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Leadership

in the
Classroom
♦ Simplification for easy, everyday use
♦ Use tentatively
♦ Do not put people into boxes
♦ Although when stressed they climb into them!
♦ Personal styles – how we interact
♦ Recognition Styles – motivation
♦ Working styles – what is important
♦ Leadership styles – how to lead
Controlling Parent firm
Nurturing Parent encouraging
Functional Adult problem solving
Adapted Child courteous
Natural Child friendly
♦ We all need ‘strokes’ = human recognition
♦ Biological necessity v solitary confinement
♦ Visual, auditory and touch
♦ Positive or negative, and for doing or being
♦ Children learn to get negatives; pattern repeats at
work

♦ Individual preferences – work, person, play, not too


many

♦ Organisations develop stroking cultures


♦ Life and growth encouraging
♦ Inviting the recipient to feel okay about themselves
and others
♦ Life and growth discouraging
♦ Inviting the recipient to feel not-okay about self and /
or others
AP3
active

people alone

passive
AP3 Appearance

active

Bright colours Business-like


jewellery neat and tidy

people alone

Unusal Not interested in


idiosyncratic appearence

passive
AP3 Channels of Communication

active

Nurturing Parent- Functional Adult-


Natural Child Functional Adult

people alone

Natural Child- Controlling Parent-


Natural Child Adapted Child

passive
active

1. Feeling 1. Thinking
2. Thinking 2. Feeling
3. Behaviour
3. Behaviour

people alone

1. Behaviour 1. Behaviour
2. Feeling 2. Thinking
3. Thinking 3. Feeling

passive
active
patience

people alone

acceleratio
n
passive
Working Styles
♦ Our strengths
♦ That become weaknesses when overdone
♦ That become ‘drivers’ under stress
♦ Hurry Up – Productive – but mistakes
♦ Be Perfect – accurate – but slow
♦ Please People – pleasant – but too nice
♦ Try Hard – enthusiastic – but butterfly
♦ Be Strong – calm – but cold
active

Please People Be Perfect

People alone

Try hard Be Strong

Hurry Up
passive
active

Person performance

People alone

Play politeness

Productivity passive
active

Caring Consulting

People alone

Connecting controlling

concisely
passive
Hay, Julie (2009) Transactional Analysis for Trainers 2nd
edition Hertford: Sherwood Publishing

Kahler, taibi (1975) Drivers: The Key to the Process of


Scripts Transactional Analysis Journal 5:3 280-284

Ware Paul (1983) Personality Adaptations (Doors to


Therapy) Transactional Analysis Journal 13:1 11-19
♦ julie@juliehay.org
♦ www.psychologicalintelligence.com
♦ www.pifcic.org – non-profit educational foundation:
qualifications
♦ www.ijtar.org – the TA research journal
♦ http://www.insta.org/ta-proficiency-awards.html - TA
Proficiency Awards

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