COMMUNICATION ISSUES IN

MARRIAGE.
COURSE CODE: GNS102.
COURSE TITLE: USE OF ENGLISH II.
GROUP D MEMBERS:
ADENIJI ABOSEDE REBECCA FUO/22/0673
AYANLOWO DEBORAH OLUWADARASIMI FUO/22/0643
ALAO HASSANAT AJOKE FUO/23/0506
DASHO ELIZABETH OPEMIPO FUO/22/0534
FASASI HAMEEDAT TOYIN FUO/22/0372
OLAMIDE AZEEZAT OMOLARA FUO/22/0693
OJENIYI OYINKANSOLA VICTORIA FUO/22/0478
OYEKANMI BASHIRAT OYEBANKE
FUO/21/0151
NINIOLA STEPHEN DAMILOLA FUO/22/0709
INTRODUCTION TO COMMUNICATION
ISSUES IN MARRIAGE.
Communication refers to the exchange of information,
ideas, thoughts or messages between individuals or
groups through verbal and non verbal means.
Communication can involve various channels such as
speaking, writing, body language, gestures and facial
expressions. It is a fundamental aspect of human
interaction and plays a crucial role in building
relationships, resolving conflicts, sharing knowledge and
achieving collective goals. Effective communication
requires clear expression, active listening and mutual
understanding between the communicators.
Poor communication can lead to misunderstanding,
misinterpretations, and breakdowns in relationships and
organizational efficiency.
Marriage is a legally recognized union between two
people who make a commitment to each other and share
their lives together. The specifics of marriage can vary
widely between cultures, religions and legal systems.
 Marriage is a wonderful institution where two
individuals come together to form a long life bond of
love, trust and companionship. However like all
relationships, marriage s also faces challenges. One of
the most common challenges that married couples face
is communication issues.
Effective communication is the foundation of every
healthy relationships , especially in marriage. It enables
the couple to express their thoughts, feelings, and
emotions thus creating a strong bond and respect.
However, when communication breaks down,
misunderstanding, conflicts and unhappy marriage are
the results.
Communication issues can stem from a variety of
sources such as different communication styles,
personality differences, cultural differences and past
experiences. Communication is a critical component of
any marriage. Issues can arise when couples struggle to
express their feelings, needs and perspectives to each
other.
 Therefore, it is important for couples to recognize and
address communication issues in their marriage to
maintain a healthy and loving relationship.

TYPES OF COMMUNICATION IN
MARRIAGE.
There are several types of communication in marriage.
These includes:
1. Verbal communication (talking and listening).
2. Non-verbal communication (body language, eye
contact and tone of voice).
3. Written communication (text messages, emails and
letters).
Effective communication also involve active listening,
empathy and ability to express oneself in a constructive
and respectful manner.
IMPORTANCE OF COMMUNICATION IN
MARRIAGE.
Communication is essential in a marriage because:
1. It allows partners to connect.
2. Builds trust.
3. It allows partners to understand each other better.
4. Promotes emotional intimacy.
5. It fosters a sense of framework.
6. It helps couples navigate life changes.
7. Resolution of conflicts.
Without good communication, misunderstandings,
resentments and conflicts can arise, which can
damage the relationship.

COMMON BREAKDOWNS IN
MARRIAGE.
The common breakdown in marriage varies depending
on various factors like personalities, communication,
financial stability, trust issues, infidelity, lack of intimacy,
and unrealistic expectations. Some of the most common
causes of breakdown in marriages are:
1. Lack of communication: When couples fail to
communicate effectively, it leads to
misunderstandings, arguments and conflicts.
2. Financial issues: Money problems are one of the
most common reasons why couples argue. Debt, lack
of savings, and different financial goals can put a
strain on the relationship.
3. Infidelity: Cheating is a major trust breaker in
relationships and can lead to the breakdown of
marriage.
4. Lack of infidelity: Physical intimacy and emotional
connection are crucial in maintaining a healthy
relationship. When couples lose their spark or stop
being affectionate, it can lead to feelings of neglect
and frustration.
5. Different goals and values: Couples who have
different life goals or values may find it challenging
to reconcile their differences, leading to conflicts and
separation.
SIGNS TO SHOW MARRIAGE HAS
COMMUNICATION ISSUES.
Here are some signs that your marriage may be
experiencing communication issues:
1. Silent treatment.
2. Misunderstandings.
3. Criticism.
4. Talking about trivial issues.
5. Stonewalling.
6. Ignoring each other.
7. Lack of empathy.
8. Not listening.
9. Making assumptions.
10. Avoiding conflicts.

CAUSES OF COMMUNICATION ISSUES.

There are many things that can prompt communication
issues in marriage. Some causes includes:
1. Differences in communication styles: Each partner
may have a unique way of communicating or
expressing themselves, which can lead to
misunderstandings or confusion.
2. Lack of attention: lack of attention in marriage can
be caused by a variety of factors, such as busy
schedules, stress, communication breakdowns,
conflicts, and changes in priorities.
3. Misunderstanding: This can happen when couples
don’t communicate effectively or don’t fully
understand each other’s point of view.
4. Lack of openness and honesty.
5. Use of negative language: negative language can be
detrimental to communication in marriage because
it tends to create a defensive and hostile
environment.
6. Avoiding difficult conversation.
7. Criticizing and blaming.
8. Not expressing appreciation.
HOW GOOD COMMUNICATION CAN
IMPROVE RELATIONSHIPS.
Good communication is essential for building and
maintaining healthy and strong relationships. When
individuals are able to effectively communicate with
each other, it can lead to a variety of positive
outcomes that contribute to the overall quality of
relationship. Here are some ways in which good
communication improves relationships:
1. Understanding.
2. Conflict resolution.
3. Trust and honesty.
4. Emotional intimacy.
5. Mutual respect.
6. Collaboration and support.
7. Strengthening connection.
It’s important to note that good communication
involves both expressing oneself honestly and
actively listening to others. By practicing
effective communication skills, individuals can
create an environment that fosters
 understanding, trust, a deep connection, leading
to happier and healthier relationships.

TIPS FOR EFFECTIVE

COMMUNICATION.
1. Be an engaged listener.
2. Express yourself.
3. Pay attention to non-verbal signs.
4. Control your emotions.
5. Make intentional language choices.

HOW TO FIX COMMUNICATION ISSUES

IN MARRIAGE.
1. Tell each other what you want rather than what you
don’t.
2. Respond with each other’s statement of needs with
open-ended questions.
3. Express appreciation and gratitude to a listening
spouse.
CONCLUSION ON COMMUNICATION
ISSUES IN MARRIAGE.
In conclusion, communication issues in marriage are
common and can be challenging to overcome. However,
it is essential for couples to recognize and address these
issues to build a strong and healthy relationship. By
understanding each other’s communication styles,
practicing active listening, having open and honest
conversations, avoiding criticism and blame, and
expressing appreciation, couples can improve their
communication and strengthen their bond. Effective
communication is the key to a successful marriage, and
it requires effort and commitment from both partners.