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A Matchmaker's Advice On How To Make A Great First Impression at Work
A Matchmaker's Advice On How To Make A Great First Impression at Work
Communication
Summary. First impressions directly impact your ability to get hired for a job,
impress the leaders at your organization, move up, and even connect with potential
clients or investors. A matchmaker and executive coach offers a few tips around
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You think you made a good first impression — even a great one —
and then poof! Someone ghosts you. I don’t get it! I thought we had a
good connection.
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It’s known as confirmation bias: People see what they expect to see,
and often ignore information that opposes those expectations. For
example, if your LinkedIn photo looks confident and warm, and your
professional experiences listed are succinct and without typos,
someone will probably expect you to be likable and competent. When
you finally meet face-to-face, they will look for things to confirm
their initial screening. Your online presence primes someone to see
you through a positive or negative lens.
Don’t: Choose your own social media profile photos. Instead, find
three people who don’t know you very well and share your photo
options and your first impression goals with them. Then get candid
feedback and let them make the photo selection for you. Maybe that
smile you thought looks friendly actually reads as an arrogant smirk
to someone who doesn’t know you.
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Do: Answer “How are you?” with something strategic like: “I’m
doing great because my new trekking poles finally arrived today! I’m
training to climb Kilimanjaro next summer.” Then your early
conversation banter is about one of your genuine core values:
accomplishing big challenges. Their first impression will likely be
that you’re someone with fortitude and energy.
Don’t Be Boring.
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Don’t: Be boring!
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Do: Place your elbow on your desk and lean forward toward the
screen while resting your chin on the heel of your closed hand. This
signals, “I’m interested in what you’re saying,” and makes someone
feel good about you.
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Rachel Greenwald is an Executive Fellow at
Harvard Business School and an expert on
building successful relationships in both love and
work. As CEO and founder of Elevated
Connections, LLC, she uses tactics she honed
throughout twenty years as a matchmaker to help
singles find love and help business leaders
improve their professional relationships, deepen
connections among virtual teams, and elevate
their EQ skills. She is the New York Times
bestselling author of Have Him at Hello (Penguin
Random House) and has an MBA degree from
Harvard Business School.
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