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14 unique and effective ways to get out of

ADHD paralysis
Nhi Hemingway · May 11, 2023 · 19 min read

ADHD

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What is ADHD paralysis?

Is ADHD paralysis real?

Symptoms of ADHD paralysis

3 types of ADHD paralysis

ADHD paralysis vs. depression

ADHD paralysis vs procrastination

6 strategies for preventing ADHD paralysis before it starts

14 ways to get out of ADHD paralysis once it starts


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ADHD scrolling paralysis - what does it mean and how to prevent it?

The impact of scrolling paralysis on individuals with ADHD

Preventing scrolling paralysis

Executive function and the causes of ADHD paralysis

Executive dysfunction in Attention DePcit Hyperactivity Disorder

In summary:

Do you often find yourself struggling to complete even the simplest of


tasks?

Perhaps you've noticed that you tend to procrastinate, leaving important


assignments and deadlines until the very last minute?

Or, are you easily overwhelmed and often find it difficult to focus on one
thing for too long?

These symptoms might be signs of ADHD paralysis, a common


phenomenon that can leave you feeling stuck and frustrated.
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In this article, we'll delve into what ADHD paralysis is, how it relates to
ADHD, and some strategies for overcoming it.

Whether you're someone with ADHD, have an ADHDer in your life, or are
just curious to find out more about this phenomenon, this article is for
you.

In a rush? Scroll to the very bottom for a quick summary!


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What is ADHD paralysis?

ADHD paralysis meaning

ADHD paralysis refers to the phenomenon of feeling stuck or unable to


take action. It's a common experience of those with Attention Deficit
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Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD).

Imagine having a bottleneck in your brain that's blocking you from


getting motivated and taking action. It's not that your body is actually
physically paralyzed, but rather the executive function in your brain is
limited in a way that is preventing you from getting the motivation you
need to start the task.

Although not an official symptom in the diagnostic criteria for ADHD,


ADHD paralysis is widely used to describe the experiences of people
with ADHD and the difficulty they have with starting tasks, finishing
tasks, or the overall avoidance of tasks all together.

Contrary to what it may seem to non-ADHDers who may not understand


the phenomenon, ADHD paralysis is not laziness! It's the result of many
differences in the ADHD brain (compared to the neurotypical brain), that
causes ADHDers to have difficulty with things like planning, completing
multi-step processes, switching tasks, and motivating themselves.
Essentially, ADHD brains are wired differently.

It can be hard for non-ADHDers to understand why people with ADHD


experience such a difficult time with daily tasks, and as a result can
often feel frustrated with the person in their life with ADHD.
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Because of this, people with ADHD can often experience shame, fatigue,
and guilt as a result of their ADHD Paralysis and other ADHD symptoms.

This can cause a downward spiral, causing even more paralysis and
shame.

Is ADHD paralysis real?

Yes, it's real! Although the term doesn't mean that the person is
physically paralyzed and unable to move their muscles, it refers to a
mental state in which someone is unable to motivate themselves to
complete a task.
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Symptoms of ADHD paralysis

But what might someone experiencing ADHD paralysis feel? Some of the
most common symptoms include:

Avoiding necessary tasks like making doctors appointments,


completing assignments, paying bills, or completing chores

Becoming easily distracted by other things

Jump from task to task to avoid doing the one they should be doing,
and an inability to finish tasks

Inability to make a decision (until the last possible second)

Inability to think on the spot or difficulty carrying a conversation

Decrease self-esteem

Increased anxiety

Lack of interest in certain activities

3 types of ADHD paralysis

According to Add.org, there are three different types of paralysis that an


ADHDer might experience: mental paralysis, choice paralysis, and task
paralysis.

So, what's the differences between these?


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Let's explore what these are and how they differ:

ADHD mental paralysis

Mental paralysis occurs when an ADHDer is feeling overwhelmed. This


feeling of overwhelm could be due to emotions, thoughts, experiences,
information or sensory overload.

A person experiencing ADHD mental paralysis might 'freeze up' during a


conversation, or when put on the spot, even if the situation or
conversation may seem simple and easy to handle to others, like
ordering at a restaurant, or responding to a simple question.

Mental paralysis is like hitting the pause button on your brain, leaving
you feeling frozen in place during situations you may find intense. So, if
you find yourself zoned out during a heated debate or frozen in fear
during a rollercoaster ride, you might just be experiencing ADHD mental
paralysis.

ADHD choice paralysis

ADHD choice paralysis, also commonly called 'analysis paralysis',


describes the inability for someone with ADHD to make a decision,
causing them unneeded stress and mental load. This may occur when
you feel that there are too many options to choose from causing you to
overthink the situation. You may be afraid that the option you choose
will be the wrong choice, or the wrong decision, resulting in
overwhelming feelings of anxiety over the decision.

Neurotypical people can also experience analysis paralysis, typically


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experience it with just two options, and in situations where the decision
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ADHD task paralysis

ADHD task paralysis refers to the sense of dread, fear, or panic that
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'paralyzes' someone with ADHD into inaction and hinders their ability to
start or engage in tasks that need to be completed.

Perhaps the best way to think about it, is like procrastination on


steroids.

It can lead to an intense feeling of overwhelm which can manifest as


various mental and physical symptoms... procrastination and task
avoidance are often the result.

Task paralysis can be triggered by the anticipation of a big important


task, a small mundane task, or a growing and unmanaged to-do list.

The longer the person delays doing the task, the more that the
overwhelm and dread grows, causing the paralysis to worsen. It's a
terrible negative feedback loop that can cause a downward spiral.

It's not uncommon for people with ADHD paralysis to wait until the very
last minute to complete tasks–usually costing them more money (ex.
needing to pay for express shipping), energy, (having to stay up all night
to finish a paper) and stress.

ADHD paralysis vs. depression

Similar to ADHD paralysis, people experiencing depression may find it


difficult to motivate themselves to complete certain tasks or make a
decision, and often experience mental freezing or fogginess.

And because 47 percent of adults with ADHD also experience


depression, it can be hard to distinguish between the two
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The main difference, however, is that while an individual with
depression may find it difficult to engage or get started in any task, those
experiencing ADHD paralysis typically are still able to start and engage
in tasks that they find interesting.

As mentioned, almost half of adults with ADHD experience depression,


so it's likely that you could be experiencing both, and that both
conditions may be negatively impacting the other.

If you think you are experiencing depression, we highly recommend


getting in contact with a mental health professional.

ADHD paralysis vs procrastination

Don't confuse ADHD paralysis with the run-of-the-mill kind of


procrastination, where you put off, or delay doing tasks. Think of it as
procrastination's evil twin - a debilitating state that leaves you powerless
against waves of doubt and dread.

6 strategies for preventing ADHD paralysis


before it starts
Have you ever experienced a day where the more you stayed inactive,
the harder it became to break out of that cycle?

This is the same reason that once you've experienced ADHD paralysis, it
can be hard to get out of.
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That often means the more you let it go on, the worse it can get. So it's
important to be aware of the triggers, how and why it happens, and have
strategies in place to prevent it from happening in the first place.

In this section, we will explore seven effective strategies that can help
you combat the effects of ADHD paralysis and regain control over your
productivity.

1. Speak with a licensed ADHD healthcare provider

To manage ADHD paralysis, seeking professional help from a licensed


healthcare provider is key, but it can be a daunting task.

First, you need to be comfortable with the fact that you may need help
and that it's ok to ask for it. And secondly, you need to find a provider
and make an appointment.

Finding a provider and making an appointment can feel overwhelming,


especially if you're already experiencing ADHD paralysis. It may be
worth asking a friend to help support you when you start the process.

Check your health insurance plan's network for providers, or search for
them on Psychology Today (USA), ADHD Coaches Australasia, or AADD-
UK. Note that while they may not take your insurance, you can still reach
out for help.

2. Learn about the ADHD brain to better understand your symptoms

As you've probably already realized, (because you're reading this!),


educating yourself about the intricacies of the ADHD brain can be a
game-changer in understanding and managing ADHD. And you're off to
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a great start learning about ADHD paralysis!

We recommend taking the time to learn about time blindness (the


inability to feel the passing of time, or know how long things will take),
hyperfixation vs hyperfocus, and how dopamine and the prefrontal
cortex play a role in executive functioning, cognitive flexibility, and
rewards.

These concepts will help you understand what causes ADHD paralysis
and position you to better implement strategies to prevent or mitigate its
effects.

3. Keep a calendar

Keeping, reviewing and updating a calendar can help to mitigate the


potential for feeling overwhelm and experiencing paralysis. Being
organized can help to prevent overwhelm by externalizing all the
important dates, appointments, and deadlines you have, rather than
keeping them all in your brain.

Some ADHDers use a physical calendar on their desk or on the


refrigerator. These can be helpful because they serve as a visual
reminder where you are likely to see it, reducing the likelihood of
forgetting or neglecting important responsibilities.

Others use digital calendars like Google Calendar that integrates with
their email. These can work well because they have reminders and
helpful alerts and prompts, ensuring you stay on track. Whatever your
system is, find one that works for you and integrates with the other tools
you use.
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Regularly reviewing and updating your calendar helps you stay on top of
your obligations, mitigating the potential for overwhelm and paralysis.

4. Learn to listen to your 'gut' or intuition

ADHD individuals often possess a remarkable ability to rely on their


intuition or 'gut feelings.' Embracing this innate sense can be an
effective strategy to counteract ADHD paralysis.

When faced with decision-making or task prioritization, take a moment


to tune in to your intuition. Your subconscious mind may provide
valuable insights that can guide you towards the most productive course
of action. Trusting your instincts and using them as a compass can help
you overcome the inertia that often accompanies ADHD paralysis.

A few tips…

If you find yourself saying "I should...", that's a sign you are trying to
meet someone else's expectations. If you find yourself saying "I want.."
or "I need..." that's likely your intuition talking.

Here's an audio course that teaches you how to tap into your intuition.

5. Establish a regular exercise habit

Trying to establish a regular exercise habit is easier said than done, we


know! But physical activity has been proven to have significant benefits
for individuals with ADHD. Engaging in regular exercise releases
endorphins, improves focus, enhances cognitive function, and reduces
stress levels. These positive effects can help prevent falling into bouts of
ADHD paralysis.
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Incorporating exercise into your daily routine can provide a natural
boost of energy and motivation, making it easier to overcome feelings of
inertia. Whether it's a brisk walk, a yoga session, round of golf, or a high-
intensity workout, finding an exercise regimen that suits your
preferences and interests can greatly enhance your ability to stay
motivated and productive.

6. Cognitive restructuring

Cognitive restructuring is a behavioral technique that helps break down


automatic patterns of negative thinking.

Individuals with ADHD often struggle with negative self-talk,


perfectionism, and profound fear of failure, which can contribute to
ADHD paralysis. Cognitive restructuring involves identifying these
negative thoughts and replacing them with more positive and realistic
ones. By challenging irrational beliefs, reframing negative narratives,
and focusing on self-compassion, you can shift your mindset and reduce
the likelihood of paralysis.

Seeking guidance from a therapist or using self-help resources on


cognitive restructuring can provide valuable tools and techniques for
implementing this into your daily life.
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Source: ADHD Couple

14 ways to get out of ADHD paralysis once it


starts

ADHD paralysis can be incredibly frustrating and overwhelming. The


feeling of being stuck, unable to move forward or complete tasks, can be
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disheartening. However, there are strategies and techniques that can
help you break free from the brain fog and regain your productivity. If
you find yourself in the grip of ADHD paralysis, try implementing the
following tips:

1. Speak with a licensed ADHD healthcare provider

First and foremost, seeking professional guidance is essential when


dealing with ADHD. A licensed ADHD healthcare provider can offer
valuable insights and personalized strategies to help you manage your
symptoms and overcome paralysis. They can provide medication
options or suggest alternative treatments that align with your specific
needs.

2. Find environments with less distraction

If your current environment is too distracting, try changing your


environment in someway. Is there a coffee shop down the street? A park
nearby? Can you move to a different room in your house? Changing up
your environment could break you out of your funk.

3. Un-isolate yourself and meet with a friend

Connecting with others who understand and empathize with your ADHD
struggles can be immensely beneficial. Whether they have ADHD
themselves or are familiar with it, find a friend you can share your
struggles with. Sharing your experiences and challenges with someone
who can relate can help alleviate feelings of isolation and shame which
might free you up to actually get started on some of the tasks.

Another great option to consider is to join an Accountability/Co-working


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group. Some great options include Shelpful, Focus Friends Club, and the
Accountable Otters Club.

4. Try 'Get Sh*t Done' sessions

At Llama Life, we have 'Get sh*t done' sessions, where the team comes
together virtually to tackle tasks in a supportive environment. These
sessions provide accountability and create a sense of camaraderie,
helping break through paralysis and accomplish your goals.

5. Use timers and other time management tools

Time management is crucial for individuals with ADHD. Utilize timers to


structure your tasks and allocate specific time intervals for focused
work. Set achievable goals for each session, and take short breaks in
between to recharge your focus. A tool like Llama Life will make using
timers really easy and fun (you may even get some confetti for
completing a task ).

6. Get moving!

Exercise is just about the answer for everything these days, and its often
way easier said than done, especially when you're in a paralysis
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state.The key is to start small–seriously, just raise your hands above your
head five times, or walk up and down the stairs–or find something you
enjoy (like walking with a friend, playing basketball, etc.) Anything that
sounds fun to get the blood flowing will stimulate your brain and
increase your alertness.

7. Embrace sunlight

Sunlight plays a vital role in regulating mood and energy levels.


Spending time outdoors, especially in the morning, can help reset your
circadian rhythm and improve your overall wellbeing. Try to incorporate
outdoor activities into your daily routine, such as taking a walk or sitting
in a sunny spot while working.

8. Fuel your brain with protein and dopamine-boosting foods

Want to turbocharge your brain function? You need to eat right! When
ADHD paralysis strikes, reach for a protein-packed snack to give your
dopamine levels a boost. Why? Dopamine is key for motivation and
focus. Think eggs, nuts, lean meats, and beans to increase dopamine
availability in your brain and get more done. And don't forget tyrosine -
it's essential for dopamine production and can be found in many
protein-rich foods. So start your day with a breakfast that fuels your
brain and watch your productivity soar!

9. Journaling - put pen to paper

Writing down your thoughts and emotions can be therapeutic and help
clear your mind, but sometimes journaling seems daunting. Who wants
to stare at a blank page? The trick is to just start writing or doodling
anything that comes to mind. It doesn't matter what ends up on the page.
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Just go with the flow and capture whatever comes to mind.

10. Consider ADHD stimulant medication

If you haven't already, consult with your healthcare provider about the
potential benefits of ADHD stimulant or prescription medication. These
medications can help improve focus, attention, and overall executive
functioning. However, it's essential to work closely with a healthcare
professional to find the right medication and dosage for your specific
needs.

11. Embrace novelty in your approach and environment

ADHD brains thrive on novelty and new experiences. When you feel
paralyzed, try injecting some novelty into your routine or workspace.
Rearrange your desk, try out a different productivity app, or experiment
with new techniques to complete tasks. Breaking away from
monotonous patterns can ignite your motivation and spark creativity,
helping you overcome ADHD paralysis.

12. Gamify your tasks

Turning tasks into games can be an effective strategy to combat ADHD


paralysis. Set up a point system for completing specific tasks and reward
yourself for reaching a certain number of points (for example, maybe a
desert once you finish 3 tasks).

13. Race against the clock

Setting timers for each task can be a fun way to create a sense of urgency
and prevent you from becoming overwhelmed by the vastness of a task.
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By working in focused bursts, you can gradually regain momentum and
overcome ADHD paralysis. Llama Life is a great tool for this!
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14. Be kind to yourself and embrace your neurodivergence

It's essential to practice self-compassion when facing ADHD paralysis.


Recognize that ADHD is a neurodivergent condition, and that your brain
works differently.

Embrace your unique strengths and abilities that come with ADHD, such
as creativity, hyperfocus, and out-of-the-box thinking. Use these
strengths to your advantage and develop strategies that cater to your
specific needs. By embracing your neurodivergence, you can cultivate a
positive mindset and find effective ways to navigate through paralysis.
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Source: ADHD Alien

ADHD scrolling paralysis - what does it mean and


how to prevent it?

Scrolling paralysis refers to the state of being entrapped in a continuous


cycle of mindless scrolling through digital content, typically on social
media platforms, without any purpose or meaningful engagement. It is
characterized by an inability to break away from the constant allure of
endless feeds, resulting in time wasted, decreased productivity, and
heightened feelings of frustration and overwhelm.
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The impact of scrolling paralysis on individuals
with ADHD

For individuals with ADHD, scrolling paralysis can be particularly


debilitating. The inherent difficulties in maintaining focus, regulating
attention, and managing impulsivity make ADHDers more susceptible to
getting caught in the vortex of mindless scrolling. The instant
gratification and novelty provided by digital platforms act as powerful
stimuli, triggering a dopamine rush that further exacerbates the
struggle to disengage. This vicious cycle often leads to increased
procrastination, diminished self-esteem, and decreased overall
productivity.

Preventing scrolling paralysis

One creative solution suggested by someone on Reddit: when checking


your phone to do a quick task, get into a squat position so that when your
legs get tired, its a reminder to get off your phone!

You could also time your social media breaks using Llama Life, which
would be a less painful method!

Remember, breaking free from scrolling paralysis is not an overnight


process, but with patience, perseverance, and the right tools, it is indeed
achievable.

Executive function and the causes of ADHD


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The role of the prefrontal cortex

The prefrontal cortex is responsible for higher-order thought,


responsible decision making, and executive functioning, a term for the
set of mental processes that enable us to plan, organize, focus attention,
regulate emotions, and make decisions.

In other words, the prefrontal cortex is our main center for critical
thinking, and acts as a layer of rational thought above the emotional
parts of the brain, allowing us to control impulses, set goals, and manage
time effectively.

Executive dysfunction in Attention DeQcit


Hyperactivity Disorder

However, in individuals with ADHD, the development of the prefrontal


cortex differs from that of non-ADHD individuals. Specifically, the
frontal cortex, including the prefrontal cortex, has been shown in
studies to develop at a slower pace in ADHD brains compared to controls
(Shaw et al. 2009a).

This delayed development affects the individual's ability to regulate and


manage emotional responses originating from the lower brain regions.

Other studies have shown that adolescents and adults with ADHD have
less brain activity in parts of the brain during reward anticipation, which
can hinder the ADHD brain to successfully motivate itself to complete
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tasks.

These changes, among others, contribute to executive dysfunction in


ADHD patients and affect decision making, cognitive flexibility,
motivation, time management, and reward anticipating, which create
the conditions for ADHD paralysis.

Source: A Heart for All Students

In conclusion, ADHD paralysis can be a difficult challenge, but there are


ways to find relief and manage its effects. If you find yourself struggling
to cope, do not hesitate to reach out for help and referrals. Specialized
resources such as counseling, ADHD Coaches, education and support
groups can help you get the additional support you may need.

In summary:
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Although ADHD paralysis is not an official symptom in the
diagnostic criteria for ADHD, it is a real phenomenon that is
experienced by many ADHDers

ADHD paralysis is the feeling of being stuck or unable to take


action. Imagine a bottleneck in your brain that's blocking you from
getting motivated and taking action. Your body is not actually
physically paralyzed

It can be hard for non ADHDers to understand why people with


ADHD experience paralysis, which can often result in feeling
frustrated

Common symptoms of ADHD paralysis include avoiding necessary


tasks, being easily distracted, jumping from one task to another, an
inability to make decisions or think on the spot, decreased self
esteem, increased anxiety and lack of interest in certain activities

There are 3 types of ADHD paralysis: Mental paralysis, choice


paralysis, and task paralysis

There are many strategies you can put in place to try to prevent
ADHD paralysis, including speaking with a licensed ADHD
healthcare provider, using a calendar, exercising and looking after
your health, and trying to listen to your 'gut'.

Once experiencing ADHD paralysis, there are many recommended


ways to get out of it, including: speaking with a licensed ADHD
healthcare provider, connecting with friends and others for support
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