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A Christian Guide To Courtship, Dating and Marriage by Rev. Evang. Eleazar Otuson
A Christian Guide To Courtship, Dating and Marriage by Rev. Evang. Eleazar Otuson
COURTSHIP
DATING &
MARRIAGE
(A HANDBOOK FOR ALL CHRISTIAN YOUTHS)
Foreword by
Pastor (Mrs.) Victoria O. Ayine, PhD
Lecturer, Federal College of Education, Obudu, CRS, Nigeria
A Christian Guide to Courtship
Dating & Marriage
Published by
Aflame Gospel Publications (AGP)
Gospel House, St Michael Otuson’s Close
Abijah Beebo, Boki LGA,
Cross River, Nigeria
ISBN: 978-37606-8=8
‘’Unless otherwise indicated, all scripture quotations are from the Holy
Bible, Authorized King James Version © 2012 by the Bible Society of
Nigeria, 18 Wharf Road, P. O. Box 68 Apapa, Lagos, Nigeria
Printed in Nigeria by
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To our only Daughter,
Our joy and delight,
Princess Dorcas
Osuwaonibo Otuson;
And all Christians Youths
Who are determined to
Honor God in all
This Book is dedicated
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
Dedication - - - - - - 2
Acknowledgement - - - - 4
Foreword - - - - - - 6
Introduction - - - - - 7
Endnotes - - - - - - 86
Bibliography - - - - - 88
FOREWARD
1
Houdmann
are into courtship or date and at the point of getting married
to do so in an honorable way and to the glory of God.
Courtship is an honored,
successful practice of
learning about someone
enough whether or not
the two are compatible
for marriage
Chapter One
A Prelude to Marriage
The word ‘prelude’ indicates, first of all, that Courtship
is not marriage per say, but a preliminary and process
towards it. Courtship generally is a period in a romantic
relationship before marriage characterized by, and involving,
love affair suitable for the expression of tender emotions.
Thus it becomes questionable as to whether a
Christian should be involved as such expression of tender
emotions, or fleshly lusts are sinful to all ‘who walk not after
the flesh, but after the spirit’’ (Rom. 8:1). Here, it is not the
place of fun for everyone to get involved, but a threading
ground for those who are matured enough and ready for
marriage.
Trying to get someone’s Love
In Courtship, you are trying hard to get the love of
another – the opposite sex. It is paying attention to someone
with the view of developing a more intimate relationship. In
this case, you are only showing interest with the view of
gaining something, winning the love of the opposite sex.
Ingratiating Behavior
Ingratiating behavior refers to the act of trying to
please the opposite sex in other to win a favor, gain an
advantage, establish an alliance, or other relationship. It is a
selfish disposition.
Mating Behavior
In Zoology, this is the act of attracting another animal
or bird as a mate in Courtship; a time during which animals
or birds engage in this; or specialized behavior in animals that
leads to, or initiates’’ mating2. Courtship general involves
three basic activities today – wooing, dating, engagement as
its end result. A closer look at each of these words reveals
what courtship and dating is all about.
2
The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language (4th Ed)
Tom Brown maintains that dating is the world’s way to
find a Spouse. According to him, one is rather to find a bride
through Courtship which he describes as ‘’a more scriptural
way to meet a spouse3’’
3
Brown
4
Ibid
5
Webster
reality in the next chapters and find out if a born again child
of God should be involved, or is there any danger to avoid.
While some have argued that there’s no difference
between courtship and dating, other maintained that there
is a clear difference between the two. Those who argue that
courtship and dating are the same do so, on grounds that
they both are methods towards finding a marriage partner.
Lies Young in his view maintains on the contrary thus:
9
Brown, Ibid
“The words “courtship” and
“dating” are not found in
the Bible, and they are never
a scriptural mandate either.
These are not Bible doctrines
and there is no scriptural
command that Christians
should court or date”.
Chapter Two
Biblical Principles
10
Songs of Solomon 8:4
This statement is repeated three times in Songs of
Solomon showing emphasis. The New Living Translation
(NLT) renders it beautifully thus:
“Honor thy father and thy mother, that thy days may be long
upon the land which the lord thy God giveth thee”
“Run from sexual sin! No other sin clearly affects the body as
this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own
body”
“For this is the will of God, even your sanctification; that you
should abstain from fornication; that every one of you know
how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honor, not in
the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know
not God”
11
Young, Ibid
Christians view courtship
as a little more than
friendship and maintains
the friendship aspect of
the courtship until both
are ready to commit to
each other as potential
marriage partners
Chapter Three
A Dangerous Game
Serious Temptation
Courtship as earlier discussed involves wooing, dating
and possible agreement. It implies not only showing concern
to, but being together, going out together and doing
everything possible to win the love of the opposite sex.
12
Collins English Dictionary (Complete and Unabridged: harper Collins publications,
2002)
Appearance of Evil
Every genuinely born again Christian would take
seriously the biblical injunction of I Thessalonians 5:22 which
says: “Abstain from all appearance of evil”. Two key words
are important here, which we must consider. These are the
words “abstain” and “appearance”.
This is necessary for a clearer view of the danger
involved here. To “abstain” is simply to refrain from, or chose
not to do, something. It is the same as to desist, withdraw,
go without or give up. To abstain also means to sit on the
fence, stay neutral or take no sides.
The word “appearance” on the other hand refers to
the look or form, the exterior manifestation, outer shell or
outward show, etc. The Bible is not referring here to the
actual committal of evil, but the appearance, or what looks
like evil before the world. This is important because the
world judges us by what they see (I Sam. 16:7).
Danger of Rape
There is also the danger of being raped in the process
of courtship or dating. This was the case of Dinah, daughter
of Jacob. She became a victim of rape because she put herself
in the danger of going to the young Prince’s house and being
with him alone. This gave the prince the opportunity of
getting her drunk and raping her at last (Gen. 34:1, 2).
Consider also the resultant effect of her carelessness.
The Bible warns us never to give the devil a “foothold”
(Eph. 4: 27). But, we can do so by going too close to the
opposite sex and staying alone with them at odd times or
behind closed doors. We are also enjoined to be “vigilant”
seeing the devil prowls about seeking whom to devour (I Pet.
5: 8)
Sexual Involvement
It is natural for teenagers who are growing up to think
and imagine what sex looks like. You are exposed to
innuendo and blatant references to sex in nearly every prime
time TV show or movie you see and you wonder what it’s like.
We have a culture which portrays sex as a recreational
activity that everyone’s experiencing often. Today, even
most dedicated Christian teens fight battles of temptation
when it comes to wanting to experience sexual pleasure.
Ours today is an extremely sexually explicit culture
where young people are even encouraged to explore a
variety of sexual activity and most teens do not consider
anything other than sexual intercourse as being sexually
involved13.
13
Shellenberger & Gowler, 56
Getting into close relationship with the opposite sex
increases the desire to explore. The atmosphere of
courtship or dating puts you at risk of becoming
sexually involved.
Many young people today are sexually involved in
different ways such as pornography, masturbation,
lesbianism, homosexuality, phonesex, and cybersex, etc.
close relationship with the opposite sex puts you in danger
of the aforementioned. Let’s take closer look at these areas
where many young Christians become sexually involved.
Pornography.
Pornography refers to sexually explicit materials that
is designed to arouse the viewer, reader or listener. It can
include pictures, as well as written or audio material14.
According to Wikipedia, it is often abbreviated as “porn” or
“porno” in informal usage. From the Greek “porneia”
(fornication) it refers to the explicit portrayal of sexual object
matter for the purpose of sexual arousal. It may be presented
in a variety of media including books, magazines, postcards,
photographs, sculpture, drawing, painting, animation, sound
recording, film, video and video games.
The term applies to the depiction of the act rather than
the act itself, and so does not include life exhibitions like sex
shows and striptease. The introduction of the home video
and the internet saw a boom in the worldwide porn industry
that now generates billions of dollars annually.
14
The watchtower Magazine (New York: Watchtower Bible and Tract Society, Inc.,
August 1, 2013) 3
Etymologically, the word “pornography” is similar to
Modern Greek “pornograhia” (prostitute) and “porneia”
(prostitution). Pornography is generally classified into soft-
core and hardcore and both forms generally contain nudity15.
The Watchtower magazine of August 1, 2013 revels
that every second, 30,000 persons view pornographic
websites; every month, internet users send more than 1.7
million pornographic emails; every hour, nearly two hardcore
pornographic videos are released in the United States; every
day, an average of more than two million pornographic
movies are rented in the United States alone; every month,
nearly 9 to 10 young men, and 3 out of 10 young women in
the United States view pornography; and every year, the
global pornographic industry generates an estimate of 100
billion US dollars16.
15
Wikipedia (en.wiki.org/wiki/pornography)
16
The Watchtower, Ibid
“pornographic visual images imprint and alter the brain,
triggering instant, voluntary, but lasting biochemical memory
trail (that is) difficult or impossible to delete”17.
Masturbation
Masturbation is the stimulation of ones genitals,
usually to the point of orgasm. The stimulation may be by
hand, fingers, everyday object, or dedicated sex toys. It is
touching and rubbing your pennies or clitoris, vulva and
breast for sexual pleasure.18
Dr. James Dobson stressed that four circumstances
gives concern which include oppressive guilt (becoming
conscious that even God couldn’t love you for the despicable
act); obsession with the act; addiction to pornographic
materials; or when it’s taken into adulthood and becomes a
substitute for healthy sexual relationship. Nevertheless, you
can gain freedom and deliverance from pornography by
firstly praying to God – asking forgiveness and deliverance
through Jesus Christ.
Secondly, you need to get help from others by telling
them your situation and asking counsel on how to get out of
17
Ibid
18
Wikipedia, Ibid
this bondage. Pastors, mature Christians and professional
Counsellors are most preferred. Thirdly, identify your
weak points and avoid those potential triggers – emotions,
thoughts, situations, etc. Is it internet surfing, late night
movies, or visiting the Beach, etc.?
Fourthly, think right (Phil. 4:8, 9) and finally, try to
improve your spirituality by engaging and occupying yourself
with beneficial spiritual activities like Bible Studies, worship,
fellowship, prayer meeting, etc. for total victory over fleshly
lusts.
Phonesex
Phonesex refers to a secret conversation between two
or more people on phone where the individuals are
describing the act of sex with the intention of achieving
sexual arousal or orgasm. 19 This is commonplace today on
many social media networks and thousands of young people
around the world are already involved.
Cybersex
Cybersex is when a person becomes involved in sexual
conversation and activity with another online via a
Computer. It is defined as “the consensual sexual discussion
online for the purpose of achieving sexual arousal or an
orgasm”20.
According to Wikipedia, it is a sexual arousal using
computer technology, especially by wearing virtual reality
equipment or by exchanging messages with another person
via the internet. Cybersex is also called computer sex,
19
Wikipedia (http//:en.wikipedia.org/wiki/phonesex)
20
Shellenberger & Gowler, 73
internet sex, net sex, mindsex, tinysex and colloquially
cybersex or conversex.21
Young people today are sexually involved in all these
on the deceit that they are safer – with no risk of unwanted
pregnancies or STDs.
21
Wikipedia (en.wikipedia.org/wiki/cybersex)
wise to play safe and ensure that you do not give place to the
devil.
Finally, understand that courtship or dating is never
the qualifying certificate to marriage. There are other
effective ways of studying another, or finding out about his
or her Christian life before making any commitment in
marriage. Therefore, be wise and lay for yourself a solid and
scriptural foundation for a successful marriage.
A Christian who indulges in
physical contacts with the
opposite sex during
Courtship, or Date, is not
born again and has lost his or
her Christian testimony.
Chapter Five
Temper outburst
Do you notice an outburst of temper, such as cussing,
throwing things or kicking doors, not necessarily directed at
you, but towards anybody, etc.? Any of these days, you may
become the target of his vicious attack.
Sexiest Attitude
Does he seemed to have strong ideas about the place
and sexual position of women verses men? Does he insist
that women must know their place? Such may be difficult to
satisfy sexually, a prospect for infidelity.
Insults
Is he putting down for your opinion or laughing at what
you believe in? Does he make you look stupid, ignorant and
incompetent?
Psychological Abuse
“You are no good”. Does he make you feel you cannot
do anything right, or get along in life without his help? Does
he present himself as the only opportunity in the world you
have to be successful, or make it in life?
Ridicule
Does he make fun of you alone or in presence of
others? Does he also make fun of your dressing, eating
habits, ideas and opinion, sometimes publicly?
Abusive Background
Looking at his background, was he battered in life as a
child, or see his mother or sisters being hit when he was a
child? He may need a good bit of counselling to be free from
the circle of violence.
The only exception to this rule is one who says he was
subjected to abuse and there is no way he would do this to
his partner or child.
Blaming others
Does he have the habit of blaming others for what he
does or what happens to him? Does he find it difficult to
accept his fault, or has the habit of easily shifting blame to
others?
Alcohol and Drug Abuse
Does he have a drinking or drug problem? Does he
become verbally or physically abusive under the influence of
Alcohol or drugs? Is he physically or verbally abused towards
others, like people in the restaurant, drivers in the street,
people he comes in contact with, etc.?
Possessive Behavior
Is he happy or moody when you spend time with your
friends or family? Does he seemed to stop you from relating
to your friends or family members? Does he seemed
uncomfortable to see your colleagues close to you in the
office – especially the opposite sex?
Jealous Accusations
Does he jokingly or seriously complained that you
were trying to attract other men by the way walk, dress or
behave?
Checking and Tracking
Does he keep track of where you went, who you met
and how much time you spent there? Does he contract
others (friends, relations) to spy on you or monitor your
movements or relationships?
2222
Sharma; Mind Publications (www.mindpublications.com/art.124.htm)
5. He threatens to hurt you and hurt himself, commit
suicide, should you break up the relationship.
6. He mounts pressure on you to be involved sexually.
7. He yells, grabs, pushes or throws things when he is
angry.
8. He drinks or uses drugs
9. He tells how much he loves you early on in the
relationship.
10. He has a tragic home life, his Parents abuse alcohol
or drugs
These are some red flags you should be looking out for in an
unhealthy dating or courting relationship23.
23
Shellenberger & Gowler, 65
“Sex is not love and love is not
sex, failure to understand this
is a contributing factor for
your heartbreaks, as well as
believing every promise people
make to you”.
Chapter Seven
A Final Word
Having gone through this Book, you can now evaluate
your actions in the light of biblical principles. Is there any way
you’ve already involved yourself and have to do something
to avoid tragedy? Can it be true that you are already involved
sexually and need help on how to go through it to victory?
If you have in any way lost your virginity because of
sexual abuse, carelessness or evil lifestyle, you need to know
that you were a victim of a crime or ignorance. God is not
mad at you, nor does he blame you for what happened. It
was outside of his will that it all happened. Maybe you
willingly gave your virginity because you were deceived to
believe false promises of love, or in your lustful desires.
The good news is that you can have a second virginity
through asking God to forgive you and by turning away from
pre-marital sexual activity. There are no such things as
“damaged goods” in God’s eyes.
Are you among those who thinks they’ve gone too far
and God can’t and won’t forgive them? You need to know
that God’s hand of love and restoration is not too short to
reach you. Christ died to wipe away your sins. The Bible says:
24
I Corinthians
“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our
sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness”25.
25
I John 1:9
SECTION II
Finding the
WILL OF GOD
IN MARRIAGE
Chapter Eight
26
Oxford Advance Learners Dictionary (International Students Standard Edition)
Different Types of Will
The Bible reveals at least four (4) types of will that we
all need to be aware of, and understand, if we will not fall
into error. These are our Personal or self-will, the will of the
flesh, the will of man, and the will of God. Frankly, it takes
one who clearly understands and can differentiate between
these four, to boldly speak of whether, or not, something is
the will of God. Let’s dig deeper into these facts as revealed
in Scripture.
Personal or Self-will
All of us as humans are free moral agents divinely
endowed with the power of the will to make choices. God
planted the tree in the center of the Garden of Eden as the
only opportunity for man to exercise his will. God want us to
love, serve and follow him by choice. It is never his will to
drive us like Robots. The will is God’s gift to all humans. You
have a will and so do EVERY HUMAN BEING.
Personal or self-will refers to what we ourselves want
to happen in a given situation. We all have our taste, desires
and likes, etc. even Jesus Christ showed the difference
between his personal will and the will of God in Matthew
26:39, 42. The Bible says:
“O father, if this cup may not pass away from me, except I
drink it, thy will be done”
When you do what others want, you are not doing the
will of God, but of Man.
The Will of God
God has a definite plan that is suitable for each of his
Children. The Bible clearly speaks of the “will of God” (Eph.
5”17) and that it is foolish to ignore it. Here, it is not what I
want, the flesh or others, but what God wants me to do.
Jesus has to choose between what he want and what
God desires him to do (Matt. 26:39, 42). Jonah decided to do
his own will, rather than that which God wanted him to do
(Jonah 1: 2, 3). The will of God is clearly spelt out in the Bible.
For instance, I Thessalonians 4: 3-4, 6, 11 and 12 explains:
“For this is the will of God, even your sanctification; “that ye
should abstain from fornication,” “that every one of you
should possess his vessel in sanctification and honor”, “that
no man defraud his brother in any matter”, that ye study to
be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your
own hands”, that ye may walk honestly towards them that
are without and that ye may have lack of nothing”
“Not everyone that saith unto me Lord, Lord, shall enter into
the kingdom of heaven, but he that doeth the will of my
father which is in heaven (Emphasis mine).
Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not
prophesied in thy name? And in thy name cast out devils? And
in thy name done many wonderful works? And then will I
profess unto them, I never knew you; depart from me, ye that
work iniquity” (Emphasis mine).
Wrong Methods
Many singles today engage themselves in some
unbiblical and wrong methods in their bid to find the will of
God for them to marry. The unfortunate thing is that such
marriages that were contracted on the platform of the will of
God have long gone soar, or ended in divorce, and the couple
has no more courage to affirm that it is God who brought
them together as they earlier claimed.
Following are some of the wrong ways many have, and
are using, in their effort to find God’s will for their lives in
marriage.
Prophecy
What a “man of God” says that someone is your (God
given) husband or wife, can never in any way become God’s
will for you. You need to understand that there are deceits in
prophecy and it’s a common playground for display of both
the human, deceiving and familiar spirits.
Many things happens in the church on the platform of
prophecy and you need to be careful when prophecy begins
to call names of people and suggest their husbands or wife.
In too many occasions, the prophecies are arranged and
tutored for the benefit of the one partner and as a means to
deceive a man or woman into marriage – on the disguise of
“God says” and “prophecy”. God help us!
Dreams / Visions
Some young people have been lured into marriages
based on claimed dreams and visions by others or by
themselves. Dreams and visions are never a reliable way for
finding God’s will. Others have rejected the will of God for
them on grounds that they have not seen any dream of vision
to confirm. Moreover, there is no biblical support for
dreams as a means of finding God’s will. Even if God choses
to do so, it will be absolutely at his disposal – without man
initiating for it. Consider the following Biblical facts:
1. Dreams are not for young people in this
dispensation of the Holy Ghost. It is for “old men”
(Acts 2:17; Joel 2: 28
Intimidating Approaches
Some sincere Christians have been lured into marriage
by the intimidating approaches of their suitors. When the
man or woman threatens, frightens, scare, coerce or
terrorize you with “God has revealed to me that you are my
husband or wife”. He or she is trapped into accepting their
piousness and wholehearted resolved to please God. Those
who do so are under condemnation for using God’s name in
vain (Exo. 20:7).
If God revealed to him or her, has he also revealed to
you? If God revealed to you as a person, it would be proper
to keep it to yourself and approach the person on a neutral
ground allowing God to confirm his will.
It is best to say I feel that both of us can live together
as Husband and wife, how do you see it? Please take some
time and pray about it too. It is an intimidation to say God
revealed to me that you are my husband/wife which is a
dangerous and improper method of finding God’s will.
Seeking a Sign
Many young people go to the extreme of asking God
for a sign and arranging it to their favor. A Youngman, in
finding God’s will, prayed that by the next morning, whoever
knocks at his door first should be God’s will for his marriage.
He thought that the Sister he is attracted to and who have
been frequenting his house every morning will be the one.
Unfortunately for him the next day, he heard a knock
at the door and rushed to open the door, but it was a cripple
Sister of their church – and he became cast bitter, cast down
and confused. It is self-deceit to say, if it rains today, then it
is the will of God, knowing that it is rainy season now.
Nevertheless, Jesus said it is a “wicked and adulterous
generation” that seeks after a sign (Matt. 12:42; 16:4).
Bible Roulette
This refers to a small box with cards that have scripture
verses written on them and used mostly in the United States.
Someone seeking God prays over them and flipping his/her
fingers through will pick any Card he/she is led believing that
the scripture written in the card is God’s will for the moment.
A young man seeking God’s will felt led to select three
cards that made him confused. The first card chosen said
“And Judas went and hanged himself” (Matt. 27:5). He
prayed again and selected the second card which says “Go,
and do thou likewise” (Luke 10: 37) and on the third card was
written, “That thou doest, do quickly” (John 13:27).
“Delight yourself in the Lord; and he will give you the desires
of your heart”
The problem here is that any brother or sister who did
not meet this requirements is considered as never the will of
God for marriage. The foolishness also is that those who
make such lists never consider whether or not they
themselves are equal to the standard. Who wrote the list in
the first place, you or God?
If you wrote them as what you want (personal will),
how on earth did it become God’s will? It is sad that by this
personal standards and misapplication, some have missed
the will of God for their lives and others are at the verge of
doing so.
Chapter Ten
Environmental Factor
A person’s tribe or where he/she comes form or lives (urban
or rural) is never a god basis for choosing a life partner. When
you chose a life partner based on his/her ethnicity, family,
ancestral descent or clan, never confused it with the will of
God.
There is no guarantee that you will make a happy
family because you speak the same language, or live in the
urban city or town – if he/she is not born again and of good
Christian character.
Social Factor
Some consider their choices for marriage based on
community, societal, public issues like firm, popularity, and
social status of a man or woman they intend to marry. I once
had a member who rejected a sister for another on grounds
that the other sister was popular.
The popularity of your spouse is not a guarantee for
success in Marriage. You may not find your popular wife or
husband around always because he/she must be moving
around the globe from one function to another in his/her
popularity or firm.
Economic Factor
This is when we decide to marry someone for financial,
monetary and trade reasons or benefits. Here, people think
that wealth and riches is all that is needed for a happy
marriage, which is not true. Riches have wings and can fly any
day, where will the marriage survive? What if the business
crumbles? Wealth and riches are never a good basis for
choosing whom to marry.
Physical Factor
The physical factor speaks of the person’s physics – a
person’s body shape, face, nose, smile, height, weight, color,
breast shape, ugly or beautiful, etc. it is true that one must
have a physical attraction to the one he/she intends to
marry, which may differ from one person to another.
The physical factor is never a solid ground to build our
love for marriage. Sickness or natural disaster can alter the
physical beauty or color and we will have no place for our
love to survive.
Spiritual Factor.
The spiritual factor refers to the person’s Christian
experience. Is he or she born again? What about
Christlikeness and holy living? How is he/she devoted to the
church and Christian activities? What about his/her
character?
Among all factors above and more, the Later is the first
thing every Christian girl/boy should consider. The spiritual
factor is a solid foundation for a successful and lasting
marriage. Any other considerations should be built upon a
persons’ Christian life and experience.
It is essential to understand that two born again
Christians can harmoniously live together in the bond of
marriage.
Chapter One
1. Houdman (www.getquestions.org/difference-
dat...)
Chapter Two
2. The American Heritage Dictionary of English
Language (Houghton, Mufflin Company, 2000)
4. Ibid
6. Young Lies,
(www.liesyoungwomenbelieve.com/index...)
7. Ibid
8. Urban Dictionary
(www.urbandictionary.com/define.php%...)
9. Brown, Ibid
Chapter Three
10. Young, Ibid
Chapter Four
11. Collins English Dictionary (Complete and
Unabridged: Harper Collins Publishers, 2000).
16. Ibid
Chapter Six
22. Sharma; Mind Publications
(www.mindpublications.com/art.124.htm)
Chapter Seven
24. I John 1: 9
Bibliography
4. Merriam Webster
(www.merriamwebster.com/.../courtship).
6. Sharma (www.mindpublications.com/art.124.htm)
9. Urban Dictionary
(www.urbandictionary.com/define.php%...)
This Book will help singles to lay for themselves a solid foundation for
marriage and to live above satanic strategies and immoral influences of
our day. It provides answers to the many questions singles often ask as
to courtship and dating proffering solutions that makes for a marriage
that will glorify God. This Book is a must read for every young Christian.