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Social and Emotional Development 09
Social and Emotional Development 09
Social and Emotional Development 09
‘It is vital that when educating our children’s brains, we do not neglect to educate their hearts.’
(Dalai Lama)
Any young child raised with parents and carers able to respond with love, understanding, and clear
common-sense guidance, has an excellent chance of learning how to relate to other people. First the child
discovers other people are fun to be with, that they will look after you, and make you happy. Then later,
the child learns others have rights and needs of their own, and that, by studying the feelings of these
others, it’s possible to make them happy too. So begins the child’s pathway to being at ease with himself
and with others, which generally leads to the development of a confident and articulate adult who can be
independent and yet also respect other people.
This process of learning to live in a family which is also part of a broader society is a key feature of child
development which has been carefully studied over many years. Some of the most influential theories
explaining how children acquire social and emotional understanding during their early years are discussed
below.
Attachment theory
Bonding between a child and its mother begins in the womb, and Figure 1 identifies some of the elements
which help the newborn infant to consolidate this special bond.
Figure 1 Features which promote attachment (Inspired by Bulman & Savory, 2006)
John Bowlby’s attachment theory proposes that the establishment of relationships with caregivers is a
critical feature of child development which has a lifelong influence on social relationships. Defining
attachment as a ‘lasting psychological connectedness between human beings’, Bowlby (1980) believed
‘the propensity to make strong emotional bonds to particular individuals (is) a basic component of human
nature’ and identified four characteristic features of this phenomenon which are illustrated in Figure 2
below:
Figure 2 Bowlby’s characteristics of attachment
In support of his observations, Bowlby noted that a child able to rely on a primary carer was less fearful
than those lacking such reassurance. He also asserted this confidence was the outcome of healthy
development from the infant to the adolescent stage and had a lifelong effect. Moreover, Bowlby was
sure this was a learned expectation: because a carer has been responsive, a carer will always be
responsive.
In addition to bonding with a mother figure, a child will also form multiple close ties with other family
members. These relationships all help the developing child to feel secure – which is one reason why early
years settings encourage each child to develop an attachment to a regular carer. Despite this grounding,
the emergence of separation anxiety at around six months of age is a feature of normal development
which may continue until the toddler is three years old. During this extended period, outlined in Figure 3,
a child may cry and show signs of distress whenever the mother, or another principal carer, leaves. This
phenomenon should never be viewed as a social regression. It tends to occur in part because, even though
an infant’s social and emotional awareness is growing, there is still only a limited understanding of ‘object
permanence’: thus if any object is seen to disappear, for the child there is, as yet, no certainty that it will
ever reappear.
Figure 3 The typical emergence of separation anxiety
Freud’s psychodynamic theory
One of the infant’s major developmental tasks is gaining the ability to function as a separate individual. In
the earliest months, the child is totally dependent upon its mother before then gradually becoming
‘egocentric’ and able to think about and express its own needs. Freud saw this as a tripartite,
psychodynamic process involving the sequential appearance of three elements – the id, the ego, and the
superego.
According to Freud (1910), the id is the most primitive and instinctive part of the human personality which
responds directly to perceived wants and needs, and is therefore present from birth. Developing
considerably later, the superego is a moralistic conscience which is able to consider the views of others,
and the ego’s developing role is to moderate the tension between these two often-conflicting
perspectives. In combination, these elements determine the important features of an individual’s
personality.
‘Any function in the child’s cultural development appears twice… First it appears on the social plane, and
then on the psychological plane.’
Whilst both Piaget and Vygotsky describe children as active, hands-on learners, Piaget believed child
development was universal, whilst Vygotsky maintained each culture provides different ‘tools of
intellectual adaptation’. Thus, for example, some societies rely on note-taking to store information,
whereas oral cultures value memorization and rote learning – an idea which has implications for teachers
in multicultural contexts.
For Vygotsky, child learners had a ‘zone of proximal development’ (depicted in Figure 5) representing all
the skills and knowledge a child alone cannot presently understand, but is potentially capable of learning
through some form of guided social interaction. This concept explains, for example, why a child appears
to lack certain knowledge, yet demonstrates the expected competence with prompting, or often just in
the presence of a teacher or other learners.
Figure 5 Vygotsky’s zone of proximal development
Crisis Resolution: Erikson’s psychosocial theory
In an overarching work about the ego which adopted a developmental focus, the American psychologist
and psychoanalyst Erik Erikson proposed what is described as a psychosocial theory. This attempted to
classify social maturation as an eight-stage model of psychosocial development spanning infancy to
adulthood. Erikson’s theory held that each developmental phase required the individual to resolve a
conflict between ego development and social factors. According to Erikson (1959), everyone’s
development follows the same path, but each individual experiences varying (positive or negative)
outcomes during each phase, and a child suffering negative setbacks will have to deal with unresolved
crises in later life. (The teenage ‘identity crisis’, for example, is Erikson’s own phrase describing the
‘adolescent’ phase in his model).
The first four of Erikson’s stages, which are relevant to early childhood, are illustrated in Figure 6 below:
1. Infancy (0-1 year) – the infant develops trust or mistrust in itself and others; the attachment figure –
the mother, or another primary carer – is central.
2. Toddler (2-3 years) – the child develops autonomy or shame, becoming either more independent or
developing shame and doubt; parents and significant carers are central at this stage.
3. Pre-school (4-5 years) – the child shows initiative or guilt, and is on a quest to discover what sort of
person he is; the extended family are significant at this point.
4. Childhood (6-12 years) – the child is industrious or feels inferior, with an attitude proclaiming ‘I am what
I learn’; in an expanding social world, home, school and friends are all important.
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