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UNIT - 1
1.1 Skills in Listening and Writing
1.2 Skills in Reading and Understanding
Listening Skill
Listening is an art which requires patience and regular listening practice to
attain excellence.
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Answer briefly
1. What are the Receptive skills?
2. What are the Productive skills?
3. What is the difference between ‘Hearing’ and ‘Listening’?
4. Mention the two kinds of Listening situations.
5. State the three steps to Active Listening.
Answer in a paragraph
1. Describe the abilities a person should possess to master the skill of listening.
2. Explain the three steps to Active Listening.
3. Explain the barriers to effective Listening.
4. Elucidate the ways to overcome the Barriers to effective Listening.
5. State the importance of Listening Skill.
Answer in detail
1. Write in detail about the art of Listening and the barriers to effective Listening
explaining the ways to overcome them.
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Attentive listening
Focused and attentive listening will be purposeful. Observe the conservation
below:
Saranya : Hello, is it Shakthi?
Shakthi’s mother : No, this is Shakthi’s mother.
Saranya : Aunty, can I talk to Shakthi?
Shakthi’s mother : She has gone out. Should I convey something to her?
Saranya : Aunty tell her that she has a special class tomorrow
morning at 8am.
Shakthi’s mother : Sure. I will convey it to her.
Saranya : Bye Aunty.
Shakthi’s mother : Bye.
The above conversation is long, but the bottom line of the information is
that there will be a special class, the next day morning. Shakthi’s mother would
have recorded the conversation as below:
Documented Message:
Saranya called to say that there will be a special class the next day at 8am.
Read this telephonic conversation between the receptionist and the caller and
observe the message documented in the text box.
Receptionist : Good Morning! This is Selvam Plaza. How may I help you?
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Documented Message:
Ravi called and informed me that he would like to meet you. He also wanted to
invite you to his house warming ceremony.
Activity-1
Work in pairs and write a dialogue between Maha and Ranga using the hints
given below.
Maha is a data entry operator and receptionist in Venkata Traders. She receives a
call from Ranga, an advertising agent. Ranga wants to meet Elango, the Executive
Manager regarding an advertisement presentation. Maha says Elango is out of
town and would return after three days. Ranga agrees to make a call after three
days.
Maha : This is ………………………………........................................................…….
Ranga : Could I ……………………………...................................................................
Maha : Mr. Elango …………………………….............................................................
Ranga : I am Ranga………………...................................................................................
Maha : I will .....................................................................................................................
Ranga : Thank You ...........................................................................................................
Maha : ...............................................................................................................................
Maha writes a message and leaves it on Elango’s table. Can you document Maha’s
message to Elango?
Documented Message:
Ranga…...……………................................................................................… called up.
He called regarding ………….........................................................................................
He agreed to call ...............................................................................................................
Maha
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Writing Skills
Good writing skills are an important aspect of good communication. It
helps one to communicate one’s message with coherence and clarity to the reader.
Writing skills are effective persuasive skills that are useful while writing a report,
drafting a resume or a CV, communicating with a customer, or expressing one’s
thoughts through blogs or other media.
Note-making
Note-making is a progressive writing skill. It helps a person to make sense
of what one is reading or learning. Effective note-making skills enable one to not
only select the information one reads from written sources efficiently, but also
helps one to organise them into a coherent structure. Note-making helps in
keeping information available whenever it is required.
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Notes must be written in points, listed one after another and numbered
correctly.
Avoid the usage of full sentences.
Do not take extracts of the passage to form the notes.
In order to give your note a visual sense of brevity, indenting (shifting from
the margin) sub points below points and sub headings below headings is
essential.
Use Abbreviations as much as possible while making notes. Eg.: +ve, -ve, =.
Brevity is vital. Universal symbols such as,
& for ‘and’
i.e. for ‘that is’
e.g. for example
viz. for namely etc., should be used appropriately.
A Key should be used for own short forms.
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Clicking one’s tongue, biting the lips, rolling the eye, using the hands excessively
while speaking are to be kept under check.
NOTES
Results in winning a
reputation as,
Abbreviations used:
Convers. - Conversation
Sub. - Subject
Sometimes you may be asked to write a summary of the passage based on the
notes. Here is a summary of the passage on ‘Conversations’.
The Art of Conversing is one that can be learnt easily. The secret of a
successful conversation lies in taking interest in other person’s interests. Being a
good conversationalist involves the ability to be mentally sharp and witty to know
what to say and how to say it. Avoid mannerisms. Being pleasant and courteous is
much required.
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Answer briefly
1. Why is Writing skill an important aspect of communication?
2. What type of Listening will be purposeful?
3. What is Note-making?
Answer in a paragraph
1. Explain the difference between the ability to listen and the ability to read.
2. Explain with example the skill of listening and documenting a message.
3. Why is writing skill an effective persuasive skill? Bring out the abilities
involved in writing skill?
Answer in detail
1. What is note-making? List out the points to remember while making notes.
Based on your reading of the sentence above, answer the following question:
What time of the day was it?
Night / evening / morning / afternoon
The answer is morning or evening. It has to be deduced from the words ‘taking
my regular walk’ where we infer information using the word, ‘walking’ which is
an activity that people do soon after they wake up or before going to bed.
Activity -1
A. Read the following tit-bits and answer the questions that follow:
As I was returning from my office, I decided to buy a pack of biscuits for my tea.
1. The person likes to take
a. Tea and chips
b. Biscuits for the child and make tea to drink
c. Tea and biscuits as it always makes a good combination
d. There is no relationship between biscuits and making tea
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B. Say whether the following statements about the passage below are true or false.
Give reasons in support of your answer.
Raja is a leading actor. He refused a movie offer as he was currently caught up in
another movie in Japan.
1. Raja is a successful actor.
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2. Raja is currently in Japan.
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3. Raja is a lazy man.
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4. The movie offer demands Raja’s exit from Japan.
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C. Read the passage and do the activities which follow:
Sheela is the leader of her class. She has a science test on Monday. While
leaving the school on Saturday, she leaves behind her science book in the school
shelf. She notices the missing book after reaching home. Monday morning she
reaches the school a little earlier and does a last minute reading and writes the test
and gets good marks. In the process of preparing for the test, she misplaces the
attendance register of her class.
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3. Judgment : Is Sheela a responsible person?
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Answer each question in about 30 words. The hints below will help you draft your
answer.
a) What kind of girl is Sheela?
Hints : Sheela – intelligent – absent minded
She-does not-home to check. She is careless.
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b) Do you like Sheela. Give reasons.
Hints : I like Sheela. She-me. I-absent minded. I-check everywhere. What’s
wrong if – is like Sheela.
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c) Should students like Sheela be office bearers in schools/colleges?
Hints : No doubt, Sheela-good at-studies. But, it is doubtful-people can be
employed-. Absent mindedness and - are not suitable for-leaders.
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Answer in detail
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1. Explain in detail about the skill of reading and understanding. Illustrate with
examples.
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UNIT – 2
2.1 Skills to Read and Respond to Instructions
2.2 Skills of Interpretation and Transcoding Information
Instructions
An instruction is a guide which provides detailed information on how
something should be done or used or operated. Instructions are a part of one’s life.
We give and are being given instructions almost daily. We see sign boards with
instructions everywhere around us. The goods that we purchase contain
instructions on how to use and maintain them. Our day-to-day instructions may
include, “Be Careful”, “Listen”, “Do not touch”, “Do not expose to heat”,
“Danger”, etc.
Instructions are given for the reader to execute or follow them. There is a
difference between executing an instruction and following an instruction.
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These are instructions to be followed by the bus manager who in turn will
supervise the staff and ensure that the buses reach the campus on time.
Activity -1
Here are some instructions. Say whether they are executive instructions (EI) or
instructions to be followed (IF). Give reasons for your choice.
1. Bring down the electricity bill.
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2. Ensure that the project is ready by Monday.
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3. Ensure that the students don’t waste water.
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Sample -2
You are in your college and you need to access a word document from your
computer. Your younger sister is the only one who can help you at this moment.
What are the instructions you will give to your sister to switch on the computer.
Connect the power chord of the UPS to a switch board.
Press the silver button on the CPU. The indication is a clicking sound and
small lights of green and red will start flickering.
After a few seconds you will hear the fan rotating and the monitor will turn
on showing a process and will stop with the display ‘Enter password’.
Just click enter and the computer will be ready for use.
Activity -2
1. Write down instructions on how to make lemon juice. Your instructions can
begin like below:
i) Take 500ml of water in a vessel.
ii) Cut a large lemon and add the lemon juice to the water after removing the
seeds.
Write down the other instructions using the example given above.
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2. There is a sudden thunder storm and lightning with rain in your city and you
are stuck up in the shopping mall. Give instructions to your little brother to
shut down the computer that you had forgotten to turn off.
The following points may help you in drafting your instructions.
(i) The ‘Windows’ button is at the bottom left-hand corner of your screen.
(ii) The option ‘ Shut down’ is available here.
(iii) If there are any programs running or documents open. You have two
options now: Cancel or Force shut down.
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Answer briefly
1. What does the reading process involve?
2. What is an Instruction?
3. What are the things to be kept in mind while giving written instructions?
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Graphs, tables and Pie-charts are visual representations. They are used to
organise data to demonstrate patterns and relationships. The above written
passage became more effective when illustrated through a table and graph. Tables,
graphs and figures can present certain types of information more clearly and in
less space than the same material would need in sentence form.
A pie chart is a kind of graph in which a circle is divided into segments in
which each part denotes a proportion of the whole. An appropriate key is an
essential element of any visual representation.
Sample-2
The following is based on a private survey on what function of the mobile is
used the most by users. 40% of the mobile is used for social media like Facebook,
Twitter, WhatsApp, etc. 35% of the mobile is used as a source of entertainment
which may include Music and movies. 20% of the mobile is used primarily for
gaming applications. Productivity is the least used function with only 5% using
their phones for Email or work type functions.
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5% Productivity (Email,
Calculator, Dictionary, books,
etc)
Activity-1
1. Read this extract and do the activity which follows:
In 2013, Ramu a young hardworking shoemaker with the little money he
had, opened a small shop earning a profit of 10 % per year. In 2014 he was
luckily visited by a kind rich man who liked the perfection in his shoes and his
profit increased to 30%. In 2015 he got a few good customers and his profit
increased to 50%. In 2016, Ramu expanded his shop and got a bulky school order
and his profit increased to 70%. In 2017, his profit further increased to 80%. Now
Ramu is a fortunate man running a successful shoe company with a profit of 90%.
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2. In a college of 1000 students 5% of them come by car, 35% come by walk, 10%
come by Auto, 20% come by the college bus and the rest use Public transport to
reach the college.
A. Tabulate the information regarding the various means of Transport used by the
college students to reach the college.
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Transport Used Percentage of Students using it.
No.
Answer briefly
1. What does the process of Interpretation involve?
2. How do we transcode information?
3. What is a Pie-Chart?
4. What is the importance of a Visual representation?
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UNIT – 3
3.1 Skills in Seeking and Responding to Information
3.2 Skills of Day-to-Day Communication
Informal Structures
A direct question can be used to ask a friend or family member.
Question Type: ‘Wh’ word + helping verb + subject + verb.
Where does he come from?
How much is this mobile?
Formal Structures
Can you tell me when the college reopens?
Pardon me, could you tell me the way to the bus stand?
Would you mind telling me a little more about this savings plan?
Activity -1
You need money urgently. Talk to a friend on the telephone asking for help. Fill in
the blanks.
Mani : Hello Kumar, how are you?
Kumar : Hi Mani, I’m fine how are you?
Mani : Fine. Thank you. I need your help. _________________
some money I need it urgently.
Kumar : How much?
Mani : Five Hundred Rupees.
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If we are unable to help a person, one of the expressions given below can be used.
Sometimes it is necessary to say no.
Example:
Sorry, I can’t help you out.
Sorry, I don’t know that.
I’m afraid I don’t have the answer to your question.
I’d like to help you but unfortunately I don’t have the information.
information. Both the questions above are requests seeking information. Let us
observe here how to seek and respond to information by studying some samples of
verbal communication.
Activity-2
Read the following sentences and mark (Q) if they are questions and (R) if they
are request.
1. Would you tell me where the diary is? _________
2. What does CPU do in a computer? _________
3. Would you please tell me the way to the temple? _________
4. Where is the bus terminus? _________
5. Would you tell me the meaning of the word ‘Panacea’? _________
6. What does an adjective mean? _________
7. Would you please tell me how to use these tools? _________
All requests do not seek information. Some requests have to be responded with
action.
Thus we understand that there are requests that seek information and requests
that seek action.
Activity-3
Look at the following requests and mark (I) if the request seeks information or (A)
if the request seeks action.
1. Would you give me your cycle please? _________
2. Can you tell me the way to the river? _________
3. Could I borrow your eraser for a moment? _________
4. Would you tell me how to open the box? _________
5. What is the role of Television in our daily life? _________
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Seeking information does not essentially end with the opening question. There
could be a negotiation and re-negotiation of the information given if the receiver
of the information needs more clarification.
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Mohan does not direct reply to Needhi’s question, but gives a range of available
choices to choose from. Mohan’s reply cannot be termed as giving information. He
offers suggestions.
It is also essential to give information in a way that the speaker can understand.
We may have to simplify our information so that the speaker understands it
better.
Observe the conversation between Sheela and Mala.
Sheela : Which mobile is the best?
Mala : There is a Duos model, 15 megapixel mobile from Nokia. This
should certainly be the best option for you.
Sheela : What is a Duos model and what does 15 megapixel mean?
Mala : It just means that we can use two SIM cards and the photos we take
in this mobile will be very realistic and clear.
Sheela : Oh! I see.
It is clear that Mala’s use of terminology is difficult for Sheela to
understand. Therefore, she simplifies her information in terms of the print quality
of the product.
Activity - 4
Work in pairs and write dialogues on the following situations. Practice the
dialogues with your friend and present it to the class.
1. The way to reach the bank from your residence.
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Activity-5
Fill in the blanks based on your understanding of the text
1. Giving information can be in the form of a _________________or
______________.
2. While giving information a person has to ____________ the information for
the speaker to understand it better.
3. While seeking information there can be a _______________ and
_____________ of the information for more clarification.
Answer the following:
1. What is the role of information in our daily life?
2. What are the two ways in which a person can seek information?
3. What are the ways in which information can be given? Illustrate with
examples.
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Example:
The organiser of a show goes on stage and makes an announcement.
“You may maintain silence, while the program is going on.”
‘You’ here refers to one and all in the auditorium.
The same announcement could be made in a different way.
“All the audience may remain silent.”
“All the audience are requested to be silent.”
“It would be of immense help if you could remain silent.”
Here the use of polite language does not suggest a request but a firm order by the
organiser.
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The above conversation does not use formal phrases such as, Would you like, Shall
we, Could I, Can I, Would you please, etc.
Informal Conversations with our friends uses direct language.
Messages are negotiated and re-negotiated as given in the example.
Priya is not only interested to go out with Pooja but also suggests having food with
her. Pooja decides to wait after re-discussing how long she should wait.
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Example:
Manager : Finish the printing today.
Varun : I’ll try my best Sir. We have only two printers in working condition
and we have just two hours left.
Manager : Can you stay for a few more hours and finish the work?
Varun : Sir, I would gladly do that but the printer will be overloaded and
the papers will be jammed.
Manager : Okay, then you can take my printer and finish the work.
Varun : Sure Sir. Thank you
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It is clear that the Customer talks and re-discusses the problem. The salesman tries
to find a solution politely and firmly.
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UNIT – 4
4.1 Grammatical Skills and Spelling rules
4.2 Career Skills
Spelling Rules
Rules for adding ‘ed’ and ‘ing’
Basically, ‘ed’ is added to denote the past tense and
‘ing’ is added to denote the present continuous.
There are some examples that do not follow this rule and the final consonant
repeats itself before ‘ed’ or ‘ing’.
Example: bat + ed = batted, bat + ing = batting.
commit + ed = Committed, commit + ing = Committing.
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Activity-1
Use these rules and add ‘ed’ and ‘ing’ in the following words, doubling
consonants where necessary. The first one is done for you.
1. chat chatted chatting
2. stunt ______ed ______ing
3. link ______ed ______ing
4. finish ______ed ______ing
5. drop ______ed ______ing
6. toil ______ed ______ing
7. train ______ed ______ing
8. toast ______ed ______ing
9. talk ______ed ______ing
10. knit ______ed ______ing
Grammatical Skills
The core of modern English grammar lies in the understanding of the
structure of a basic sentence or kernel sentence of English.
A Basic Sentence or Kernel sentence is a simple, declarative sentence with
only one verb. A Kernel sentence is always in the active voice and may contain a
direct object. It is a positive sentence and does not contain any optional
expressions, modifiers or connectives to make it elaborate.
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Activity-2
Read the following sentences and mark (K) if they are kernel sentences and (NK) if
they are not kernel sentences. Give reasons for your answers.
1. He goes home.
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2. Geetha gave me a pen.
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3. An award was given to me by the committee.
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4. He is very handsome.
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5. It looks bright.
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6. There wasn’t even a drop of rain in the village.
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7. Are you coming with me?
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8. Being fit, he took to volleyball.
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9. I like chips.
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10. I worked hard yesterday.
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She sang the college song. Here the same verb ‘sang’ is
transitive as it is followed by the
direct object ‘college song’.
Activity-3
Write whether the verbs in the following sentences are transitive or intransitive.
Mark (vt) for verb transitive and (vi) for verb intransitive.
1. I like Dhoni. __________
2. Kala walks often. __________
3. I saw Nandhu crossing the bridge. __________
4. I won a lottery ticket. __________
5. Chased by a bull, I ran. __________
Answer briefly
1. What makes the spellings in English language challenging to the learners?
2. What is a kernel Sentence?
3. What is a transitive verb?
4. What is an intransitive verb?
Answer in a paragraph
1. What is the spelling rule for the doubling of consonants while adding ‘ed’
and ‘ing’? Support your answer with examples.
2. Bring out a list of ten letters of the alphabet with appropriate examples of
their sounds in initial, medial and final positions.
3. What are the pronunciation rules connected with the letter ‘c’?
4. What are the pronunciation rules connected with the letter ‘g’?
5. What are the pronunciation rules connected with the letter ‘h’?
6. What are the pronunciation rules connected with the letter ‘s’?
7. What are the ways to identify transitive and intransitive verbs?
Answer in detail
1. What are the spelling rules connected with adding ‘ed’ and ‘ing’? Illustrate
with examples.
2. Write in detail about the pronunciation rules with examples.
3. Write in detail about kernel sentences with examples.
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Activity -1
The following is a model Job Application Form. Fill it up clearly with your relevant
details.
Job Application Form
Name in block letters : …………………………………………………………..
Present address : …………………………………………………………..
Residential address : …………………………………………………………..
Phone : ……………………. Mobile : ………………
Email ID : …………………………………………………………..
Additional Information
Date of birth : …………………………………………………………..
Height : ……………………. Weight : ………………
Marital status : …………………………………………………………..
Number of children : ……………………. Ages : ………………
Expected Salary : …………………………………………………………..
Other job interests : …………………………………………………………..
Are of interest in your :
subject …………………………………………………………..
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State the National level and International level, Conferences, Workshops and
Seminars attended in the last two years:
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Work Experience :
Date of Address of the Duties/ Name of the
Designation
Employment Institution responsibilities Supervisor
Explain if you have any personal responsibilities or health issues that should
prevent you from coming to work.
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A. Reference-1
Name :....................................................................................................................
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Email Id :....................................................................................................................
Phone No :....................................................................................................................
B. Reference-2
Name :....................................................................................................................
Address :....................................................................................................................
Email Id :....................................................................................................................
Phone No :....................................................................................................................
Signature : ..........................................
Date : ..........................................
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Activity-2
Imagine you are a receptionist in a hotel called Indian Coffee House. You have
worked more than ten years in this hotel. You also have experience of working in
Anandha Groups for five years. You are interested in the Receptionist post in Bells
Group of Hotels. How would you fill in your job profile in the column on previous
experience?
Previous Experience
Date of Address of the Duties/
Designation Reason for leaving
Employment Institution responsibilities held
Activity- 3
The following are the details of S. Sujeetha. She is thirty seven years old. She has a
five year old daughter. Sujeetha was born on the New Year’s Eve of 1981. She
graduated from Muthuram College, Vellore with first class in B.A., and M.A.,
English, from the Thiruvalluvar University. She also finished her B.Ed. in first class
from Teacher’s Education University. She finished her 12th and 10th standard from
the same School in Vellore and secured sixty and sixty five percentage in 10 th and
12th respectively. Then she was selected immediately by St. John’s Group of
Schools, where she served as a Class Teacher and Magazine Editor for three years
before joining the Times of India as a Journalist. She served there for seven years
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before shifting to a school in New Delhi, where she became the Vice-Principal.
Use the information given and fill in the job application form of Sujeetha.
Job Application Form
Name in block letters : …………………………………………………………..
Present address : …………………………………………………………..
Residential address : …………………………………………………………..
Phone : ……………………. Mobile : ………………
Email ID : …………………………………………………………..
Additional Information
Date of birth : …………………………………………………………..
Height : ……………………. Weight : ………………
Marital status : …………………………………………………………..
Number of children : ……………………. Ages : ………………
Expected Salary : …………………………………………………………..
Other job interests : …………………………………………………………..
Are of interest in your :
subject …………………………………………………………..
State the Conferences, Workshops, Symposium and Seminars attended with year:
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Previous Experience:
S. Name of the Duties / Reason for
Year Designation
No. Institution Responsibilities Leaving
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3
Membership in Professional, Union, Social Institutions:
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Explain if you have any personal responsibilities or health issues that should
prevent you from coming to work.
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A. Reference-1
Name :....................................................................................................................
Address :....................................................................................................................
Email Id :....................................................................................................................
Phone No :....................................................................................................................
B. Reference-2
Name :....................................................................................................................
Address :....................................................................................................................
Email Id :....................................................................................................................
Phone No :....................................................................................................................
Signature : ..........................................
Date : ..........................................
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Activity - 4
Here is the resume of a job aspirant. But he has mixed up the contents. Develop a
job application form and arrange the contents in order.
Saratha Vidya
150, Green Flats, Chennai.
Education
Proficient in MS Office Suite
Typing Speed : 80 wpm
Strengths
Dr. Seth, CEO, Green Leaf Groups
Email ID: seth98@gmail.com
Technical Skills
B.A., English and communications, 2009
University of Madras.
Diploma in Marketing, 2008.
University of Madras.
Experience
Outstanding Team Leader.
Committed and Hard Working
Excellent verbal and Written Communication Skills (Tamil & English)
Multitasking Ability
References
Green Leaf Groups,
Administrative Assistant (2009 - 2012)
Skyline Financial,
Executive Assistant (2012- Present)
Answer in detail
1. Design a general Job Application Form filled in with all the details required for
the post of Teacher in a subject of your choice.
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UNIT – 5
5.1 Skills of Formal and Informal Expressions
5.2 Skills of non-verbal communication
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1. Informal English
Informal English is used when you are a personal friend to the listener. We
use Informal English to a person known for a long time. This format is commonly
used among families and friends. The majority of the usage is routine and used
while chatting. This may be the format that we use in our daily English
conversations.
Example:
Joe is John’s friend and both work in the same company. Joe invites John for his
daughter’s birthday Party.
Joe : Hey John, are you free this weekend?
John : Absolutely. What’s up?
Joe : Saturday is my daughter’s birthday and we are putting together a Party.
John : Sure, I shall be there. Where are you going to have it?
Joe : At our Residence.
2. Formal English
This form of English is used in official negotiations, interactions and
interviews and also for conversing with strangers. Official reports, business
letters, academic articles, contracts, and official speeches are the places in which
the written medium of Formal English is practised.
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Example:
Joe wants to invite his company’s boss for his daughter’s Birthday Party. Observe
the formal conversation below.
Joe : Sir, I was wondering if you and your wife had any plans for this
weekend.
Kathir : I think we might be free. What do you have in mind?
Joe : Sir, Saturday is my daughter’s Birthday. I would like to ask you to
do the honour of visiting our House and gracing the Birthday party
with your blessings.
Kathir : That sounds wonderful. When you have figured out the details,
drop me an e-mail.
3. Semi-Formal English
Semi-formal is the fine line between formal and informal. It signifies that
you know the person, but not on a personal level. It is used occasionally and the
majority of the usage comes from the corporate environment. Day-to-day
interaction with colleagues is one instance.
Example:
Next day, Joe meets Sreedhar, the peon and invites him for his daughter’s birthday
Party.
Joe : Can you join us tomorrow in our Residence to attend my daughter’s
birthday party?
Sreedhar : Sure Sir. I will be thankful for it.
Joe : Come with me, I will give you my address.
Activity-1
Read the following dialogues and mark (FO) for formal, (IN) for informal and (SF)
for Semi- Formal suggestions.
1. Vijaj : Could I use your bathroom please?
Anand : You may use it.
2. Muthu : Would you please lend me your book?
Sethu : No, No.
3. Sindhu : Can you bring me a cup of tea?
Kala : Sure madam.
4. Baby : Want to join for a stroll?
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Vinitha : I am so tired.
5. Teacher : Can you carry these books for me?
Student : My pleasure Sir.
6. Jenifer : What about a cup of juice?
Jayamala : That is better.
7. Karthika : Would you like to have some snacks?
Krithika : No, thanks.
8. Student : May I come in Sir?
Teacher : Yes Come in.
9. Ravi : Do you want a cup of tea?
Peon : I will be grateful for it.
10. Malini : How about a cinema tonight?
Mohini : That would be fantastic!
Expressing Courtesy
Expressing courtesy is showing civility, good manners, respectfulness and
politeness in one’s behaviour and attitude towards others. Be it a formal or a
friendly conversation being courteous is very vital for one’s life, as it decides the
quality of the relationship we will have with the people around us. Courteous
people are loved and respected by everyone.
Being curt is the opposite of being courteous. Curt means being rude and
sharp in one’s reply and attitude towards others. People who are curt are not a
pleasure to be around and will be avoided by everyone. As the age old saying goes,
people who give respect to others will be given respect by others.
Speaker A and B have both answered the same request yet, we can absolutely be
sure that B is curt but C is courteous.
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Activity -2
Write whether the replies in the following dialogues express curt or courtesy.
Answer briefly
1. What is the need to use the right kind of writing style?
2. What do you mean by courtesy?
3. Why should we avoid being curt?
Answer in a paragraph
1. What are the things to be kept in mind while writing informally?
2. What are the things to be kept in mind while writing formally?
Answer in detail
1. Describe the three types of Formality in English with examples.
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Gestures
Gestures are a part and parcel of a person’s daily life. We wave, point,
beckon, and use our hands when we’re arguing or speaking animatedly—a
person expresses his self with gestures often without thinking. However, the
meaning of gestures can be very different across cultures and regions, so it’s
important to be careful to avoid misinterpretation.
Eye contact
Eye contact is a special and important type of non-verbal communication as
the visual sense is dominant in most individuals. The way a person looks at
someone can communicate many things, such as curiosity, concern, attention,
interest, affection, opposition, or attraction. Here are a few reasons why a person
might avoid an Eye contact:
• A Person avoids a direct look when he hides something. Police use this to
detect the truth.
• Shyness could be a reason to avoid eye contact.
• A short attention span or disinterest could make a person take his or her
eyes off the speaker.
• Dislike, discomfort or negative feelings towards a person can be a reason
for avoiding eye contact.
Importance of Eye contact
• Eye contact is also vital in sustaining the flow of a conversation and plays a
great role in judging the other person’s interest and response.
• Practising a good eye contact is a sign that you are a good listener.
• A good eye contact is a sign that we respect a person. It is very effective in
conveying the message that the speaker and his message to us is very
important to us.
Haptics or Touch
We communicate a lot through touch. In our everyday life we exchange a
great deal of feelings and emotions through touch.
Various means in which we communicate through touch,
• A Handshake is a non-verbal means of communication. There are different
types of handshake. A weak handshake would mean fear and lack of
confidence. An aggressive handshake could mean dominance and
authority.
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Space or Proxemics
The term Proxemics was coined by an American Anthropologist, Edward T.
Hall. Proxemics is the amount of space we maintain between ourselves and the
person with whom we are communicating. This space is determined by the
relationship we share with that person and the way we feel while communicating
with that person. Personal space is the region surrounding a person which they
regard as psychologically theirs. Entering somebody’s personal space is normally
an indication of familiarity and sometimes intimacy. However in today’s modern
society, especially in crowded urban communities and places such as trains,
elevator and streets, it can be difficult to maintain personal space.
Hall defines four primary Distance zones based on the American Culture.
1. Intimate Distance (Touching – 18 inches)
This distance is suitable for familiar relationships and indicates closeness
and trust. This sector is reserved for close friends, lovers, children and close
family members.
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Answer briefly
1. What is non-verbal communication?
2. State the five important roles played by Non-verbal communication signals.
3. Face is the index of the mind — explain with reference to Non-verbal
communication.
4. What are the various occasions in which a person avoids eye contact?
5. How can we communicate our feelings and emotions through touch?
6. What are the four primary Distance zones as defined by Edward T Hall?
Answer in a paragraph
1. Explain the five important roles played by Non-verbal communication
signals.
2. Bring out the importance of Eye contact in non-verbal communication.
3. What is Proxemics? Bring out the importance of space in non-verbal
communication.
Answer in detail
1. Describe the different types of Non-verbal communication with examples.
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Answer Key
Unit 1.1
Activity -1
Maha : This is Venkata Traders
How may I help you?
Ranga Could I speak to Mr. Elango please?
Maha Mr. Elango is out of Town and will return after three days. Can I
take a message?
Ranga I am Ranga, an advertising agent. I would like to meet Mr. Elango
regarding an advertisement presentation.
Maha I will definitely inform him.
Ranga Thank you very much.
Maha You are most welcome.
Documented Message
Ranga, an advertising agent called up. He called regarding an
advertisement presentation. He agreed to call back after three days.
Maha
Unit 1.2
Activity -1
A 1. C
2. The speaker says he is returning from Office, so it should be an evening.
B 1. True, because the passage says he is a leading actor.
2. True, because he is taking a movie in Japan.
3. False, Raja is very busy working on a movie that is why he declines
another offer.
4. True, Raja is presently in Japan working on a movie. If he accepts the other
movie naturally he will have to stop the work in Japan.
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Activity – 2
B 1. Yes, I Like Sheela she resembles me. /
No, I don’t like Sheela, she is careless.
2. Yes, she can be given a good orientation and redirected. /
No, She is irresponsible.
3. No, Sheela is not a responsible person.
a. Sheela is an absent - minded girl. She is also careless as she doesn’t
care much about the test. She seems to be an intelligent girl as she gets
good marks.
b. I like Sheela, she is so much like me. Her carelessness can change with
a sound advice and guidance. /
I don’t like Sheela as she is an absent-minded and irresponsible
person. She is very careless and doesn’t care much about the test.
c. No doubt Sheela is good at studies. But it is doubtful if people like
Sheela can be given responsible posts. Absent mindedness is not very
much appreciated and suitable for leaders.
Unit-2.1
Activity -1
1. This is an EI as it is general and non-specific.
2. This is an IF as it clearly states that the project should be ready by Monday.
3. This is an EI. It just states in general that students should not waste water.
But it does not specify the way to do it or sets a time frame.
4. This is an IF because it demands the building construction to be completed
in the next three months.
5. This is an IF because it specifically states that the particular computer
application should be learnt by the end of the next month.
6. This is an EI as it is general and non-specific.
Activity-2
1. iii) Add four tablespoons of sugar or add sugar as per your taste.
iv) Add a pinch of salt to enhance the taste.
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B. Bar Graph
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Percentage of Students
2. A. S.No. Transport Used
using it
1 Car 5%
2 Walk 35%
3 Auto 10%
4 College Bus 20%
5 Public Transport 30%
B. Pie Chart
Key:
5% Car 20% College Bus
10% Auto 30% Public Transport
35% Walk
Unit - 3.1
Activity-1
Mani : Lend me some money I need it urgently.
Kumar : Oh, Certainly. I have the money with me now. Come and collect
the money now.
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Activity - 2
1. R (Request)
2. Q (Question)
3. R (Request)
4. Q (Question)
5. R (Request)
6. Q (Question)
7. R (Request)
Activity - 3
1. A (Action)
2. I (Information)
3. A (Action)
4. A (Action)
5. I (Information)
Activity - 4
1. A: Could you please tell me the way to reach the bank from your house?
B: There are two ways. One is a short cut and the other is the main road.
A: Tell me the short cut please.
B: Walk straight through the field. Take a right at the end of the field. The
Bank is right there
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3. A: I am very hungry, Durai. Can you tell me the way to the nearest hotel
from our college.
B: Sure, There are two famous restaurants nearby. One is a vegetarian and
other is a non-vegetarian hotel.
A: I would prefer a vegetarian hotel.
B: Go to the backside gate of our college. Walk straight. You will reach a
signal. Take a right from the signal, Sangeetha Bhavan will be there on
your right.
A: Thank you, Raju. Would you like to join me?
B: Sure. I would be delighted to.
4. A: Hi, I am Suresh, I am new to this colony. Do you know the way to the
children’s park here?
B: Welcome to our colony. I am Rajesh. The children’s park is right behind
my house.
A: Oh! Is it? Would you like to join me?
B: Why not? We shall go together. I shall show you the way.
A: Thank you Rajesh.
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Unit- 3.2
Answer the following: - 2
3. A: Shiny, what are your shopping plans for this Christmas?
B: I am planning to visit Spenser’s Plaza. I would be delighted if you could
join me.
A: Sure. I am planning to buy a Party dress and a pair of party shoes.
B: Sounds good. I know the best place in town where you can find a good
party wear of your choice.
A: Thank you Shiny. When shall we go?
B: Shall we go this Saturday?
A: Certainly, Bye.
Unit - 4.1
Activity - 1
1. Chatted, Chatting
2. Stunted, Stunting
3. Linked, Linking
4. Finished, Finishing
5. Dropped, Dropping
6. Toiled, Toiling
7. Trained, Training
8. Toasted, Toasting
9. Talked, Talking
10. Knitted, Knitting
Activity - 2
1. Kernel. It is simple and declarative.
2. Non-kernel. It has an indirect object.
3. Non-kernel. It is in passive voice.
4. Non-kernel. It contains a modifying adverb(very).
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Activity - 3
1. Transitive (vt)
2. Intransitive (vi)
3. Transitive (vt)
4. Transitive (vt)
5. Intransitive (vi)
Unit- 4.2
Activity - 2
Previous Experience:
Date of Address of the Duties/ Reason for
Designation
Employment Institution Responsibilities leaving
2003-2008 Anandha Groups, Program
Receptionist Transfer
(5 Years) Chennai Organiser
Indian Coffee Customer Currently
2008-Present Receptionist
House, Puducherry Service Dealer Working
Activity - 3
JOB APPLICATION FORM
Name : S.SUJEETHA
Present Address : No.1, New Street, Vellore.
Phone : 99945-81981
Email ID : sujeetha@gmail.com
Additional Information
Date of Birth : 01-01-1981
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Work Experience :
Duties/ Reason for
Year Name of the Institution Designation
Responsibilities leaving
Class Teacher
2004- St.John’s Group of
PGT and Magazine Marriage
2007 Schools, Chennai
Editor
2007- Times of India, Chennai Journalist Content Editor Transfer
2014
2014- Good Shepherd CBSE
PGT Vice-Principal -
Present School,Chennai
Membership : Nil
Health Issues : Nil
References
A. Name : Dr. ABC
Email ID : abc@gmail.com
B. Name : Dr. DEF
Email ID : def@gmail.com
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Activity-4
Saratha Vidya
150, Green Flats, Chennai.
Education
B.A. English and Communications, 2009
University of Madras
Diploma in Marketing, 2008.
University of Madras
Strengths
Outstanding Team Leader
Committed and Hardworking
Excellent verbal and written Communication Skills (Tamil and English)
Multitasking Ability
Technical Skills
Proficient in MS Office Suite
Typing Speed : 80 WPM
Experience
Green Leaf Groups.
Administrative Assistant (2009-2012)
Skyline Financial
Executive Assistant (2012-Present)
Reference
Dr. Seth, CEO, Green Leaf Groups,
Email: seth@gmail.com
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12. (a) Here are some instructions of companies. Say whether they are executive
instructions (El) or instructions to be followed (IF). Give reasons for your choice.
(i) Ensure 10% cut down in the cost of production.
_______________________________________________________________
(ii) At least 50 pages should be proof read every day.
_______________________________________________________________
(iii) Ensure that the camera ready copy (CRC) is available by the weekend.
_______________________________________________________________
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Or
(b) You have now decided to turn off the computer. Your first instruction is :
Save the documents and reach the safety mode to shut down the computer.
Write down the other instructions using the example given above.
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
13. (a) Read the following sentences and mark (Q) if they are questions and (R) if they
are request.
(i) Would you tell me where the file is?
(ii) What does a mouse do in a computer?
(iii) Would you please tell me the way to the sales department?
(iv) Where is the post office?
(v) Would you tell me the meaning of the word ‘scarlet’?
Or
(b) Look at the following request and mark (I) if the request seeks information or (A)
if the request seeks action.
(i) Would you give me your pen please?
(ii) Can you tell me the way to the post office?
(iii) Could I borrow your pencil for a moment?
14. (a) Read the following sentence and write whether they are kernel. Mark (K) if they
are kernel sentences and (NK) if they are not kernel sentences. Give reasons for
your answer.
(i) I ran home.
___________________________________________________________
(ii) Uma gave me a doll.
___________________________________________________________
(iii) Prem made me the president of the club.
___________________________________________________________
Or
(b) Write whether the verbs in the following sentences are transitive or intransitive.
Mark (vt) for verb transitive and (vi) for verb intransitive.
(i) Money always talks loudly.
(ii) Uma travels often.
(iii) I like Sachin.
15 (a) Read the following dialogues and mark (FR) for friendly, (F0) for formal and (IN)
for Informal suggestions in the interrogative sentences.
(i) Vyas : Could I use the rest room?
Anshu : You may do so with pleasure.
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(ii) Raji :
Would you please lend me your writing pad?
Rakesh :
No, No.
(iii) Sita :
Do you want a slip of paper to write the telephone number?
Vinod :
Yes, indeed.
Or
(b) How does eye contact help in understanding the person you are dealing with
better?
SECTION C - (3 x 10 = 30 marks)
Answer THREE questions.
Each answer not to exceed 500 words.
16. Read the following passage and answer the questions:
Reena carried her latest mobile to the company. On the way she got down to purchase
some pens for her personal use. When she reached the office she noticed her mobile
was missing. She ran back to the stores and discovered, that her mobile was not there,
Then she went to the police station, filled a FIR and returned to her office. When her
colleague, Seema wished her good morning she was so upset that she poured out
whatever had happened and then said it was a bad morning for her.
(a) Do you like Reena? Give reasons.
(b) Should workers like Reena be employed in an office?
(c) Is Reena a responsible person?
17 Read the following extract about the population in Gellore and transcode the
information into a table.
Gellore remained a small town till the turn of the 20th century. The population was
less than a lakh' till 1950 and it moved up steadily to reach 2 lakhs in 1970. As a result
of increase in road and rail transport, it increased to 3 lakhs in 1980 and touched 0.5
million at the turn of the millennium. Now the population in 2010 stands at 1 million.
18. Write a dialogue between you and your friend on the following situation : The way to
reach railway station from your college.
19. Here is the resume of a job aspirant. But the content is mixed up. Arrange the contents
under the right headings and rewrite the resume :
Vijay Shetty
184 South Apts, Trivandrum
Education
University of Kerala
Editor, University Year Book
Transcription and proofreading experience (70wpm., 10-key).
Windows 95/98/2000/MT envrionments.
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Strengths
Detail Oriented.
Strong written and verbal communication skills,
Skills
BA., English & Communication, 2000
Diploma in French
University of Kerala
Manager, Office of University Yearbook, 1998-2000
Experience
Available upon request.
Sabka Savings Banks, Kollam
Seasonal Teller (Summers & Winters), 1996-1999
References
Excellent verbal communication skills, both written and oral
Self-motivated, hard working
Comfortable working alone or as part of a team.
20. Write whether the replies in the following dialogue express curt (CT) or courtesy (CY).
(a) Beena : Would you need Lakshmi’s telephone number?
Rati : Yes.
(b) Renuka : Could I borrow your mobile to make a call?
Susan : You’re most welcome.
(c) Anand : Do I give you the application number and my marks?
Krish : Yes, Yes.
(d) Uma : Would you send the letter immediately?
Soma : Yes, I would.
(e) Prem : Will you come with me to the railway station?
Shyam : I’m sorry, I am busy doing something else.
(f) Raja : Will you join me to go to the movie now?
Ramesh : Yes, with pleasure.
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12. a) (i) IF. It is clearly defined and states the percentage to cut down in the cost
production.
(ii) IF. It is specific and demands completion of task.
(iii) IF. It is specific, give a time frame and demands completion of task.
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14. (a) (i) It is a kernel sentence as it is affirmative, declarative, active and a simple
sentence.
(ii) NK. It has an Indirect object ‘me’.
(iii) NK. It has an Indirect object ‘me’.
(b) (i) Intransitive (vi)
(ii) Intransitive (vi)
(iii) Transitive (vt)
Section – C
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Education
B.A. English and Communications, 2000.
University of Kerala.
Diploma in French.
University of Kerala.
Strengths
Detail Oriented.
Excellent verbal communication skills both written and oral.
Self-motivated, Hardworking
Comfortable working alone or as part of a team.
Skills
Strong written and verbal communication skills.
Transcription and proofreading experience (70wpm, 10-key)
Windows 95/98/2000/NT environments.
Experience
Sabka Savings Banks, Kollam
Seasonal Teller (Summer & Winter), 1996-1999
Manager, Office of University Year Book, 1998-2000
Reference
Editor, University Year Book
Available upon request.
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