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Love, Intimacy and Relationship
Love, Intimacy and Relationship
Love, Intimacy and Relationship
RELATIONSHIP
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Lesson Objectives
When you finish reading this chapter, you should be able to:
Passion-
The emotive and physical component of
love, drives towards sexual and romantic
attraction.
Commitment-
Decision to engage and maintain a loving relationship.
Intimacy
The psychosocial component of love, knowing and
being known by someone in a deeply personal level;
emotional closeness and connection.
Relationship
Social bond between and among individuals
manifested through communication and other
forms of interaction. This bond may be
biological or determined by social contracts
such as social consensus o laws.
INTRODUCTION
In February 15, 2015, an article featuring a study
by McCann World Group, among 30,000
respondents from 29 countries, came out of a
national newspaper, bannering the title " Filipinos
most expressive about love among Asia Pacific
counties-study" (Hegina 2015).
Example:
Crucial to this life stage is the presence of a
caregiver-typically our mother. It suggests that
the kind of attachment we have with them
influence or affects how we view life later.
Color Wheel of Love
John Alan Lee
Primary Types of Love
John Alan Lee
One type of love that is not mentioned by Lee but most definitely is a
kind of love we come across quite often, is Philautia. This is self-love.
When a person has an extremely low amount of self-love, it will also be considered
unhealthy. This often goes together with low self-esteem and low self-confidence.
When Philautia is seen as healthy, the person has a good amount of self-
confidence, self-esteem and is in a positive cognitive state. The person won’t
need other elements like materialistic attributes or drugs and sex to make
themselves feel better. They have an emotional appraisal of their own worth.
Psychologist Robert
Sternberg's theory
describes types of
love based on three
different scales:
intimacy, passion,
and commitment.
ROMANTIC AND COMPANIONATE LOVE
Quality time tend to value quality moments with their loved ones. They are much more willing
to create memories with the people they love
Receiving gifts want to show and receive affection through material objects, especially during
special occasions.
Acts of service are much willing to serve the other person by helping her or him in things that
they do.
Physical touch express love non-verbally through hugs, kisses or simply a tap on the back.
They value proximity (nearness) and yearn for physical contact (not necessarily sexual in
nature) with their partners.
LOVE & INTIMATE
RELATIONSHIP
An intimate relationship is an interpersonal relationship that involves physical or emotional
intimacy. Although an intimate relationship is commonly a sexual relationship, it may also be a non-
sexual relationship involving family, friends, or acquaintances.
Emotional intimacy involves feelings of liking or loving one or more people, and may result in
physical intimacy. Physical intimacy is characterized by romantic love, sexual activity, or other
passionate attachment. These relationships play a central role in the overall human experience.
Humans have a general desire to belong and to love, which is usually satisfied within an intimate
relationship. Such relationships allow a social network for people to form strong emotional
attachments.
LOVE
If you love someone, you feel
romantically or sexually attracted to
them, and they are very important to
you. Love is a very strong feeling of
affection towards someone who you
are romantically or sexually attracted
to.
INTIMATE
Intimate means being close. A small
restaurant is called intimate because
you're sitting close to the other
people, and your best friends are
considered your intimate friends.
In his analysis of human relationships, George Levinger (1982) postulated that there
are stages that intimate relationships go through:
1.Acquaintance-
Intimate human relationships starts in acquaintanceship.
We meet up through circumstances and fist learn about
basic information about one another. Crucial at this time is
attraction.
2.Buildup
Some acquaintanceships build up into deeper relationships.
Frequency of interaction increase. Kinds of activities shared
become diverse. The involved parties begin to introduce one
another to each other's friend's and family thus ,making the
social network larger and interconnected. This is the stage
when to persons test their boundaries. They test the waters
before engaging fully and so commitedly in the relationship.
3.Consolidation and Continuation
This stage is when people commits to a long-terms
relationship with one another,. either through a
personal agreement (exclusivity of partnership,
domestic partnership) or social-legal agreement
(marriage).
4.Declination or Deterioration
Unfortunately, some intimate partnerships are unable
to sustain and maintain their commitments or
attraction. For one, there may be a change in priorities
between the individual couple, such that the conjoint
value of the partnership is not anymore sufficient.
There may be infidelity, the breech of loyalty and
promises as agreed upon by both individuals.
5.Ending
Finally, for those intimate
partnerships who are unable
to address the causes and
circumstances leading to the
deterioration of their
relationship, the stages
culminate into ending or
termination of the
agreements made.
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