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The Dependent Personality
The Dependent Personality
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What is Dependent Personality Disorder?
Abnormality Traits
Dependents may fuse their identity with others, leading to anxiety and pathology.
Major Points
The interpersonal perspective on dependent personality suggests that people with this
trait often become overly reliant on others due to their early life experiences. They seek
approval and care from others by being very giving and submissive. When things get
tough, they become even more dependent. This behavior can be traced back to their
childhood, where they might have had parents who were very protective or overly
concerned. Such parents may have prevented them from developing independence.
Sometimes, chance events like a parent's illness can also contribute to this
dependency. In a nutshell, dependent personalities develop a strong need for external
support and approval because they've learned to depend on others from a young age.
Major Points
Dependent people see themselves as weak and always needing help from others. They
tend to think in extreme ways, like believing that if someone doesn't help them, they'll be
completely alone. This way of thinking comes from their upbringing, where they learned
to rely on others because of constant fear. They usually have simple thoughts and
struggle with complex problem-solving. To handle life, they make their world simpler,
even though it's not the full picture.
Major Points:
Dependent personalities rely on others for care and protection, often seeing themselves
as weak. Their cognitive style tends to be simplistic, and they avoid developing
self-reliant skills. Early attachments, overprotective parenting, and peer experiences can
contribute to their dependency. These individuals may lack self-identity and struggle to
function independently in the world.
Major Points:
Depression in Dependents:
● Dependents cope indirectly due to their inability to take control of their lives
directly.
● Physical disorders serve to relieve responsibility and bond protectors even more
closely.
● Physical disorders elicit sympathy and allegiance, diverting attention from
relationship strains.
● Feigned physical disorders may represent self-attack in disguise for feeling
helpless and incompetent.
● Relationships between dependency and physical disorder are often unconscious.
● Severe cases may consciously fabricate physical symptoms to assume the sick
role and manipulate attention.
● Case example: Jack, a dependent personality, with chronic back pain as a
functional symptom, not as troubled as expected for someone on the verge of
being declared physically disabled.
Therapy
Psychotherapy for dependent personalities generally has a positive outlook. When
seeking help due to disruptions in their social world, dependents are highly motivated
for therapy. The therapist provides the acceptance and support they need. However,
therapists must avoid falling into traps of reinforcing dependency dynamics. Effective
strategies involve encouraging autonomy, using cognitive techniques, and addressing
developmental origins of issues. The end of therapy can trigger anxiety, but addressing
this ensures more lasting progress.
Therapeutic Traps:
● Strategic goals are the same as for any personality disorder: make the individual
a more functional version of themselves.
● Dependents must learn to interact with others in a way that encourages
individuation, not submission.
● Dependency should be used but not indulged; the goal is to outgrow the
therapeutic relationship.
● Address personality pathology at multiple levels simultaneously.
● Therapists must be sensitive to transference and countertransference, pulling for
autonomy.
● Techniques include role playing, modeling, assertiveness training, and group
therapy.
● Cognitive techniques confront black-and-white thinking and engage clients in
active problem-solving.
● Psychodynamic exploration helps understand the developmental basis of
problems.
● Insight alone is unlikely to produce personality change.
● Achieving less idealized images of others involves confronting intense feelings of
guilt.
● The end of therapy can trigger phobic symptoms and depressive feelings, as it
means a loss of attachment and a return to feelings of helplessness and
aloneness.
● Therapists must address these issues as termination approaches to ensure solid
gains.
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