and thought I might not
have the courage to bounce back if I did
fail, but these moments that truly shaped
me. This is what I’d like aspiring chefs to
know too—there is no balance, you have
to be driven by your own conviction to
follow it through.
Both my restaurant concepts have
stemmed from a need to spotlight the
intricacies of the farm-to-table
movement in India. Very soon, I think
that we’ll see the spotlight shift to the
farmers themselves. My food philosophy
stems from a desire to retell the story of
our ancestors and what they learned
through foraging and other processes.
There is much to learn from what our
predecessors ate—it’s a culture that we
can’t afford to lose, and I want to
preserve it for future generations. India
is so diverse, but our understanding of
the cuisine is quite limited and
generic—I think that over the years there
will be a growing awareness towards
micro cuisines. We are a country that’s
blessed with diverse culinary traditions
and we need to do more to preserve this
wisdom. This principle is integral to what
we are doing at Noon, as we strive to
create a movement that is dedicated to
moving forward while cherishing what
has been passed down through
generations.” Q
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1 CUCUMBER CITRUS SMOOTHIE
FROZEN MARG
The Smoothie
Add a handful of peeled orange slices, ½ of a peeled
Williams Sonoma margarita lime, a few frozen mango chunks, ¼ of a cucumber
glass, champagne flute, bulb (chopped), and a handful of ice to a blender. If you’re
tumbler, williams-sonoma. feeling spicy, throw in a few jalapeño slices. Splash in
com. Crate & Barrel bitty some lime juice and blend.
glass, crateandbarrel.com. The Cocktail
Feste punch glass, lovefeste. Add a squeeze of simple syrup and a couple ounces of
com. Misha Kahn cocktail tequila blanco to the above and fire up the blender.
straw, mociun.com. Hey Add more simple syrup and/or tequila if desired.
Harper ring, heyharper Rim a glass with salt or sugar and pour in the mixture.
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2 DARK BERRY SMOOTHIE
BLACKBERRY BOURBON SMASH
The Smoothie
Blend together 2 handfuls of frozen blackberries,
then add in 1 handful each of frozen blueberries,
raspberries, and strawberries (oh my!). Throw in a
couple of fresh mint leaves and a squeeze or two of
lime juice and blend again.
The Cocktail
Pour your blended beverage into a glass, add a glug of
club soda, and 1 ounce of bourbon (or more,
depending on how you’re feeling), and mix with a
spoon or straw. Drop a mint sprig on top if you want to
get fancy.
3 MANGO PEACH SMOOTHIE
SLUSHY BELLINI
The Smoothie
Throw 2 handfuls of frozen peach slices and 1 handful
of frozen mango chunks into a blender. Add a solid
pour of either peach or apple juice (or both—you
make the rules) and hit that power button.
The Cocktail
Pour the smoothie mixture into a fun glass until it’s
halfway full. Top with sparkling wine and gently stir.
Garnish with a peach slice.
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Leo Libra
23.07–22.08
The tail end of Cancer 23.09–22.10
season is, as always, a Right now, you’re living
in the spotlight, which is
real bummer. But with
Mercury entering your
Virgo both good and bad. On the
sign (it happened on July
23.08–22.09
Wow, you’re somehow
one hand, your hard
professional work will be
Scorpio
11), it might feel like you 23.10–21.11
becoming a social rewarded; on the other, if
are waking up. Now that Cancer season
butterfly? Send a you fail at something,
Leo season has arrived, should have been
thank you card to everyone will notice.
it’s all about you. Don’t about broadening
Cancer season and do Luckily, things are about
count on finding a your horizons, so
your best to embrace to get way
birthday boo though, we hope you’ve had
your outgoing side. easier and more fun now
because it is also Venus the chance to travel
Especially bc it won’t that Leo season has begun.
Retrograde. (Sorry!) (even if it’s just a
last forever: Leo
day trip to a few
season has brought
towns over). With
people you want to
Leo season, it’s
avoid (romantic,
gonna be a whole lot
platonic,and
of (very important)
work-related exes)
work all the time.
back around.
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Sagittarius Capricorn Aquarius
22.11–21.12 22.12–19.01 20.01–18.01
Cancer season has you It’s cuffing season for Work took over your life
deeeeep in your feels, you, Cappy, and that during Cancer season, Pisces
as with Mars entering goes for both your love but now with Leo 19.02–20.03
Virgo, try to draw all life and your season, you will be able O oh-là-là, Piscean!
your focus to work. While friendships. Spend as to focus on your Earlier, you might
you might be tempted to much time as you can romantic relationships have been feeling extra
ignore your emotions with the people who instead. Usually, this is romantic, sex being
and dive straight into the mean the most to one of the best times of even better than usual,
spreadsheets, try your you...and not just the year to DTR, but in and whatever you did,
best to find a balance. You because it is cute. 2023, Venus Retrograde you were having fun.
can do this, bb. You’re going to need makes you just as likely Now that Leo season
their support this Leo to run into exes. Be has started on July 22,
season, which has you prepared. your number one (and
feeling extra emo. only) priority is getting
organised and
working hard.
Taurus
20.04–20.05
You might seem
stuck between a
Cancer
21.06–22.07
rock and a hard HBD! With the
Aries
place. You want to
go, go, go but the
Gemini Sun and
21.05–20.06 Mercury were still in
21.03–19.04 universe is telling Things might have your sign, and the
Your love life might you to wait, wait, picked up pace as world was yours.
have been hot as wait. Try to hit Mercury moved into With Leo season, you
hell, thanks to Venus pause and recharge. Leo in the middle of have to get back to
and Mars in fiery Take a look back at July, kicking off one of the daily rise and
Leo. And the good how far you’ve the most social times grind. Free advice:
vibes have only come, and work on of the year. One Keep an eye
become stronger a plan for your problem: Watch out for on your finances and
thanks to the start of future. drama with ex-friends resist the urge to
Leo season. It’s a
and frenemies who splurge.
work hard, play
might have
hard,
reappeared during
all-eyes-are-on-you
Venus Retrograde that
time of year, Aries,
happened in late July.
and you are
understandably
loving it. Have fun!
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last word
Sunnies On Fleek
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