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    The document outlines strategies for developing a strong social presence with others. It distinguishes between a "social master" approach that is relaxed, natural, and collaborative versus a "social scammer" approach that is forced and reactive. Key recommendations include facing fears, having a carefree attitude, knowing yourself, and maintaining frames that position you as collaborative, a buyer, and someone who is always awesome and well-liked. The document also discusses the importance of communication styles, intentions, and self-esteem.

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    The document outlines strategies for developing a strong social presence with others. It distinguishes between a "social master" approach that is relaxed, natural, and collaborative versus a "social scammer" approach that is forced and reactive. Key recommendations include facing fears, having a carefree attitude, knowing yourself, and maintaining frames that position you as collaborative, a buyer, and someone who is always awesome and well-liked. The document also discusses the importance of communication styles, intentions, and self-esteem.

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    The document outlines strategies for developing a strong social presence with others. It distinguishes between a "social master" approach that is relaxed, natural, and collaborative versus a "social scammer" approach that is forced and reactive. Key recommendations include facing fears, having a carefree attitude, knowing yourself, and maintaining frames that position you as collaborative, a buyer, and someone who is always awesome and well-liked. The document also discusses the importance of communication styles, intentions, and self-esteem.

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    Julien Blanc

    Created @February 2, 2023 11:20 AM

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    SOCIAL MASTER

    1. Comfortable putting yourself out there.

    2. Relaxed

    3. Fun

    4. State is the default!!

    5. Non-Reactive

    6. Natural

    7. Indifferent to approval/disapproval

    8. Comfortable in all environments

    9. Effortless

    10. Outside your head!!

    11. Collaborative!!

    12. Any result is permanent!!

    SOCIAL SCAMMER

    1. Faking the “Being”

    2. Putting on a front

    3. Overcompensating

    4. State Spiking

    5. Button pushing

    6. Unnatural

    7. Forced

    Julien Blanc 1
    8. Reactive

    9. Stuck in your head!!

    10. Competitive

    11. Any “RESULT” is Temporary!!

    Identify recurring patterns in your life


    identify when you get triggered
    getting triggered = when your response is disproportionate to reality
    use getting triggered to your advantage
    Action- Trigger appears- Release- Repeat
    Face the fear, fear is the bluff.
    EVERY TIME WHEN YOU FEEL SOMETHING LIKE DOING, AND YOU ARE NOT
    DOING THAT THING, TRIGGER THAT ACTION, IT WILL FEAR YOU, BUT
    REMEMBER IT IS A BLUFF.

    GOOD EMOTIONS TO HAVE

    1. FUN

    2. CAREFREE

    3. PASSION

    YOUR REALITY, YOUR RULE

    TO CREATE A STRONG FRAME, TO ALWAYS WIN FRAME BATTLES, YOU NEED


    TO KNOW YOURSELF THE BEST POSSIBLE.

    IMPORTANT FRAMES TO HAVE AT ALL TIMES

    COLLABORATIVE VS COMPETITIVE- ALWAYS BE COLLABORATIVE

    Julien Blanc 2
    BUYER VS SELLER- ALWAYS BE ON THE BUYER SEAT, YOU HAVE LESS TO
    LOOSE

    “EVERYTHING IS AWESOME”

    “I’M AWESOME”

    “EVERYONE LOVES ME”

    “LET’S MAKE IT EPIC”

    YOU ARE ALWAYS OFFERING EVEN WHILE ASKING SOMETHING

    THE 4 LAYERS OF COMMUNICATION

    1. What you say

    2. How you say it

    3. Your intention behind it

    4. Your level of self-esteem

    PRACTICE DIFFERENT EXPRESSIONS IN FRONT OF MIRROR.


    DON’T FORCE CONVERSATION IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO SAY BECAUSE IT
    LOOKS LIKE TRY HARD.

    Julien Blanc 3

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