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Autism
Friendship characteristics and 17(4) 481–500
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Melissa H. Kuo
University of Alberta, Canada
Gael I. Orsmond
Boston University, USA
Ellen S. Cohn
Boston University, USA
Wendy J. Coster
Boston University, USA
Abstract
This study compared perceptions of adolescents’ friendships between adolescents with an autism
spectrum disorder (ASD) and their parents, examined factors associated with friendship qualities,
and investigated the adolescents’ reports on the activities they did with friends and how activity
patterns differed by gender. Ninety-one adolescents with an ASD and their parents completed
mail-based surveys during the summer months. Adolescents with an ASD identified more friends
than did their parents, but they agreed on the friends’ characteristics. About half of the
adolescents spent an average of 4 hours per day with friends during the summer months. Male
adolescents with an ASD most frequently played video games with friends, whereas females most
frequently had conversations with friends. The findings suggest that adolescents with an ASD and
their parents identify different peers as the adolescent’s friends. The findings also reveal
similarities and differences in friendships between adolescents with an ASD and typically
developing adolescents.
Keywords
Autism spectrum disorder, friendships, parent and adolescent reports, activity patterns
Corresponding author:
Melissa Kuo, 2-64 Corbett Hall, Edmonton, Alberta T6G 2G4, Canada.
Email: melissa.kuo@ualberta.ca
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Social impairments and difficulties with social communication and interpersonal interaction
are core features of autism spectrum disorders (ASDs; American Psychiatric Association,
2000). These social impairments affect the ability of individuals with an ASD to develop and
maintain friendships, which require an ability to understand what another person is thinking
and feeling. Moreover, social skill impairments do not lessen over time. Impairment and
distress may increase as children with an ASD approach adolescence. Adolescence may be
particularly difficult for adolescents with an ASD as the social environment becomes more
complex and the adolescents become more aware of their social impairment (Tantam, 2003).
Difficulties in establishing peer relationships are frequently observed in adolescents with an
autism spectrum disorder (ASD), but friendships are not completely absent in individuals with
an ASD (Bauminger et al., 2008a, 2008b; Bauminger and Kasari, 2000; Bauminger and
Shulman, 2003; Howard et al., 2006; Orsmond et al., 2004). Bauminger and Kasari (2000)
found that children with an ASD have an average of two best friends, and children with an ASD
reported fewer friends than their mothers did. Bauminger and colleagues, based on maternal
reports, found that children and adolescents with an ASD were more likely to have friends who
were of similar age, gender and disability status (Bauminger et al., 2008a, 2008b; Bauminger
and Shulman, 2003). Their research also indicates that children and adolescents with an ASD
perceive less closeness, intimacy and help than do their peers who are typically developing
(Bauminger et al., 2008b; Solomon et al., 2011). In our previous research we found that
adolescents with an ASD spend less time with peers compared with the time spent with
adults and paid professionals (Orsmond and Kuo, 2011). Similarly, Solish et al. (2010) also
found that children with an ASD, as compared with typically developing children, were more
likely to engage in social activities with their parents and other adults than with their peers.
Previous research on friendships in adolescents with an ASD has been limited by small
sample sizes, the inclusion of only school-age children with an ASD or the use of mixed
samples with both children and adolescents, and the focus on individuals who had at least
one friend. The present study explored friendship characteristics of adolescents with an ASD
and their activity patterns with friends. We focused exclusively on adolescence because it is a
period when peer relationships are the most significant factor associated with adolescents’
quality of life and may take precedence over family relationships (Helseth and Misvær,
2010).
To our knowledge, only one study compared mother and child reports of number of
friends (Bauminger and Kasari, 2000), and there are no studies of whether individuals
with an ASD would identify the same people as their friends as their parents or caregivers
do. The first goal of this study was to investigate friendship characteristics of adolescents
with an ASD in terms of number of friends and friends’ characteristics (e.g. age, gender, with
or without disabilities). We also examined agreement between adolescent and parent
perceptions of the adolescents’ friendships, as well as the potential factors (e.g.
adolescents’ characteristics, friends’ characteristics) that may be associated with
adolescents’ friendships.
Companionship, or doing things together, is one of the features of friendship (Berndt,
1996). It helps maintain the relationship, and is a way to make the relationship stronger and
closer (Aboud and Mendelson, 1996). Research shows that typically developing adolescents
spend 52% of their waking time with friends and 19% with family per day (Csikszentmihalyi
and Larson, 1984). When with friends, typically developing adolescents are likely to attend
parties and dances; to attend popular entertainment events, such as movies and concerts,
and watch television; and to participate in sports and sporting events (Fuligni and
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Stevenson, 1995). Generally, the amount of time with friends increases throughout
adolescence for girls but not for boys, who spend a stable amount of time with friends
(Larson and Richards, 1991). As adolescents get older, they, especially girls, spend more
time with opposite-gender peers than with same-gender peers (Csikszentmihalyi and Larson,
1984; Richards et al., 1998).
Companionship has been reported to be a primary focus in the friendships of adolescents
with disabilities (Matheson et al., 2007). Research, based on maternal reports, shows that
adolescents with an ASD spend only 14% of their waking time with friends and peers
(Orsmond and Kuo, 2011), which is considerably less than typically developing
adolescents (Fuligni and Stevenson, 1995). Bauminger and Shulman (2003), also based on
maternal reports, found that children with an ASD spent time with friends less frequently
than typically developing children. When together, they frequently played board games,
talked together, played on the computer, and watched video and/or television with their
friends.
Information on how children and adolescents with an ASD spend time with friends has
previously been based mainly on qualitative data collected from mothers (Bauminger and
Shulman, 2003). Because mothers are not together with their adolescents all day, they are not
able to account for the adolescents’ time as accurately as the adolescents themselves.
Accordingly, the second goal of this study was to collect data directly from adolescents
with an ASD to explore the activities they engage in with their friends, the gender
differences in activity patterns, and the types of friends with whom the adolescents spend
time. By conducting this study, we hoped to expand current knowledge on friendships of
individuals with an ASD. We also hoped to better understand the opportunities and social
environments that adolescents with an ASD encounter.
Methods
Procedures
Participants were recruited through clinical practitioners or private school teachers who were
working with adolescents with an ASD, advertisements posted on autism-related web pages,
forums, or e-newsletters. Participants were also recruited with the assistance of the
Interactive Autism Network (IAN) Research Database at the Kennedy Krieger Institute
and Johns Hopkins Medicine – Baltimore, sponsored by the Autism Speaks Foundation.
A short telephone interview with the parents of the adolescent was conducted to assess
whether the adolescent met the inclusion criteria: (1) the adolescent had a reading level at 5th
grade or higher, so that the adolescent could complete the measures independently (a 5th-
grade reading level criterion was chosen because it is the lowest required reading level for our
measures); (2) the adolescent had been diagnosed with an ASD by a licensed professional;
and (3) the adolescent scored 15 points or higher on the lifetime form of the Social
Communication Questionnaire (SCQ; Rutter et al., 2003) administered during the phone
interview. Adolescents and parents each received a $20 gift card as compensation for their
participation in the research.
Participants
One hundred and nineteen screens via phone interview were conducted with parents;
113 adolescents qualified for the study and 6 adolescents did not meet inclusion criteria.
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A total of 91 adolescents and their parents completed the surveys, resulting in an 81%
completion rate. The data were collected during summer months (May 2009 to August
2009). Participants were from 27 states in the United States. Tables 1 and 2 show the
demographic characteristics of the adolescents with an ASD and their parents, respectively.
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Adolescents with an ASD. Adolescents with an ASD ranged in age from 12 to 18 years and
were on average 14.8 years old. More boys (n ¼ 74) than girls (n ¼ 18) participated, which
corresponds to the epidemiology of this population. Most adolescents attended junior high or
middle school, and only one adolescent attended an ungraded special education program.
About half of them had a reading level higher than their education level by parent report.
More than half were diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome. They were diagnosed on average at
7 years old, mostly by psychologists. Almost half of them were co-diagnosed with attention-
deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). Only six adolescents had intellectual disability.
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Almost all adolescents could speak in full sentences, and almost everything they said could be
understood by a stranger. All adolescents were co-residing with their parent(s).
Parents. Parents were on average 47 years old. Ninety-two percent of parents who
completed the surveys were mothers, and 2% were fathers. Only one parent was African
American, and the others were white non-Hispanic. Most parents had at least a bachelor
degree, were married, and had either a full-time or a part-time job. The median household
income of our participants in 2008 was $85,000, which is considerably higher than the 2008
US median household income ($52,029; U.S. Department of Commerce, 2009), although a
range of incomes was represented.
Measures
In this study, we collected data from adolescents with an ASD and their parents through
mail-based paper-and-pencil questionnaires. Adolescents were asked to complete two
activity reports about their time spent with friends and one questionnaire about their
relationship with their best friend. Parents were asked to complete one questionnaire
about family background information and adolescents’ friends, as well as the current
form of the SCQ about the adolescents’ autism symptoms. Parents completed the lifetime
form of the SCQ during the phone screening interviews.
Background information and friend’s characteristics. The questionnaire for the parents
asked comprehensive background information, including adolescent characteristics (e.g. age,
gender, language skills), and family characteristics (e.g. parental education status, household
income). The parent questionnaire also contained a friendship grid, which was based on the
Playmates and Friends: Questionnaire for Teachers, Revised (Goldman and Buysse, 2005).
The friendship grid queried information about the adolescent’s first three closest friends. The
information included the friend’s first name, age, gender, type of friend (friend from school,
friend from the neighborhood, friend from sports or leisure, childhood friend, friend of the
family, cousin, brother/sister, boyfriend/girlfriend), the duration that the adolescent and the
friend have known each other, and whether the friend had a disability or not. Adolescents
with an ASD were also asked to report their first three closest friends’ names, ages, genders,
and types of friends (friend from school, friend from the neighborhood, friend from sports or
leisure, childhood friend, friend of the family, cousin, brother/sister, boyfriend/girlfriend).
Parents and adolescents were instructed to report the friends in the order of closeness,
beginning with the closest friend.
Activities engaged in with friends. Adolescents were asked to complete one activity report
for an upcoming weekday and one for an upcoming weekend day. They were instructed to
fill out the activity reports at the end of their chosen day. The activity reports asked
adolescents about their time spent with friends. First, adolescents were asked whether
they spent time with friend(s); if yes, they were asked to report what activities they did
with the friend(s). They were asked to report the gender of the friend(s) with whom they
engaged in activities by choosing one of the following categories: a male friend, a female
friend, a group of male friends, a group of female friends, and a group of male and female
friends. A total of 175 activities done with friends were reported by the adolescents. The
reported activities were coded by the first author and a graduate student (who was blind to
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the study purposes). The activities were coded into the following categories: eating, doing
physical activities, doing outdoor activities, doing education-related activities, having a
conversation, surfing websites, watching TV/movies, visiting, playing, reading, listening to
music, hanging out, participating in a community excursion, doing artistic activities, playing
video games, and other. Appendix A shows the definition of each category.
An inter-rater reliability analysis using the Kappa statistic was performed to determine
consistency among the two raters. The inter-rater reliability Kappa was .939 (p < .001), which
indicated an almost perfect agreement (Landis and Koch, 1977). Discrepancies were coded by
a second graduate student using the same coding scheme. The codes that the majority of raters
chose were used in the analyses. When three coders chose different codes, the first and the
second authors made a consensus decision about which code was the most appropriate.
Autism symptoms. The lifetime form and the current form of the SCQ (Rutter et al., 2003)
were used as a screener to verify diagnosis and as a tool to evaluate adolescents’ current level
of symptoms, respectively. Both the lifetime form and the current form of the SCQ include
40 yes-no items. The lifetime form of the SCQ was used to screen participants during the
phone interview. The items in the lifetime form include questions regarding reciprocal social
interaction; language and communication; and repetitive, stereotyped patterns of behavior.
A cutoff score of 15 was established and it was determined that individuals scoring at or
above that level are likely to have an ASD (Rutter et al., 2003).
The items in the current form of the SCQ examined adolescents’ symptoms over the most
recent 3-month period. Parents were asked to complete the current form when they
completed the mailed questionnaire. The scoring method in the current form is similar to
that in the lifetime form. Also, the sub-scores in the current form were developed on the basis
of three domains of the Autism Diagnostic Interview-Revised (ADI-R): the reciprocal social
interaction domain; the communication domain; and the restricted, repetitive, and
stereotyped patterns of behavior domain (Rutter et al., 2003). Studies have reported good
psychometric properties of the SCQ in terms of its sensitivity and specificity (Chandler et al.,
2007; Witwer and Lecavalier, 2008) and correlations with the ADI-R (Witwer and
Lecavalier, 2008). In the present study, alpha reliabilities of the lifetime form and the
current form of the SCQ were .77 and .80, respectively.
Friendship qualities. The Friendship Qualities Scale (FQS; Bukowski et al., 1994) was used
to assess adolescents’ perceptions of their friendship qualities. Adolescents were asked to
answer the questions on the FQS in reference to the relationship with their best friend. If the
adolescent did not have a best friend, they could skip the FQS. This 23-item self-report scale
measures five dimensions of friendship – companionship, closeness, helpfulness, security,
and conflict. Each item is rated on a 5-point scale ranging from 1 (strong disagree) to 5
(strongly agree), and the total score is calculated using the mean score in each dimension.
High scores reflect friendships perceived to be high in the named dimension. Scores on
companionship, closeness, helpfulness, and security were averaged to create a single
variable measuring the ‘positive qualities’ of friendship. The conflict subscale was not
aggregated with the others. Good validity and reliability of the FQS have been reported
by the authors (Bukowski et al., 1994). The FQS has been successfully completed by children
and adolescents with an ASD (Bauminger et al., 2008a, 2008b; Whitehouse et al., 2009).
In the present study, alpha reliability for the total scale was .87.
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Results
Friendship characteristics
We examined friendship characteristics in terms of the number of friends, the agreement of
the people who were identified as adolescents’ friends, and friends’ characteristics by
comparing adolescents’ first three closest friends reported separately by adolescents with
an ASD and their parents.
Number of friends. Almost all adolescents with an ASD (96%) reported that they had at
least one friend, and 86% of parents reported that the adolescents had at least one friend.
A Wilcoxon signed-ranks test was used to compare adolescent and parental reports. As
shown in Table 3, adolescents identified a significantly greater number of friends than did
their parents (Z ¼ 3.36, p ¼ .001). That is, more adolescents reported that they had at least
three friends than did parents (79% versus 65%), and fewer adolescents reported they had
no friends than did parents (4% versus 14%).
Agreement of friendships. To examine the agreement of the people who were identified as
the adolescents’ friends, we calculated the number of the same people listed by the adolescent
and the parent. We used friends’ first names as a cue to identify the same friends. The
agreement between adolescents and parents was 60% on the adolescent’s best friend, and
24% on the adolescent’s first three closest friends in order. For 21% of the cases, the
adolescent and parent listed completely different names of friends. We further examined
whether these adolescents had different characteristics as compared with the adolescents
who had at least one similar friend as reported by their parents. We found that the severity
of autism symptoms was the only significant factor. The adolescents who reported completely
different friends had more severe autism symptoms than those who reported at least one
similar friend to their parents (SCQ scores 20.3 6.3 versus 16.0 5.6; t (89) ¼ 2.86, p ¼ .005).
Friend’s characteristics – first three closest friends. We also examined the characteristics of
adolescents’ first three closest friends (see Table 3). About half of adolescents reported their
first three best friends were all males. According to adolescent reports, their friends were on
average 14 years old. The average age span between adolescents and their friends was 1 year.
About two-thirds of friends were younger than the adolescent with an ASD, and most friends
were the same gender as the adolescent. About half of the friends were from school, and a
small proportion of the friends were cousins, siblings or either a boyfriend or a girlfriend.
Friends’ characteristics reported by parents were similar to adolescent reports. When
comparing adolescent and parental reports on friends’ characteristics, paired t-tests were
used to compare parametric data, including age and age span. Wilcoxon signed-ranks tests
were used to compare non-parametric data, including age order (younger versus older),
friends’ gender and gender composition (same gender versus opposite gender). As shown
in Table 3, adolescents with an ASD and parents reported similar characteristics of the
friends. On the basis of the parental reports, the mean friendship duration between
adolescents with an ASD and their friends was 4 years, and about a half of the friends
had a disability, with ASDs as the most common disability, followed by ADHD and learning
disabilities. Other disabilities included Down syndrome, bipolar disorder, depression,
dyslexia, epilepsy, hand dysfunction, Tourette syndrome, and hemiplegia. Over half (56%)
of the adolescents had at least a friend with a disability.
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Table 3. Comparison of friends and their characteristics between adolescents and parents.
Number of friends
None 4 (4%) 13 (14%) z ¼ 3.36
One friend 5 (6%) 9 (10%) p ¼ .001
Two friends 10 (11%) 10 (11%)
Three friends 72 (79%) 59 (65%)
Age of friends (in years)
Mean 14.5 14.4 t (49) ¼ .780
SD 2.1 2.2 p ¼ .439
Age spacing
Mean 1.0 1.0 t (49) ¼ .135
SD 0.9 0.7 p ¼ .893
Age order
Friends were younger 66% 70% z ¼ .775
Friends were older 34% 30% p ¼ .439
Gender
All male(s) 46% 51% z ¼ 1.072
All female(s) 20% 18% p ¼ .284
Mixed gender 34% 31%
Gender composition
Same-gender 80% 84% z ¼ 1.316
Opposite-gender 20% 16% p ¼ .188
Type of friends
From school 51% 55% N/A
From the neighborhood 11% 16%
From sports or leisure 9% 8%
Childhood friends 15% 6%
Friends of the family 10% 7%
Cousin 2% 3%
Brother/sister 2% 4%
Boyfriend/girlfriend 1% 0.4%
Duration of friendships (months)
Mean N/A 49.0 N/A
SD 26.2
Friend has a disability
No N/A 44% N/A
Yes 43%
Don’t know 13%
Type of disability
ASD N/A 55% N/A
ADHD 12%
Learning disability 6%
Other 15%
Don’t know 13%
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Table 4. Amount of time adolescents with an ASD spent with friends on weekdays, weekend days, and any
given day (hours) (N ¼ 52).
Weekday 43 (47%) 3.93 2.42 0.17–11.50 t (20) ¼ .414 1.86 2.57 0–11.50 t (90) ¼ .523
Weekend 30 (33%) 5.18 3.28 0.58–12.33 p ¼ .683 1.65 3.04 0–12.33 p ¼ .603
Any given day 52 (57%) 3.14 1.92 0.36–8.38 1.80 2.13 0–8.38
a
Mean value represents average time for adolescents who spent time with friends, excluding the zero values for those who
did not spend time with friends.
b
Mean value represents average time for all adolescents, including the zero values if no time was spent with friends.
Table 5. Frequency of activities adolescents with an ASD engaged in with friends (N ¼ 52)
(number of adolescents,%).
calculations by 7. Thus, the average time shown in Table 4 is not merely an average of the
weekday and weekend hours, but is weighted to reflect more weekday than weekend days in
a week. On any given day, a total of 52 adolescents with an ASD (57%) spent time with
friends. Adolescents who reported that they did activities with friends spent an average of 3.1
hours with them on any given day.
Activities with friends. We analysed how the 52 adolescents spent time with friends by
categorizing the amount of time in various activities on a given day. Table 5 shows the 16
most frequent joint activities. Adolescents with an ASD most frequently spent time with
friends playing video games, which accounted for approximately 50% of adolescents who
spent time with friends. About 20–40% of adolescents with an ASD spent time with friends
doing physical activities (including swimming), watching television, playing, and engaging
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Friend companionships
Table 6 shows the gender of friends with whom adolescents with an ASD did activities. Both
male and female adolescents most frequently spent time with one same-gender friend,
followed by a group of same-gender friends, a group of mixed-gender friends, one
opposite-gender friend, and then a group of opposite-gender friends. In terms of the
activities with friends by gender compositions, adolescents with an ASD most frequently
played video games with same-gender friends, and did physical activities with opposite-
gender friends and mixed-gender friends on any given day.
Table 6. Gender composition between adolescents with an ASD and the friends with whom
adolescents engaged in activities (N ¼ 52) (number of adolescents,%).
(t (89) ¼ 2.33, p ¼ .22) and greater companionship with their best friend (t (89) ¼ 3.49,
p ¼ .001) than those who did not spend time with friends.
We also examined the associations between friendship qualities and each of activities that
adolescents with an ASD engaged in with friends. Playing video games was the only activity
significantly associated with adolescents’ perceptions of friendship qualities. Adolescents
with an ASD who played video games with friends on any given day reported more
overall positive friendship qualities (t (89) ¼ 2.20, p ¼ .030) and greater companionship
(t (89) ¼ 2.91, p ¼ .005) with their best friend than those who did not play video games
with friends.
Discussion
This study expands our knowledge about friendships of adolescents with an ASD by
comparing adolescents’ and parents’ perceptions of friendship characteristics, as well as
by collecting data directly from adolescents with an ASD on their time spent with friends.
The findings reveal characteristics of people whom adolescents with an ASD and their
parents recognize as the adolescents’ friends, and show that adolescents with an ASD and
their parents may have different ideas about who the adolescent’s friends are. In terms of
time spent with friends, about a half of adolescents with an ASD spend time with friends on
any given day during the summer months, and the activities that they engaged in together
differed by gender. The findings also reflect some similarities and differences in friendships
between adolescents with an ASD and typically developing adolescents.
Despite the fact that adolescents with an ASD and their parents tended to list friends with
similar characteristics, they differed in the number of peers perceived to be friends and in the
people whom they identified as the adolescents’ friends. The differences may be explained by
different descriptions of friendships of the adolescents and their parents. Previous research
indicates that adolescents with an ASD most frequently describe friends as other peers who
have similar interests and with whom they can do or talk about the same things together
(Carrington et al., 2003). However, research indicated that most parents reported that the
relationships between adolescents and adults with an ASD and their peers lacked reciprocity,
and often only occurred during prearranged settings, which may not represent true
friendships (Orsmond et al., 2004). Therefore, with respect to friendships, adolescents with
an ASD may consider friends to be peers who have similar interests and with whom they
spend time, whereas their parents may only consider a friendship if it includes mutual
interactions and emotion interchanges.
We also found that adolescents who reported completely different friends had more severe
autism symptoms than those who reported at least one similar friend to their parents. It is
possible that the adolescents with more severe autism symptoms were more likely to
overestimate their relationships with other peers than those with less severe autism
symptoms. It is also possible that the parents of these adolescents were more likely to
underestimate the adolescents’ friendships than the parents of the adolescents with less
severe autism symptoms.
We found that most adolescents with an ASD reported friends of the same gender, and
most frequently spent time with same-gender friends. However, older adolescents reported
fewer same-gender friends, but the number of opposite-gender friends remained relatively
constant. This pattern of change of gender-based friend preferences is different from that of
typically developing adolescents, whose same-gender peer networks remain about the same
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but whose opposite-gender peer networks increase in size with age (Richards et al., 1998).
For typically developing adolescents, one feature of adolescence is a transition from extreme
engagement with same-gender friends to opposite-gender friendships. That is, their
preferences for same-gender friends decline in adolescence relative to childhood (Poulin
and Pedersen, 2007), and the time spent with opposite-gender friends increases from early
to mid-adolescence (Richards et al., 1998). Because spending time with opposite-gender
friends prepares an individual to develop future romantic relationships (Mehta and
Strough, 2009), the lack of opposite-gender friends may prevent adolescents with an ASD
from developing the skills or experiences that provide the foundation for deeper romantic or
marital relationships (Stokes et al., 2007). Because adolescents with an ASD have been
reported to desire romantic relationships (Stokes and Kaur, 2005), there may be a need to
develop supports to help them gain the knowledge, skills, and experiences needed to relate
more successfully with opposite-gender peers.
Moreover, we found that when adolescents with an ASD spent time with mixed- or
opposite-gender friends, they most frequently engaged in physical activities. Most of these
physical activities (e.g. playing basketball, playing softball, swimming) are structured
activities, which involve rules and often have a formally designated coach or instructor
(King et al., 2009). We suspect that these types of activities may create a more
comfortable context for adolescents with an ASD to interact with opposite-gender peers.
However, future studies are needed to further explore adolescents’ perspectives about their
activities.
Consistent with research on typically developing adolescents’ friendships (Poulin and
Pedersen, 2007; Sears et al., 2009), female adolescents with an ASD perceived higher
levels of help from their same-gender friends, and male adolescents perceived more help
and closeness from their opposite-gender friends. Previous studies have suggested that
females are socialized to be more supportive (Poulin and Pedersen, 2007), and are often
perceived as a better source of help than males regardless of the gender composition of the
friendship (Rose and Rudolph, 2006). Therefore, adolescents with an ASD may turn to their
female friends with problems because they anticipate receiving support from them. Females
have been reported to be less likely to ridicule or judge people who ask them for help as weak
(Sears et al., 2009). This lack of judging may be another reason motivating adolescents with
an ASD to seek assistance from their female friends. It is also possible that female friends are
more likely to actively provide support to adolescents with an ASD when these adolescents
require assistance.
Similar to typically developing adolescents, both male and female adolescents with an
ASD perceived more closeness with their female friends than with their male friends. The
femaleness principle can be used to explain this finding. Akiyama et al. (1996) proposed that
the gender differences in personal relationships are a function of the ‘femaleness’ of the dyad.
For example, female siblings are the closest and most involved sibling dyads, followed by
female-male sibling pairs, with male dyads being the least close (Cicirelli, 1993).
We also found that adolescents with an ASD perceived less conflict in friendships if the
friend was from school, whereas they perceive more conflict if the friend was identified as a
sibling. The nature of different types of relationships may explain this finding. Relationships
with school friends may be likely to dissolve if frequent conflict occurs. To maintain
friendships, adolescents with an ASD and their school friends need to develop strategies
to prevent the conflict from occurring frequently (Furman and Buhrmester, 1985).
Adolescents with an ASD and their school friends have more opportunities than other
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friends, parents), how they interacted with each other (e.g. playing adjacent to each other but
not trying to influence one another’s behavior or playing cooperatively to solve problems),
or whether there were any adults involved in guiding their interactions. Another limitation is
that we did not include a typically developing adolescent comparison sample to investigate
the similarities and differences in their activity patterns with friends. Without these data, it is
difficult to know whether the adolescents with an ASD experienced similar or different
activity patterns as compared with typically developing counterparts. Also, our findings
are limited to higher functioning individuals, as they had to have the reading skills to
independently participate in the study. The ethnic homogeneity of our sample may also
limit the generalizability of the results.
A strength of this study is that data were collected when the adolescents were away from
school during summer months so they had more discretionary time and opportunities to
engage in activities of their own choice, and were not restricted by academic work. Thus, we
were able to learn more about their activity engagement with friends outside of prearranged
settings. The findings of this study strengthen links to research on friendships among
adolescents with an ASD. Moreover, the gender differences in activity patterns were also
taken into consideration. The sample size of this study was larger than most of previous
studies on friendships of children and adolescents with an ASD (e.g. Bauminger and Kasari,
2000; Bauminger and Shulman, 2003; Bauminger et al., 2008a, 2008b).
There are important implications to be drawn from the findings for practitioners and
for future research directions. Helping individuals with an ASD participate in social
activities is often a professional’s goal; however, professionals also have a responsibility
to recognize and value different people’s perspectives about friendship. In order to
support friendship desires among adolescents with an ASD, it is important to explore
how they define friends and what characteristics of friendships they value. There is also
a need to develop a better understanding of the social opportunities offered by
participation in different activities with friends. Future intervention programs could
build on this information to better use the social opportunities embedded in the
adolescents’ activities to scaffold and promote opportunities to support friendships.
Finally, the low rates of opposite-gender friends in adolescence cannot be neglected.
Future studies are needed to investigate the interests, knowledge and peer interaction
skills needed by adolescents with an ASD to interact effectively with peers of different
genders.
Acknowledgements
We thank teachers, therapists, and ASD-related organizations and support groups for their assistance
with participant recruitment. We are grateful for the participation of the adolescents and their parents
in our research.
Funding
This work was supported by the Boston University Dudley Allen Sargent Research Fund, and by the
American Occupational Therapy Foundation Dissertation Research Grant to the first author.
Kuo et al. 497
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Appendix
Definitions of the activity categories
Categories Definitions
Community excursion A short trip made for pleasure (with specific destination)
Doing artistic activity The conscious production or arrangement of sounds, colors,
forms, movements, or other elements in a manner that affects
the sense of beauty
Doing education-related activities Any activity that is related to learning or school
Doing outdoor activities Any unstructured activity that is done in nature, or any activity
that is practiced for the purposes of enjoying scenery and nature,
relieving stress, finding peace in nature, enjoying life and relaxing
Doing physical activities Any activity that involves physical exertion or skill that is governed
by a set of rules or customs
Eating Taking food into the body by the mouth
Hanging out Spending time in a certain location or with certain people (without
specific destination)
Having a conversation Expressing or exchanging ideas by means of spoken and written
words
Listening to music Any activity that is related to listen to a series of sounds made by
instruments or through an electronic device, or voice in a way that
is pleasant or exciting
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Categories Definitions