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Lecture Notes
Lecture Notes
Lecture Notes
b. Reflected appraisals
- how we think others appraise us
- Uppers: communicate positively about us and reflect positive appraisals of
our self worth
- Downers: negatively about us; call attention to our flaws, emphasize on
our problem, put down our dreams and goals
- Vultures: extreme downers; negative images of us & attack our self-
concept; harsh criticism and make you have self-doubt
- Reflected appraisal can affect our self-concept through Self-fulfilling
prophesy: internalize what someone else has said about us and then make
it come true with our own actions
c. Identity scripts
- A script of who we are and how we should live
- Rules for living
- Identity scripts come from families or societal expectations, defining what
role a person is expected to play e.g. all children in the family will go on
to university
d. Attachment styles
- Secure attachment: attentive to the child’s need, leading to develop a
positive sense of self-worth
- Anxious/ ambivalent: inconsistent and unpredictable (sometimes loving
and attentive, sometimes indifferent or rejecting), children feel themselves
to be unlovable, they are the problem.
- Dismissive: caregivers reject or are abusive towards their children,
however, the child will feel others are unworthy, they have a positive view
of themselves and low regard for others which makes them decide
relationships are unnecessary
- Fearful: negative or abusive ways, make the children feel unworthy of
love and that other people are not loving They want to build a close
relationship but are anxious about it.
- other factors influence attachment styles e.g. socioeconomic class
2. Generalized other
- Socioeconomic status: affect job, salaries, school we attend, life styles influences
an individual’s perception of themselves with respect to their values and self-
concept
- Race and ethnicity: how the racial/ ethnic group is treated within a society will
affect attitudes and behaviours of people who identify with that group
- Sexual orientation: affect individuals’ sense of themselves if they are not
heterosexual
- Gender: male/ female stereotypes
Johari’s window – for gaining understanding about oneself
Purpose of the model:
1. To illustrate the importance of open communication in self-knowledge
2. To offer tools for expanding self-knowledge
The four quadrants represent the information, feelings, and motivations of an
individual, as known or unknown by the person themselves, and known or unknown by
others.
The amount of information in each quadrant can increase or decrease over time.
1. You can build trust with others by disclosing information about yourself.
2. With the help of feedback from others, you can learn about yourself and come to
terms with personal issues.
Guidelines for improving self-concept (Week 3 slide)
1. Recognize that you are multidimensional & constantly evolving
2. Develop self-awareness! Recognize your strengths and limitations
3. Keep in mind that how you are as a person will impact who you are as a practitioner
4. Commit to change/growth and constant self-improvement
5. Set realistic & fair goals
6. Create supportive context
7. Use positive self-talk
8. Avoid self-sabotaging (don’t say I can’t do this. Seek help from others and tell others
you have this difficulty)
9. Self-disclose appropriately
10. Listen to constructive criticism
Week 3
- We are constantly interpreting the world around us and organizing the information
we receive
- We start to compile the information by familiarity and base our perception on the
findings.
Perception & communication
- Perception is a active process of creating meaning by selecting, organizing and
interpreting people, objects, events
- Perceptions are always incomplete & subjective
- Perceptions shape what things mean to us & how we interpret the world/others
- Perceptions lead to labeling
- Perceptions affect our feelings & behavior
- Perceptions differ from one person to another based on values, needs,
expectations, etc.
- Perceptions affect our communication.
Three-step processes:
1) Selection
- Factors that affect our selection:
a. Qualities of the phenomena: notice things which stand out (changes,
louder, brighter)
b. Self-indication: who we are, what we are doing, and what is going on
inside us shapes what you focus on
c. Culture: notice those culturally considered negative or spectacularly
positive
2) Organization
o Cognitive schemata (people organize and interpret their experience by
applying cognitive structures)
1. Prototypes: ideal/ most well-known example of some category
2. Personal constructs: make more detailed evaluation; form of
measurement or judgement as to falls on a continuum e.g.
constructs of a good teacher: caring intelligent…
3. Stereotypes: generalization about a person or situation based on
previous personal experiences or learned social perceptions
4. Scripts: action expected of us and others in specific situations
based on personal experience or observation of others under similar
circumstances. Useful guidelines for how to behave
3) Interpretation
- Subjective process on how we explain our perceptions
- There are two ways to interpret things
- 1. Attribution: explanation of why sth happened/ act a certain way
- 2. Attribution errors:
Self-serving bias: benefit our own interests and needs
Attribute good results to our positive qualities
Attribute negative outcomes to external factors
Fundamental attribution error: overestimate someone’s behaviours
Overestimate internal causes of others’ negative behaviour
Underestimate the external causes
- These three steps cannot work independently and affect each other. It is
continuous.
- These process take place in nanoseconds
Influences on Perception
1. Physiology: different in sensory abilities affect our senses respond
2. Age: more experience when we get older
3. Culture:
4. Role: training and demands result in people learning new roles e.g. parents,
silbling
5. Cognitive abilities: we all processes things differently
6. Self: look at ourselves on how we understand perception
7. Unconscious or implicit bias
Guidelines to improve perception and communication
1. Keep in mind that perceptions are always partial and subjective
2. Avoid mind-reading: we assume we understand others but may misinterpret their
action
3. Check perceptions with others
a. There are 3 steps to perception checking:
1. State observable data
2. Think about two possible interpretations of behaviour
3. Request clarification or confirmation
Verbal communication
Anti-oppressive language
- Anti-oppressive language is an interdisciplinary approach to working with people
which focuses on ending socioeconomic oppression
- Requires practitioners to critically examine and be aware of power imbalances,
how our choice of words reflects those imbalances, to strive to modify their verbal
and written language to avoid reinforcing those imbalances
Trauma-informed language
- Language which acknowledges the impact of trauma on people and works to resist
re-traumatization
- Mindful of words and terminologies which are negative and leave the people
experience that trauma feeling misunderstood or unsupported.
Word choices:
He/she – they
Native – Indigenous
Speech Communities
- A shared understanding of how to communicate within a group. This shared
understanding is not known or familiar to people outside of the group
Misunderstandings in verbal communication
- The symbolic nature of language means that misunderstandings can easily
occur
- We often ignore unnecessary information that we don’t really need, our
brain tends to ignore repetition
Ineffective use of language
a) Insensitive openers
- “oh dear, you’re looking less put-together than usual today”
- Negative and insensitive comment
b) Judgmental “you” statements
- “you’re never going to solve the problem that way”
- Sound accusatory, not helpful in describing other behaviour, make the
listener feel badly
c) Labelling
- “You always react badly to situations like this.”
- Labelling someone, making sweeping judgements and generalizations
d) Sarcasm (諷刺, 挖苦)
- “ no, you didn’t miss anything at the meeting. We all just sat and stared at
each other”
- Represent passive aggressive behaviour through which a person
communicates negative feelings
- Risky form of communication
e) Negative comparisons
- “Jacob had no problem finishing his report on time. I guess you’re just not
very good at this kind of writing”
- Holding a person up to the supposed standards or characteristics of another
person lead to feelings of inferiority and resentment.
f) Threats
- “If you don’t stop behaving like that, you’re going to regret it”
- Indicate the end of any productive communication process