Contents

The Filthy Grimoire

DEDICATION
Acknowledgements
1 The Joy of Sex
2 Seduction Sorcery and Consent
3 Chaos Magick and Servitors
4 Quick and Dirty Seduction Sorcery Strategy
5 Making The Magick Happen
The Sigils and their Powers
6 Sigils for Clearing Sexual Blockages
Know Yourself and What You Really Want Sexually
Accept Yourself And What You Really Want Sexually
Overcome Loneliness
Reject Desperation
Overcome Deep Fears of Intimacy/Abandonment/Being Hurt
Break Through Sexual Programming
Feel Sexually Attractive
7 Sigils for Sexual Healing
Heal Sexual Trauma
Lower Your Expectations
Have a Healthy Sex Drive
Overcome Shame of Masturbation
Remove Shame of Sex
Cut Connection to Previous Lover
Overcome Harmful Sexual Habits, Attractions, or Addictions
Happy In Your Own Skin
Influence Others to Embrace Your Sexuality
Be Able to Achieve An Orgasm
8 Sigils for Gender Magick
Embrace Your True Gender
Help Transition Male to Female
Help Transition Female to Male
Ascend From Gender Binaries
Influence Others to Embrace Your True Gender
Be Seen/Recognized as Your True Gender
Find Support Transitioning
9 Sigils of Seduction
Increase Sexual Attractiveness
Sexually Enchant People With Your Voice
Be More Seductive
Increase Confidence in Seduction
Become More Assertive in Seduction
Give Off an Aura of Sexual Charisma
Majesty
Keep Your Wits When Seducing
Seduce Named Individual
Make Good First Impression
Stand Out In Dating App
Stick In Someone’s Mind
Make Someone Miss You
Attract Sugar Daddy/Momma
Attract a Lover Who’s Into Your Kink
Kill an Infatuation/Obsession
Shut Down an Infatuation/Obsession in Another
10 Sigils to Perform Better In Bed
Keep Your Wits Before/During/After Sex
Increase Sexual Confidence
Become Sexually Assertive
Become a More Generous Lover
Boost Sex Drive
Ejaculation Control
Be In the Moment
Increase Stamina
Shorten Refractory Time
Increase Intuition During Sex
Stronger Orgasms
Beast Mode
11 Sigils to Improve Sex in Relationships
Increase Communication with Lover
Enforce Boundaries Within the Relationship
Deepen the Connection with Lover
Be More Romantic
Inspire Lover to be more Romantic
12 Sigils for Sexual Adventure
Increase the Amount of Sex You Are Having
Increase the Quality of Sex You Are Having
Be More Sexually Adventurous
Influence Lover to Be More Sexually Adventurous
Influence Someone to Try a Particular Kink
Breakthrough Gender Roles
Swap the Power Dynamic
Get Laid (Hook-Up)
Handjob
Oral
Anal
Threesome
Let’s Swing
Orgy
Find a Community
Make Your Fantasy a Reality
Blank Sigil
Appendix I Working Directly with the Shadows
Appendix II The Shadows
Amistra (ah-MEE-strah)
Gorduin (gore-DOO-in)
Zeldonika (zell-DON-ick-ah)
Phelorna (fell-LORN -ah)
Ruvyn (ROOV-yin)
Hubys Falana (HUB-yees FALL-on-ah)
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
 The Filthy Grimoire

Sex Sigils and Servitors:

Magick for Having Better Sex More Often

Jareth Tempest
 Copyright © 2022 Jareth Tempest

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 DEDICATION
To all my fans encouraging me to write about “all the shit people tell us
not to want or do.”
 Acknowledgements
This book owes a huge dept to Jean de la Motte, Delilah Green, Auntie
Eden and most of all to my amazing wife Ligeia Tempest
 1 The Joy of Sex
Sex is one of the best things about being alive and is one of the central
concerns of human nature. Because of its importance, it is one of the most
controversial parts of human society. Sex is so powerful that people in
power are afraid of it. Politicians try to govern it. Religions try to regulate
sex and make us ashamed of it. Marketers try to commodify it and sell it to
us as a product. Magicians and mystics have long known that sex is sacred,
and even if you are an atheist you have screamed “oh God” at least once in
the heat of passion! However, I’m not here to tell you about the magical
power of sex and what you should do with it. I’m here to help you liberate
your sexuality. Free you from the artificial confines the politicians want to
box your sexuality into. Free you from the shame that popes, priests,
pastors, and imans have used to shackle your sexuality. Free you from the
harmful fantasies advertising has trapped your sexuality in so that you are
constantly chasing something you can never have. Free you from the
horrible trauma that you have suffered from those who should have loved
and protected you. And hopefully, have some nasty fun along the way!

I know this isn’t the kind of introduction that these types of magick
books tend to have. Typically the formula for these things is that I tell you
how life-changing this book will be for you and get you all hyped for the
easy success you are going to effortlessly get. I know, because I’ve written
those intros myself. Well, this ain’t that kind of book! This is a very real
book on a very real topic. Major warning for those who keep reading. We
are going to be talking about sex and human sexuality. It’s going to be a fun
and raunchy ride! It’s also going to be very honest and open about topics
that some people are extremely uncomfortable dealing with. We’ll talk
about the difference between seduction and sexual assault, and healing from
issues like rape and incest. Just know that if you have had these kinds of
traumas, we are going to talk about them because we want to heal from
them. I will be sensitive, and I don’t want you blindsided. We’re going to
talk about the reality of human sexuality which is anything but politically
correct. I take a generally holistic approach to sex and sexuality which
means we will be talking about everything from biology to society. Nature
and nurture. Our sexuality is absolutely more than just a biological process,
but it is also not just a social construct that we can idealize and divorce
from the reality of our physical bodies. We have to deal with the whole
sexual enchilada and it’s not always pretty. Remember, I am not a therapist
or mental help professional. These are just the opinions of a magician based
on my experiences and observations. So again, if you chose to continue, be
warned you are in the splash zone! It might get a little sticky and you're
probably going to get some on you, but you might come to find out that you
like it.

The subtitle of the book says Sex Sigils and Servitors. If you haven’t
guessed already, that means this is a book of Chaos Magick. We will not be
using any angels or demons. There is no Kabballah, Enochian, or Tantra.
This is a system of my own crafting. I have created six servitors that I call
“Shadows.” Each has a specific area of human sexuality that they specialize
in. I then made dozens of sigils for various purposes. Each sigil is part of a
larger compound sigil that includes all six Shadows. It is also designed to
blend the powers of all the Shadows so they work together to make one
power and the whole thing is tied to an energy network that fuels the ritual
so you have all the power needed to give you the results you want. It is a
very well-crafted system that if used correctly and strategically, will change
your sex life.

I say strategically because there is a way that you will probably have to
go about things. Don’t expect to go from being a virgin with no experience
to using the Orgy Sigil, being suddenly invited to your crush's slumber
party, and having mind-blowing sex with them plus all of their friends. Be
realistic! You’re probably going to have to do some inner work first. But
don’t worry, Jareth’s got you covered! I have several sigils to get you
healing and flush out those subconscious blockages that are keeping you
alone. Sigils like Overcome Loneliness and Reject Desperation because
nothing kills both magick and seduction like desperation. If you aren’t
comfortable with your body I have sigils like Happy in Your Own Skin and
Feel Sexually Attractive. Then I have stuff to help your seduction game.
Increase Confidence, Be More Assertive, and yes even Increase Sexual
Attractiveness. Then you can start using the fun ones like Oral, Anal, and
the infamous Threesome Sigil. Honestly, that’s just scratching the surface of
what I’m offering here. You just have to trust me, follow my instructions,
and my Shadows and I will rock your world!

Hopefully, you have noticed that this is not your typical sex magick
book. I mean that quite literally. If you are looking for what most people
think of as “sex magick” you aren’t going to like this book. Sex magick is a
type of magick that uses sex as a ritual and the power it generates for either
spiritual ascension or to cause a change in the world. This is a very
powerful form of magick and the more you study the occult, the more you
will find a lot of the metaphors you are working with are actually talking
about sex - and not just in the microcosm, but in the macrocosm. As above,
so below. Just as sex between two people has the power to create either
magick or a new human, so the coupling of the great cosmic forces creates
the universe and all of us. As I said, sex is not only powerful and central to
life, but it is a primal sacred force that permeates everything.

As interesting as that is, it’s not what we are here to talk about though.
What this book is actually going to focus on, is what you might call
"sorcery for seduction.” The word “sorcery” or “low magick” is typically
what occultists call magick (we use “magick” with a “k” to separate it from
stage magic) that is used to get something. As this book is about getting sex
it is most definitely low magick or sorcery. The word we have for trying to
get more sex is seduction, so there you have it, we are doing seduction
sorcery. “High magick” is for the great work, which is usually considered a
form of spiritual evolution or enlightenment. However, it can also be more
general inner work and healing, so there is an element of high magick here
as well. I only bring it up to show how the two concepts are really
intertwined. The simple fact is that you can’t make low magick work very
well if you haven’t done a little high magick on yourself first.

A lot of big, famous, fancy magicians will say that using magick to get
laid is immature and insulting to the art. Well, they can just go fuck off with
that gatekeeper nonsense! This is my book, and in my book, it’s perfectly
ok to use magick to make your life better. The old grimoires are full of
spells, rituals, and workings to help people have sex. Seriously, you have no
idea how sexually depraved some of these medieval magicians were, and
most of them were clergy! I don’t know where this idea that magick is only
for spiritual growth came from, but it is not historical and really comes
from a place of privilege. Who are they to tell us what we can and can’t do
with our own power? They need to get down from their ivory tower and
come live in the muck with the rest of us. Life is messy and we have
magick to help us sort it out. That includes sex. I’m not afraid to get down
and dirty with magick, and I started this journey as a Catholic mystic. I
completely believe we should be working towards a higher purpose, the
divine marriage, and the union of our souls to the divine. (See the sexual
metaphor!) That is definitely our ultimate goal, in my opinion. But even
believing that, I know from experience that it’s really hard to focus on
higher things when you are alone and unsatisfied. Being alone hurts. Not
having enough sex eats at you. It isn’t healthy. Sex is so important to us and
when something is wrong sexually it can cause tremendous suffering. Even
something seemingly trivial like an unfulfilled fantasy can drive people
crazy until they do something stupid to fulfill that craving and end up
hurting themselves or others. So by all means, use this book to scratch that
itch. Take care of your needs and the desires of your flesh. Then, you can
free yourself to be able to focus on higher magick. Or not. The point is,
your magick is yours to do with as you choose. Don’t let anyone, including
me, put your magick in a box.

Something else I want to make clear is that the magick here is meant to
help everyone. The genesis of this book came when I posted a sigil for
having a threesome on a Facebook group as a joke. As I was expecting, a
lot of men were excited but what surprised me was how many women were
as well. When I jokingly commented that I should make a book of sex sigils
it was the women who were most excited by the idea. So right from the
beginning, I knew that if I did this project I would have to do it in a way for
both men and women. As a bisexual, it was obvious that I would need to set
it up in such a way that people could use it for either sex. Then as I was
working on everything I knew I had a powerful tool to help transgendered
people transition and feel more confident with who they are. Now that
being said, I can only see things from my own point of view and while I
have definitely tried to be as inclusive in my language as possible, there
might be something phrased in a way that rubs you wrong. Please know,
that if that happens it was from ignorance and not a desire to offend. What
that means for you, is that not every sigil in the book is necessarily for you,
and that’s ok. In general though, I’ve tried to craft the magick in this book
to be useful to everyone regardless of age, gender, or sexual orientation.

One last thought before we move on. When I posted that Threesome
Sigil in the group back in June of 2019, people had the best time in the
comments. They were asking for sigils to find sugar daddies, get blowjobs,
and have anal sex. It was a hilarious free for all, as people imagined a book
that in one woman’s words was full of “all the shit people tell us not to
want or do.” That is the spirit in which this book was written. A book that is
full of the type of sex sigils that people want when they stop being polite
and tell you what they really want. So join me as we toss propriety out the
door and get filthy!
 2 Seduction Sorcery and Consent
Well before we get ourselves all dirty, there is one conversation we need
to have first and that is about consent. Once again please keep in mind that I
am a magician and not a lawyer. This is just my opinion and I’m speaking
about morality and not legality. Don’t use your seduction grimoire for legal
advice! In my opinion, anything goes in sex as long as it is between two
consenting adults. That is also how the magick in this book is crafted. You
can be into diaper or pony play if you want. Jareth don’t judge! Just as long
as everyone has agreed to do it, everything is all good.

It scares me how many people seem to be confused about this topic. Let
me tell a quick story. I was on a job site a few years back. I used to work as
a steerman for windmill blade trailers. You see, they are so long that
someone has to be behind them and steer the rear axles of the trailer with a
remote control so the blade doesn’t hit anything. We had to follow the
trucks into the job sites and steer them under the cranes to unload the
blades. So, we are waiting our turn to get unloaded and it’s taking forever.
This older trucker gets out of his truck and walks over and we start chit-
chatting. This was when the news was full of stories about the asshole who
raped a woman at a party. She passed out and he took her out back and had
his way with her. So out of the blue, this guy brings that story up and he
says something I’ll never forget. “What man hasn’t seen a pretty young
thing passed out and had his way with her?” I was fucking horrified and
furious at the same time. I quickly yelled, “me, you sick fuck!” He got on
the defensive and told me he had been a cop and he knew the law, but he
also knew what men were like. I told him he needed to shut his rapist's
mouth up and get the fuck back in his truck. The scariest thing is that this
isn’t the only time someone has just confessed sexual assault to me thinking
it was just “guy talk”.

So because so many people seem to not understand the idea, consent

means that the person you want to have sex with agrees to have sex with
you. You are never entitled to have sex with another person. It doesn’t
matter if you just took them out on an expensive date. It doesn’t matter if
you bought them something big and extravagant. It doesn’t matter if you’ve
been together before. It doesn’t matter if it’s your birthday. It doesn’t matter
if you’re married. If the other person says no, and you keep going, it’s rape.

And they can change their mind at any time. It doesn’t matter if they are
naked. It doesn’t matter if they are naked, on the bed, and said yes a minute
ago, if they say they changed their mind and you keep going, it’s rape. It
also means you can be in the middle of intercourse and if they say “no” or
“stop” you need to stop.

Keeping it real, there used to be a blurred area, but younger generations

are working to change that. It used to be that men would try something and
see if she said no, if she didn’t that meant it was ok and then they could try
to go a little further until she did say no. But it doesn’t necessarily work like
that anymore. Here’s another story; A guy was with a girl he liked and they
had gone on a date. After the date, they went back to his place. He did what
I was describing and started making out with her and when she didn’t say
no he kept going until he was fingering her. What he didn’t realize was that
she froze up out of fear when he started kissing her. And because she was
so afraid she couldn’t say no. Now, I don’t know enough about the facts of
this situation to call what he did rape, but he probably should have realized
she wasn’t kissing him back and stopped. She also shouldn’t be dating if
she’s that afraid. A celebrity got in trouble for a similar situation when he
misread the situation and did some things his date wasn’t into. She didn’t
say no, but she didn’t say yes either. So affirmative consent is best. That is
when both parties verbally agree with what they are doing. It’s not sexy, but
it’s best to be sure, especially if it’s your first time. As you are together
more often you might learn how to say yes in other, non-verbal ways, but
before you know each other that well you should get a verbal yes.

What does this have to do with magick? A lot actually. See the idea of
consent is a part of magick. We often talk about free will. Some spirits
won’t help you until you ask them because they will not violate your free
will. There are some people who say that you can’t use magick that goes
against someone’s free will. There are whole traditions of magick users
laughing at you if you think that by the way. Some spirits absolutely don’t
care about free will and aren’t bound by it. Just so you know, my servitors
are not built that way. They will not force someone against their will.

“So what’s the point?” you may be asking. “If your servitors won’t force
someone to have sex with me, what good are they?” Well first off, if you are
really asking that you should go reread this chapter. Next, you have to
understand that there’s a whole lot of wiggle room in human behavior. This
is where seduction comes in. The idea isn’t to force someone to say “yes”
who would normally say “no.” The idea is to convince them that they
should say “yes” in the first place or to show them that they made the
wrong decision by saying “no” and should change their mind and say “yes.’

You can go about this in a number of ways and honestly each person is
going to have their own reasons why they are saying “no.” You will have to
figure out what those are and make them see things in a different light. For
a basic example, they may want to have sex, just not with you because they
find you unattractive. Use a few sigils to make yourself seem more
attractive and now they are willing. Or maybe you come across as lacking
confidence or worse you reek of desperation. A few sigils later, you are not
only any longer desperate, but are full of confidence and charm.

The same goes for pretty much all the magick in this book. It’s about
making yourself more appealing as well as manipulating the other person to
be more willing. If that sounds gross to you, well welcome to humanity.
This is what we do with each other every day. Don’t think so? Tell me you
don’t wear clothes that make you look more appealing. Or wear makeup to
make you more attractive. Or wear a fragrance to attract the right kind of
attention. That is all technically a form of manipulation, just one we are so
used to we don’t tend to think of it that way. We are just using magick
instead of clothes.

So it’s all about manipulation and not force. Seduction not assault. They
can always say no, you are just trying to get them to say yes.
 3 Chaos Magick and Servitors
I mentioned at the beginning that the magick in this book is Chaos
Magick. If you don’t know what that means let me briefly explain. Chaos
Magick is a relatively new magical movement. It started in the ’70s and
gained popularity in the ’90s. It has a pretty much anything goes kind of
vibe to it, hence the name. The basic idea of it is to take what works and
throw the rest away. I think of it as a way to optimize magick. You see
there’s actually a lot of space in magick for personalization and
optimization. Even in more traditional systems, there are certain things that
you just have to decide to work a certain way and keep working with them
until it does. This open area in magick is where Chaos Magicians thrive.
But we don’t need to get in the weeds with what Chaos Magick is and isn’t.
Just know that it is not something to be afraid of. It’s not scary like in the
show Wandavision. We aren’t working with primordial chaos deities or
anything Lovecraftian. It’s just a kind of magick that allows you to build
things and customize them yourself.

There are two practices that became very popular in Chaos Magick.
These are sigils and servitors. Both rely on the power of our thoughts to
change reality. Sigils are a great example of the power of the mind to
change reality. They are just images that you make out of your request. The
process of creating the image links it with your request in your
subconscious. Then by performing a ritual with the sigil you are telling your
subconscious that you have done the action needed to make the results
happen, so your mind will make it real. That’s how powerful our thoughts
are. Just convincing your consciousness that something should happen will
cause it to make your request manifest.

Servitors are sort of the same idea only taken to the next level. You see
a servitor is a sort of spirit that you create yourself for a specific purpose.
You decide what they look like, what their purpose is, and what their
powers are. Then you imagine them moving around you as though they
were real. When you do this you are giving them energy and forming them
into what you want them to be. Then you ritualistically bring them to life
and send them out into the world to do their job.

The basic idea is that your thoughts have power. Not in some
metaphorical way, and not just in the sense that your subconscious listens to
your thoughts and makes them real. No, I mean that your thoughts have real
spiritual power that can manifest in the physical world. Once, I made a
servitor whose job was to keep my car running. One day it started to
overheat. I called on my servitor to cool it off and I saw the temperature
gauge suddenly drop to normal and hold for several seconds before it
started to go back up again. Thoughts are powerful, but they aren’t strong
enough to cool a car's engine and keep it cool without coolant! But it was
cool to see that the servitor was strong enough to bring the temp down at
all! Something I created just by thinking about it was able to physically
affect my car. That’s amazing!

You may have heard rumors that servitors aren’t safe. That they can go
haywire like Frankenstein’s monster. First off, that’s mostly just rumor. It’s
very rare. I have only seen it once and it was from an experimental servitor
someone else made and it only affected one person negatively and that
person was drinking heavily and had questionable mental health at the time.
Regardless of how rare it happens, I create mine with multiple layers of
safety. They are created with a true name that only I have. They can only be
changed by using the true name. They also have a way for you to easily,
permanently banish them from you forever. And they are constructed to
love people, to love working with people, and to never harm anyone.
Finally, and I say this in all of my books regardless of the topic, always
remember that no magick is completely safe. You are creating change and
you cannot always predict how the change will play out. That being said,
magick and servitors will always manifest your results in the least harmful
way possible. With all the safety features I’ve built in, this is much safer
than summoning a spirit, so there’s no need to worry.

So, the foundation of the system are the six servitors I created just for
this purpose. They have been on my Patreon being worked with by the
people there for over a year, and there have not been any complaints. People
have reported some amazing success stories. One other thing worth
mentioning is that the more servitors are worked with the stronger they get.
So the more people who buy and use this book the more effective the
magick in the book will become! That being said, I’m not counting on that
to power everything.

No, to really give this book some nice sizzle I created a network of
nodes that take in mystical energy from their areas and store it. Each sigil
plugs into that network so that it uses power stored in the system to fuel the
servitors and power your ritual. The nodes were placed all over the country
as I traveled for work when I was a blade runner. I placed them in wind
farms, hotel rooms, restaurants, truck stops, and anywhere where there was
a lot of excess energy. They don’t vampirize anything, just take the extra
energy we leave behind. I also have a powerful radionics machine that is on
24/7 pumping energy into it. So these servitors and sigils are hooked to a
powerful energy system. This will make it work that much better for you.

The question you might be asking yourself is why use servitors when
we can work with angels, demons, djinn, fae, or genius spirits? There are a
few reasons I chose to work with servitors in this book. You may or may
not believe this part, but I believe that many of us, if not most, have a rough
destiny outlined for us. I won’t go as far as saying we have soul contracts,
but there are certain lessons we agree to learn, and sometimes we can also
take on a certain mission in life. Well, angels and even demons and other
spirits tend to obey that and won’t necessarily change something that we are
“meant” to face. Some don’t care, but others do. So you can end up doing
ritual after ritual trying to get them to do something for you that they just
aren’t going to help you with. Servitors don’t care. They do what they were
made to do, destiny or not.

Another reason is that you have to find the right spirit for the job. And
just because a spirit has influence in that area and can do that job it doesn’t
mean that that spirit is the right one for you to work with. See we all
resonate with different spirits. For example, there are several spirits that can
help with money. Tzadkiel, Mammon, Bime, Claunek, and Nitika, just to
name a few. Now they each approach it in a different way, one that may or
may not be best for your issue. But more importantly, you might not
personally resonate with angels, so Tzadkiel is out. You also might not get
along with Bime for some reason. Personally, Nitika has always worked
great for money purposes, but for a lot of my friends, it's Mammon. It’s just
different for everyone. It would be the same way for sex. So to make a book
like this, that’s effective for most people, servitors were the way to go.

Besides, I wouldn’t be able to make something so specific with powers

like Attract a Sugar Daddy. Good luck finding that in a grimoire! Frankly, it
would be a nightmare to put together a book with this many specific powers
working with spirits. I can’t even imagine trying to do that. No, Chaos
Magick was the way to go. The trick was just to make it easy and accessible
for everyone which took a lot of forethought and work upfront on my end,
but now that it’s done it should be one of the most effortless systems of
magick you can ever try.

Now you might be asking yourself why should I use your servitors
when I could just make my own? And that’s a valid question. There are a
few reasons you might use the ones in this book instead of your own. The
most obvious is that these are already made and ready to be worked with.
Sure you can make your own, and honestly, I would love to see an
explosion of servitors get made as a reaction to this book and the system
I’ve put together. You very well could make your own servitors that are
customized for your specific needs and desires. That would be awesome! I
love seeing more magick coming into the world. But that takes a lot of time
and energy. Why bother when these are here ready and waiting to be used?
The real argument I have for you to use mine over your own is the amount
of work and energy that has already gone into these is greater than what the
average magician could easily manage. They have a powerful energy
network fueling them. They’ve had a year's worth of use already from my
wonderful patrons on Patreon. They are also designed to get stronger with
every use and with everyone who uses them. And with the hundred and
hopefully thousands (or millions!) of people who will buy this book and use
them, these servitors are just above and beyond what most of you will be
able to do on your own. It’s fine. Magicians often feel like they have to do
everything themselves, but they don’t. There are people who specialize in
making talismans, amulets, and oils, so you don’t have to. Same here with
servitors.
 I hope that helps you understand a little about the source of the magick
in this book and how it was created and why you should use it. Chaos
Magick has been losing popularity lately. I think it pushed some of its ideas
too far and we are seeing a sort of a backlash as people seem to want to use
more traditional methods. It is my sincere belief that we should use
whatever tools we have available. Every magick user should know and use
some basic Chaos Magick, especially sigils and servitors. It is my genuine
hope that this book can illustrate the effectiveness and power of Chaos
Magick when used creatively to make carefully crafted customizable
magick.
 4 Quick and Dirty Seduction
Sorcery Strategy
In this chapter, we are going to talk about how to get the most bang for
your buck with this book. As I said before you can’t just do a ritual and
expect the results to fall into your lap. I know this is magick, but using
magick strategically is an art form in itself. Have you ever wondered why
so many famous magicians seemed to end up broke and alone? For many,
it's for one of two reasons. One, they didn’t care about that stuff. And two,
they may have been great magicians, but they sucked at using it
strategically.

Magick works best when you are using it to help you reach something
that is just out of your grasp. You want to use it to get something that you
are already working for in the mundane world but just need little help. For
example, you have been talking to someone, but you just can’t quite get
them to commit to a date. You use Seduce Named Individual and the next
time you talk to them they agree to go out. If you use that sigil on a
celebrity that you never see or talk to in the real world, you aren’t giving the
magick a chance to work. Now if there was an event and they were going to
be there and you used it on them and you make every effort to meet them
and talk to them and do your best to impress them, you might pull it off, but
this is still pretty far out of reach for most and so, probably won’t work.

It’s the same concept as something like the Threesome sigil. If you don’t
have a lover who might be into it, you probably won’t get much out of the
sigil. The best use of that sigil would be if you had a lover who was into it
and was talking to someone to be the third, then you would use it to make it
more likely to happen.

The next thing you need to do is use multiple sigils. Not for the same
thing, but for different aspects of what you want to happen. So let's go back
to the situation where you have been talking to someone, but can’t get them
to commit to a date. What you should really do in that situation is a whole
series of rituals. Start with Reject Desperation, then Increase Sexual
Attractiveness, then Be More Seductive, Keep Wits When Seducing, and
then finally Seduce Named Individual. This will help you cover all your
bases and dramatically increase your odds of success.

If you wanted to have a threesome with this person you wouldn’t just do
the Threesome sigil. You would need to do Influence Lover to Be More
Adventurous to get them to agree. Attract Lover Who is Into Your Kink to
find the third while actively looking for someone you are both into. Then
you would go through the whole seduction series again. Then once you are
getting close then you would do the Threesome sigil.

Hopefully, you see how this works. Don’t just do a sigil and expect it to
happen with you putting no effort in. You have to go out there and meet and
talk to people while performing a bunch of rituals to help you do it well. Do
rituals for each step of the process. They don’t take long to do, so don’t
worry! I know it sounds like a lot of work, but anything worth having
usually takes a lot of work, and honestly, doing the rituals will save you a
lot of effort in the long run. I’m also going on the assumption that you are
an average person. If you are good-looking, famous, or rich, things will be
significantly easier. No, it’s not fair, but that’s life, and it’s why we have
magick, so let's get to work!

That cover’s the basics. If you are doing all of that and you aren’t getting
anywhere you may have some blockages. Blockages are subconscious
beliefs that keep your magick from working. For example, would you help
your friend sleep with someone you found to be repulsive and hideously
ugly? Probably not. Now, what do you think happens if you believe that you
are repulsive and hideously ugly? You are subconsciously going to keep
people from sleeping with you! This belief will kill your seduction magick.
So you have to clear that blockage. You would want to spend a lot of time
working with the Accept Yourself and Want You Want Sexually sigil and
the Feel Sexually Attractive sigil. Also, talk to a therapist. Go out with
friends and get a makeover or get some new clothes and listen to them tell
you that you look good!

This brings us to a much deeper issue. Sexual trauma. A whole bunch of

us have struggled with sexual trauma. I was raped as a kid by a group of
teenage boys. It took years to work through that shit. Most of the women I
know have a rape story. We need to heal. These kinds of traumas can wreak
havoc with our sexuality. That’s why we have a Heal Sexual Trauma sigil.
Obviously, you don’t have to have been raped to have trauma of a sexual
nature. You could have been humiliated by classmates in a locker room.
You could have had an emotionally abusive parent or partner who belittled
you or made fun of your desires or your sexuality. Almost all queer people
have some sort of trauma just from growing up queer. We have to heal
ourselves. This includes using the various sexual healing sigils, but it does
also mean getting professional help. Magick + therapy can work miracles.

The way this book was designed to work was to allow you to start by
clearing blockages and healing. Many people will want to skip this part and
go right to the fun stuff and then wonder why it doesn’t work. Magicians
must know themselves. If you want your magick to work you have to know
who you are and what you want. So you start with Know Yourself and What
You Really Want Sexually. Then you need to Accept Yourself and What
You Really Want Sexually. Then if you are lonely or desperate you
absolutely must Overcome Loneliness and Reject Desperation. None of
these are going to be one-and-done. You will need to do them often and
regularly. Then continue to go through the list and spend time with each
one. Soon enough you’ll come to some that just don’t apply to you and
that’s great.

Once you think you’ve done enough healing and clearing blockages you
will probably want to start using Increase the Amount of Sex You Are
Having and Increase the Quality of the Sex You Are Having. Just start
doing these on a weekly basis. These will support everything else. That way
even if you are alone and not getting any, you are setting the stage to
increase the amount of sex you are having.

Ok, so you are healed and you’ve cleared your blockages and you have
started using rituals strategically and you are going out and trying. There’s
still one more thing you need to work on. That’s your attitude. You have to
believe in yourself. You have to believe in your own power. You have to
believe in magick and to a lesser degree, that this system works. You have
to believe that you are worthy of getting a lover or of making your sexual
fantasies come true. This sounds pretty hard to do. You can use some rituals
to help, especially with confidence. But really a lot of this needs to come
from inside yourself. And if you don’t know how to do that don’t worry,
because Jareth is here to help you!

You’ve probably heard the expression “fake it till you make it.” Well,
that’s a great strategy for Chaos Magick. See you don’t have to convince
any spirits who can see right through you that you are a powerful magician.
The only person you have to convince is yourself. The servitors are going to
do their job because that’s what they are designed to do and they love doing
it. So don’t worry about them. All you need to do is go out there and act
like you are a powerful sex witch or wizard. Once you start to act like it,
people will start to respond to it. As they respond to it, you’ll start getting
results. And when you start getting results you’ll know it’s fucking true
because it is.

“But I’m not a powerful sex witch or wizard, I’m just a lonely weird
nerd,” you might be thinking. First off, you aren’t as weird and nerdy as
you think you are. Also, don’t you know there are plenty of people who are
into weird and nerdy? It doesn’t matter what you look like or what your
aesthetic is, there’s a group out there that is totally into that. You are
somebody's kink. There is someone out there rubbing one out while
fantasizing about someone just like you. This is a verifiable fact. Just start
searching for kinks online and you’ll find one you fit in. You may need to
use the Lower Your Expectations sigil, but if it’s really just sex you want
(which is the scope of this book, so we are going to say it is) then there’s a
whole community of people who are waiting to have sex with someone just
like you.

Second, you are only what you believe yourself to be. It doesn’t matter
what other people may think or say. You, and you alone, define who you
are. If you believe you are a loser, then that’s what you will become. And if
you never change that belief, it’s all you will ever be. So stop believing it.
Right now. You have this book. You’ve read this far in the strategy chapter.
That means you have the tools and you have the know-how to use them. So,
I hereby dub anyone who reads this a powerful sex witch or wizard! Now
go out there and act like it!
 What? That wasn’t enough for you? Still having doubts? Fine, I have one
more trick I can teach you. Magicians have used masks and costumes since
the dawn of time. They use them because they work. This trick is a little
easier for women because it’s more socially acceptable to wear makeup, but
men can totally do this too. Basically, I want you to imagine someone who
isn’t too different from yourself but is a powerful sex witch or wizard. Give
them a name. Now, as you get ready to go out I want you to put on that
persona. This is going to work best with a particular look or suit. So make a
ritual out of getting ready. And with each piece of clothing you put on you
become a little more of them and a little less of you. This is where makeup
can help. Don't think of it as makeup, think of it as your mask that
transforms you into someone sexy and powerful. Start acting as they do.
They might be a little looser or they may talk a little differently. It doesn’t
need to be a huge transformation if you don’t want it to be. Or you could go
big like with a drag queen persona.

I know everyone says you should just be yourself. Well of course they
say that, they want to keep you down! Seriously though, you don’t want to
lie to yourself. Remember who you are deep down. This is just a tool to
help you transform yourself into someone who is actually more you than
the person you are now. You may overdo it at first, but eventually, you will
find a balance between your persona and yourself. The goal isn’t to be
someone who is totally fake, but to become the you whose sexuality has
been liberated from desperation, loneliness, sexual trauma, and social
programming. Obviously, if you lie to people about who you are it is going
to come back and bite you in the ass. People don’t like being lied to. So
don’t lie. Just become a you that is powerful, sexy, and confident.

So some final words. I know I’m going to get dozens of messages from
people asking how often they should do a ritual to heal or to banish
desperation or whatever. You are a powerful sex witch or wizard! You don’t
need my advice. Use your intuition. Work out a schedule and stick with it.
When it’s done, evaluate yourself. Make adjustments. Pay attention to what
others are saying. Are people commenting on your looks more often? Are
you feeling more confident? Then it’s starting to work. Are people flirting
more? It’s definitely working. Are you more sure of who you are and what
you want? It’s definitely working. As a general rule, you really can’t do a
ritual too much, but you can definitely not do it enough. As with all magick
watch for those synchronicities. Did you finish your ritual right at 11:11?
That might be a good sign. Do you suddenly keep running into the same
person all of a sudden? Try asking them out. Or maybe out of the blue you
see the lover of your dreams. Be a powerful sex witch or wizard and make
that dream a reality.
 5 Making The Magick Happen
In this section, we will talk about how to use the sigils in this book.
Before we get into the nuts and bolts of the ritual procedure I want to talk
about magick and everything you need to do to make the ritual work. I’ll
start with the basics of magick, then talk about the sigils and the powers,
and crafting your request. Then I’ll explain how to perform the ritual. And
then I’ll talk about what to do after as well as the dreaded lusting for results.

My definition of magick is “supernatural causation.” That is making

something happen, causing change, by means that are not currently defined
by science. (Many things that used to be considered magick are now parts
of science like math and chemistry so we won’t count those in this
definition, but just know that science has proven many things that were
once thought to be magical.) To cause any kind of supernatural causation
you need a handful of ingredients: belief, intention, ritual, and energy.

Belief is vital. You can’t make a ritual work if you don’t believe that it
can work. This is why doubters can’t summon a spirit to prove the
supernatural to themselves. It just doesn’t work that way. You have to
believe that it at least can work.

First, you need to believe in magick. You don’t need to believe any of
the stories people have told about it, or where it comes from, or how it
works, you just need to believe that magick is real. You need to believe that
you can make things happen using the supernatural. It doesn’t matter if you
think magick comes from divine powers, deities, spirits, energies,
vibrations, quantum mechanics, or the power of your own mind. You can
believe any or all of those or none of them. The only thing that matters is
that you believe it is possible.

Next, you have to believe in yourself. You have to believe in your own
ability to make magick work. There’s probably nothing I can say to remove
any doubt you may have, just know that thousands of others who have once
had those same doubts are now using magick to change their lives and if
they can do it you can do it too. You have power. You can do this. If you
have doubts you just can’t get over, try this trick. Just pretend. When you
are about to perform a ritual, pretend that you are a powerful
sorceress/sorcerer. Fake it till you make it.

Finally, you have to believe that the ritual itself is sound and will work.
Hopefully, I’ve done a good enough job writing this book and explaining
the magick that you believe I know what I’m doing and have crafted a
workable ritual! Don’t worry, you’ve got this. Magick is powerful. You are
powerful. This ritual is powerful.

The next important ingredient for success in magick is clear intentions.

To put it plainly, you need to know exactly what you want. We will go into
detail about crafting your request later, but for now, you need to understand
that you need to be clear about what you want. You can’t just have a vague
idea like “I want more sex and to be less lonely, I guess.” You need to break
that down. First, throw out the “I guess.” You either want it or you don’t.
You can’t be wishy-washy. Second, you have two different desires. You
need to break them up. Now you “want more sex” and you “want to be less
lonely.” Now the first one is good. “I want more sex.” That’s a clear and
concise intention. The second still needs some work. Let’s change “I want
to be less lonely” to “I want to banish my loneliness.” That’s a much more
clear intention!

The final important ingredient you need for magick to work is a ritual.
Rituals are what separates real magick from something like the so-called
“Law of Attraction.” (There is no actual “Law of Attraction” in physics or
in Hermeticism.) Let me explain. In the “Law of Attraction” like attracts
like, so by putting what you want out into the universe you are supposed to
attract it back to yourself. Basically, you have the belief and the clear
intention but you just put it out there and wait for something to happen
because your thoughts will attract the real thing. Now they often give you
things to do to help it like visualization, making a vision board, or any
number of other things. Well, that’s a ritual. And the people who are best at
making the “Law of Attraction” work are those who have a clear ritual
practice even if they don’t think of it that way. What we call the “Law of
Attraction” is really just poorly described Chaos Magick designed for
people who may not be open to something so freaky sounding. But I
digress.

A ritual is some kind of action that you do to trigger the magick. Here’s
some old Hermetic magick theory in a nutshell. You may have heard the
saying “As Above So Below.” What this is referring to is the macrocosm,
the above, and the microcosm, the below. If you do something on a small
scale it will make the same thing happen on the large scale because what
happens in one happens in the other. So if you want someone to sleep with
you, this is the macrocosm, the above. You then find a ritual that will
represent someone sleeping with you in the microcosm, the below. So you
do the ritual and therefore do the event on the microcosmic scale which
makes it happen on the macrocosmic scale which is the real world. That’s
what rituals are. Small things we do to represent the real thing we want to
happen.

For example, in the mundane world if you want a cookie you mix the
ingredients and bake the cookie. In magick you are replacing that physical
action with another simpler one. So instead of baking the cookie you decide
that chanting cookie for a minute will make a cookie manifest. You do the
chant and by doing so are telling the universe that you have done what it
takes to make a cookie manifest. Maybe your neighbor will appear with a
plate of cookies or maybe you just annoyed someone so much that they
brought you a cookie, but either way it’s magick! Seriously though, a ritual
can be almost anything from simple hand gestures to long ceremonies with
candles and incense. By performing the ritual you are telling your
subconscious and the universe that you have done what it takes to make
your intentions manifest.

Some rituals are old and have been done by thousands of people for
hundreds of years. These are usually part of a traditional system of magick
and which is why those rituals are so potent. Chaos Magick is about making
up your own brand-new rituals. But remember, traditional rituals were new
and made up by someone at some point. They may have been created using
the rules and correspondences of that system, which helps the people of that
system believe in the ritual, which as we’ve talked about, is very important.
The only real advantage traditional magick has over Chaos Magick is that
the rituals have been done so much the power is used to flow through them
in that way. However, in the modern world though we can get a lot of
people using rituals very quickly which makes them just as good.

I used to think belief, clear intentions, and a ritual were all you needed.
But as I get more experienced I discover more and more about what is
going on behind the scenes. One of the things I have realized is important is
energy. Your ritual must have fuel. This is why so many systems include
candles, incense, oils, herbs, or any number of other ingredients. These
provide the energy that fuels their rituals. If you are working with a spirit
you may not need fuel for the request you are making, but you need to fuel
the ritual that summons the spirit. If you don’t have an energy source, you
are the energy source. This is why you may feel drained after a ritual. It had
to take some of your energy to fuel it. But don’t worry. You won’t need to
provide a lot of energy for these rituals. You don’t need to have any
ingredients and won’t need to pull a ton of energy from yourself. The sigils
themselves provide all the energy required as they are connected to a
network that collects and stores energy. They will use the energy from that
network to fuel the rituals. This is one of the reasons this system is so
effective. It has its own massive source of power built into it. Jareth’s got
you covered!

Ok, now you should have a decent idea of how magick works. It’s really
so simple when you think about it. All you need is to believe in magick,
have a clear understanding of what you want, a ritual, and the energy to fuel
it all. With that and the strategy you learned in the previous chapter you are
ready to start changing your life! So let’s shift gears now from talking about
general magical theory to how to make the magick in this book work.

The Sigils

Each power has a unique sigil. Below is the one for Increase the
Amount of Sex You are Having.
 All of the sigils have the main sigil. This can be found in the center and
is typically larger than the others and are black on a white background.
Each of these large central sigils is unique and is crafted for its specific
purpose. It is the heart of the operation and will be your focus for most of
the ritual.

The rest are the same for every power. Just think of them as the
machinery that makes the ritual work. In a circle around the central image
are the sigils for the six Shadows that are going to work together to grant
your request. It doesn’t matter if you know which goes with which shadow.
You just need to know that’s what they are. The lone sigil on the top left
was created to allow power from my energy network to fuel the ritual.
Finally, the lone sigil on the bottom right blends the powers of the six
Shadows so they work together perfectly.

The hexagram is an ancient and powerful symbol. I have used it here

because it is an excellent conductor for metaphysical energy to flow. Again,
just more of the machinery.
 Don’t worry if you are a little confused, you don’t need to understand
how the sigil works to perform the ritual, but I’m sure many people were
curious about how they were made.

How to Craft Your Request

Your request is a short statement of what it is you want. Crafting a

request is where you take a possibly vague, nebulous, desire and turn it into
a short clear statement of intent. You don’t want to go into the ritual saying
“I want to have a stronger sex drive, it doesn’t have to be too strong, just
sort of better I guess.” No, that won’t do. You need to be able to say
strongly and clearly, “Give me a healthy sex drive.”

Often the name of the sigil is the request, you just need to modify it to
fit you and your situation. Remember you are giving commands to six
Shadows, so phrase it as a command in the second person. That means
speaking as though you are talking to someone using “you.” You could also
say, “Heal my sex drive,” or “Grant me a healthy sex drive.” Often people
say that you should make requests in the past or present tense, but that isn’t
necessary with these servitors. If you like to do it that way, that’s fine, it
will work. Just don’t think that you have to. So you could also say, “You
have healed my sex drive.” Remember to still phrase it as an order. A few
other examples would be, “You help me reject desperation,” “you will help
me seduce so and so,” “you will keep me in the moment during sex,” or
“you will prevent any “failings” from happening during sex.” Also, you do
not have to use the name of the power. You could say, “Make so and so go
down on me” instead of “make so and so perform oral on me.” As long as
you know what you mean it will work. The important things to remember
are that you are clear about what you want to happen, phrase it as a
command, and keep it short so you can remember it and say it clearly and
confidently.

You can perform rituals for other people. You would just make it part of
the request. So you would say, “Help Jareth have a healthy sex drive,” or
“Help Jareth reject desperation,” or “You will help Jareth seduce so and so,”
or “You will keep Jareth in the moment during sex.” You get the idea. So
you can do rituals to help your friends or whoever with their sex lives. You
can also use it on your lover. So if they have been having issues, you can try
and help them overcome them and make your own sex with them better. In
fact, it is a good strategy to hit an issue from both sides like that. Do a ritual
for them to overcome their issue and do one so that you have better quality
sex. See what I mean?

So just to sum it up, you take what you want and put it in a short simple
phrase that tells the Shadows what you want. You can write it down if you
want or you can just memorize it. Ok, that’s it for requests.

How to Perform the Ritual

You begin by scanning the whole sigil. That just means that you look at
it. I want to be clear, you cannot mess this up. There is no wrong way. I see
people asking what the right way to scan a sigil is all the time. I do not want
to see people asking that question about these sigils because there is no
right or wrong way. I am going to describe one way to do it, but again, it is
only one way. If you accidentally do it differently, it’s ok, the ritual will
work. The important thing is that you look at the sigil as a whole and as
individual parts. That’s really the only thing that is vital. Ok? So relax, you
cannot mess this up.

Look at the whole sigil. As you look at it let your gaze grow soft. That
means you don’t have to stare at it as intently as if you are reading. Just
look at it as you would as you stared out at nothing out the window. Just
take the whole thing in. Let your eyes wander over it however they want. A
couple of seconds is long enough.

Next, gaze at each of the sigils. It doesn’t matter what order you do it in.
Just take a quick moment to look at each individual sigil and then move on
to the next until you have looked at all of them. Do this a second time,
again in any order, but this time look at the background behind each sigil
for just a quick moment. Just so your mind and subconscious can see the
shapes from all sides.

Then focus your eyes on the main center sigil. This will be your main
focal point for the rest of the ritual. It’s ok if you look away to read a name
or by mistake, but always come back to this sigil after you’ve looked away.
 Now you are going to say each shadow’s name three times. You can say
it out loud or silently in your mind. Regardless of if you say it out loud or in
your mind, say it confidently and with authority. Say the names as though
you are standing before your assembled soldiers and you are calling them
up to give them their orders. Don’t worry if you mess up a little or
mispronounce something. Just continue with confidence. Confident that you
are powerful and that you are saying it the way you mean to do it is more
important than actual accuracy. If you were standing in a group and your
commanding officer (or whatever authority figure) called your name, would
you refuse to respond just because they said it a little wrong? No, you’d hop
to and go get your orders, especially if they were speaking with real
authority.

As I said, it’s perfectly fine to look away to read the names, but be sure
to always come back to the sigil, even if just a glance. So it goes like this:
look, read, look, read, look, etc. The names are: Amistra (ah-MEE-strah),
Gorduin (gore-DOO-in), Zeldonika (zell-DON-ick-ah), Phelorna (fell-
LORN -ah), Ruvyn (ROOV-yin), and Hubys Falana (HUB-yees FALL-
on-ah).

After you have said all six shadow’s names you will state your request.
Again, you can say it out loud or in your mind, but you must still speak
with authority and confidence.

Optionally, if for whatever reason you want to explain the situation in

more detail, now is the time that you would do that. This is absolutely not
required, but some people like to explain things more fully and the ritual is
flexible enough to allow this. You may sense the Shadows have a question
or they might “speak” to you in your mind. If so just answer them honestly.
Communication with the Shadows will be different for everyone as you all
have different psychic gifts. If you engage with them in this way you may
see images in your mind that give you a clue about the situation, or you
may get a feeling they are trying to tell you such and such. You might just
suddenly have a revelation about your situation. If you do try to talk to them
responses most often come in what I call “first thoughts.” If you ask a
question and you suddenly have an answer in your head, likely before you
are even done asking the question that is probably them.
 Once you are done with your request and any extra conversation, you
will say the command word three times. One time is enough, just like
calling their name one time is actually enough, but we do it three times so
that they are sure to hear and to give us some room to mess up a bit. The
command word is Drahvok (DRAW-vok). The command word tells them
they must obey you and tells them to go and get to work.

When you finish saying the command word the ritual is over.

After the ritual

Immediately after the ritual, you will want to go about your day. Do
something completely non-magical. Eating is usually a good way to bring
your attention back to the regular world. I sometimes play a game on my
phone. Just do something to take your mind off the magick and ground
yourself in the regular old mundane world.

In general, you only have to do a ritual one time. However, repetition

helps. The Shadows aren’t going to start over from scratch or anything.
Each time you do a ritual it adds energy and intention. You should only do
it once a day. What’s most important is that you don’t repeat a ritual just
because you think you might have messed up or you think you could do it
better. You aren’t trying to contact and command vast inhuman cosmic
forces here, so don’t stress. All you are doing is telling some servitors what
you want them to do. You really can’t mess that up. Seriously. You can
stumble over every word and the ritual will still work. So don’t worry about
it. I recommend that you decide on a schedule before you do the ritual. You
might decide to do it every day until it happens, or for three days in a row,
or once a week. If there’s a whole series of rituals you can break it up
however you want. Just pick a schedule and stick with it.

If you are working on healing or clearing blockages you definitely want

to repeat the ritual. These seldom go away on the first try. Depending on
how much healing you need it may take a long time. Do it at least once a
week if not more to help with healing and clearing blockages. You may not
notice when the healing is done, sort of like how you don’t always notice
when a headache goes away, so you’ll want to try a ritual that will give
clear results from time to time to test how you are doing.
 Now some of you are probably freaking out, how can I repeat a ritual if
I’m not supposed to think about it? Wouldn’t that be lusting for results? No,
imaginary worrier, it’s not the same. Lusting for results is just that when
you are lusting after what you requested. Yes, I know this is sex sorcery, of
course you are lusting, but that’s not what I mean.

What magicians call “lusting for results” is when you constantly or at

least regularly think about the ritual and worry about when you are going to
get the result you requested. You can’t do that. It sabotages the magick. It
shows doubt, which is a lack of belief, and as we’ve discussed you have to
believe. Even if you aren’t doubting whether or not the ritual is going to
work, it’s still bad to keep thinking about it. Your thoughts can interfere
with the ritual. It’s natural to continue to want what you did the ritual for.
That’s fine. Just don’t think of them in terms of the ritual. You’re still going
to want to fuck so and so, it’s ok if you still think about fucking so and so.
It’s bad to think “when are those damn Shadows going to give me what I
want?” Try not to do that. And if you ever do catch yourself thinking about
the magick and worrying about the results, just stop and try and feel
grateful to the Shadows for granting your request, even if it hasn’t happened
yet. The cure for lusting for results is gratitude.

Just to reiterate, thinking about doing the ritual the next day is not
lusting for results. That’s just remembering what you need to do the next
day. Thinking about or fantasizing about enjoying what you asked for is
also not lusting for results. Stressing or worrying about when or how the
results of a ritual are going to manifest is lusting for results, and is bad. You
should be able to figure out the difference, but when in doubt feel grateful!

Ok, you believe, you’ve figured out what you want and crafted it into a
request and completed the ritual. That’s it right? No! That was the easy part.
Now you have to get off your butt and go give the magick a chance to work.
That means you have to go try and do what you requested. You did the
ritual to seduce so and so, now you have to go and actually seduce so and
so. The Shadows aren’t going to make them just show up at your place with
a bow on their head, a box of condoms, and some lube. No, you have to get
out there and make it happen. The Shadows are going to help nudge things
into place so it works out for you, but they can’t do it without you.
 In magick, we sometimes talk about the means of manifestation. That
just means that there is a way for the magick to work. So the more you do
on the mundane side of things, the more likely you are going to get results.
If you don’t give it a way to manifest, it won’t, or it will manifest in a
pitiful way like you see a picture of someone getting oral instead of you
getting it. Don’t let that happen to you! Go do your part and the Shadows
will do theirs.

Receiving results is often one of the most overlooked aspects of magick.

You can’t just do the ritual and then continue living life as normal. You
need to do things to help the process. Are you expecting to have someone
over for sex? Clean your place up as though you are expecting company.
Stuff like that reinforces the magick. It shows confidence in the process.
Also, look for synchronicities. These can be hard to define, but they are
weird little coincidences that will probably only have meaning for you.
They could be signs or omens. Repeating numbers are often a sign. Maybe
you were playing a particular song during the last threesome you had and
now you hear a hot person over there playing it over their headphones. Talk
to them in a normal, not creepy way, they might be your number three!

Ok, that’s it. I know I’ve talked a lot in this chapter about a lot besides
just how to do the actual ritual, but it’s all solid information someone
needed, and I’ve found being thorough keeps people from messaging asking
how many times they should do the ritual or how many times to say the
names. (Three times! Do everything three times and leave me out of it!)
Here’s a summary so you don’t have to find which paragraph that was back
there where I actually talked about how to perform the ritual. I suggest
writing it down so you have it when you perform a ritual and don’t have to
flip back here. The names are not listed with every sigil.

So thanks for listening to me ramble on and on. I know you are anxious
to get busy, and so next we will finally get to the fun stuff, the reason you
are here in the first place, the sigils, and their filthy powers!

Ritual Summary

Craft your request.

 Softly gaze at the whole sigil, just letting your eyes wander for a
moment.
Briefly look at each individual sigil.
Briefly look at each sigil’s background.
Look at the central main sigil.
Say: Amistra (ah-MEE-strah) 3x
Look at the central main sigil.
Say: Gorduin (gore-DOO-in) 3x
Look at the central main sigil.
Say: Zeldonika (zell-DON-ick-ah) 3x
Look at the central main sigil.
Say: Phelorna (fell-LORN -ah) 3x
Look at the central main sigil.
Say: Ruvyn (ROOV-yin) 3x
Look at the central main sigil.
Say: Hubys Falana (HUB-yees FALL-on-ah) 3x
Look at the central main sigil
State your request.
(Optional) explain the situation in detail.
Look at the central main sigil
Say command word: Drahvok (DRAW-vok) 3x
 The Sigils and their Powers
The following sections will have the various sigils and a description of
their powers. The descriptions will typically be brief, just to give you an
idea of what you can do with each. The titles are usually explanation
enough. Please don’t feel limited by a power’s description. If the name of a
sigil makes you think of a use that I didn’t mention, that just means I’m
human and can’t imagine the full panoramic spectrum of human sexuality.
The descriptions are just to give you a starting place, so it’s where you
begin, not end. Each power is followed by its sigil. They are grouped into
sections. Some could go into multiple sections and I had to pick one, so
again, don’t feel like the section defines the power. For example, I have
Find a Community in the Sexual Adventure section and talk about how it
can be a great way to find partners who are into what you are into, but you
may want to find a community as a surrogate family for acceptance and
healing, that’s fine, you can use Find a Community that way.

The sections are Sigils for Clearing Sexual Blockages, for clearing out
subconscious beliefs that can keep your magick from working. Sigils for
Sexual Healing, for healing mental and emotional issues. Sigils for Gender
Magick, for helping people who are transitioning. Sigils for Seduction, for
sigils that will help you be more seductive and confident. Sigils to Perform
Better in Bed, to help with some of the issues that people have performing.
Sigils to Improve Sex in a Relationship, for powers that are specific to
people in a relationship, and Sigils for Sexual Adventure for all the filthy
fun stuff you probably actually bought the book for.
6 Sigils for Clearing Sexual
Blockages
 Know Yourself and What You Really
Want Sexually
This sigil is for discovering what you really need deep down. Knowing
yourself is one of the most important steps in becoming a great magician. It
is also one of the most important steps in becoming a great lover. Nothing
will block your seduction magick like asking for something that deep down
you don’t even want. This sigil will help you figure yourself out. It will help
you to know what you want sexually. This power will help you unravel all
the sexual programming you have received your whole life and reveal what
you really need sexually. It will reveal what will make your sex life feel
whole, complete, and fulfilled.

This may be a little scary. You might find that you don’t want to settle
down and have kids like your mother always dreamed you would. Or
maybe you aren’t as adventurous as your friends are pressuring you to be.
You may discover you don’t identify with the gender you were assigned at
birth. Or perhaps you’ll discover a same-sex attraction. But rather than big
revelations, it is likely to help you discover and embrace your own turn-ons
and turn-offs. Maybe reveal a kink you didn’t really know you had.

It may sound like this sigil is just for young people who are just figuring
themselves out, but I think everyone needs to be reminded of who they are
and what they really need. You may want to use this sigil if you have just
gotten out of a long relationship. Sometimes when we are in a relationship,
especially a bad one, we put on a persona and become the person that our
partner wanted us to be. In other words, if you were pretending to be
someone more like what your partner wanted you to be it might be hard to
remember who you are. It’s important to get back in touch with yourself
and what you want out of a relationship before diving into another one. Or
if you have been in a string of relationships and haven’t been alone for a
long time as you may have drifted from your true self and forgotten who
you are and what you really want by trying to be who you think your lovers
wanted you to be.
 It’s vital for any of the magick that follows to work that you have a clear
idea of what you want. This may not be the sexiest sigil in the book, but it’s
foundational. Build your sex life on a solid foundation of self-knowledge.
 Accept Yourself And What You
Really Want Sexually
This sigil will help you accept the real you and your real desires. It
works hand in hand with the sigil that comes before it. Once you know what
you want, you need to accept it and be ok with it. This might sound simple,
but how many people are actually ok with themselves and what they really
want? I’d say one of the reasons our society is so messed up is that the vast
majority of people are ashamed of what they really want and are constantly
trying to be something they are not.

Again, your magick isn’t going to work if you are fighting with
yourself. For example: if you try to do magick to find a partner to settle
down and raise kids with because you think that’s what someone your age is
supposed to do, but you know you really just want to sleep around and have
as much freaky sex with as many people as possible right now, then you are
at war with yourself and the magick won’t work for you. You need to accept
you are in a slut phase right now and then you can start doing successful
rituals to scratch that itch.

This sigil can also be very useful for people who are struggling with
their sexual orientation. First off, I want you to know that it’s ok, there is
nothing wrong with you. You are who you are and that’s beautiful. So if you
are a lesbian, gay, or bi but are struggling with your sexuality because you
are afraid of what your family or society will think, this sigil will help you
accept yourself. Likewise, if you are transgendered this sigil will give you
the power to accept who you really are.

Really though, anyone struggling with their sexual desires please use
this sigil to fully accept who you are and what you want. Don’t worry, this
won’t turn you into something you aren’t, just help you open up to who you
really are.

Even if you aren’t struggling or ashamed of your sexual desires this sigil
will help you be more yourself and thus become much more authentic and
confident. And nothing is as sexy as someone who knows what they want
and is confident in themselves.
 Overcome Loneliness
Loneliness is one of the most painful feelings in the world. Humans are
social creatures and nothing hurts us more than feeling like we don’t have
anyone we belong with. It's like a worm is slowly eating away at the core of
your being leaving you empty and hollow. It’s very hard to get good results
from seduction magick while in this state. This sigil will give you the power
to overcome the negative feelings of loneliness so that you can begin to get
results with your magick.

You see, when you are lonely you want someone so the pain will stop
and go away. This makes it very hard to not feel what we call “lust for
results.” What this sigil does is helps you overcome those negative feelings
so the deep desire for them to go away fades allowing your magick to work.

Working with the previous two sigils will help immensely as you will
know and be ok with yourself making being alone with yourself much
easier.

You will know this sigil is working when you no longer feel depressed
that you are alone. You will still be alone and would still prefer to not be
alone, but you won’t feel like you are going to die if you aren’t with
someone. The suffering aspect of being alone will fade. You may even find
an inner contentment you never had before.
 Reject Desperation
Desperation is the bane of all magick. If you are desperate for results
you will almost never get any results. This is especially true in seduction.
Nothing turns people off like desperation. Seriously, desperation is just the
biggest turnoff. It makes people pity you and no one wants to sleep with
someone they pity.

This sigil will help you overcome the urgent need for sex which will
open you up to sexual abundance. It won’t steal your motivation to get laid
or find a relationship. All you are losing is the damaging feelings that clog
the inner mechanisms of magick. Plus, more than just removing the inner
blockages it will remove those painful feelings that have been tormenting
you.

This sigil will help you get in the mindset of someone who can
confidently get laid whenever they want. Think about those people who are
cool and confident for a moment. They don’t worry about when they are
going to have sex next. It’ll happen when they are ready for it. That’s the
mindset you need to be in. Once you get into that mindset, you will be
unstoppable. And it all starts with this sigil.
 Overcome Deep Fears of
Intimacy/Abandonment/Being Hurt
This sigil is for helping us overcome our deep-seated fears of sex and
relationships. These aren’t the normal anxieties of not being attractive
enough or saying the wrong thing. These are deeper and more damaging.
There are too many to list, but I will talk about a few.

First is the fear of intimacy. Many people are afraid of being close to
someone and letting them in. This can come from being hurt in the past and
not wanting to be vulnerable again. This fear causes you to push people
away or at least keep them at arm's reach.

Another is the fear of being abandoned. Someone you loved has left you
in the past and now you are afraid to get close to anyone because that opens
you up to the possibility that they might leave you too.

Or you may have been physically hurt by someone in your past and are
afraid of letting anyone close who may hurt you again.

There are as many things we can be afraid of as there are ways we can
hurt each other. These fears poison our relationships, and they create
massive blockages that sabotage our magick.

This sigil will help you overcome these deep, often subconscious, fears
that keep you from getting close to someone or being vulnerable around
them.
 Break Through Sexual
Programming
Most of us suffer from all the sexual programming we receive be it from
parents, religion, or media. Some people also had it much worse than
others. They may have come from ultra-religious communities for example.
Now you should have already worked through some of it with the Know
and Accept Yourself and What You Want Sexually sigils but not all
programming changes what we think of ourselves or what we want. It can
color everything we think about sex. It can affect us in ways we might
never expect and are too numerous to list. It can give us stereotypes that we
fail to live up to, expectations that can never be reached, or fantasies that no
real human could ever fulfill.

This sigil will free us from the toxic crap we’ve been taught by others. It
will flush it away on a subconscious level so that you can see through all
the bullshit society has been force-feeding you all your life and clear out
any pesky blockages it may have created.
 Feel Sexually Attractive
This sigil isn’t just to help you feel more attractive, though it will do
that. This is for people who feel like no one could ever be sexually attracted
to them. This may come from comparing themselves to celebrities or
models. Or it may come from being teased and told you were ugly in
school. Sometimes when we are young we can take something people say to
heart that they may have only meant off-handedly. Suddenly we think we
are ugly or fat and unless someone convinces us otherwise we grow up
thinking we are ugly or fat. So ugly that no one would ever look at us and
see anything except how ugly we are.

Well, I have news for you, that’s just not true. No one is as unattractive
as they think they are. It may not seem like it, but there is someone who is
into how you look. Not just one person, but hundreds and thousands.

Believing that you are so ugly no one would ever want to be with you
can become a self-fulling prophecy. It definitely creates blockages. You
can’t attract someone with magick if you believe you are completely
unattractive. It just won’t work.

So this sigil will fix that. Starting subconsciously it will change who
you see yourself and in so doing let go of the blockage that’s holding things
back.
7 Sigils for Sexual Healing
 Heal Sexual Trauma
A very high percentage of people experience some form of sexual
trauma in their lives. It’s not something most people talk about, but as time
goes on more and more people are coming forward and telling their stories.
We now know that it’s not rare, or even uncommon. So many of us need
this type of healing.

With unhealed trauma, it can be next to impossible to fully open

yourself up to the joy and riches of being in a relationship and having sex. It
may simply be something you suffer through just to make your partner
happy. Or you may keep a protective shell around yourself that keeps you
from being hurt but also keeps you from fully giving into the experience
and really enjoying it. Or it may keep you from even being in a relationship
at all. Regardless of how it affects you, you deserve more.

This sigil will help heal you of the trauma. It won’t take the memory of
it away, but it can help lessen the painful feelings and the harmful impact it
has on your life. Rember, this is not a replacement for therapy. This should
be used along with professional help.
 Lower Your Expectations
As I mentioned several times, society can give us some pretty
unrealistic views on sex. One that is common and very problematic is the
fantasy of what sex should be that we are constantly being sold. The idea is
that sex is the end all be all of human existence. That it’s supposed to be
magical and romantic. Or that it’s supposed to be completely mind-blowing
each and every time. It used to mainly come from TV, movies, and
advertising. Now it’s much much worse because of porn and social media.

The movies show people who get caught up in the passion of the
moment and go from kissing to ripping each other’s clothes off and falling
into the bed and it's total carnal bliss. More often than not in real life
something triggers the moment, the two people agree they want to, this can
be a look or it can be a “hey, wanna fuck? Hell, yeah I do,” and then they go
about all the silly mundane stuff like running to the bed, taking off clothes,
and getting out stuff like condoms and lube. The most realistic porno
doesn’t show the cleanup that usually happens after.

Sex is important and should be fun and fulfilling, but it’s not the most
important or most fulfilling thing. At least not on its own. It’s just one part
of human life. It can be magical, but it can also be a little gross or even
outright disgusting at times. You have to lower your expectations and
accept the reality of sex.

The other fantasy that they’ve shoved down our throats is the
expectation that our lover should be super hot. I shouldn’t have to tell you
that it takes a team of people, professional lighting, and an artist behind the
camera to make people look that good. Even if you were to meet the star in
person they wouldn’t be able to live up to the fantasy in your head. And if
they can’t live up to that standard, there’s no way a normal person can.

This sigil is for those of you who are consistently disappointed by sex or
your partner because you have these unrealistic expectations of what sex is
supposed to be. It will help you accept and enjoy the reality of what sex
actually is.
 Heal “Mommy/Daddy” Issues
As much as we hate to admit it, our parents have a huge impact on us.
Sometimes not for the better. This sigil will help you overcome whatever
sexual issues you have with your parents or parent. These can manifest in
various ways. Unfairly or obsessively comparing a lover to a parent. Or
acting out to get the attention of a parent. This sigil will help you heal the
underlying issue with the parent in question so you can have a more normal
relationship.

Often it’s more annoying for your lover than it is for yourself. Feel free
to use this to help your lover with their Mommy/Daddy issues.
 Have a Healthy Sex Drive
If your sexual appetite is out of balance it can really mess up your love
life. If it is too high you may end up sleeping around when you don’t want
to or even end up cheating on someone you love. If it’s too low it can be
hard on your partner as well as on yourself.

If you want a healthy balanced sexual appetite then use this sigil. If it’s
too high and out of control it will lower it so it’s more manageable. If it’s
too low, it will increase it so that you and your lover can enjoy sex on a
more regular basis.
 Overcome Shame of Masturbation
While it’s not as bad as it used to be, there is often shame associated
with masturbation. If this gets out of hand it can negatively impact not just
someone’s ability to enjoy masturbation but other aspects of their sex life.
Masturbation is fine. It’s healthy. Everyone does it. There’s nothing to be
ashamed of. It’s your body, you can do whatever you want with it without
shame. This sigil will help you believe that!
 Remove Shame of Sex
Many people suffer from feelings of shame when it comes to sex. It may
come from a religious background or maybe it’s from your family, but for
whatever reason, you feel feelings of shame for enjoying sex. The shame
you feel can even affect your enjoyment or keep you from having an
orgasm. Well, fuck that. You don’t have anything to be ashamed of. Sex is
natural and it is fun and we are supposed to enjoy it. Why would it be so
amazing if we weren’t supposed to enjoy it? This sigil will help you
remove that sense of shame you suffer.
 Cut Connection to Previous Lover
It’s very hard to find a new lover when you are sitting around pining for
your last one. I don’t know why the relationship ended, but it did. Now it’s
time to move on. You know in your head that it’s over, but your heart just
won’t let go and it’s driving you crazy. This sigil will help sever the
spiritual connection you have with your ex making it easier for you to move
on emotionally.
 Overcome Harmful Sexual Habits,
Attractions, or Addictions
As great as sex is, it can be abused and become harmful. Sex can be as
addictive as anything else we enjoy plus we have a natural instinct for it so
that makes a sex addiction more complicated. But this sigil isn’t just for sex
addiction. It can help heal you of any kind of harmful sexual activity you
engage in compulsively. Maybe you always find yourself falling for abusing
partners, or worse, people who just want to use you for something. Or
maybe your kink has gone beyond something you just enjoy but has
become an obsession so that you can’t even get off without pushing
yourself further and further. Or it could be a dangerous fetish you just keep
getting pulled back into. This sigil will help free you from sexual habits,
addictions, compulsions, and obsessions that are hurting you or your
relationships.
 Happy In Your Own Skin
Very few people are really comfortable with their bodies. Everyone is
trying to look at good as the people on TV and none of us can do it. We are
human. Our bodies aren’t perfect. We may be fatter than we would like or
skinnier. Our faces may have more lines than they used to. There’s always
something to be unhappy about.

Obviously, it can be very hard to fully enjoy sex if you aren’t

comfortable with your body. In a way, you are shutting down your own
pleasure. Plus you get the subconscious thoughts like “if you are insecure or
ashamed of it how could anyone want to find any enjoyment with it?”
These thoughts will completely sabotage your sex life.

This sigil will help you to be comfortable with your body and even
eventually enjoy it. Don’t expect to go from deep discomfort in your own
skin to the kind of connection a dancer has with their body overnight. But
with regular use of the sigil, a little effort at pushing yourself out of your
comfort zone, you’ll soon be overlooking your blemishes and happy in your
own skin.
 Influence Others to Embrace Your
Sexuality
I wasn’t sure where to put this one, but really it belongs here with
sexual healing. Part of the healing process is being accepted for who you
are. This can be used to help family and friends accept and embrace you
and whatever your sexuality. We’ve all heard the stories about someone
coming out and their family disowning them. Sometimes people are small
minded and hard hearted and just too judgemental about sex. This will help
open their minds and soften their hearts towards you and accept you for
who you really are. Don’t necissarily expect overnight success with this, but
with continued use, they will open themselves back up to you.

This is mainly for LGBTQ+ people, but can just as easily be used by
someone with a kink that freaks someone out.
 Be Able to Achieve An Orgasm
Not being able to achieve a full orgasm is a serious issue that can make
life miserable. It usually isn’t a biological issue as much as a psychological
one. I highly recommend for anyone suffering from this to start by working
through a lot of the previous sigils. The root cause may be from sexual
trauma, or it may come from shame, or insecurity. One person I knew
couldn’t have an orgasm because it felt like losing control. They had also
been sexually abused. So there were multiple issues to work through. So I
highly recommend you work through the book and work on those deep-
seated issues and then work with this sigil so that you achieve orgasms
during sex.
8 Sigils for Gender Magick
 Embrace Your True Gender
So you realize that deep down you are not the gender you were assigned
at birth. That’s great, but it’s seldom easy. In today’s world we are
beginning to be more accepting of being transgrendered, but we still have a
long long way to go. Because of how awful society has been it can be scary
and hard accepting the truth of who you really are. This sigil will help you
embrace your true gender and help you love the real you. This will help you
overcome religious, social, or any other sort of programming that makes
you feel bad about embracing the gender you identify as.
 Help Transition Male to Female
Use this sigil to help as you transition from male to female. It will help
make the transition easier and go more smoothly. I can’t promise there
won’t be any hiccups along the way, but this will make it a much easier
road to go down. While it will help however you decide to make the
transition, it will also help with your voice, hormones, and any surgeries
you may choose to undergo.
 Help Transition Female to Male
Use this sigil to help as you transition from female to male. It will help
make the transition easier and go more smoothly. I can’t promise there
won’t be any hiccups along the way, but this will make it a much easier
road to go down. While it will help however you decide to make the
transition, it will also help with your voice, hormones, and any surgeries
you may choose to undergo.
 Ascend From Gender Binaries
For some people neither gender really fits. Use this sigil if you want to
be able to ascend beyond simple binaries. become what you really are
inside, and live that truth authentically.
 Influence Others to Embrace Your
True Gender
Is there someone refusing to embrace your true gender? Do they
continue to misgender you or use your dead name? Even if it’s just a
coworker, it can hurt for someone to refuse to acknowledge you for who
you really are. If it’s a family member or close friend it can be devastating
and ruin relationships. Use this to help open their mind and not only treat
you the way you want to be treated, but to embrace who you really are.
Obviously, this may take some time. You may need to work with this sigil
quite a bit. But the results will be worth it.
 Be Seen/Recognized as Your True
Gender
It really sucks to be misgendered. This sigil will help other people to see
you as your identified gender. Not everyone can easily pass and this sigil
will encourage others to treat you as your real gender.
 Find Support Transitioning
Transitioning is hard. It’s even harder if you have do it alone with no
support. Use this sigil to help find the support you need. It can help you find
the right doctors or just someone to lean on when times get hard. Whatever
the next step is on the journey, this sigil will help you find the right person
to help you take that step.
9 Sigils of Seduction
 Increase Sexual Attractiveness
The effects of this sigil may manifest in a few different ways. It may be
more like a glamour where people see you as being more sexually
attractive. Or it could help your outfit and makeup and hair to be just right,
or it may just give you some underlying mysterious something special.
Regardless, when you use this sigil you will be more sexually attractive to
others.
 Sexually Enchant People With Your
Voice
This sigil will specifically make you sound sexier so that you can
enchant people with your voice alone. Remember how in the Disney
version of the Little Mermaid Prince Eric fell in love with Ariel’s voice
first? He was so enchanted that the sea witch Ursula was able to manipulate
him with Ariel’s stolen voice. Now you are beginning to see the power this
sigil can offer.

As the brain is actually the most important sexual organ, talking is one
of your most important tools in seduction. Having that special someone
become enchanted by your voice will make it less important what you are
saying as they will just want to listen to you talk. But if you have the gift of
gab and an enchanting voice why you’re already almost there!

While Increase Sexual Attractiveness will make you more attractive to

different people in whatever way works best for them, this works
specifically with your voice and can be used along with Increase Sexual
Attractiveness as a double whammy.
 Be More Seductive
There’s more to being seductive than just good looks and a sexy voice
and this sigil is for all the rest. It will help you walk more seductively, talk
more seductively, and act more seductively. And not in some over-dramatic
or cheesy way. It will just help you to intuitively behave in a more seductive
manner.
 Increase Confidence in Seduction
Confidence is one of the most attractive traits. This sigil will increase
your confidence in yourself and your ability to seduce people without
coming across as too cocky or arrogant. If you’ve worked through the other
rituals in the book than you should be more authentically yourself,
comfortable in your own body, and know exactly what you want. This sigil
will help all of that shine through.
 Become More Assertive in
Seduction
You’ve increased your seduction game, increased your confidence, and
even your appearance, but something is still not right, and you still aren’t
able to just go talk to someone or make that first move. Then it’s time to use
this sigil to become more assertive.

Maybe you are naturally shy or maybe you have social anxiety. It’s fine.
There’s nothing wrong with that. This will give you that added push you
need to really go after what you want.

If you are already doing fine, this sigil may push you over the line into
arrogance which is a turn off, so be careful. You only need to use this sigil
if you need that added boost to help you make a move.
 Give Off an Aura of Sexual
Charisma
Have you ever met someone who just seems to ooze sex appeal? Like
even when they aren’t doing anything sexy? Have you ever wanted to have
that for yourself? Well that’s what this sigil is for. Your presence just oozes
sex appeal. People won’t necesarily know why, but they will sense it. Now
this won’t necessarily make anyone act on their feelings, but it will give
them some feelings that maybe you can act on.
 Majesty
This sigil will give you both the confidence and presence of royalty.
Have you ever seen someone who just dominates a room with their
presence? That’s what this sigil will give you. Effortless confidence from
knowing exactly who you are, what you want, and that you are the biggest
badass in the room.

This sigil probably isn’t going to give you these kinds of results without
a lot of previous work. You need to work through the book so that you are
already self aware, confident, ooze sex appeal, and assertive enough to go
after what you want. This will just push you to the next level.
 Keep Your Wits When Seducing
Seduction is mostly a mental game, but how are you going to win when
you get flustered by the attractiveness of your potential lover? You’ve done
a lot of work on yourself to get here and you don’t want to fall on your face
at the finish line because you can’t think of a thing to say. We’ve seen
plenty of cartoons and sitcoms where someone gets so flustered they make
a fool of themselves. Don’t risk it! Use this sigil to help you keep your wits
when you need them most.
 Seduce Named Individual
Here’s the one you’ve probably been waiting for. The sigil to seduce
that one special person. If you don’t know their name that’s fine. Just as
long as you can identify them in some way. Just think of how they look
when you make your request.

I want to repeat that this sigil doesn’t override someone’s free will. It
just helps shift through the potential futures so that the one where they
consent to be with you becomes reality.

It also helps if you do everything else right. Think of it as increasing the

odds. Say the sigil increases the odds that they will consent to be seduced
by 30% (I’m just making this number up.) So if you do nothing else you
only have a 30% chance. If you look attractive, aren’t creepy, and say the
right thing then the odds go up even higher so it’s more likely to happen.
See what I’m saying? Don’t rely on the sigil to do all the work. Use the
other sigils to help. Try your best. And don’t be desperate or a creep!
 Make Good First Impression
They say you only get one chance to make a first impression and it’s
true. Humans are judgemental little creatures and it is very hard to change
our minds once we’ve made them. That’s what makes making a good first
impression so important. You want them thinking the best about you right
away instead of having to convince them that they were wrong. And while
it’s always been important to make a good first impression, in the day and
age of internet dating it is even more important. This sigil will help makes
things go smoothly and help make you memorable in all the right ways.
 Stand Out In Dating App
Online dating is here to stay. It can be very hard to stand out in an app.
Use this sigil to make you stand out from the crowd. Obviously, it will help
if you have a good picture and profile, but even if you don’t this sigil will
make people notice your profile more. They may not know why, but it will
grab their attention which is the point of course.
 “Send Nudes”
This was a request I thought was too funny to not include. (I’m older
and don’t have to worry about online dating, thank God, so this may be
more important than I realize.) Use this sigil to convince someone to send
you nude photos. You’ll still have to do and say the right stuff as always,
but this will make it more likely that you’ll get some nude photos.
 Stick In Someone’s Mind
Sometimes all you want is for someone to think about you. Or maybe
you are trying to get someone to become infatuated. Use this sigil to get
stuck in someone’s mind so they keep thinking about you. It’s meant to be
mild, no one wants to create an obsession. (You may think you do, but you
don’t.) But you will continue to pop into their mind on a regular basis
hopefully softening them up to you.
 Make Someone Miss You
Haven’t heard from someone in a while? You can use this sigil to get
them to think of you and miss you and perhaps see you again. Or maybe
you just want to punish someone by making them miss you. You can also
use this as part of a strategy to get back together with someone. This is one
of those powers that the more you think about it the more uses you can
think of for it. Again, it’s not full blown obsession, it’s just a gentle
reminder of you and the good times you once had.
 Attract Sugar Daddy/Momma
Another highly requested sigil! Jareth’s got you covered! Use this to get
a sugar daddy or momma who will pay you to spend time with them. Like
always you will want to use other appropriate sigils to heighten the effects
of this one rather than expecting it to work amazingly well alone.
 Attract a Lover Who’s Into Your
Kink
Rather than try and make a sigil for attracting subs, doms, bears,
cubbies, or whatever, I made this one sigil that will help manifest someone
who is into whatever sexual subculture you are into. You’ll probably have
to really pay attention to synchronicities and signs that the person is the one
who’s freaky in just the way you want. It’s not like people wear their pony
play gear to the bookstore. Trust your intuition and always be ready.
 Kill an Infatuation/Obsession
Sometimes you catch feels for someone you shouldn’t. Maybe you
wanted a one night stand and they totally blew your mind and you can’t
stop thinking about them, but a relationship is just impossible right now. Or
maybe you find yourself obsessing over someone you know is bad for you.
Or maybe the person is in a relationship with your best friend. Use this sigil
to put a stop to the infatuation or obsession before it really gets going. The
longer it lasts, the harder it will be to kill it.
 Shut Down an
Infatuation/Obsession in Another
Sometimes people fall for us while we just don’t feel the same way. Use
this ritual to put a stop to the infatuation before it grows out of control. The
longer it lasts, the harder it will be to stop. Having this power doesn’t give
you the authority to just go around breaking hearts. Use it to help let people
down easily.
10 Sigils to Perform Better In Bed
 Keep Your Wits
Before/During/After Sex
Sometimes we get so excited we lose our little minds and say or do
something stupid or wrong or sometimes even hurtful. If you have the
tendency to do this, you can use this sigil to keep your head at all times.
Also good for helping you be a better lover. The mind is a powerful sexual
organ and this sigil will help you use it to the best of your ability when all
you want to do is lose yourself in the moment.
 Increase Sexual Confidence
A lot of us have insecurities about sex for a lot of different reasons.
Lack of confidence seems pretty high on the list of things that keep people
from fully enjoying sex. Don’t let your insecurities get the better of you.
Don’t let them keep you from enjoying your life. Use this sigil to increase
your confidence in your body and in your ability to perform well. You got
this!
 Become Sexually Assertive
The bedroom isn’t the place to be meek. You need to be able to ask for
what you want. It doesn’t have to be something freaky. You need to have
the guts to ask them to slow down or speed up, or go harder. Don’t let fear
of judgement, shame, or insecurity keep you from getting everything you
want in bed. Use this sigil to give you the assertiveness to tell you lover
what you want and ask them if they’d be willing to do it. Life’s too short to
not enjoy the sex you are having to the fullest just because you are afraid to
ask.
 Become a More Generous Lover
Sex is about both of you. If one lover is only interested in themselves
and their needs and desires the other is likely to be missing out. It’s
important that you put your partners needs ahead of or at least equal to your
own. Are your partners not as happy as you think they should be? Do they
seem unsatisfied? Or maybe they’ve just come out and told you that you
aren’t meeting all their needs? Or maybe you just want to keep becoming a
better lover. Use this sigil to help become a more generous lover and be less
selfish in bed. Use this sigil and make sure they get theirs and are having as
good if not a better time than you.
 Boost Sex Drive
Hopefully, you are already using the sigil Have a Healthy Sex Drive.
Sometimes, however, you want more. Maybe it’s a special occasion, a
vacation, or a honeymoon. Or maybe you have dates with 5 different people
this week. Jareth don’t judge! Whatever the reason you need a boost to the
old libido. Use this sigil to increase your sex drive. Use as needed. Use your
intuition as to how often.
 Ejaculation Control
Want to take it to the next level? Use this sigil and start practicing
controlling your ability to ejaculate. You will be able to last longer or time it
to match your lover or really whatever you may want to do. Or go full Sting
if that’s what you want.
 Avoid “Failings”
We are only human and so sometimes things go wrong, even in bed.
The one we all think of is not being able to get it up, but there are so many
other things that can happen. We are using the same equipment for other
biological purposes and sometimes that can go very wrong. If you or your
lover has a particular issue you can use this to help make sure it doesn’t
happen again or at least decrease it or its severity. Or just use it as a
protection to keep anything from going wrong.
 Be In the Moment
Sometimes it can be hard to get out of our heads and just enjoy the
moment. This is a problem in life and not just in sex, but can be very bad
for your sex life. You need to learn to enjoy yourself in the moment. Just
being in your body with your lover.

I know that certain people have a lot of trouble finishing because they
are thinking about it too much. This comes from all kinds of reasons. One is
pornography. Watching too much porn and you might have to start
fantasizing about porn to be able to finish. Other people have to have a
story for some reason. We could go on and on, but the point is that if you
have some of these issues you may need to go work with some of the other
sigils to clear those root issues up first.

This sigil should help you get out of your head and into your body so
you can enjoy yourself and just be in the moment.
 Increase Stamina
Pretty simple. Use this sigil if you want to be able to go longer and
harder before you finish.
 Shorten Refractory Time
Wanna go again? Use this ritual to speed up the recovery time so you
can go again quicker!
 Increase Intuition During Sex
Want to be better in bed? Use this sigil to increase your ability to use
your intuition during sex. You won’t be able to read your lover’s mind, but
this is the next best thing. With heightened intuition, you will be able to do
what they want you to do when they want you to do it. You’ll know when
they want it faster, slower, harder, or softer. You’ll intuitively know where
they want you to touch them and when. When to bite and where to scratch.
You’ll know when to switch positions at just the right time.

This sigil works best with someone you’re familiar with. The deeper the
connection the better. This is the power you’ve been looking for without
knowing it. You’ll be the best they ever had.
 Stronger Orgasms
Use this sigil to make your orgasms stronger and more intense! Pretty
self-explanatory. Like always there may be underlying issues like shame or
getting out of your head that you may need to work on for this to really
work. So if you are using it and you’re not seeing results, go back and try
some of the other sigils and get that underlying problem all cleared up so
you can come back here and experience some real mind-blowing orgasms.
 Beast Mode
There is an animal inside each of us. This sigil will release it. You’ll
lose all of your sexual inhibitions. All the things that keep you from being
who you want to be in bed and keep you from fulling enjoying yourself.
Use this if you want to go into an insatiable frenzy. You’ll get sweaty and
messy and not only will you not care, but you will love it.

I’m sure you got an idea of what I’m talking about and then some stuffy
part of you immediately shut it down saying no, you weren’t raised to act
like that. Or maybe they said that’s dangerous and you might hurt them. All
of which is ridiculous. You’re just letting go of the part of you that’s afraid
to really let go. The part that wants to be civilized and proper. But fucking
isn’t about being clean and proper. Let it go. Be an insatiable animal
instead. You’ll thank me!
11 Sigils to Improve Sex in
Relationships
 Increase Communication with Lover
Communication is probably one of the most important things in a
relationship. But more than that it is vital for a healthy sexual relationship.
You need to be able to tell your lover what you want. You need to be able to
listen to what your lover says they want. How can you get the most out of
sex if you aren’t telling each other what you like and don’t like? What
you’d like to try? It’s basic. Yet I bet a lot of people just aren’t able to do it.
So use this sigil to increase the communication in a relationship. It works
for all communication, not just sex stuff.
 Enforce Boundaries Within the
Relationship
Boundaries are important in a relationship. You need to be able to
respect your lover's boundaries. And they need to respect yours. Even
though you are in a relationship, it’s still your body. No one should be able
to tell you what to do with your body but yourself. You can talk about it and
come to an agreement as a couple if you choose, but at the end of the day,
it’s your body and your choice.

Just as an example, some people don’t like it when their lover

masturbates. This is their hang-up coming from their insecurities or social
programming because as I said, it’s your body so you get to decide. (Now if
the masturbation affects your ability in the bed, then it becomes an issue
that does affect them, and they absolutely have the right to ask you to work
on that.)

This isn’t just for masturbation. It’s any number of lines that you might
not want to be crossed for whatever reason. This includes birth control,
toys, particular orifices, etc.

Use this sigil to enforce your boundaries and to help you respect theirs.
It works best when there is open communication in the relationship, so you
may also want to use the sigil for communication.
 Deepen the Connection with Lover
This is as close to a love ritual as I’m going to get in this book. It
assumes you are already together. It simply deepens the connection between
you. If you are with someone and you want to use magick to take it to the
next level, use this sigil, and you will become even closer together. It won’t
necessarily make them fall in love with you, but you’ll be closer than ever.
It’s also good for couples that have been together for a long time and maybe
have grown apart a bit. It just brings you closer together and deepens the
bonds that connect you.
 Be More Romantic
Not good at romance? Been together for years and things have gotten
stale? Here’s the sigil for you. Use this sigil to become more romantic. For
best results, don’t just use it on Valentine’s Day, Anniversaries, and
Birthdays. Try it out of the blue for no reason. Surprise spontaneous
romance is the best kind.
 Inspire Lover to be more Romantic
Are things getting boring? Want them to sweep you off your feet again,
or at least try? Use this ritual to inspire your lover to be more romantic.
There’s no telling how it will manifest. Maybe flowers. Maybe a love poem.
Maybe some huge grand gesture of love like in the movies. Who knows?
12 Sigils for Sexual Adventure
 Increase the Amount of Sex You Are
Having
If you want to have more sex more often use this sigil on a regular
basis. It’s as simple as that. It will mystically increase the amount of sex
you are having. Maybe your lover will want it more. Maybe you’ll be more
lucky at the bar. If you aren’t having sex on a regular basis this will increase
your odds at getting some. Obviously, there are a lot of different variables.
It works better the harder you try. Not in a desperate way, but you have to
put in the mundane work. It won’t make sex fall out of the sky. That would
be messy. But if you are putting in the work, this sigil will help you score
more often. This is also a foundational sigil that you can use with other
more specific sigils for improving the quantity of the sex in your life.
 Increase the Quality of Sex You Are
Having
If you are having sex and want it to be better, use this sigil. Hard to say
how it will manifest exactly, but things will get better in the bedroom.
Maybe it will suddenly be more intense. Maybe your partner will suggest
something they want to do differently. Or maybe you’ll pick up a new way
to spice things up. Who knows? Finding out is what makes it fun though!
This is also a foundational sigil that you can use with other more specific
sigils for improving the quality of your sex life.
 Be More Sexually Adventurous
Tired of being basic? Use this sigil to start becoming more adventurous
sexually. You might start trying things you wouldn’t have before. Or maybe
you get the nerve to go look for a new lover. Maybe you are timid about sex
or maybe you just want to start spicing things up, this is where you start.
You can use this in conjunction with other sigils to help you really let go
and get your freak on.
 Influence Lover to Be More Sexually
Adventurous
Want to try something new, but your lover isn’t really interested? Use
this sigil to inspire them to let their inhibitions down and open their mind.
Take it slow. Respect their boundaries. But communicate with them and see
if you can tempt them to try something out of the ordinary. Then you can
build up to more and more adventurous activities.
 Influence Someone to Try a
Particular Kink
There are too many different kinks to make a sigil for them all. Use this
to influence someone else, or yourself, into trying something different. It
might be BDSM, voyeurism, exhibitionism, virtual play, role play, or
seriously so many different kinds. There are so many ways to get off it’s
ridiculous! But do what makes you happy and use this sigil to help
influence your lover to do what makes you happy. Or to help you do what
makes them happy. Remember communication is important. This will work
so much better if you are openly communicating with your lover.
 Breakthrough Gender Roles
You don’t have to be transgendered to feel constrained by gender roles.
Some people get so caught up in how they think men or women are
supposed to behave in bed, that they don’t let loose and really enjoy
themselves. Gender is more than clothes, though that can be fun. Play with
makeup. Switch up who’s in charge or who is pitching and who is catching.
In bed with someone you love and trust is the perfect place to experiment.
Want to change things up but need a little extra courage to try? Here’s a
sigil for you!
 Swap the Power Dynamic
Power is a major dynamic in sex, don’t let anyone lie to you. A lot of
sex is more about power than it is about orgasms. Don’t let society dictate
who is dominate and who is more submissive. You don’t have to be into
BDSM to want to play with the power dynamic. This sigil will help the
typically more submissive be more dominant and the typically more
dominant to be more submissive. This can be amazingly liberating even if
you only do it every now and then. Doesn’t have to be a permanent change
by any means.
 Get Laid (Hook-Up)
This is as simple as it gets. Use this sigil to hook-up with someone and
get laid. This isn’t to seduce someone specific. This is to find sex as quickly
and easily as possible. You may want to use Lower Your Expectations with
this one as it is focused on finding someone who wants to hook-up with you
who is not always going to be the hottest person around. But this isn’t a bad
thing. Sometimes you just don’t want to go home alone and want someone
to fuck. This sigil will help make sure that you find someone.
 Handjob
Who wants a handjob when there’s so many more fun things to do?
Well maybe that’s your thing. Maybe you’re in public and need to be
discrete. Maybe it’s a loophole in the rules of your relationship. Jareth don’t
judge! Sometimes you just want someone to use their hand down there. Use
this sigil in multiple ways. You can manifest a handjob out of the blue. Or
you can use it to influence someone into giving you a handjob. Or maybe
you are the one who wants to play with someone else so you can use this to
influence them to let you.
 Oral
Sometimes you just want someone to use their mouth and tongue.
Here’s the sigil for oral sex. You can use it to manifest it out of nowhere and
just hope the universe sends someone to go down on you. A possibility if
you are going out where you might meet people who might be willing to do
that. Less likely if you sit and home and do nothing. You can use it to
influence a particular person into going down on you. Or you can use it to
influence someone into letting you go down on them.

We all know those people who refuse to go down. If you are in a

relationship with one you can use this to influence them. You’ll probably
need to use some other sigils too, at least at first. But you can do it!
 Anal
Buttstuff is becoming more and more popular, but for many, it’s still a
bit of a taboo, so here’s a sigil that will help you get some. Like the
previous two sigils you can use this to try and manifest anal out of the blue.
Or you can use it to influence someone into letting you give them anal or to
influence someone into giving you anal. Simple enough.
 Threesome
The inspiration for the whole book, it’s the Threesome Sigil! The best
way to use this sigil is when the possibility for a threesome is a reality and
you just need the universe to give it a little bump in the right direction. Do
not think you can just use this ritual one time as a single person and find
themselves in a threesome later that day. You need to use strategy to get this
to happen. Use the other sigils to open up a dialogue about it. Help
everyone feel more adventurous. You get the idea. You can start using it
when you begin the process and keep using it the whole way through. The
point is that you may have to do a lot of work and be patient.
 Let’s Swing
Here’s a sigil to help you convince your partner and another couple to
swap. Like the Threesome Sigil you can’t expect this to work one and done.
You are probably going to have to use a combination of sigils to open
people to the idea. Just be patient and see how things play out. Things are
easier today than in the past with swinger and sex clubs.
 Orgy
Mainly putting this in here just so there’s an Orgy Sigil. But it will work
as well as anything else in here. More than likely you will have to build up
to this one. Again the sex club will probably be the easiest way to get this
one going.
 Find a Community
For many different kinks there is a community that you can join and
they can help you… well figure it all out, find a partner, or maybe become
an extended family.

Communities aren’t just for kinks either. The LGBTQ+ community can
be very helpful for people who are just coming out, or who need to know
that there are others like them, or just need to know someone cares.

This sigil will help you find your people!

 Make Your Fantasy a Reality
Everyone has that one fantasy that really gets them off. That one that’s
probably been with them in some form since adolescence. It may have
evolved in some way over the years or become something entirely new.
Regardless, most people have a fantasy they would really love to become
real, even if only once. Here’s the sigil that will make it happen.

Like the other sigils in this part of the book it may take a lot of work to
get all the various parties to agree to this. However, this sigil is one that
probably has as much chance of working if you just do it and ask the
universe to manifest it in some way for you. Obviously it depends on what
you are fantasizing. If it involves a dragon or something, you’re just out of
luck. Or maybe not. That part might not manifest as a dragon dragon, but as
something similar.

I’m not going to lie, this is sort of a cosmic Hail Mary. It probably
won’t happen, but if you don’t try you’ll never know.
 Blank Sigil
I included a blank sigil that you can use to create any power that I may
have overlooked. You can study the different Shadows and their powers and
carefully craft something that they can do or just say fuck it and make what
you want and see if they can deliver. You can make a copy of this or print a
screenshot. It doesn’t have to be pretty. Then just draw your sigil in the
blank center area. Do the ritual the same way you normally would. You’re
welcome!
 Appendix I Working Directly with
the Shadows
In the next appendix, I’ll present the Shadows, but before that, I wanted
to explain all the different ways you can work with them directly. You may
want to do this for several reasons. If you already work with spirits
regularly you can use their sigils and names and work with them as if they
were any other spirit. Or maybe you just prefer pathworking or chanting.
The main reason I can think of to work with one of the Shadows directly is
to have a more powerful inner experience. Say you really need healing.
Meditating with Phelorna’s mantra on a regular basis would be a great way
to speed up the healing process. Or you are trying to be extra smooth and
seductive you would invoke Ruvyn. I hope you are beginning to see the
possibilities. I’m all about options and customizing things!

Evocation

This is the most simple method to directly call on the Shadows. With
this method, you are summoning them to you and giving them a task to
perform. Easy peasy. All you need is the shadow’s sigil, name, and
command phrase. You can dress it up as much as you want with candles and
incense, but that’s not necessary.

Some things to keep in mind. You want to really call out to them like
you are calling someone in another room. If you are doing it silently
imagine that your voice radiates out across the cosmos. Don’t stress about
this, but just try to remember to let your voice be heard even when it’s just
in your mind. Also, you may or may not sense the Shadows' presence.
Some people “feel” when they are around and some don’t. These aren’t
powerful celestial beings so you may not notice anything. Just know that if
you call them they will come.

Here are the steps you need to follow to do a basic evocation:

Look at the Shadow’s sigil.

 Call the Shadow’s name three times. (You can do this in your mind)
Trust the Shadow is present.
Make your request firmly yet politely as you would a good employee.
Optionally talk to them in depth about the topic or situation.
Say the command word “Drahvok” pronounced (DRAW-vok)
Thank the Shadow and close the ritual.

Meditation/Chanting

For deep inner work, you may want to try meditating with them. There
are a couple of ways you can do this depending on how you meditate. Any
way that you do it you want to set your intention before you begin. So get
settled wherever you are going to meditate and you are going to call their
name three times and then make your request. Again, this can be out loud or
just in your mind. Then, if you meditate visually, you would begin gazing at
the sigil. If you use a mantra you would of course use the mantra for the
Shadow you want to work with. And so you would then gaze at the sigil,
repeat the mantra, (or both if that’s your jam) and try and give your full
attention to your focus. Whenever you realize that you are starting to think,
just stop and label your thought by saying to yourself “I’m thinking” and
return to your focus. Do that for whatever amount of time you have decided
to meditate. I recommend twenty to thirty minutes. If you want you can
chant the mantra out loud if that works for you. When you finish, say the
command word and thank the Shadow as a closing.

Here are the steps for meditation/chanting:

Get settled
Call the Shadow’s name three times (You can do this in your mind)
Trust the shadow is present.
Make your request firmly yet politely as you would a good employee.
Give your full attention to your their sigil or mantra, labeling your
thoughts as you go.
Sit for the time you set aside.
Say the command word “Drahvok” pronounced (DRAW-vok)
Thank the Shadow and close the meditation.

Novena
 If you have a more religious or prayerful way of working you can do a
novena. Before you begin you will want to compose a prayer to the
Shadow. It doesn’t need to be much more than the typical request. If you are
using this method you probably already have an idea of how to pray. Once
your prayer is composed you can print the image of the Shadow and set it
up somewhere. Next, light a candle and set it in front of the image. (You
don’t have to use the image and candle if you don’t want to. If you just pray
to them for nine days that’s fine.) Then, when you are ready, call the
Shadow’s name three times and say your prayer. Again, you can do this
either out loud or in your mind. Close your prayer by saying the command
word and thanking the Shadow. Repeat this for nine consecutive days if you
want to do a traditional novena, or you can do it for any number of days that
you want. It’s Chaos Magick, there aren’t a lot of rules.

Here are the steps for praying a novena:

Optional setup the image or sigil of the Shadow.

Optional light a candle for the Shadow
Call the Shadow’s name three times. (You can do this in your mind)
Trust the Shadow is present.
Say your prayer. (You can do this in your mind)
Say the command word “Drahvok” pronounced (DRAW-vok)
Close the prayer by thanking the Shadow.
Repeat for nine days.

Giving Offerings

You do not need to give offerings to the Shadows. Offerings should be

thought of as just pure gifts to the Shadows. If you get the impression they
are asking for, or demanding, an offering, scold them firmly. However, if
you decide that you want to give an offering because that’s just what you
do, here’s how you would do it. Basically, you start like you would an
evocation or novena and set up their sigil or picture. Say their name three
times and then present them with their offering. Tell them why you are
giving it to them. If your offering was public praise or an experience you
would remember the experience at this time. If you aren’t giving a further
command you don’t need to use the command word. This basically works
like the other rituals, so I’m not going to worry about a summary.
 Pathworking

Pathworking is a simple yet powerful method for working with the

Shadow in your imagination. Don’t let the word imagination fool you, it’s
still very real. You are just using your imagination as a magical tool to
interact with the Shadow.

The pathworking process is deceptively simple. The pathworking is

written as a few short lines. Each line gives you a brief description of a
scene. You read the description and then imagine the image it describes.
You do this for each image in order. Then when you come to the last image
you let that one stay. It will be the scene in which you interact with the
shadow. So you come to the last image and you call the Shadow’s name
three times. It will then appear in the scene. It may step out from behind
something, come out of a shadow, come from the side, or come from behind
you. If this doesn’t happen automatically it’s ok to use your imagination and
make them appear. You’ll want to have looked at the image or at least read
their description so you can do this correctly. When you see them just say
the request as a short command like we talked about before. Once you have
made your request you can then start talking with them normally. For
example, if you wanted to heal from a traumatic experience you might
explain what happened and how it has affected you ever since. Talk as long
as you need or want to. They may reply or ask questions. Just talk to them
as you would a friend who can help you. When you have finished say the
command phrase and thank them. Finally, imagine the very first image as
you want to back out of the pathworking rather than end it quickly. Then
you can drop the image and open your eyes. The last thing you want to do is
create a sigil or a doodle or something. You can write about the experience
or just make a quick few lines. The point is that you want to take what
happened in that mental astral plane and bring it into the physical world. It
doesn’t matter what you do, just be sure you don’t skip this step.

One thing to remember. The Shadows live in a land of Shadows. So

when you imagine the images in the pathworking keep them dark and
gloomy. Their world is grey. Think of a black-and-white noir movie. The
fewer colors the better. This is purely an aesthetic choice on my part, just
something to give them a united theme. Why dark and gloomy? I’m an
elder goth, it’s just what came to me. There’s nothing sinister going on. If I
was a hippie I could have just as easily made them all psychedelic and they
would function exactly the same.

As you practice the technique you can start to try to play through the
different images cinematically as though you are quickly moving through
the dark forest to the various other scenes until you get to the last one. The
more “real” you can make it for yourself the better the experience will be.
That being said, if you can just barely imagine the images and don’t ever
“see” or “hear” the shadow as long as you are calling its name three times,
giving it your request, and using the command word you will still get
results.

The advantage pathworking has is that it gives you the ability to talk to
and listen to the Shadows reply. You will be amazed at how wize they are
and how much you can learn from them. Sure it might seem like it’s just
you doing it all in your head, but why would that make it any less real? This
is what so much of magick is. Treating something others might think of as
silly and made up as though it were deadly real and letting it change us and
the world. So have a conversation with my made-up friends in your head
and let them give you the sex life you’ve always fantasised about.

Oh, and for those who have my other books, no you don’t need to call
on Raziel first, but if you want to you can.

Here are the steps for pathworking:

Read the 1st line and imagine the scene it describes.

Repeat for each other image.
Hold the last image.
Call the Shadow’s name three times.
Wait until you know it is there, using your imagination if needed.
Make your request.
Talk with the Shadow normally.
Say the command word “Drahvok” pronounced (DRAW-vok)
Thank the shadow.
Imagine the first image again.
Open your eyes.
 Create an original sigil or something to anchor the ritual in the physical
world.

Invocation

Invocation is the most advanced method because you will have to use
one of the other methods first. Invocation is when you summon the Shadow
and then have it enter you. You do this to take on the shadow’s
characteristics. So if you wanted to be more romantic you could invoke
Hubys Falana. If you wanted to be smooth and seductive you would invoke
Ruvyn. If you wanted to be healed of your traumas you could invoke
Phelorna. If you wanted to be a beast in bed you would invoke Gorduin. Or
if you wanted to let loose and unleash your inner slut you would invoke
Zeldonika. Finally, if you wanted to embody sexual confidence and
attractiveness you would invoke Amistra.

Sound interesting? Starting to see the possibilities? I bet you are! Ok,
here’s how you do it. The main thing is to be clear about what qualities you
want to take on. So you should take some time and think about what it is
about the Shadow you want to embody. Imagine how it would make you
behave. Then you will summon the Shadow using one of the above
techniques and make your request that the Shadow enter you and give you
whichever of their characteristics that you want. Then use your imagination
to sense them entering you.

So if you use the evocation method, once you summon the shadow you
would make your request that it enters you and give you such and such
characteristic and then say the command word. Then imagine it entering
you. The same with pathworking, once you see the shadow you would
make your request, say the command word, and imagine them entering you.
You can chant their mantra as they are entering you if you need a little more
umph.

Now, this isn’t possession. They aren’t going to take control of your
body. Instead, you should find it easier to act the way you wanted to act.
Suddenly you will be able to behave in ways you didn’t think you would be
able to. Again, this isn’t possession where the shadow takes the steering
wheel and whisks you off on a sexual adventure. You are still you and you
will have to take the initiative and go out and do the things you want to do,
but you’ll have some help getting there. The more you lean into it, the
better it will work. If you want to take on the characteristics of a smooth
seducer, then the more you act like one the stronger the effect will be and
the better the results you will get. Or if you wanted to unleash the beast or
the whore then fucking cut loose and act like you are a raging sexual animal
in heat.

It should last around twelve hours, but may vary from person to person.
If you want it to end sooner, just call the Shadow’s name three times and
command it to leave you and say the command word.

I do not recommend invoking more than one Shadow at a time.

However, I know you are going to try it, but please don’t until you are very
well practiced and have done it several times. It’s not that it’s dangerous as
much as it will be harder to focus on the characteristics you are trying to
embody.

Steps for Invocation:

Spend time imagining yourself with the characteristic you want.

Perform one of the other rituals to summon the Shadow.
Make your request that it enter you and give you the characteristic.
Say the command word “Drahvok” pronounced (DRAW-vok)
Imagine the Shadow entering you.
Behave as though you now have the characteristic you want.

Banishing

Typically if you want the Shadow to leave all you have to do is call it’s
name three times, tell it to go and leave you alone, and say the command
word. But if you have a serious problem with a Shadow there is a way to
permanently banish it from you. This cannot be undone, and will basically
make the magick in this book useless, so don’t use it unless you actually
need to. Honestly, this is just here to make the people who have an
unreasonable fear of servitors feel safe. There is no danger. But if I’m
wrong, there is a kill switch you can throw. All you have to do is call the
Shadow’s name three times and then say the word “karis” (CARE-is) three
times out loud. It is pronounced like the words “care” and “is” put together.
It needs to be out loud so you don’t accidentally think it or something. You
also need to intend to banish it from you. Remember, your intention is an
important step in magick, so don’t worry if you accidentally say it. You
have to decide that you want to banish it.

And that’s it! You are now ready to work with the Shadows directly.
Congratulations, you are really on your way toward transforming you sex
life into one of your dreams. There’s just one more thing to do, meet the
Shadows! So let’s get to it.
 Appendix II The Shadows
Following are the six Shadows that are the foundation of the magick
system this book uses. As we have discussed each sigil combines their
various powers to create the desired effect, and in the previous section, we
learned how to work with them individually.

Even though I have given them gender, that doesn’t mean you are
restricted to working with the Shadows that share your sex or gender. We
are complicated creatures who are a mix of various energies and desires.
Don’t pigeonhole your sex drive.

Each entry will include a description of how they appear and what they
can do. It will also include an artistic representation of them, their sigil,
their mantra, and their pathworking. Everything you need to work with
them however you choose. The image is just an idea of what they look like
and not a photograph. If you see them differently, that’s ok.
 Amistra (ah-MEE-strah)
This is Amistra. She appears as a statuesque woman with an elaborate
headdress. She has the power to make you more attractive and increase your
confidence in sex in everything from how you look, to seduction, and all the
way to your performance in bed.

She can’t change your physical features, but she will help you get your
makeup and outfit just right. She can bring out your inner beauty and let it
shine out. Or she may give you an aire of sexual intensity. It’s best to let her
decide how you will be more attractive rather than try and force a particular
effect.

Amistra will also make you more confident. Nothing makes someone as
sexy as confidence and she has it in spades. She will help you be more
confident in your appearance, in interacting in social scenarios, and will
other people, and she will help you be confident in your abilities to blow
your lovers mind.

She has the power to make people more attractive and confident. More
confident in themselves, more confident in their appearance, and more
confident when approaching and talking to people they are attracted to. She
can also make the user more attractive to other people.

Mantra: RAW GRAH SMAWL AH MEES TRAH

Pathworking:

A dark forest of shadows.

A road cuts through the forest.

A troop of costumed performers marches down the road.

 Gorduin (gore-DOO-in)
Gorduin appears as a large muscular male with the head of a bull. His
powers are to give strong masculine energy to a ritual, to increase the sexual
power of the user, to lower people’s inhibitions, to help someone unleash
their inner “beast,” and to make sex more enjoyable. He will make you
more assertive and more sexually aggressive. He can make sex physically
feel better. He makes you last longer. He can make sex more intense. He
can make you more excited which can make your cock harder and even
slightly longer.

He is all about masculine energy. That doesn’t mean he’s only for men
though. Anyone can use Gorduin. He is open to all. All sexes, genders,
orientations, and anyone who wants an amazing experience from what we
may traditionally think of as the masculine perspective.

Mantra: TAHB DAS MAH GOR DOO IN

Pathworking:

A dark forest of shadows.

You come to an open meadow in the forest.

In the meadow, you see a large bull.

The bull charges.

 Zeldonika (zell-DON-ick-ah)
Zeldonika appears as a voluptuous woman fresh from vigorous fucking.
Her powers are to give strong feminine energy to a ritual, to increase the
sexual desire of the user, to lower people’s inhibitions, and to make sex
more enjoyable. She will make you more assertive about what you want,
and more sexually aggressive. She can make sex physically feel better. She
can make sex more intense. She can make you more passionate and lower
sexual inhibitions so they can unleash their inner whore and reach an
ecstatic sexual frenzy.

She is all about feminine energy. That doesn’t mean she’s only for
women though. Anyone can use Zeldonika. She is open to all. All sexes,
genders, orientations, and anyone who wants an amazing experience from
what we may traditionally think of as the feminine perspective.

Mantra: YAH STRAHN HAH ZEL DON ICK AH

Pathworking:

A dark forest of shadows.

A road cuts through the forest.

At the crossroads, you find a small shrine.

In the shrine is a statue of a nude woman.

 Phelorna (fell-LORN -ah)
This is Phelorna. She appears as a shadowy saint with a sad yet
compassionate face. She physically manifests the inner wounds of those she
helps as a way of exorcising them. Her powers are to heal people’s inner
traumas so they can fully embrace their sexuality and fully connect with
their bodies. She will help you heal emotionally, mentally, physically, and
spiritually. She has the power to make people feel comfortable in their own
skin. She has the power to heal whatever keeps someone from fully
enjoying their bodies and sex.

If you are having trouble getting your seduction magick working, odds
are you have some sort of harmful beliefs or unhealed wounds that are
keeping you blocked. She can help remove those blockages.

Mantra: YAH JAHL MOF FELL LORN AH

Pathworking:

A dark forest of Shadows.

An ancient castle.

Inside the castle, there is a music room.

A violin covered in dust.

 Ruvyn (ROOV-yin)
Ruvyn appears as a sexy slightly androgynous elven man. He was
created to make you more seductive and create feelings of lust in others. To
put it bluntly, he helps you fuck who you want to fuck. He has the powers
to create sexual desire in someone, to increase your skills in seduction, will
help you keep your wits, will make you a smooth talker, increase your
confidence in seduction, and increase your sexual appeal to others.

Mantra: AH YOX SAWL ROOV YIN

Pathworking:

A dark forest of shadows.

A creek running through the forest

The creek leads to a park pond.

You gaze into the dark water.

 Hubys Falana (HUB-yees FALL-on-
ah)
This is Hubys Falana. They appear as two beautiful lovers becoming
one through their love and sexual ecstasy. They were created to increase
romantic feelings, improve communication, and bring people closer
together through sex. To make two people feel like one, to make sex a
spiritual experience, to increase the romance between people, to bring
people together, and to help them communicate with each other better.

They don’t create love, but they can help it grow if it is there through
romance, open communication, and great sex.

Mantra: NOOM RAHT KAH HUB YEES FALL ON AH

Pathworking:

A dark forest of shadows.

A tall tower.

Inside the tower is a bedroom with incense burning.

 ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Jareth Tempest is a mystic and occultist who has been practicing for
over two decades now. He self-published three previous books Raziel’s
Paths of Power, Archangel Pathworkings, and Angels of Omnipotence. He
is also an advanced energy worker who creates and sells distance
attunements with various spirits from these and other grimoires. You can
find out more at his blog www.theshadowbinder.com