Emotionally Expressive Type Emotionally Unexpressive Type Trust my feelings. It is okay that I’m frustrated. I just Trust my feelings. It is okay that I’m frustrated. I just need to make sure I don’t bowl him over with my need to make sure I get my message across. expression of it. Redirect to my objectives. I’m really frustrated, but Redirect to my objectives. I’m frustrated, but he what I really want in this situation is to make him probably doesn’t know it. Redirect my attention to understand that I need support. I want him to know him. What do I need to say to him to let him know that he is eager to criticize and has been skinny on how I feel? compliments. Use my personality. I’m expressive. I tell him a lot. Use my personality. I’m quiet. I don’t tell him much. Probably because I say so much, my message can Maybe he doesn’t have any idea that his criticisms get lost. I need to slow down, look him directly in are bothering me so much. I need to just tell him, the eyes, and let him know that this is important to in plain English, what I’m feeling and thinking. me and not another one of my stream-of- consciousness verbalizations. Sense my face, body, posture, voice. I’m tense, but Sense my face body, posture, voice. I’m tense. I’m not that tense. This is not the end of the world. I usually not affected by him, because I know that he know he loves me, so maybe I should temper what loves me. But these critical remarks have gotten I tell him. But when I tell him, it will be important out of hand. I need to let him know how I feel. I that I let him know that this is a real issue and not need to be strategic and let him know what I want something that I just thought of on the spur of the from him. moment. Tame my feeling. Since this is not the end of the Tame my feeling. I’m typically so meek and world, I won’t beat him silly with arguments uncommunicative that sometimes it’s difficult to proving that what he’s doing is wrong. I’ll get get my point across. I’ll practice what I’m going to close to his face, look him in the eyes, and just tell say to him. I’ll use feeling words, telling him that him what I’m feeling. Nothing dramatic. I’ve been feeling nervous about talking to him about this, but that it has been bothering me so I decided to do it anyway. I’ll tell him that it hurts when he criticizes me so much and gives so few compliments.