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OAU UNZIPPED
From Novice To Pro; Welcome To The Federal Republic Of
Obafemi Awolowo University
Copyright © 2023 by Precious Oluwanifemi
First edition
Agent: JournalMe
Cover art by Wico designs
Preface ii
1 The Federal Republic of OAU 1
2 Take The Bull By The Horn 4
3 Put your oxygen mask on first 7
4 Spread Your Wings 9
5 Aim For The Stars 11
6 Find The Silver Lining 16
7 Students Spotlight 20
8 Conclusion 41
About the Author 42
Preface
Inside these pages, you’ll discover a treasure trove of insights, humor, and
wisdom that will guide you through the maze of university life with confidence
and zeal.
We’ll unlock the secrets to your success by focusing on five pivotal aspects:
being decisive, embracing self-care, diving into diverse activities, setting clear
academic goals, and nurturing your spiritual connection.
This adventure is bound to be an unforgettable ride, and “OAU Unzipped”
promises to be your trusted map, not only for surviving but for fully savoring
your years at OAU.
Therefore, Dear reader, let’s embark on this epic journey together, and by the
end of it, you’ll have unzipped the full potential of your freshman year, setting
the stage for a successful and fulfilling college experience.
“I’m delighted to welcome you to the pages of this book, and I’m especially
excited about the knowledge you will gain from my gift to you. Even if you
don’t fully appreciate it now, I’m confident that you will come to value this
carefully crafted gift.
Enjoy reading the first edition of ‘OAU Unzipped.’
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elcome to the Federal Republic of Obafemi Awolowo University.
(Smiles)
Let’s talk about OAU as if it were a marketplace. Don’t be
puzzled; the word ‘market’ is just an idiom. We all know that people go to
the market for various purposes, and eventually, they return to their homes,
much like the popular Yoruba adage that says…
However, I don’t want to lose sight of the most important message I’m trying
to convey. Continuing with the market analogy, those who visit the market
do so for different reasons. Some go to sell, others go to buy. It’s amusing
how, once you’re there, you might unexpectedly run into an old friend, get
distracted by products you never intended to buy but end up purchasing,
overspend your money, or discover you have too little money for your needs.
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You might even find yourself in a disagreement with a seller or another buyer.
Who knows, you might even be the market women leader (lol). Similarly, OAU
is a place where you can accomplish many things in a relatively short amount
of time that somehow feels long.
Your journey here begins with admission and culminates with graduation.
Believe me, what transpires between the start and the end is the most crucial.
It determines whether you’ll finish successfully or not, or even finish at all.
Wait! Have you ever wondered what this place would be like for you? Did you
envision what your life here would look like?
Certainly, you did. Everybody did. No one just comes here without
contemplating what their new life will be like beforehand. My dear friend, we
all had plans (smiles). For most of us, leaving our parents’ homes and starting
a new life was a ticket to the freedom we’d always yearned for (and I assume
you’re part of that community too).
This brings me to a brief story about myself.
I spent a year at home after high school, not because I wasn’t ready for
university—I was one of the top graduates in my class with excellent WAEC
and NECO results. However, I lost interest because I wasn’t satisfied with
my JAMB score, not because I failed, but because I wouldn’t get the preferred
course I wanted. So, I decided to retake the JAMB.
I had grand plans when I came to school. It might surprise you, but I had
no intention of becoming a ‘bad girl.’ I simply wanted to enjoy my newfound
freedom and make choices that would shape my life positively.
Do you remember if your parents, especially your mom, woke you up in the
middle of the night to have a heart-to-heart conversation? (Smiles) My mom
did that to me. I don’t blame her; as the first child and the only daughter, she
had high expectations. So, I was summoned, and wisdom was imparted to my
head and heart.
In summary, she said, “You’re going there for your academics. Don’t be
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swayed by guys for money, choose your friends wisely, avoid actions that
could get you into trouble, and stay true to your faith.” (Full stop)
While it’s true that your academics hold a significant portion of your life,
remember that they don’t define the real you.
Your primary reason for being here is your academic pursuit, but don’t forget
that you’re also building a life that extends beyond your studies.
Your decisions matter, your actions matter, your way of life matters, your
attitude matters, your circle matters, your mindset matters—every small step
you take and every word you speak matters. Take this advice from someone
who has spent three years at Obafemi Awolowo University.
Live every moment of your life with excellence as you navigate this Federal
Republic of Obafemi Awolowo University.
Speaking of experience, let’s dive into the knowledge that this gift has to
offer…”
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have a deep appreciation for stories, and I’m sure you do too. So, let’s
kick off this short chapter with a real-life story.
During my first year, something truly “shocking” occurred – it’s
shocking because I had never witnessed such behavior before, not even from
myself at the time.
However, there was a catch – the party was scheduled from Saturday to Sunday.
My friends and I decided to go to the party but leave early so we could return
to the hostel, get some sleep, and prepare for service. We dressed our best, a
group of four.
On our way there, one of my friends, who has since become one of my
closest companions and a sister to me, had a change of heart. She expressed
discomfort with the environment and hesitated about attending. We tried to
persuade her, assuring her it would be fun, and besides, it was a faculty event.
Reluctantly, she decided to join us. However, just before entering the hall, she
pulled me aside and confided that she still wasn’t comfortable and wanted to
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leave.
I attempted to convince her that going back to the hostel alone might not be
safe. I suggested that she stay for the party while we left early, but she was
resolute about returning to the hostel. She didn’t mind going alone, and my
attempts to convince her were futile. I respected her decision and let her go
her own way. Her decision that day earned her my respect. She was decisive
and unwavering in her choice, with well-founded reasons.
Going back to the hostel or staying for the party, neither choice was inherently
bad. We all did what felt right for us, didn’t we? However, her decisiveness on
that day left a lasting impression. She made a choice and stuck with it, and
her reasons were sound. No one could sway her because she was resolute and
steadfast in her decision.
If there’s one valuable trait to add to your repertoire, it’s the ability to be
decisive.
Welcome to the Federal Republic of OAU, where every fellowship and church
wants you to join, every tutorial program wants you as a student, every event
at the amphitheater wants your attendance, and both well-intentioned and
not-so-well-intentioned individuals want you to be part of their circle, every
seller at the new market wants you to buy, every stalite has something to offer,
and someone always has something they want you to do! My dear, if you’re not
careful, you might become overwhelmed with all these demands and harbor
unnecessary frustrations.
Being decisive means making timely and well-considered decisions and sticking
to them.
This quality will spare you from stress and help safeguard your mental health
because you’ll take meaningful actions based on your decisions alone. You
won’t be plagued by confusion regarding what to do because you’ll know what
you want.
Which fellowship or church do you wish to attend? (Muslims have the central
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elcome once again to the Federal Republic of OAU, where you
might find yourself traversing from one lecture theater to
another, only to discover there’s no lecture after enduring a
struggle to secure a seat in a 1000-seater hall meant for 2000 students. This
is just one example of the many experiences here.
My first day of lectures was nothing short of a disaster. I learned that
students like me had arrived at the lecture hall as early as 5 a.m. (which left
me utterly shocked). Was it that serious? Indeed, it was.
But, as I embraced my inner determination, I managed to reach the lecture
hall before 8 a.m., well before the lectures were scheduled to begin. Yet, it
proved to be a daunting task to find a seat. Upon entering the hall, I felt like
I might be sick. It was packed, and noisy, and the overwhelming smell was
unbearable. I felt nauseated, prompting me to retreat to my hostel.
Yes, the first day of lectures can be quite overwhelming! Here’s a tip:
Remember to take photos in the morning before heading to your lecture room;
you might end up feeling frustrated later in the day. I’m not suggesting that you
skip lectures; your experience will undoubtedly be different from mine, so
don’t let my story discourage you.
I wanted to clarify a few things and let you know that OAU is known for its
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stress - even our anthem mentions “learning and culture. Sport, and struggle.”
It’s a reality. However, despite OAU’s knack for testing your resilience, you
always have the option not to succumb to stress.
How? Consider reading up on stress management; it’s a valuable personal
development skill that can help you navigate these challenges with poise.
Another piece of advice I have for you is to be mindful of how you allocate
your time. Avoid spending the majority of your time on activities that hold
no relevance. Otherwise, you may regret leaving important tasks undone and,
consequently, experience stress.
Your mental health is paramount; treat it with utmost care. Steer clear
of anything that may lead to depression. Find contentment in your current
circumstances and maintain hope for a brighter future, all while cultivating
patience as you strive to be the best version of yourself. In summary, choose
not to be oppressed.
Prioritize your physical health by nourishing your body with good food,
taking rest when needed, and ensuring you get adequate sleep.
You’ll notice that I emphasized the importance of choosing not to be stressed,
depressed, or oppressed. This is how it works here; it’s your choice. Avoid
assigning blame to the system or circumstances, for remember, you are a
product of your choices, not the situation.
Peace.
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n my second year, I found myself among three contestants vying for the
role of Assistant General Secretary in my department. To keep it short,
I wasn’t elected, receiving only a few votes.
Now, this wasn’t disheartening for me because I knew I had limited
knowledge of how things operated in my department, and I had been more of
a passive member, recognized by only a few.
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o you have academic goals? No? Did you just say “No”?
Let’s imagine you responded with “No.”
My reply would be, “Then you don’t know why you are here.”
Let’s imagine you answered “Yes.”
My reply would be, “Can your goals stand the test of time?” (Smiles)
Academic goals are crucial, and I’m not merely referring to saying, “I want
to graduate with a first-class,” and leaving it at that. (Laugh)
The mistake I made was assuming that having the goal of graduating with a
first-class degree was enough. However, upon arriving here, I got distracted
along the way, and I ended up simplifying my goal to “the most important
thing is not to fail.”
You’ll agree that aiming for a first-class degree and striving not to fail are
two different academic goals, right? Graduating with a third class is not a
failure, and achieving a second class upper or lower is not a failure either. This
transformation in perception and mindset is a story for another time.
Don’t come here like I did, thinking I had an academic goal.
Fortunately, it wasn’t too late for me to discover the proper way of setting
an academic goal. I’m delighted to share this knowledge with you.
In addition to the steps I’ll outline here, I’ve created a product—an academic
journal—that can assist you in establishing well-defined academic goals and
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tracking your progress for up to five years. This Journal has a lot more to offer
than it’s stated here. You already have access to one. Check out our product
catalog at Journalme to see what’s available and send me a message to acquire
one.
Now, let’s dive into important facts you should know about setting academic
goals.
One crucial fact about establishing academic goals is that it provides you with
a clear sense of purpose and direction throughout your educational journey.
When you define specific academic goals, you’re more likely to:
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Now, how should you go about setting your academic goals? Trust me; you
can’t simply think about what you want to achieve and stash it away at the
back of your mind, where it’s easily forgotten. (Smiles)
Effective academic goal-setting involves a structured approach to ensure
clarity, motivation, and achievable results. Here’s a step-by-step guide on
how to set an academic goal:
Define Your Objective: Start by identifying what you want to achieve aca-
demically. Be specific about your goal, whether it’s earning a certain GPA,
mastering a subject, or completing a major project.
Make it Specific and Measurable: Ensure your goal is clear and precise.
Instead of saying, “I want to do better in math,” say, “I want to improve
my math grade from a B to an A in the next semester.” This makes your goal
measurable.
Set a Realistic Goal: Your goal should be attainable and realistic. Consider
your current academic performance, available resources, and the time frame
you have in mind. Setting overly ambitious goals can be demotivating.
Set a time frame: Determine when you want to achieve your goal. Having a
deadline creates a sense of urgency and helps you stay on track. For instance,
“I want to achieve this by the end of the semester.”
Break it Down: Large academic goals can be overwhelming. Divide them into
smaller, manageable tasks or milestones. Each smaller achievement will bring
you closer to your main goal.
Write it Down: Put your academic goal in writing. This makes it more tangible
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and reinforces your commitment. Use a journal or digital note to keep track of
your goals.
Visualize Your Success: Spend a few moments each day visualizing yourself
achieving your academic goal. This positive visualization can boost motivation
and belief in your ability to succeed.
Create an Action Plan: Outline the steps you need to take to reach your goal.
Assign deadlines to these steps and create a clear plan of action. For example,
if your goal is to improve a grade, your action plan might include attending
extra help sessions, completing practice problems, and seeking assistance
from your lecturers.
Seek Support: Share your academic goal with someone you trust, like a friend,
family member, or mentor. They can provide encouragement, accountability,
and guidance along the way.
Monitor and Adjust: Regularly assess your progress toward your goal. If
you’re not making the desired progress, be open to adjusting your strategies
or timeline. Flexibility is key.
Stay Persistent: Remember that setbacks and challenges are a part of the
journey. Stay persistent, maintain a positive mindset, and learn from your
experiences.
These 13 steps have benefited me more than I can express. They are tested and
trusted. In summary, setting academic goals is a powerful tool that can help
clarify your aspirations, keep you motivated, and continually improve your
academic performance. It’s a practice that not only enhances your educational
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journey but also prepares you for success in various aspects of life.
Most importantly, don’t forget to explore the product I’ve designed specifically
to facilitate goal setting and tracking. Click the link to learn more about this
product and reach out to me to obtain one.
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ello!
I trust you’ve been enjoying every bit of the previous pages, and
I’m convinced this will be just as impactful.
You might find it interesting to know that writing this book and sharing it
with you is a directive from God. If He weren’t concerned about your academics,
He wouldn’t have inspired me to do this.
Have you ever wondered if God is interested in every aspect of your life? (Sigh)
Don’t be perplexed.
God doesn’t overlook anything related to you. He’s not solely concerned
with your church attendance but with every facet of your life—whether it’s
the clothes you wear, the food you eat, or any other detail.
Don’t embark on your academic journey without involving God; His presence
makes things smoother.
Many times, I’ve faced challenges in understanding certain topics or
deciding what to study for an exam amidst voluminous notes. Yet, these
concerns were resolved through God-given directions with the assistance of
the Holy Spirit.
Luke 1:37 is a constant reminder that achieving academic success with God
is possible.
So, what is God saying about your academics?
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While the Bible may not explicitly mention modern academic pursuits, it
offers timeless wisdom and principles applicable to education and learning.
Here are some Bible references and the wisdom they provide:
Those are just a few examples. As you conclude this chapter, I’ll leave you
with academic affirmations rooted in biblical principles that can provide
motivation:
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guidance and believe in your abilities as you work towards your academic
goals.
I know many people who end calls the moment they hear, “Hello dear, it’s
Funmi calling from (this or that) fellowship.”
Attention, freshmen!
Around 70% of the people who approach you in your first month as a
freshman will likely talk to you about church or a fellowship. I might even be
one of them (smiles).
However, don’t blame these fellowship members for reaching out to you;
it’s their responsibility, and it’s part of their mission. Keep in mind that these
students, just like you, have their challenges to contend with. Consider their
invitations as an act of love.
To avoid feeling overwhelmed by their frequent calls, here are some hints:
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Trust me, they won’t pressure you once you’re already committed to a church.
In the Federal Republic of OAU, approximately 90% of Christian students have
attended four to eight different churches in their first year. They often do
this to enjoy first-timer packages or free meals before settling on a church or
deciding not to attend any. It’s all part of the experience.
Are you a Christian? Then you shouldn’t feel compelled to serve God alone in
your room; He desires your fellowship with others.
Are you a Muslim? Likewise, you shouldn’t feel pressured to pray in isolation;
God encourages congregational worship.
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earning from those who have gone ahead of you can help you navigate
challenges and avoid unnecessary mistakes. On these pages, you’ll
meet exceptional individuals, including graduates and students, who
will inspire your journey. Embrace this enlightening adventure!
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Q: Looking back on your first year at university, what academic and personal
goals did you set for yourself?
A: Well, right from my primary school, I have always had a strong mindset,
and I put myself first in my head. I brought this same mindset into OAU,
understanding that getting admission into OAU and securing your preferred
course requires intelligence and brilliance. It was more of a constructive
competition for me because I knew my colleagues who were admitted to the
same course were also intelligent. At the same time, I decided to emerge as
one of the best students in my class. For instance, if 20 people were said to
pass an exam excellently, it should be me and 19 other people. This mindset
guided me to put certain things in place to achieve my goal, which was to
start with a very good CGPA. Part 1 is a crucial level to have a strong CGPA to
build on.
Q: As an alumnus, what advice or insights would you like to share with the
incoming freshmen about setting goals and planning for their first year at
university?
A: Basically, setting your priorities right helps you balance your academics
and other commitments. This helped me while I was a student at OAU.
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Q: Looking back on your first year at university, what academic and personal
goals did you set for yourself?
A: Initially, I considered switching from Zoology to Dentistry. However, I
fell in love with my course and aimed for a second-class upper division since
achieving a first-class was already a challenge.
Q: Did you face any challenges during your freshman year, and how did you
overcome them?
A: Balancing academics with other commitments required multi-tasking
skills, which I honed through church leadership. Our church emphasized
excellence in all areas of life, which helped me navigate the challenges.
Q: As a graduate, what advice or insights would you like to share with the
incoming freshmen about setting goals and planning for their first year at
university?
A: First, embrace your admitted course with a positive attitude. Regardless
of whether you switch courses or not, commit to excellence in everything you
do. Consider acquiring a skill or starting a business while in university. Lastly,
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Q: Looking back on your first year at university, what academic and personal
goals did you set for yourself?
A: Like every fresher, I aspired to graduate with a first-class degree and
become an excellent individual overall. Excellence has always been my
watchword.
Q: Did you face any challenges during your freshman year, and how did you
overcome them?
A: Absolutely! Challenges overwhelmed me at times. However, I took time
to understand myself, identify my strengths and weaknesses, and use my
strengths to tackle these challenges effectively.
Q: As a graduate, what advice or insights would you like to share with the
incoming freshmen about setting goals and planning for their first year at
university?
A: First and foremost, build your goals, plans, and aspirations on a
foundation of faith in God. Understand your strengths and weaknesses
thoroughly. Seek guidance from mentors or seniors who can keep you
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accountable. Adapt your goals as needed, and don’t hesitate to seek help
and offer assistance when necessary. Best wishes!
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Q: Looking back on your first year at university, what academic and personal
goals did you set for yourself?
A: In my first year, I aimed for academic excellence and earned recognition
as the best 100L student in my department. I wanted to be an excellent woman
overall.
Q: Did you face any challenges during your freshman year, and how did you
overcome them?
A: Challenges were inevitable. However, I embraced my strengths and
capitalized on them to overcome these challenges. My journey was filled
with learning experiences.
Q: As a graduate, what advice or insights would you like to share with the
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incoming freshmen about setting goals and planning for their first year at
university?
A: Enjoy the university experience; it’s more than academics. Be adaptable,
establish structures, ask questions, and surround yourself with like-minded
individuals. Embrace the holistic journey, and remember that God’s guidance
is crucial for your success.
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Q: Looking back on your first year at university, what academic and personal
goals did you set for yourself?
A: My journey began with a unique circumstance; I entered university a bit
late, and I believe God had a lesson in that for me (a story for another time).
As a direct entry student starting in the 200 level, I set ambitious goals.
I was determined to excel and achieve the highest CGPA ever recorded. I
wanted to make my family proud. While I may not have been the overall best,
I did become the top student in my department and ranked third overall.
I maintained a rigorous study routine, spending evenings in the hostel,
academic areas, and library, and attending church on fellowship days. I
was a dedicated bookworm because I genuinely enjoyed learning. Despite
the challenge of taking 15 courses compared to the usual 11, my structured
approach paid off.
Q: As a graduate, what advice or insights would you like to share with the
incoming freshmen about setting goals and planning for their first year at
university?
A: Embrace the journey wholeheartedly and enjoy every aspect of it.
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Q: Looking back on your first year at university, what academic and personal
goals did you set for yourself?
A: My goals were to excel in my photography craft and graduate with
distinction in Pharmacy.
Q: Did you face any challenges during your freshman year, and how did you
overcome them?
A: Yes, I did. I was distracted at some point but overcame it by refocusing
on God.
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Q: Looking back on your first year at university, what academic and personal
goals did you set for yourself?
A: As a freshman, my goals revolved around three key aspects: deepening
my spirituality, achieving academic excellence, and building a strong
network.
Q: Did you face any challenges during your freshman year, and how did you
overcome them?
A: Yes, I encountered challenges. To manage my time effectively, I learned
to prioritize tasks. When my academics were at risk, I made the tough choice
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to limit non-essential activities. The key was not to major in minor things
and vice versa.
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Conclusion
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s we come to the end of this incredible adventure together, remember
that your journey at OAU and beyond has only just begun. “OAU
Unzipped” has equipped you with the tools, insights, and laughter
needed to thrive in your freshman year and beyond. But this is not goodbye; it’s
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endless possibilities that await you.
Thank you for being a part of this remarkable journey, and I look forward to
connecting with you as you conquer your dreams at OAU and beyond!
With warm regards,
Oluwanifemi
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About the Author
She has dedicated her life to authoring inspirational novels for the emancipa-
tion of her generation and future generations because she wants to see people
improve in all facets of their lives and bring about change in the community.
She is also a prestigious individual who has earned recognition for her selfless
service to the community, as a member of YTOP Global volunteering hub, Yali
International network, and Dots Foundation.
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and tools, enabling individuals to efficiently manage their time, set goals,
and stay resolute on their self-improvement journey. Additionally, there’s
Nifel, a versatile writing brand that excels in crafting captivating narratives
across various domains, including copywriting, content creation, articles,
blog writing, and the intricate worlds of nonfiction and fiction ghostwriting.
She loves Christ, and she hopes that through her writings, many others may
experience the freedom that Christ offers.
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