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DBT for Private Practice 726031163.

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Dealing with Feelings from Assumptions


Identify the emotion Example: I’m feeling lonely.

Assumptions I should not have to be the person


who always makes the phone calls,
identifies social activities, makes
the plans, and invites the guests.

Question your assumptions It doesn’t mean that I’m liked less


because I’m the organizer, it just
means I do all of the work.

Practice different assumption and I’m just better at maintaining


notice emotion changes friendships, at recognizing my
social needs, and at taking action to
meet my needs. That is healthy and
means I’m effective and strategic. I
don’t have to let my loneliness last
a long time. I feel a little better
about myself.

© Thomas Marra/New Harbinger Publications 2005


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DBT for Private Practice 726031163.rtf

Identify the emotion

Assumptions

Question your assumptions

© Thomas Marra/New Harbinger Publications 2005


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DBT for Private Practice 726031163.rtf

Practice different assumption


and notice emotion changes

© Thomas Marra/New Harbinger Publications 2005


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