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Scenario 3 How To Kiss A Woman v2
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How To Kiss A Woman BY Kate Spring
A man and woman are sitting on a couch together. Maybe they’ve
just finished a dinner date and have decided that they wanted
to continue hanging out by chatting back at his place, or maybe
they’ve both planned on a Netflix evening and chill. Either way, this
is a potentially intimate setting and one with the possibility that
something more than holding hands might happen.
As you can see here, Tim and Ericka are sitting on the couch. He
should arrange it so that there isn’t much space between the two of
them. For example, a good way to go about this would be for Tim to
sit down first, and then for him to place his right arm on the back
of the couch and, using his left hand, pat down the seat to his right
to indicate that Ericka should come and sit down in his embrace. If
he sits in the middle of the couch, he has cut the potential distance
between them in half.
If that’s too forward for you, no worries. We can also start just sitting
side by side. Before any of this though, it’s important for you to get
into the habit of hugging as a greeting. The hug counts as kind of
your warm up and lets her know that there is a physical component
to this relationship. It’s also establishes a comfort zone in which
intimacy can occur.
How not to proceed in this scenario is if you just sat down, didn’t
say anything and didn’t touch her at all and then, all of a sudden,
out of nowhere, leaned in for the kiss. That would
be a shock to her. You want to use this
opportunity to tease her before you
actually give in and kiss her. At this
point, the idea is to be working on
the gradual yet natural build up
to smooching. Excitement and
sexual tension are heightened
by anticipation. So don’t rush.
The first one that I would look for is what I call “The marshmallow
move”. This is when a woman is leaning into you like Ericka is
to Tim here. She’s formed to him like a melted marshmallow just
sticking to him. This also means she’s leaning on you and into you;
she’s getting more and more comfortable with you.
This also has to do with how you sit. If you lay down at one
end of the couch with your feet facing her, you’re
sending off the vibe that you’re not into her
and you’re more into your comfort and the
movie. Your legs shouldn’t be crossed;
your posture should be relaxed and
inviting. Your body posture sets the
stage for her to relax too.
This is when a woman is making any and every excuse that she can
to touch you. When a woman touches you and makes flirty excuses
to touch you, she might be wanting you to escalate things. When
her touch becomes more and more frequent, that too is
an indication that she wants you to touch her.
For example, if a woman sits up straight and pushes her chest out,
she’s emphasizing her breasts, which is one of
the most obvious sexual differences
she’s hinting that things could and
should get a little hotter.