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Coun533 Ethical Self-Reflection Part 1
Coun533 Ethical Self-Reflection Part 1
at myself. There is more to counseling than theoretical and practical knowledge but the qualities
that make us human. My life experiences will affect my views and how I build client
relationships. Self-awareness, goals, stress, and life roles are parts of my personal life that will
and issues will guide client interactions. I am a strong, realistic individual that manages obstacles
head-on. I face challenges and problem-solve solutions. The power of relationships and how I
present myself could be the difference in having a positive rapport with students.
I began my journey over 20 years ago as an academic advisor at a community college and
later a welfare-to-work case manager for health and human services. Both of these jobs piqued
my interest in counseling. All these years later, I am excited to get the formal education and
experiences required to be a school counselor. Of course, I want to help students, but my goals
go beyond helping. I want to be that supportive person in a student's life that guides them to be
resilient, productive, well-adjusted, and has the power to reach their goals. I believe in giving
students the emotional and behavioral tools to be confident and happy individuals.
When I look back at my path, I want to see students that have met challenges and
obstacles directly and are better for it. Many students have overwhelming issues out of their
control, so my role as a school counselor will be to shape students thinking in a positive direction
forward.
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2. Countertransference
conflicts that could hinder a client's progress. Countertransference (CT) reactions that I have not
managed may cause ethical and clinical issues. Self-awareness is key in keeping my emotional
responses to the client's challenges in check. One countertransference I struggle with is giving
advice.
Because of my roles as a teacher and oldest sibling, I find myself in situations where I am
frequently asked to give advice. I am comfortable giving advice, but sometimes it is unnecessary
or wanted. I must ask myself if a family member, friend, or client asks for my advice or needs
someone to listen. I have even asked do you want me to listen or give my thoughts on the
help.
I have realized that for all problems, there will not be quick solutions and that the person
has a role to play. Giving advice is not letting individuals come to conclusions on their own.
When asked what I would do, I direct the conversations back to the individual. Make a pros and
cons list to help them make informed decisions. I do not have all the answers, and the right
Students have parents telling them what to do, so as a counselor, I want to let them have
control over decisions that influence their life. Ultimately, the direction students decide to go
must be their choice. They must live with the consequences, whether positive or negative. There
are ways to make choices with minimal risk. The more decisions students can make on their
own, the more confident and resilient they will become. Individuals need to believe in
3. Self-Care
Self-care is a priority for me to be at my best for others. Ethical codes mandate that
therapists monitor themselves for signs of impairment and burnout to act appropriately to
continue providing quality client services. I have struggled with self-care for managing stress and
burnout in the past. I viewed self-care as a guilty pleasure only indulged in sparingly, taking care
of others first. I have realized that my emotions and meltdowns affect my family and students. I
When I feel overwhelmed, I walk, read a book or watch television. I clear my mind and
take time to change scenery and get perspective. My family is a significant source of support and
helps me recharge. A conversation with my mother or husband gives me clarity and time to
reflect on issues.
planning for my time let me feel in control when my life is chaotic. Being flexible is essential in
handling unexpected situations. Therapeutic lifestyle changes can lessen stress and anxiety
before it becomes burnout and impairment. Burnout for me begins with feelings of I do not care
and shutting down. When this happens, I must stop negative self-talk and take time out for
myself. Clients will benefit from my mindfulness and lifestyle changes. I want to model taking
Lastly is self-compassion. I must be less critical of myself when I make mistakes or feel
inadequate. I must allow myself to make decisions and live with the consequences. I walk my
path that others may not understand. I must permit myself to say no to others without explanation
and feelings of guilt. I am still a work in progress, but I have so much more self-awareness that
Counselors must respect their clients' values and be able to work with a wide range of
clients with diverse worldviews. I do not want my values and personal beliefs to hinder doing
what is in my client's best interest. I must set aside my values to fulfill my ethical obligations to
help individuals. Ethical bracketing will allow me to ethically provide appropriate counseling for
clients whose values and beliefs differ from mine. I must clarify my assumptions, core beliefs,
and values and how they may influence the therapeutic process. Disagreeing with a client’s value
system is not ethical grounds for a referral, but I would consider a referral if I lack the necessary
One value I may inadvertently push onto a client would be monogamy in relationships.
Growing up, my parents got a divorce, and infidelity on the part of my father was one of the
issues. I think this has influenced my beliefs more than I knew. I do not judge others based on
their choices, but I need to keep this in mind if similar issues arise in therapy. I have been
married to my husband for 32 years and have never considered having an affair. We have had
struggles but found ways to resolve them for our children and ourselves. Knowing this about
myself is essential to listening to clients with similar stories. I want to hear clients with an open
alienate a client or make them feel uncomfortable. My life experiences and worldviews are mine
alone and not indicative of how others will feel. I can be empathetic to others and relate to their
situations even though my experiences have been different. This will not affect my ability to
counsel clients. Having opportunities now to explore my values and beliefs is beneficial.
Consider concerns and possible negative effects before they come up in therapy.
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The Ethical Standards for School Counselors states that counselors expand personal
Furthermore, understand how discrimination and other issues affect students. Ethics in
multicultural counseling are ever-changing. A responsible and ethical counselor must consider
issues of power and privilege when working with clients. As I think about being a culturally
competent school counselor, my biggest concern is how I can provide culturally appropriate
services to all clients. Students will come to me with different worldviews, attitudes, beliefs,
values, and experiences. I want self-awareness, knowledge, building skills, and positive
therapeutic rapport. I have an ethical responsibility to have awareness and respect for others'
differences.
Self-reflection is the starting point. I understand that my thoughts may lead to unfair
assumptions and stereotypes. I want to be open to many possible viewpoints and let the client
have a voice in therapy. Living and teaching in rural Nebraska, I have had few chances to work
with students from diverse backgrounds. My inexperience has pushed me to research and think
about possible issues. All students are unique, with specific life experiences and culture as one
part. I by no means believe I must be an expert on all cultures, but I need a foundation and
willingness to learn various aspects and differences of clients. Knowing when to consult with
another provider or outside resource is also essential. Depending on their culture, interventions
and expectations will vary from client to client. Having the appropriate skills goes beyond being
ethically sensitive to profoundly understanding how each client is unique. I want to create a safe
environment where clients can voice their concerns about our differences. Overcoming mistakes
Each culture has unique attributes that must be taken into account. Oppression and racism
should not be minimalized because they have profound implications for many clients. As a
counselor, I realize these factors have influenced the client's perspectives and behaviors in life.
Awareness and acceptance of differences include not imposing my values and beliefs on clients.
I must be cautious and intentional in my conversations with individuals to not push my thinking
onto them. Self-reflection on my thinking will help me be more aware and accepting of others'
viewpoints.
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6. Informed Consent
Informed consent is an ethical obligation and requirement for counseling that protects
both the client and the therapist. The informed consent process provides an opportunity for
clients to ask questions and voice their expectations of counseling. Informed consent is an
integral part of the disclosure statement document, including information that clients need about,
from costs of services, confidentiality, and limitations to scheduling appointments that must be
discussed in depth with a client. The informed consent process can be a chance to begin building
therapeutic rapport.
The informed consent process can help clients feel comfortable and safe. I want clients to
know their thoughts are valued and that I hear what they say. Looking at informed consent from
a school counseling viewpoint, students must understand they play an active role in how therapy
looks. Students may have yet to have counseling experiences and not know what to expect. I
would teach informed consent topics through examples and hypothetical situations to give the
counseling. During the intake process, I would ask questions and want them to answer as
honestly as possible. Several students would potentially know me as their math teacher, so I
would explain how my role as a school counselor would be different. I would also use the
informed consent process to discuss privacy and confidentiality regarding emails and other
information or contacting me on social media. I will also tell students I may need to consult my
7. Malpractice
According to the textbook, malpractice is failing to give professional services or have the
skills expected of professionals in similar situations. Upon completing the coursework for my
degree in school counseling, I will have the basic knowledge and skills to begin helping students.
I do not expect to know everything, but I will have the foundation to build upon in my career.
Understanding my profession's ethical codes and expectations will decrease the chances of facing
legal issues.
legal action, I will be responsible, careful, and ethical in my client's decisions and practices. To
defend myself against a possible malpractice suit, I will provide quality care and build strong
relationships with clients. The best precaution against malpractice is providing the best services
Minimizing risk begins in the intake and first sessions with students. I will obtain written
informed consent. A signed document may not be required legally, but for me, just beginning as
a school counselor, this will ensure I have discussed important information and will remember
everything. I will have many concerns going through my mind, and I want to prevent
or notes, is needed to show I have the client's best interests in mind. Covering rights,
responsibilities, and expectations will keep the therapy process moving positively.
As a school counselor, another area of concern for me is the chance of providing wrong
diagnoses and assessments to students. I do not want to overlook symptoms or signs and fail to
act on the potential for suicide or harm to others. I know the basics of the suicide assessment, but
I will keep reminders of what to watch on my desk. I am not afraid to consult other counselors if
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unsure about the next steps. Taking the time and building rapport will be the most effective way
8. Confidentiality
confidentiality in school counseling to share information with parents, teachers, and staff. The
ethical standards say I must keep the information confidential unless to prevent harm to the
different due to working with clients that are minors. Parents may need to be included in
counseling, and in many states, discussions are not considered privileged communication.
Informing parents about certain issues is a tough call. As a parent, we all want to know what is
happening with our children, but as a counselor, I would weigh the pros and cons of the situation.
School counselors are ethically obligated to protect confidentiality, but this may conflict with
trust that what they say will remain between us, and in most cases, it will. Students must feel
comfortable that a counselor will keep their conversations confidential, which is mostly true.
Being upfront and honest with them will help stop issues later in therapy. Giving a clear picture
of what to expect and letting students ask questions will get everyone on the same page.
I will only inform teachers and staff on a need-to-know basis. Before discussing pertinent
issues, I will ask the student for permission when appropriate. The case study in the textbook
about a student who took a test gave me pause. My first instinct was to inform the chemistry
teacher, but after more thought decided it would be breaching confidentiality. No one was in
danger of being hurt. This is when I would need to turn off my teacher's brain and look at this
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from the counselor's perspective. I understand there will be bigger challenges than a stolen test,
but considering all possibilities will help me make ethical decisions later.
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During a counseling session with a student, Tess, she told me that she and some friends had
stolen a chemistry final exam. Tess wants me to keep this information private. She is concerned
because she is failing the class and needs to do well on the final exam to pass the course and
Potential issues in this situation warrant further discussion: the reasons for stealing the test, not
the excuse to get a better grade but Tess's thinking. In exploring the theft of the test, Tess will
Ethical codes suggest that no one is harmed, so I should not break confidentiality. As bad as I
want to tell the teacher, I would not. In talking with Tess, I hope she would admit to being
Not applicable to this case study, but I would do my due diligence in researching laws and
I would not obtain consultation on this matter, but I would like to know how other school
counselors may handle the issue. If I needed to consult with a colleague, I would keep the
Possible courses of action include letting the matter drop. Another would be to inform the
teacher and Tess's parents, but this would not be ethical. Encourage Tess to come forward and
talk with her parents and teacher. This would be the best option so Tess could take responsibility
for her actions. Suggest that the teacher speaks with Tess and I in my office with Tess's
permission. I would normally avoid being the intermediary, but I would understand if Tess
wanted me to be in the conversation with the teacher. Ultimately, I hope that with some targeted
If I took the matter into my own hands and told the teacher myself, it would not only be unethical
but also damage my relationship with Tess. She asked me not to mention the incident to anyone
else, and I would want to honor that request. It still would not change my mind to speak with her
I would not speak about the stolen test to anyone else but would encourage Tess to think about
10. Self-Evaluation
I have been an active participant in the class. I have enjoyed the topics relevant to ethics
in counseling. At times, the ethical choice may differ from the client's needs. I appreciate having
the time to reflect on the issues. With my limited experience as a counselor, I cannot begin to
predict the possible challenges that may arise with students. I want to be prepared and confident I
One strength is my openness to others' thoughts and viewpoints. I may disagree with a
client's behaviors, but I can remain impartial and listen. My role as a school counselor is not to
judge, give advice, or criticize. I prefer exploring all sides of issues before making decisions.
This is a strength or possible weakness. There will be times in counseling when I must make
quick decisions. For those times, my training and experience will kick in and help me do what is
best for students. I have yet to take the crisis counseling class, so I look forward to knowing
summer break and have the extra time needed for my three classes. The time constraints are
challenging, but it has not affected my learning. Ethical considerations and practices are essential
to being an effective counselor. I am continually reflecting on what I have learned and how it
will look when put into practice during my practicum in the fall.
I would give my class participation a 95%. I read others' forum posts and take what is