This document discusses dealing with feelings that arise from assumptions. It suggests identifying the emotion being felt, questioning the assumptions that led to that emotion, and practicing alternative assumptions to change one's feelings. Practicing assuming one is good at maintaining friendships and taking action to meet social needs, rather than feeling lonely, can lead to feeling better about oneself.
This document discusses dealing with feelings that arise from assumptions. It suggests identifying the emotion being felt, questioning the assumptions that led to that emotion, and practicing alternative assumptions to change one's feelings. Practicing assuming one is good at maintaining friendships and taking action to meet social needs, rather than feeling lonely, can lead to feeling better about oneself.
This document discusses dealing with feelings that arise from assumptions. It suggests identifying the emotion being felt, questioning the assumptions that led to that emotion, and practicing alternative assumptions to change one's feelings. Practicing assuming one is good at maintaining friendships and taking action to meet social needs, rather than feeling lonely, can lead to feeling better about oneself.
who always makes the phone calls, identifies social activities, makes the plans, and invites the guests.
Question your assumptions It doesn’t mean that I’m liked less
because I’m the organizer, it just means I do all of the work.
Practice different assumption and I’m just better at maintaining
notice emotion changes friendships, at recognizing my social needs, and at taking action to meet my needs. That is healthy and means I’m effective and strategic. I don’t have to let my loneliness last a long time. I feel a little better about myself.