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Do You Think You Can Manage A Parish
Do You Think You Can Manage A Parish
Warren G. Bennis,
(American Leadership Expert March 8, 1925-July 31, 2014)
The moment you read this book, you have already made the right choice and the
wise decision to become the best of what you can be as a parish administrator.
Congratulations and thank you! This may be one of the best materials and most
effective tools that will tickle your mind in the field of management.
FOREWORD
This is a by product of a serious work on how to become a prudent, an
effective and most especially, an inspiring manager. I must assume that I am one
among those tens, hundreds, and thousands of men and women who were caught
by surprise by the great demand of being a religious leader tasked to preach and
teach the Gospel of Jesus Christ; mandated to lead, to direct, to administer, to
manage and to guide the Church founded by Christ.
I started responding to the call of my ministry as a local pastor in 1977 at
the age of 17. Commissioned and assigned to a local church where I was expected
not only to preach and teach but to administer, I had to admit and accept my
limitation as young spiritual leader managing a parish bereft of knowledge, skills,
competence and experience to the post. Having my first church assignment in
1977 and at the same time completing my bachelor's degree in Community
Development, I was guided, directed and at the same time learning in the
classroom about theories of organizing, strategic planning, and goal setting.
Having concluded the course in 1981, I had the feeling I still needed to equip
myself more. This compelled me to continue my theological training in the
doctoral studies in the effort to fill the empty space I felt and discovered as I
pursued my pastoral ministry.
I can say that I am a home - grown penstock while doing the job at the same
time learning the process. My earned skills in management were "learning by
doing" to say the least or by "trial and error" and "hit and missed" stroke. My
exposure and struggle in church management has made me an experienced
pastor and found myself just enough for the demand of my church assignment.
However, when I became District Superintendent (in 2007-2011 and 2016-
present) I observed that the clergies under my supervision yearned for skills and
knowledge in management for situation. I found most of them longing for
capacity- building to further home their leadership skills specifically during the
advent of information technology as well as the digitization of the management
process. They turned out to be skilled preachers and teachers but not fully
equipped for the great demand of leadership and management which are vital in
church administration. These observations bothered me so much which led me to
conduct instant local church administration and management training/workshop
capitalizing on my seminary training. But my competence in the area may not
have been really sufficient to address the entire need.
Managing and leading in the world today is dearth of simplicity. Leaders of
today must not only be well - informed, but tried and knowledgeable about the
generation gap issues and realize the complexities of the prevailing circumstances.
We are in an era of multiple and diverse generations. For instance the Gen Z
(born in 1996 and later) or the "Centennials" make up the majority. This
generation appeared to be more liberal in terms of finding meaning in their lives.
The Gen Y (born in 1997-1995) or the so called "Millennials" are described as
"narcissistic". This generation tends to be more self-referential in terms of doing
things and accomplishing tasks. However, this generation appears to be multi-
taskers and appeared to be innovative. Included in the list are the Gen X (born in
1965-1976) or whom they call as the "slackers" because they appeared to be
pragmatic and individualistic. People belonging to the Gen X are not impressed by
titles and authority unless their belief tells them that the position is well-
deserved. The Baby Boomers (born in 1946-1964) are still here. They are the
oldest generation. These Baby Boomers have three key trends that shaped their
personality: parenting, technology and economics. However, despite the
developing generations there are still a handful of people who were somehow
fixated in the past we call them the traditionalists (born in 1945 and beyond).
They always see things in comparison with what had happened in the past that
made it somehow difficult for them to accept the current tides.
With these heterogeneous composition of the congre- gation, it is
demanded from managers and leaders to be more flexible, creative and
discerning. The tides of the time is dynamic and often unpredictable. Thus,
mediocrity in handling people or a parish must not be allowed to take the driver's
seat.
My journey in the ministry enabled me to discover the great need for
church leadership and management: as young pastor, I have learned to depend on
what is before me and bring it to a useful cause (1977-1981); as a budding
administrative pastor, I submitted to what is in store to "patch a hole"; as an
idealistic seminary professor (1997-2001), what is in theory, became a praxis; and
as a district superintendent, my education was centered on "experience is the
best teacher". Although I must admit that the experiences I had, the challenges I
faced in fulfilling this ministry given to me, one thing is clear: God has been so
compassionate to me. It is God who provided the discernment to see all the
wonders that this ministry can give not only to me but also to the pastors I lead
and more so to the people I serve. And it is my responsibility together with many
other pastors and clergy in my district, in the entire nation, and to the whole
world to proclaim the Gospel of Love, Forgiveness, Salvation, Grace, and Mercy
not only through our preaching but most especially on how we handle and
manage the flock entrusted to our care.
Brought by my earnest desire to improve my lot in the field of managing my
district (2016 to present), I was compelled to seek and learn more. I asked a
Christian friend during my college years at Wesleyan University-Philippines, now
engaged in multi-business and huge companies, Brother Bong Alvaro, to do me a
favor by sharing his wisdom on management and administration. However, his
very busy schedule did not match any of the prescribed time and space my district
and I had.
I suggested to him therefore, the idea to share his mind by writing a
simplified version, just like a 'Coffee Table Book format simplifying the essence of
management so that pastors and laymen under my supervision in my district and
the res of other pastors throughout the region may use as a basi reference. And
here is the product, the book simply entitled:
"Do you think you can manage a Parish? A Walk Through Parish
Management." A piece that talks about a Manager who is the 'Man' of 'Age' in
'Rhythm' with his time.
PREFACE
During my First year in college at the University of Santo Tomas (UST), there
were a number of us (mostly coming from the remote provinces of the country)
that were not allowed to take English 101. Instead, we were required to take a
non-credited Basic English subject which was labeled English 100. One of the
reasons why we could not take the regular credited load was that we either
flunked or got a very low grade in the English part of the entrance examination
while passing the other areas. Hence, this became the same compelling reason
why I pursued my bachelor's degree majoring in the same subject which I found
out to be my weakest field, "English".
This book entitled "Do you think you can Manage a Parish? A Walk Through
Parish Management", just like taking English 100, is intended for the local church
workers who admit an inadequacy or feeble proficiency being managers of their
own parishes. This book may also serve said workers who desire to improve their
current strengths as shepherds of their flock. It is not intended to be used for
deepening an academic or theological appreciation in the field of the parish or
local church management, rather a simple and practical tool for those who intend
to start from the very basic tenets of parish management.
If you believe that you are equipped enough or well- versed on this subject
matter, THIS IS NOT FOR YOU AND PLEASE DO NOT READ THIS BOOK!
MESSAGE
Do you think you can manage a parish? A walk through parish
management" is a book written by a lay person who was once a pastor in his little
parish but evolved into a manager in the corporate world. Dr. Bong Alvaro, the
author, shares his talents, gifts and rich experiences in corporate management
and leadership and applies them to the church setting.
This book inspires me as a leader of our church and I honestly believe that
every clergy and lay person should take time to read and learn the management
and leadership theories and principles and put them into practice. Moreover, it is
a must for every lay person whether in the church or in the corporate world in
order to be equipped with the practical as well as the spiritual side of
management and leadership.
I believe the insights and wisdom gained from this boo are born out of
commitment and dedication to our Master, our Almighty God and Jesus Christ
who called us to be manage of His kingdom and His creation. Reading this book
made me realize that pastors/church workers should invest not only in the Bible
and in Theology but in the areas of leadership and management as well. In this
view, the church should support their workers if they are interested to pursue
higher levels of learning and expertise in the field of leadership and management.
Furthermore, this book is an answer to the questions of pastors and church
workers young and old alike in the ministry who aspire for effective and
meaningful service to God and community.
Finally, I recommend this book to be read by the laity as partners of the
clergy in the ministry entrusted to us by our Lord Jesus Christ. It is my prayer that
this book will be an instrument for everyone in advancing the kingdom of God.
Thirdly, being an anchor may also mean a continuing learning process derived
from the experiences and even mistakes borne from the varied encounters along
the way. It is a continuing enhancement of skills all aimed at achieving the goal/s
of the parish.
Edward Brech, a British Management consultant has this to say: "Control is
checking current performance against pre-determined standards contained within
the plans, to make sure adequate progress and satisfactory performances". As to
Harold Koontz "Controlling is the mensuration and correction of performance so
as to form positive that enterprise objectives therefore the plans devised to
realize them are unit accomplished".
In this regard, it is always demanded of a clergy to never no stop from monitoring
and assessing every action, undertaking In and initiative of his parishioners, not
only to ensure alignment to the directions but also to learn from every weakness
as well as error that may come up. Managing is a never ending learning process.
Complications, mistakes and other deterrents are part and parcel of everyday
learning. Every unpleasant experience must not be disregarded but be treated as
part of the learning lessons so as errors will not be repeated.
To describe this further, Adam Sicinski in his article wrote, "Mistakes present
opportunities to analyze your decisions. Sometimes the decision you make might
be out of line with the goals you want to achieve. A mistake will alert you to the
fact that you are on the wrong path. Therefore use it to
redirect yourself back onto the right path."
Henry Fayol has a more vivid description, "Control of an endeavor consists of
seeing that everything is being administered in accordance with that has been
adopted, the orders that are set down. Its object is to mistakes so as that they'll
be corrected and prevented from becoming revenant".
Therefore, the sum of all of these, even the errors commit ted must be regarded
as stepping stones to address challenges. The important lessons these
assessments bring including the inadvertent lapses are very crucial in a sense that
they do not only prevent past mistakes from being repeated but they also
guarantee a "level up position" and a "heads up" to the right course of
organizational directions. Take a nugget of wisdom from Theodore Roosevelt a
great American President: "The only man who never makes a mistake is the man
who never does anything.
The third letter "N" from the word manager and final letter for "MAN" represents
the Network- the "organizing and coordinating" functions of management.
By definition, a network is a group of people or organizations that are closely
connected and that work with each other.
In simple terms a manager being a network of his organization acts as the weaver
of actions and interests. Although issues and actions may be varied and different
interest may arise in time, the pastor, being the manager has a task to weave all of
them into an all useful materials and have them work together in the fulfillment of
the parish goals. He must have the capability and discernment to link them to
further serve the organization's purpose.
Robert Calia defines networking as "the coordinating function ensures all activities
function together for the good of the organization. Coordinating typically takes
place in meetings and other planning sessions with the department heads of the
company to ensure all departments are on the same page in terms of objectives
and goals. Coordinating involves communication, supervision and direction by
management."
On the other hand, all institutions or organizations whether political, social,
educational and religious have their respective goals which are sought to be
attained by groups of people operating through what is known as organizations.
Organizing function is putting people, machines and resources in their proper
place and order. This is to achieve efficiently and effectively the organizational
goals. Simply stated, it is a function of creating a network that will eventually spin
each initiative directed towards the fulfillment of set objectives of the
organization.
Networking in management is akin to the coordinating function. In an article
written by Satyendra Sarna (2015) in an online blog Ispatguru, networking is
described, "It ensures unity of action among individuals, workgroups and
departments, and brings harmony in carrying out the different activities and tasks
so as to achieve the organizational goals efficiently... It involves synchronizing all
efforts of various departments so that planned objectives are achieved with
minimum conflict".
Just like a network it refers to coordination of each element of different roles and
synchronization of toils and of differences may be overcome, all towards the
efficient achievement of objectives.
To surmise, organizing and coordinating means building relationship among
people so that conflicts, brought about by the various cultural, human and social
differences can be avoided, and to a certain extent be translated into viable
means to efficiently and effectively achieve goals.
Going back to the story of the disgusted pastor over the retired intellectual, today,
that old man is an alternate preacher and a Sunday school teacher and also his
closest ally in pursuing the dreams of the local church.
Coordination specifically, is about building a good relationship with the members
of the organization pursuing similar objectives. A manager with poor relational
skills can never prosper and will most likely be ineffective in his organization.
Building relationships in the organization are one of the means to unite people in
one goal, to create the necessary coherence, just like a network that is
interconnected, interrelated and interdependent in the effort to achieve goals.
People have different views, different opinions, and ivities different styles. One
major task of a local church manager is to gather these differences, where, instead
of colliding with one another, the challenge is to unite them like a web under one
central core.
In my early days at Wesleyan University, Rev. Dr Celestino I. Cancio, now a District
Superintendent of South describes relationships he would quote the story of the
"hole” According to him: "In our human existence hole is so important. Our
Human bodr needs a hole in nose for us to breathe, a hole our ear for us to hear,
hole in skin pores for us to perspire, and more holes needed for the human body
to perform well. However hole in human body performs best, while on the other
hand hole is a sign of imperfection, a defect, a shortcoming, handicap or
limitation. In it is a blemish on a certain person."
The disciples of Jesus Christ were not chosen because they the perfect people,
rather, they were called to have a relationship with Him. In the manner of
following, trusting and abiding their lives have been perfected, being made new
each day and every day. The Disciples' lives are holes of imperfections made
perfect as Jesus gathered them together, weaved them together like a net. Turning
that human hole of imperfection into a fishing net that no longer catches fish but
human souls. The moment they responded to the call of Jesus, "Follow Me, And I
will make you fishers of men." (Matthew 4:19) these fishermen who decided to
commit their lives to follow Him, became indeed fishers of men.
Networking is the strengthening of relations with people with the end goal of
furthering ties with the Creator. Jesus' mission here on earth is not to bring up an
empire of people or an army of soldiers that will defend him from his enemies.
Jesus came to be with the sick, the lowly, and the sinners. The common defensive
misplay of religious leaders is defining "pastoral" as mere act that can be done for
the maintenance of a parish. But pastoral work is not just about preserving the
status quo, but more on enriching web of a profound relationship of "man to God,
man to man, man to world". Local church pastors' greatest task is to enhance this
web of the relationship first to his God and second to his flock, that of, his
community and also his physical environment.
Parish management is coordinating and organizing. It is the weaving of varied
interests and enhancing relationships to create a network of efforts and actions. It
is also the continuing learning process culled from the lessons of periodic
encounters and experiences. All these are geared towards the achievement of the
parish aspirations.
Chapter 2
"AGE"
The Manager as a Leader
The fourth, fifth and sixth letters of the word manager form the word-
"AGE". "Age" can mean several things But for the purpose of this chapter, age as a
verb connotes growing older or maturing. When applied to a manager, it describes
a maturing man, a person coming of age.
This chapter shall deal with the manager as a person who has ripened
through years just like an elder in the church, he is considered a leader- the Man
that is of "Age", the leader of the local church. This will take us to the discussion
on the fourth letter "A" which represents an A for an "Artist".
It describes the flexibility and skillfulness of the manager as a leader.
In most management books, managing is not only considered a science but
it is also an art because aside from following set forth guidelines, a manager must
also have the artistic acumen to suit and align himself with the calls of the fast-
changing time. Managing being an art is not a "cut and paste" or a "one-size-fits-
all" activity. The manager lives in a dynamic environment with diverse
personalities who are exposed in a personal or relational surroundings. As a
consequence, change in many ways happen every now and then. Taking the story
of Moses leading the Israelites after their deliverance from slavery in Egypt,
several complaints from the people had to be confronted/managed by his team.
In the book of Exodus, the various encounters in the long journey of the
Israelite people in the desert became a test of Moses management skills. The
Israelites thought that they were aimless wanderers because of the misery they've
been in desert They complained to Moses about their condition. (5:1-22). They
were thirsty but there was nothing to drink (15:22). They were hungry but they
had nothing to eat (16:1- 4). They came to the point wherein they blamed Moses,
the leader of their deliverance, for these miseries. They even came to the extent
of opining that it could be better for them to have remained in Egypt rather than
starve to death in the desert. However, a leader like Moses, with his spiritual
discernment. through his confidence in his God, did not lose his grip and was able
to find ways to rise above these complications.
The Story of Moses' leading the Israelites from Egypt to the Promised Land
was an experience that marks the trust and confidence of the servants of God to
obey His salvation plan for them. The unshakeable hope in God assured the
Israelites Side for His presence amidst uncertainties and anxieties through their
have leader Moses.
In the book of Nehemiah, it was written how Jerusalem was rebuilt after
the Jews returned from the Babylonian Captivity. It's about leadership, hard work
and organization. It shows a servant who understood his own role and would not
or distracted from fulfilling allow himself to be discouraged his mission.
In the Online Etymology Dictionary we can find that Art came from the Latin
'ars' meaning skill or ability. It is defined as a process or product of a skillful
making. A manager is an artist because on many occasions the things he will do
and the decisions he will make requires his varied and sometimes skillful moves
and unconventional strokes. He does not appreciate things entirely from the
technical jargons of books but at times ready to think and work outside the
traditional norm. His varied ways of thinking and doing things are his inherent
advantage over the rest in the organization. The wisdom is not limited to theories
but considers pragmatic resolutions all in the attainment of his organizational
directions and goals. These remarkable traits and competencies are acquired not
only from formal studies but also on the experiences that he accumulates as he
progresses through life. program
Some of the requisites of a true leader- being an artist who can see and act
beyond the traditional ethos and can find ways and solutions even to complicated
situations using his mature (aged) outlook of things aided by his inherent artistic
astuteness.
Being artistic is a leadership quality of a manager who does not always limit
himself to the norms. Rather, he has the ability to create or discover measures to
achieve more promising results in most of his undertakings.
Additionally, one of the characteristics of art is timelessness. A true work of
art does not lose its value as it ages, rather, its value, just like a masterpiece,
increases as it gets older.
Brother Omar Defensor, a seminarian on a regency program who helped me
craft some portions of this book has a good experience about this. According to
him, some time ago, in the streets of Ermita, an antique shop displayed art image
of the crucified Christ at the glass window. It has a price tag of a whooping Php
55,000.00. To his suspecting mind he uttered: "A simple woodwork that costs a
fortune?" The clerk upon hearing his distrust, simply replied, "It is 100 years old,
Sit. It has endured the test of time that is why it is expensive."
We often hear people saying to an old friend whom he had not seen for
quite a time: "Uy! ang tagal na pero parang wala ka pa rin kupas." (You've aged
but you seem to be the same.) A manager is like an artwork that is "walang
kupas." He may age chronologically but his skills and wits increase in value as time
passes. Just like a true work of art which becomes valuable as it ages.
The word of God is timeless. The role of a parish/local church manager is to
preach the word of God in a way that he can project its timelessness, in order to
sink deeply in the lives of his people of whatever age and time. Pastors are
considered elders in the faith or the leaders of conviction. They are expected to
project ageless creativity in order that the people who long for his word might find
nourishment within the Church he leads.
Furthermore, a manager must not lose his sense in terms of experiences
and wisdom It is of values interesting to note that the role to manage is a
composite of two words "man" and "age". Seemingly, it connotes a man getting of
age. As person of age is commonly described as someone who has reached a time
of life at which some particular power, or capacity arises or rests. Therefore the
term "man -age" purports a man of age. As the definition suggests, "a person who
has reached a certain period of his life endowed with some power and capacity
certain is able and capable to handle anything that comes his way." In short,
possessing the ability to hold on a given power and take mature responsibilities
over it.
Interestingly, in Filipino, people of old age is called as "matanda"; the root
word came from "tanda." A tanda means sign points out to a mark. A manager is
considered to be a ma- tanda, "ma" is a common prefix used to connote
"madami" (many). Matanda is maraming tanda, - many signs. It connotes maturity
not only because of his chronological advancement in age but also due to his
various experiences which enabled him to mature and rise above the test of time.
He creates a "tanda", a legacy where he can be remembered even in the passing
of time. A legacy poses an indelible mark, a "tanda".
For pastor/ parish managers, the challenge is not only to avoid being
forgotten when they leave or retire from their place of assignment but also to
reach that spirit of engraving a legacy or the deepest yearning to belong to one of
the "tandas" a mark, an encapsulation of matanda (a elder) to the local church
However, this being a "tanda" can only be achieved when the clergy directs
his whole inspiration and the totality of his being to the only "tanda", the real
source of wisdom-Our Lord Jesus Christ. The Alpha and the Omega. The same
Yesterday, Today, and Tomorrow. A sign to remember of all times, "And His name
will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of
Peace" (Isaiah 9:6).
The fifth letter in Manager is "G" which describes the manager as the
Guardian.
To be a leader is to be a guardian. By definition, a guardian is "someone that
watches and protects, someone who takes care of another person or another
person's property"
The definition suggests that, a guardian or a true leader will organization.
One organizational always assure security and safety within the sterling quality of
a good manager is always being equipped with determination and courage in
protecting legacies and ambition. He must be alert and ever ready to give up all
things for the sake of achieving those goals.
As guardian of the parish, a pastor is considered to be the keeper and
protector of the parish doctrines. As the keeper he ensures not only the safety of
the sacred deposits of faith but guarantees that the faith of people he has vowed
to serve, is nurtured and protected.
Psalm 23, gives us the image of Jesus as our Good Shepherd. It portrays the
safeguarding of the sheep under the directive and guidance of the shepherd. In
Him nothing is lacking: His leading restores our souls, even in the darkest time of
our lives there should be nothing to fear. "Even when I go through the darkest
valley, I fear no danger, for you are with me; your rod and your staff they comfort
me... Only goodness and faithful love will pursue me all the days of my life, and I
will dwell in the house of the LORD as long as I live" (Psalm 23:4,6)
Manager/Shepherd/Guardian must assure all that had been mentioned in Psalm
23 is working for the best interest of everyone in the flock.
Evidently, there is a consolation in the words of St. Paul in his letter to the
Ephesians "Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the power of his
might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the
wiles of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against
principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age,
against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the
whole armor of God that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having
done all, to stand" (Ephesians 6:10-13).
Paul is exhorting the people of Ephesus to be on guard and prepare for a
battle against the desires of the body and the flesh. It is not enough that they
receive the grace through faith but He must use the same faith that he had to be
armored against the forces that seek to take it away from them.
Faith of our Fathers (1849) written by Frederick W. Faber a noted English
hymn writer is sa vivid description forefathers guarded the faith we profess today.
of how our
Faith of our fathers, living still,
In spite of dungeon, fire, and sword;
Oh, how our hearts beat high with joy
Whene'er we hear that glorious Word!
Refrain:
Faith of our fathers, holy faith!
We will be true to thee till death.
The pastor must always wear the full armor of God as exemplified by our
forefathers so that as the leader of parish he can truly be the guardian of the faith
The sixth letter of the word manager is "E" which denotes as the epitome.
Operationally defined, Epitome means, a perfect example, an example that
represents something very well. This thouble leads us to the three important
qualities that are required o true Church leader today.
First, an outstanding leadership quality that is highly demanded today is
that a leader "walks the talk". Being the person in charge of the parish and a
leader of the people, he must be a perfect exemplar of what he preaches. A
leader who does not insist on his own preconceived values gained from his social,
familial or traditional upbringing, rather, he carries with him the true essence of
his "being sent" by Jesus who is the perfect example of humility and obedience.
Thus, this function of management demands a leader who is the epitome of
lowliness and obedience. "But he who is greatest among you shall be your
servant" (Matthew 23:11).
The world is changing fast. The advent of social media broke down the
barriers of culture. As one who will lead the parish, the pastor's primordial trait is
to be ultimately grounded on authentic values of the church as taught by Christ;
that is the need to come to the real self and overcome oneself. In other words,
leading is living by example which means a true assessment of oneself grounded
on the soil of lowliness.
In his article entitled The Circumcision of the Heart, John Wesley said,
"Circumcision of heart implies humility, faith, hope, and charity. Humility, a right
judgment of ourselves, cleanses our minds from those high conceits of our own
perfection, from that undue opinion of our own abilities and attainments, which
are the genuine fruit of a corrupted nature." (Sermon 17, no. 2 pal
A vivid example of overcoming oneself is the parable of the two sons found
in Luke 15:11-32, When the younger son came to himself, he overcame pride and
realized his picture of himself, "Father I have sinned against heaven and against
you, I am no longer worthy to be called your son" (vv. 18. 19). He came to himself
and found out that he was not only hungry and helpless, but he had sinned
against his father who loved him so deeply and against heaven which is the source
of his entire being.
The second son on the other hand, perhaps can be what John Wesley is
referring to on the "undue inion of our abilities and attainments, which are the
genuine parallel its of our corrupted nature". "And he said to him, 'Son, you
always with me and all that of that have is yours" (v.31)What an unfortunate
imagery lack of discernment and obvious that sightlessness! her. He missed the
beauty and prosperity of being with his father because of his exceeding belief in
himself is being better than his returning brother
The parable is the clearest depiction of failing to see the nearness and the
richness of God when senses are blurred by the curtain of pride, usually by our
"undue opinion" and the wrong assessment of our own abilities and capabilities.
In parallel, a manager, a leader should be an example of a person who has
realized his true feeble self. Unless he will be like the Prodigal who "came to
himself", He can never be fit to lead his flock. Or to be like the second son, who
was engulfed by the cloud of vanity, He may miss the whole point of being with
the father throughout his life.
Second, obedience and humility are two inseparable words. One cannot
exist without the other. Obedience is a manifestation of one's true surrender to
Christ. This is one vital quality every pastor-leader must possess. But without
meekness, there can be no obedience and without obedience there can be no
true faith. The great act made by Abraham in offering his son as a sacrifice per
God's instruction is one of the best examples of a true human obedience in the
Old Testament. (Genesis Chapter 22:1-14)
This is what obedience is all about, it is a total surrender to the will of God.
Another story of Divine submission is found in the book of Numbers,
Chapter 13: 17-28. Moses was facing outright rejection from the Israelites on their
journey to the Promised Land. The news was that indeed the place is flowing with
milk and honey. However, it is fortified and the dwellers were huge and strong.
There were notions from the many to reverse the exodus because of fear. But
obedience and trust of Joshua and Caleb to instructions of the Lord to proceed
despite all odds, prevailed. "If the Lord delights in us (because of our trust and
obedience), then He will bring us into this land and give it to us, a land which
flows milk and honey. Only do not rebel against the Lord, nor fear the people of
the land, for they are our bread; their protection has departed from them
(because of their wicked ways) and the Lord is with us, (we have His favor), do not
fear them" (Numbers 13: 17-28, the holy Bible- Prophecy study edition, NKJV).
Bishop Pablo Virgilio David, a renowned Biblical scholar in the Philippines
has a beautiful way of presenting what obedience is. He will use the Latin
etymology of the word obedience. It came from the root word to hear" or "to
listen". Obedience is about listening. There be no true obedience without an open
ear to what the Lordan saying- to listen to the living word of God that is constantly
nourishing the ministry. As articulated by Rev. Ivan Casteel's sermon "Faith
without obedience is dead" Obedience is the nametag of faith, No obedience -no
faith. You will not live in obedience without faith, and neither will you live in faith
and be disobedient. Jesus instructed his disciples, "If you love Me, keep My
commandments" (John 14:15)
Jesus is our epitome for obedience. In the Garden of Gethsemane, He was
able to overcome himself and submit to the will of the Father. Despite His plea to
be spared from the cup of suffering, eventually, He turned into a total surrender
saying, "Father, if it is Your will, take this cup away from Me; nevertheless not My
will, but Yours be done" (Luke 22: 42). Therefore the pattern of ministry should
always be that of Jesus. "As the Father has sent me, so I send you." (Jn. 20:21)
The Pope of Ecumenism, Pope Paul VI in his Apostolic Letter entitled
Evangelii Nuntiandi issued on December 8, 1975 wrote, "Modern man listens
more willingly to witnesses than to teachers, and if he does listen to teachers, it is
because they are witnesses" (41). Aside from someone to teach them about the
faith, much is the demand for someone living out the Gospel.
A true leader is a genuine witness as he walks his talk about how God
transformed his life. That is evangelism in action, a true leader on the go- willing
to deny himself, taking up his cross every day and follow Jesus. Then Jesus said to
come after Me, let him himself, and take up his cross and follow me" (Matthew
16:27)
People will always look up to him as the manager and as the leader of the
parish. People will always emulate him, therefore, his actions must always match
his words.
Third, a manager should also be an epitome of wisdom. To be an epitome of
wisdom is not to be content solely with the knowledge of yesterday. The world is
fast changing, with the advent of the internet, barriers to the entry of varied
things that influence man's daily living have become a thing he must keep himself
abreast with the issues of a fast changing of the past. With this phenomenon of
the manager as leader, tide. He must update his know-how and get along with the
change or be doomed with the illiteracy of the times.
Today, literacy is no longer measured by one's ability to read, write and do
arithmetic (the old 3R's). The barometer for literacy has been elevated on the
level of one's ability to use and exploit the "cloud", such as internet and forms of
social media. Hence, expiration of knowledge is faster than the rate of change of
android and i-phone models brought about by these evolutions. Therefore, it is
required of a manager to equip himself and align his pace with the current trends
and developments confronting his parish or he will be left behind and be trapped
in antiquity and depreciation.
However, in his search for more knowledge while using these media, he
must be on guard lest he becomes overdependent on this new technology and
debilitates his ability to think deeply which is a requisite for one's refinement. The
pockmark of "cut and paste" and the "one-size-fits-all" attitude normally are
consequences of too much subordination to these media. Many had fallen into
the pit of forgetting the practice of stretching one's mind because of too much
reliance on the "instants" that Google, Facebook, Twitter and other social media
provide on their fingertips.
A modern management writer in the person of Cal Newport in his book
Deep Work calls this a "state of fragmented attention". According to him, "deep
work requires a long period of uninterrupted thinking. Perhaps, to be epitome of
wisdom is being able to exploit modernity and at the same time stretching the
brain to think deeply and independently.
Managing the parish and preaching the Word of God in a most effective
manner, the Pastor must not stop learning and searching for means to catch up
with the tremendous issues confronted daily by his parish. Living in a world
rivaling with humongous "attention-getters" and puissant human alternatives, a
pastor must be an epitome of wisdom by exploring his never- ending quest for
new knowledge and innovative and effective approaches to his ministry. Through
this, he can bravely accept the change and align God's words efficiently and at the
same time pull himself out from the quicksand of stagnation.
Chapter 3
"R"
as Rhythm
The late Pope John Paul II, issued on March 15, 1992, a very beautiful exhortation
for the priests and clergy of the world entitled Pastores Dabo Vobis meaning, I will give
you shepherds after my own heart. This Scripture Passage was taken from the book of
the Prophet Jeremiah 3:15. In the context of the Babylonian captivity, when God saw the
unfaithfulness of the Israelites, He heartily expressed the need for them to go back to
Him and He said: "And I will give you shepherds according to my heart, who will feed you
with knowledge and understanding."
The task of a pastor is not only important but justified. It is not just an ordinary
task that can be given to anyone. More than a profession, the task of a clergy is a
vocation. It is rooted in his ability to listen to the voice of God, the one who called him.
Because of this, a clergy must always be in communion with the one who called him.
Being assigned in his place of ministry, a clergy is not there entirely because he wanted
to be there but because God is sending him there. If the reason for being in the place of
assignment or in the place of the mission is inferior to the essence of him being sent by
God Himself then there is no reason at all to continue his ministry.
However, a pastor is not just called to be in he is called in communion and he is
called sent to a mission. The privilege of being called does not end there. The call of
discipleship always leads them to participate in the mission that the Lord himself did. So
Jesus said to them again, "As the Father has sent Me, so I send you" (John 20:21). A
priest or a pastor is sent according to how Jesus was sent by His Father. A pastor is sent
after the very heart of Christ, the Good Shepherd. His task of evangelization is of the
highest consequence in the community of believers because through him leading the
ministry, the Church may be able to recognize its fundamental obedience to the mission
of realizing the Kingdom of God here on earth.
Although human frailty and weakness may at times seem to take over, and
instances of the dryness of faith may occasionally come into play, the burning passion of
a Clergy's conviction and the constant voice of his calling are enough antidote in
revitalizing his ardor to persevere and endure the test of times. Every clergy's
consolation is the assurance of God's omnipresence and never ending compassion. As
revealed in the Great Commission: "Therefore go and make disciples of all nations,
baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit and
Teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you and surely I am with you
always, to the very end of age". (Matthew 28:19-20, New International Version, British
Isles, 2011 edition)
Lastly, priests and pastors are called to become faithful, disciples and are sent into
obedient transformation a mission to participate of the world. Therefore Go! Our world
today needs the Word of God. The Word of God that is not in the lives and the rest of
the whole world. Jesus said. ""...but whoever rinks of the water that I shall give him will
never thirst. But the water that I shall give him will become in him a fountain of water
springing up into everlasting life" (John 4:14). The world of today is greatly influenced by
the swiftness of changes not only in technology but also in the attitudes and
appreciation of the man. There are occasions where religious obligations and religious
norms are treated as outdated by many people. And when religion and culture slowly
take the minuscule role in the society, the clergy's role becomes even bigger and more
challenging. The more that he must be vigilant and be the first and foremost sign of
hope amidst the changing tides of times.
Pastors and priests should always remember that "they are sent according to the
heart of God" and if one is sent according to this attribute, there is no room for
mediocrity in terms of handling the sheep entrusted to his care. He is sent according to
the heart of God: a source of wisdom so that his parish may understand and appreciate
the faith that Christ has exemplified, a specimen of hope that the evidence of the
omnipotence and omnipresence of the God he professes stays alive and real in his
parish; a source of strength and fortitude that come high or low he will never succumb
to challenges and grief; finally, an epitome of lowliness with Christ being his model and
example.
Come to think of it just to be considered one among the the class of those who
were "chosen" by the "Master" is an even thought that my boss", employer" and "my
supervisor" is God Himself is a matchless grace and a privilege that is second to none.
The task of handling a parish is not and will never be an "ordinary thing". It is
more than a job, it is a vocation, it exceeds passion and dedication and it surpasses the
conventional and the average.
Again, please....A "MAN" of "AGE" in "R"
The Mind that plans Anchored to Christ. Weaving a Network of believers in most
Artistic ways. The true Guardian of our depository of Faith and the Epitome of
lowliness...in Rhythm with the Lord's mission on earth...