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19 Things To Pray For - Tips For A Better Prayer Life - Cru
19 Things To Pray For - Tips For A Better Prayer Life - Cru
Do you ever find yourself struggling to know what to pray for? You want to make prayer part of your
daily routine, but you feel like you are repeating yourself. You want to freshen things up.
You are not alone. For many Christians, prayer can sometimes feel dry or stale. Prayer is talking with
someone who loves you deeply and knows you intimately, so it might be hard to admit or deal with
when the conversation has seemed to dry up. Part of the problem can also be the temptation to see
prayer as talking to God rather than talking with Him.
But everyone goes through times when praying feels like walking uphill. So we’ve created this list of
things you can pray for when you need a little inspiration. Each item on the list comes with a verse from
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Why it matters
Praising God for who He is is a part of prayer.
The verse above is a reminder about who you are communicating with when you decide to pray
to God. You are not just talking with some kind of spiritual force that cannot be named. How
would you have a conversation with something like that?
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regrets and fears to can be trusted with them. Since God created all things through and for
Himself, He alone has the power to hear all our prayers and answer them. So it is appropriate and
important when you pray to start by acknowledging Who you are talking with and what makes
Him unique.
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Why it matters
John 3:16 is part of a conversation between Jesus and a religious teacher named Nicodemus. It
comes at a moment in their conversation when Jesus is trying to help Nicodemus understand
what it means to be born again, or become a Christian, by trusting in Him. In Jesus’s explanation,
one word captures the essential character of God, and that word is “love.”
God demonstrates His love for you in all sorts of ways. This verse reminds you that when you
pray, it is good to regularly come back to thanking God for His ultimate act of love. Without His
willingness to let Jesus die on the cross, your relationship with God would not be possible.
“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith — and this is not from yourselves, it is the
gift of God — not by works, so that no one can boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9).
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that the Bible teaches about a relationship with God through Christ.
You are loved, saved and accepted by God because of your faith in Jesus, which is a gift that you
can’t take credit for. Every day, you need to be reminded of — and remain in — God’s great love
for you (Ephesians 3:14-21) and remember that His love is a gift you accept and cannot earn.
If you’re going to thrive and experience the fullness of your relationship with God, you need to
daily be reminded of what that identity and acceptance are based on: His love for you. Apart from
Him and that love, you can do nothing.
“‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is
the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”
(Matthew 22:37-38)
Why it matters
The only reason you can love God, yourself or those around you is that God loved you first. He
made a way for you to have a relationship with Him and experience His love so you can be
changed by it and love others as a result.
In fact, loving your neighbor stands beside loving God as one of the greatest commandments God
has given, as Jesus teaches in Matthew 22. After a similar verse in Luke 10, Jesus explains it
further with the Parable of the Good Samaritan. In this famous story, Jesus defines who your
neighbor is.
It’s tempting to simply think of the people you like — who are like you or physically close to you —
as your neighbors, and God definitely wants you to love and pray for them.
But Jesus takes it a step further, presenting a person who crossed the barriers between people
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who were not alike — who were even considered enemies — as the example of how to love. He is
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calling you to love not just those you choose to be a part of your life but everyone you come
across.
There is no clearer or more simple way to start to love someone in your life than to approach God
on their behalf. Perhaps you could make a list of people in your life whom you are praying for or
want to pray for. Look over your list. Are the people on it mostly like you in ways that make you
feel safe being in relationship with them?
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Why it matters
Paul wrote a letter to the church in Philippi to ensure they had the right priorities as a community
of Jesus followers. He knew that their unity was under threat because of the fierce opposition
they faced for their beliefs. He wrote the letter from prison, where he had been placed for
preaching the gospel.
It’s very easy, when you pray, to get bogged down in talking with God about all the things going
on in your own life. This verse reminds you that, as a Christian, you have the opportunity and the
responsibility to pray for the people you care about, and even for people you have never met.
As you pray, try to develop the habit of setting aside time to talk with God about other people.
Share your concerns for them because He cares. One of the most practical ways you can help
anyone is to invite God into their present situation.
Why it matters
For followers of Jesus, it’s important to have a sense of urgency and not take for granted that God
gives everyone their time on earth as a chance to come to know Him. The author of the passage
above, Peter,
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It’s important to remember that you don’t have all the time in the world to address the issues in
your life and community. But at the same time, God works on a very different timeline than you
do.
All of this is vital when it comes to having the right attitude as you pray for people who do not yet
know Jesus. In today’s culture, everyone is used to receiving fast or immediate responses to most
of our requests or needs. God may not always answer you with the speed you would like, but that
is because He knows everything that will happen over the course of your life and the lives of the
people you care about. God’s timing is perfect, and He knows when you need to persevere in
prayer for someone you are desperate to see come to know Him.
So as you pray for people you hope will know and experience God’s perfect love, it’s vital that you
learn to trust in God and His timetable rather than insisting He work on yours. Otherwise, you are
likely to become frustrated and even bitter about what you wrongly see as unanswered prayers.
Don’t give up. Keep praying. God loves and cares about the person you are praying for more than
you could even hope or imagine.
Why it matters
Enemies come in various forms, some seemingly greater than others. For the crowds listening to
Jesus, the word “enemy” would have triggered thoughts both of feuds within their own
communities and families and of external threats to their very way of life and integrity as the
nation of Israel.
Now here comes Jesus, telling them that loving God and loving others requires them to do the
opposite of what comes naturally: to love those enemies. His teaching is completely consistent
with what God
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Perhaps “enemy” feels like too strong a word for people you find it difficult to love. You may have
a very clear picture of who has been an enemy in your life, or you may not. But as you pray, ask
God to show you who you’ve been viewing as an enemy and invite Him to change your heart
toward them. Ask Him to show you how you can love them in tangible ways.
How you might pray
Father, whether I’m aware of it or not, I know there are people in my life I feel angry toward or
hurt by. Give me the humility I need to forgive them, love them and pray for them without
expecting or needing anything in return.
Why it matters
The instructions in this passage of Scripture about how to give are set in the context of Jesus’
ultimate sacrifice, as well as the sacrifices made in the Temple that preceded it. Both are acts of
devotion and worship to God.
So you are encouraged to have the right mindset whenever you think of giving something that is
precious to you back to God. Your thoughts of what you are choosing to go without need to be
replaced by a consciousness of whom you are giving to, what He has done for you and how much
He deserves in return.
When you pray about giving, it’s easy to think mostly about money or tangible possessions. But
really, God invites you to be conscious of whatever is most valuable to you, and that might be
time, money, energy or even your reputation. He waits patiently for you to recognize anything
you might value more than Him, even subconsciously.
Learn more about the topic of giving with this simple self-study guide.
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Why it matters
In any Christian community, some members will have more visible responsibilities while others
tend to go unnoticed. Some will have titles, like elder or deacon, while others won’t and may
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This chapter in the Book of Romans encourages everyone to be aware of the truth that all
believers are precious members of the body of Christ and no one has a higher status in the eyes of
God than anyone else.
As you pray, ask God whether you need Him to grant you more humility because of the perceived
status you hold in your community or whether, in fact, you need to recognize your own
contribution and value to others more clearly.
Why it matters
These verses can serve as a prompt to think about the broader communities you are a part of,
such as your city and your nation. The Christians in Jesus’ time were living under the authority
and overwhelming power of the Roman Empire.
In our time, this command is as relevant as ever. It’s easy to pray for political and cultural leaders
you already agree with. But are you willing to bridge the divides in our culture by praying for
those you disagree with?
Kindness is one of the qualities of Christ listed in this verse. Why is this so important? Perhaps
because God knows it is contrary to your human nature, which inclines you to put yourself first.
Kindness to the degree demonstrated by Jesus as He lived among people who would ultimately
betray Him is counter-cultural in any culture. This radical kindness, including loving enemies,
stands out to people and provokes them to ask why you would choose to live this way.
As you pray, invite God to show you opportunities to demonstrate Christlike kindness to the
people in your life — and to complete strangers.
Why it matters
In Philippians 1, Paul implores the members of the church in Philippi to live lives worthy of the
gospel of Christ. This involves both believing in Him and willingly enduring suffering for the sake
of the gospel.
Paul knew that for a community to live this way, it would need a level of unity that does not come
naturally. He knew the people he was writing to well enough to know the internal disputes and
rivalries that could easily undermine their witness for Jesus. So he calls them to live lives
characterized by humility, and he does so by describing the humility of Jesus, the man who
deserved honor above all others.
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be prepared for God to reveal prideful behavior in your life and for
Him to ask you to humble yourself in very practical ways. He may, for example, prompt you to
apologize to someone you feel you deserve an apology from yourself. Or He may challenge you to
forgive someone you find it hard to forgive.
Jesus, please help me to be humble, especially when I feel like my pride has been hurt.
Why it matters
Jesus knew exactly when He was going to die. As He saw that day approaching, He dedicated
more and more of His time to instructing His closest followers, His disciples, about how they were
to live because they would be the founders of His church. A large section of the Gospel of John is
dedicated to telling us what Jesus told them.
Naturally, His disciples were afraid at the thought of ever being without Jesus. How would they
remember all His teaching? How would they live if He wasn’t there to guide them?
He promised there was no need to fear because His Holy Spirit was going to come and live within
them, guiding and comforting them and giving them the strength they needed. But they would
need to choose to obey His teaching as a demonstration of their trust in God every day.
If you have asked Jesus to be the Lord of your life, that same Holy Spirit lives within you,
providing all the things Jesus promised His disciples.
Take a moment to focus on this incredible truth before you pray, and invite the Holy Spirit to do
whatever He wants to do in you and through you.
Why it matters
Paul wrote these words to the church in Ephesus — a church where he had spent a great deal of
time as a missionary. He was acutely aware that their way of living was being observed. Ephesus
was an ancient port city, once thought of as the most important city in Greece. As people from
other nations passed through the city every day, it’s fair to say the world was watching how this
community of Jesus followers related to one another and to others.
Whether or not you live in a community as significant as Ephesus, if you are a Christian and the
people around you know that, the way you live is being noticed too.
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not just because people are watching but because Jesus calls you as His follower to forgive others
as He forgives you. This is not normal or easy by any stretch of the imagination, but as you ask
God to help you do this, people will see and experience His love and forgiveness through you.
As you pray about your way of life, ask God to make you aware of any unforgiveness you need to
deal with.
How you might pray
Lord, give me a heart that’s ready to forgive, and help me to receive your forgiveness when I don’t
think I deserve it.
Why it matters
When you see your faith as simply a set of rules to be obeyed if you want to avoid negative
consequences, it’s difficult to experience joy. This is why these verses remind us that obedience
to God and heartfelt, loving devotion to Him are one and the same thing.
Obeying God is living according to His perfect design for your life rather than being ruled by the
world, your flesh or the devil. If you want to overcome the things that tempt you to disobey God,
it helps to think of your faith in terms of a loving relationship. The outcomes of your choices will
either nurture or damage it.
As you pray, ask God to show you where you are struggling to obey Him and to reveal why. He is
so much more patient with us than we deserve or can even imagine.
Why it matters
The way you think often determines the way you act. The church God has built to bring about
change in the world always faces the danger of being corrupted by the widely accepted ways of
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The letter to the Romans teaches us about the change that happens in you when you become a
Christian and the change God continues to bring about in you. As you spend time in God’s Word
and talk with Him in prayer, He shapes your perspective on what is most valuable, on your
purpose in life and on the pathway to peace and joy.
Why it matters
This verse is the sixth of what are known as the Beatitudes. Jesus made these simple statements
intending that they would be memorized by His listeners. That’s why each beatitude is concise
and all of them follow a similar pattern.
The difference between those listening to Jesus in person and us today is that we now read these
statements through the lens of His death and resurrection. We know that purity is not something
we achieve through sticking rigidly to religious rules. It develops as we depend on Him to help us
live in obedience to His standards, moment by moment.
As you pray and seek God in your life, ask Him to make you aware of areas of impurity so you can
invite Him to cleanse your mind, heart and soul.
(Learn more about battling the things that would damage your relationship with God.)
Why it matters
If you are a Christian, you know that there are ways of living that please God and other ways that
displease Him. God determines right from wrong and has the authority to judge anyone. It’s often
tempting to try to look at the lives of other believers and find fault to try and distract us from or
make us feel better about our own behavior, but Jesus commands us not to judge others
(Matthew 7:1-20).
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they do not follow God in exactly the way you do. One
day we will all face God. Understanding how much grace He has shown you will come with an
understanding of how little you deserved it.
When you pray, ask God to remind you as often as He needs to that while you may be concerned
about someone else’s way of living, you are ultimately responsible for your own.
How you might pray
God, You have given me time, talents, resources and relationships. Help me to make the best
possible use of all these things, and teach me to withhold judgment on how other people use
their own.
Why it matters
Jesus knew that if His disciples thought of their lives only in terms of their time on earth, they
would end up hopeless and disappointed. He knew every struggle and persecution they would
face — even the ways they would die.
So in His final conversation with them before He was taken to be crucified, Jesus made sure to
teach them about looking at life from an eternal perspective, the way God does. They would face
many days that would feel like defeat unless they entered them already knowing that victory was
ultimately theirs because of Jesus.
“In this world,” Jesus said, “you will have trouble.” You may be experiencing sickness, the death
of a person you love or family conflicts. But embracing Jesus’ victory can give you the hope and
courage to face life’s challenges.
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God
If your prayer life ever feels stuck in a rut, ask yourself what it would look like to really enjoy time with
God.
The Bible talks a lot about enjoying God. It’s part of how He shapes us — how He helps us know what
we need from Him and what to pray for.
“Take delight in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart” (Psalm 37:4).
Are you interested in learning more about prayer? Check out “How to Pray: A Beginner’s Guide.”
Some of the content on character traits was adapted from Anne Arkins and Gary Harrell, “While They Are Sleeping: 12
Character Traits to Pray for the Children You Love” (Little Rock: FamilyLife Publishing, 2010).
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