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Social Self Notes
Social Self Notes
Social Self Notes
Self-Control
- How we understand our ability to exhibit self-
control and delay gratification
- Response inhibition and delayed gratification
- Respponse inhibition: recognize a potential
behavior before it occurs and stop initiation of
behaviors that could result in undersired
consequences
- Delayed gratification: process of forgoing
immediate or short-term rewards to achieve
Charles Horton Cooley (1964) suggested that our self- more valuable goals in long term
concept comes from looking at how others respond to - Ex. Marshmallow test
us. Looking at how others seem to view us and interpret - Takes years to develop but begins in early
this as we make judgments about whether we are good childhood. Delay gratification for longer periods
or bad… - After forming initial self-concept, we may use = resilience, academic and social competence,
existing self-concept as a mental filter screening out and planning ability
those responses that don’t seem to fit our ideas of who - Poor delayed gratification = poor self eating self
we are (negated compliments as ex.) regulation, eating when not hungry and
- When we feel more sure of who we are, we behavioral problems
focus less on how we appear to others
Guide Questions: In what ways can we see or associate
2. Mead’s I and Me our daily interactions with other people in our lives?
George Herbert Mead (1967) how we develop a social (We are conscious of how we appear to others) How do
sense of self by being able to see ourselves through the we perceive and provide meanings to certain situations
eyes of others. Two parts of self (1) I – part that is not we encounter in everyday life? (We perceive based on
concerned with how others view us, spontaneous how we see ourselves based on how others see us, our
creative innate (2) me – social definition of who we are response is affected by them) What does “The
- When we are born we are all I and act without Presentation of Self in Everyday Life” want to imply in
concern about others view but socialized self the way we portray ourselves in our daily living? (We are
begins and we consider how one important composed of the interplay of our own I and Me, it is in
person views us our part that social self already has a part in us)
- Mother telling child that pulling a cat’s tail is
bad and child mimics this in latter time.
Asynchronous Activity: Write a 50-word reflection
essay for each reading material for this week.
Exaggerated Sense of Self
Separate document of reflection paper per article.
- One of the ways to gain a clearer sense of self is
Submit it through a pdf file version and use the
to exaggerate those qualities that are to be
specified format below:
incorporated into the self
- Preschoolers that exaggerate their own qualities
- 12, Arial
(not understanding their limits)
- Will be replaced by more realistic self sense in - 1.15 spacing, Justified
middle school as they realize limitations
- Allowing capability exploration and authentic - Short Bond Paper
child feedback