Personal Relationships
- refer to close connections between people,
formed by emotional bonds and interaction
Kinds of Personal Relationship
- Family related by birth, marriage, or
adoption, and who lived as one
household
- Friends a close tie between two
people, mutual experiences, shared
interests, and emotional bonding
- Partnerships built upon affection,
trust, intimacy, and romantic love, e.g.
marriage, romantic partnerships.
Aspects of Personal Relationship
- Relationships - the way in which two
or more people or concepts are
connected or in a state of being
connected.
- Personal Relationships - refers to
close connections between people
(between friends, lovers, and family
members) exemplified by shared
understanding, mutual trust and
social bonding.
- Love - it is a strong affection for
another arising out of kinship or
personal ties or affection based on
admiration.
- Commitment - the act of binding or
engaging yourself to a course of
action.
- Attraction the act, power, or property
of attracting.
- Responsibility a form of
trustworthiness • it is the trait of being
answerable to someone for
something or being responsible for
one’s conduct
Why are personal relationships important?
• develop healthy relationships which are a
vital component of health and well-being
• contributes to a long, healthy, and happy life
• being alone or isolated in one’s life are
comparable to the risks associated with
cigarette smoking, blood pressure, and
obesity
Healthy Relationship can help you
- Live Longer
- Deal with Stress
- Be healthier.
- Feel Richer
Low social support can lead to
- Depression
- Decreased Immune function.
- Higher Blood pressure
25 most Common Relationship Problem
- Affairs (infidelity/cheating)
Sexual issues
Core values and belief Life stages
Traumatic Violence (verbal/physical
abuse)
Blended family issues
Jealous
Bored
Stress
Should not have got married in the
first place.
Responsibility
Unrealistic expectations
Addictions
Social media
Lack of concern, care and
consideration / attentiveness
One-sided
Lack of communication
Manipulation Lack of support
Disappointment ,Depression
Discipline/deal with the children
Long-term stress Pregnancy
 10 Rules for Finding Love and
Creating Long-Lasting, Authentic
Relationship
- You must love yourself first.
- Partnering is a choice.
- Creating love is a process.
- Relationships provide opportunities to
grow.
- Communication is essential.
- Negotiation will be required.
- Your relationship will be challenged by
change.
- You must nurture the relationship for
it to thrive.
- Renewal is the key to longevity (fresh
and vital).
- You will forget all this the moment you
fall in love.
Benefits of a Healthy Relationship
- Connect with your Family
- Practice Gratitude
- Learn to Forgive
- Be Compassionate
- Accept Others
- Create Rituals Together
- Spend the Right Amount of time
Together
Family
- Basic unit of society according to
sociology
TYPES OF FAMILY STRUCTURE
- NUCLEAR FAMILY - identified as the
ideal family AND consists of two
parents and children
- SINGLE-PARENT FAMILY - comprises
of a solo parent raising the children.
- EXTENDED FAMILY - comprised of
two parents, children, aunts, uncles,
grandparents or non-relatives living
together under one roof.
- STEPFAMILY - refers to two families
being merged together due to the
marriage of a parent of one family to
another
- GRANDPARENT FAMILY -
grandparents take on the role of
parenting and nurturing the children
The Impact of One’s Family on Personal
Development During Middle and Late
Adolescence\
- When a man and a woman exchange
vow to each other, they enter a sacred
union and lifelong commitment to a
lifelong partnership
- A family is a socially recognized group
joined by, marriage, blood or adoption
that forms an emotional connection
and serves as a basic unit of society.
FAMILY LEGACIES
- Legacy - something that is passed on
to you from family that has been
handed down for generations
including reputation, a heritage and
even family property.
The Emotional Legacy
- Nurtured by parents, which takes time
and care • Takes a lot of time and
consistency to give your child a sense
of emotional wholeness
A strong emotional legacy: - • Setting of social boundaries
concerning how to relate to God,
• provides a safe environment
authority, peers, the environment, and
which deep emotional roots
siblings
can grow
- • Rules that are given within a loving
• posters confidence through relationship
stability
• conveys a tone of trusting The Spiritual Legacy
support
- • all about your relationship with God
• nurtures a strong sense of
positive identity Ways to build strong family connections.
• creates a “resting place” for
- spend quality time.
the soul
- maintain good communication with
• demonstrates unconditional everyone in the family.
love. - appreciate everyone in the family.
The Social Legacy - acknowledge and celebrate each
other’s talents, differences, and
- Most appropriate time for social strengths.
interaction and relationships can be - stay focused on the current problem.
demonstrated more effectively at - work like a team
home - establish clear family rules
- modeling as parents play a key role in - teach children to forgive and make
passing on a strong social legacy amends
- Children...
- will learn lessons about respect,
courtesy, love and involvement
- need to gain the insights and social
skills necessary to cultivate healthy
and stable relationships as they
mature
- must learn to relate to family
members, teachers, peers and friends
- must learn to relate to coworkers and
many other types of people

Key building blocks of children’s social

legacy include:

- Respect
- • Responsibility fostered by respect
for themselves
- • Unconditional love and acceptance
by their parents, combined with
conditional acceptance
Career Development Concepts and
Personal Life Goals
- EDUCATION - Plays a vital role in
shaping people to succeed • Gives us
the opportunity to become productive
member of the society by acquiring all
the necessary skills
- CAREER - Sequence of attitudes and
behaviors that are associated with
work and that relate to one’s total life
experience
Personal Factors Influencing Career
Choices
- VALUES - Set of “self-motivators that
indicate what one considers most
important in life” ⚬ God, Family,
Relationship, Peace, Career, and
Education
- PERSONALITY - sum total of one’s
complex set of tendencies, behaviors,
attitudes, and characteristics that
makes each person unique
- INTROVERSION - inward flow of
energy • some people are more
comfortable spending time alone
- EXTROVERSION - outward flow of
energy • more comfortable spending
time interacting with other people
- SENSING - tend to use their senses –
what they can see, hear, smell, taste,
and touch – in situations involving
analysis,
- INTUITION - tend to use their
imagination or intuition in dealing with
experiences • more adept in thinking
about possibilities and abstract ideas
- INTERESTS - closely related to
personality • sets of preferences in
activities
- SKILLS - play a vital role in career
suitability and, consequently, success
• set of competencies a person has •
mastery over some tasks that are
useful in performing bigger or more
complicated jobs
- Family and peer influence.
Education is important for Filipino
families o Parents work hard for better
education of their children.
On the other hand, the children are
pressured in selecting what career
they will choose.
- Peer Pressure
generally attributed to the influence
exerted by a peer group in
encouraging a person to change his or
her attitudes, values, or behavior in
order to conform to group norms
֎can have both the negative and the
positive side
֎has a deep impact on one's
decision making ability
- Personal Mission Statement
֎more than just your goals
֎help you sort out your priorities and
how you want to live your life
֎may include short-term and
longterm goals, or life-long
aspirations
֎becomes a guide and provides
direction, which comes from you, not
someone else
- Creative Visualization
refers to the process of looking
forward and seeing your desires and
aspirations happening
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