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Marriage and Family God's Plan A
Marriage and Family God's Plan A
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Note: Lesson outlines have been aligned to coordinate with video teaching.
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Course Introduction
I. Main Take-Aways
III. The Focus is Marriage and Family but the Principles Apply
to All Relationships
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B. Class confidentiality
Lesson 1 Begins
1. Spirit
2. Soul
3. Body
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6. Exchange of names
7. Building of a monument
1. Jesus and the Father are in unity with each other. – John
17:5, 21
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b. Self-reproducing
3. Why did God unfold this story of Adam and Eve in this
way?
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I. Marriage Myths
Myths of Marriage:
G. Men believe their mates will remain sexy and alluring forever.
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2. God may have indeed told you, but WHEN? The timing is
still HIS.
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The book of Ephesians is divided into two sections: chapters 1-3 outline the
believer’s position and chapters 4-6 outline the believer’s practice or
responsibility.
I. Unity in Marriage
C. Ephesians 5:22-33
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2. But the verse ALSO says, “to your OWN husbands as to the
Lord.”
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b. Water – water
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B. If you have issues in your marriage, sow into your marriage the
things you wish to see manifest.
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“Then He said to them all, ‘If anyone desires to come after Me, let him
deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.’”
A. Jesus made it clear that we cannot come after Him until we are
dead to self.
B. There are many times in our lives when this is possible, but
nowhere is it more persistent in our daily lives than in our
marriage and family.
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“For the earth yields crops by itself: first the blade, then the head, after
that the full grain in the head.” – Mark 4:28
B. Just as the farmer does not plant tomatoes and harvest corn, he
does not plant tomatoes on Monday and harvest tomatoes on
Friday.
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IV. Want
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Withholding forgiveness is a poison you drink hoping the other person gets
sick.
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Revelation 12:7-11 – When you recall your spouse’s past sins and
mistakes, you are cooperating with the devil.
A. Forgiveness is an obligation.
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1. Repression
2. Conditional
3. Forgetting
4. Impossible
James 3:16-18 – “For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and
every evil thing are there. But the wisdom that is from above is first
pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good
fruits, without partiality and without hypocrisy. Now the fruit of
righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.”
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13. Never reason in the face of pain – if one of you is hurt, the
other will never justify it.
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B. The Bible is the best parenting resource you have and provides
an excellent pattern.
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B. God’s law was given, in part, that His people would have order.
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2. If Jesus is real to you and you allow your child to see that
authenticity, the Holy Spirit has a lot with which to work.
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I. Let Each Man Have His Own Wife and Each Wife Have Her
Own Husband
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A. I Corinthians 7:25-27
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a. Are you who the one you are looking for is looking
for?
B. Dating on purpose
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Curtis Phillips Supplemental Material
Cline, Foster; Fay, Jim, Parenting with Love and Logic, (Updated and
Expanded Edition), NavPress, 2006
Dobson, James C, The New Strong-Willed Child, (2nd Edition), Tyndale, 2004
Ertel, Jim, Contending for the Heart, Harrison House Publishing, 2010
Ezzo, Gary; Bucknam, Robert, On Becoming Baby Wise: Giving Your Infant the
GIFT of Nighttime Sleep, Parent-Wise Solutions, Inc., 2012
Girgis, Sherif; Anderson, Ryan T; George, Robert P., What is Marriage?: Man
and Woman: a Defense, Wilsted & Taylor Publishing Services, 2012
Hagee, John & Diana, What Every Man Wants in a Woman/What Every Woman
Wants in a Man, Charisma House Publishing, 2004
Kendrick, Stephen; Kendrick, Alex, The Love Dare, B & H Books, 2013
Parrott, Les & Leslie, Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts (Revised),
Zondervan, 2006
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Yandian, Bob, One Flesh: God’s Gift of Passion – Love, Sex and Romance in
Marriage, Charisma House, 1993
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