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MARRIAGE AND FAMILY They further elucidated their view of marriage.

Marriage is a fundamental institution that “Marriage is a business partnership as much


serves as the cornerstone of societies as a romantic fairytale; it involves
worldwide, shaping cultures, customs, and compromises, division of labor, specialization,
traditions. In the Philippines, a country with a financial arrangement, and communication
diverse and rich history, marriage culture systems”
reflects a blend of indigenous practices,
colonial influences, and modern adaptations.
ASPECTS OF MARRIAGE:
First, the LEGAL POINT OF VIEW
HISTORICAL AND CULTURAL
FOUNDATIONS:  posits that marriage is a contract.
Philippine marriage culture finds its roots in Second, RELIGIOUS POINT OF VIEW
pre-colonial indigenous traditions, deeply
connected to the country's many ethnic groups.  posits that marriages a sacrament.
These practices varied across regions, but “What God has put together let no man put
commonalities included arranged marriages, asunder.”
familial alliances, and community involvement.
The concept of "pamamanhikan," where the
groom's family visits the bride's family to THE MEANING OF MARRIAGE AND THE
formally ask for her hand in marriage, remains FAMILY ISSUE
a cherished tradition.
a. The most TRADITIONAL SOCIAL NORM
 views marriage as a sacred
NATURE AND DEFINITION OF MARRIAGE phenomenon; that is, the family and the
 Humankind’s most basic and oldest marriage are divine and holly institutions
social unit is the family. It is a social created and maintained by God or some
institution primarily established by supreme being greater than human
society to ensure its continuity and to beings.
regulate the sexual behavior of its
members.
TRADITIONS AND CEREMONIES:
 The family is the primary group where
the child is initially socialized and The Filipino wedding journey is an
initiated in the ways of life of his group. amalgamation of rituals and traditions that
The family provides the child’s social, celebrate love, commitment, and family unity.
psychological, and emotional needs – These customs vary across the country's many
warmth, intimacy, affection, love, regions and ethnic groups, but some key
nurturance, care and security. elements are universal:

 Marriage is another human construction  PAMAMANHIKAN: As previously


to insure the continuity of the family and mentioned, this is the formal meeting
the eventual perpetuation of the human between the families of the bride and
specie. groom to discuss wedding plans and
signify their consent to the union. Gifts
 The New Family Code of the are often exchanged as a symbol of
Philippines, which became effective on goodwill.
August 3,1998, defines Marriage as a
special contract of permanent union  PAGTATAMBAYAYONG: A Visayan
between a man and a woman entered tradition involving a dowry negotiation,
into in accordance with law for the emphasizing the groom's financial ability
establishment of conjugal and the to provide for his future wife.
family life.
 Light and Keller (1985)  CEREMONIAL COINS AND
VEIL: Coins, known as "arras," are often
 defines marriage as a socially presented to symbolize the couple's
recognized union between two or more mutual commitment to financial
individuals that typically involves sexual responsibility. The veil is draped over
and economic rights and duties. the bride and groom, symbolizing unity
and protection.
 CORD OF UNITY: A ceremonial cord,  endogamy include marrying within the
or "yugal," is placed around the couple's family, clan, tribe, and caste
shoulders in a figure-eight shape,
symbolizing their eternal bond.  Chastity, also known as purity, is a
virtue related to temperance. exclusivity
 EXCHANGE OF VOWS AND label often serves as a test drive for
RINGS: Modern adaptations include relationships as people try out this
personalized vows and the exchange of deeper level of commitment and get to
wedding rings, influenced by Western know their partner in this new role.
practices.
B. A SECOND TRADITIONAL NORM
 RELEASE OF DOVES OR
BUTTERFLIES: A symbol of peace and  views the meaning of marriage and
new beginnings, the release of doves or family as centering primarily on
butterflies is a picturesque addition to social obligations.
many Filipino weddings.
C. A THIRD
 TRADITIONAL ATTIRE: The bride  meaning of marriage suggest that
often wears a white gown, while the families and the marital relationship
groom dons a formal suit. Some regions exist for the individual.
feature indigenous attire that reflects
their cultural heritage.
IMPORTANT LEGAL MATTERS ON
 FEASTING AND MARRIAGE
CELEBRATIONS: Filipino weddings are
A. ESSENTIAL REQUISITES FOR
renowned for their grand feasts and
MARRIAGE
lively celebrations. Sharing food with
family and friends is a key aspect of
fostering community bonds.
Family Code of the Philippines provides:
Art. 2: No marriage shall be valid, unless
these essential requisites are present:
1. Legal capacity of the contracting parties
(18 yrs. or upwards), who must be a
male and female; and
2. Consent freely given in the presence of
the solemnizing officer.

B. FORMAL REQUISITES OF
MARRIAGE
Art.3. the formal requisites of marriage are:
1. Authority of solemnizing officer;
2. A valid marriage license except in cases
provided in chapter 2 of this title; and
3. A marriage ceremony which takes place
with the appearance of the contracting
parties before the solemnizing officer
and their personal declaration that they
take each other as husband and wife in
the presence of not less than two
witnesses of legal age:
Art.4.The absence of any of the essential or
formal requisites shall render the marriage
“void ab initio” (void from the beginning)
except as stated in Article 35(a).
C. ANNULMENT OF A MARRIAGE 7. Contracting by the respondent of a
subsequent bigamous marriage,
ANNULMENT
whether in the Philippines or abroad;
 refers to hr legal process of filing a
8. Sexual infidelity or perversion;
petition in the appropriate court seeking
a judicial declaration of making a 9. Attempt by the respondent against the
marriage null and void ab initio or from life of the petitioner; or
the beginning as if no marriage took
10. Abandonment of petitioner by
place.
respondent without justifiable cause for
Art.45.Enumerates the grounds for more that one year.
annulment of marriage, as follows:
1. One of the contracting parties is 18 yrs.
NORMS OF MARRIAGE ON THE
of age or over but bellow 21 and without
SELECTION OF POTENTIAL MARRIAGE
parental consent;
PARTNERS
2. Either party was of unsound mind;
1. Endogamy- is a rule that requires a
3. Consent of either party was obtained by person to marry someone from within
fraud, force and intimidation; his or her own group—tribe, nationality,
religion, race community, or any other
4. Either party was physically incapable of
social grouping.
consummating the marriage with the
other; and 2. Exogamy- is a rule that requires a
person to marry someone from outside
5. Either party was afflicted with a sexually
his her own group.
transmissible disease found to be
serious and incurable. 3. Sororate- prescribes that a widower
marry the sister or nearest kin of the
decease wife.
D. LEGAL SEPARATION
4. Levirate- prescribes that widows marry
Legal Separation- refers to the legal the brother nearest kin of the deceased
process of filling a petition in the husband.
appropriate court seeking a judicial
declaration of legal separation for married
couples. FORMS OF MARRIAGE
Art.55. A petition for legal separation 1. Monogamy
may be filed on any of the following
 marriage between one man and one
grounds:
woman.
1. Repeated physically violence or grossly
2. Polygamy or plural marriage
abusive conduct directed against the
petitioner;  has three forms:
2. Physical violence or moral pressure to a) Polygyny- one husband and two or
compel the petitioner, apolitical more wives
affiliation;
b) Polyandry- one wife and two or more
3. Attempt of respondent to corrupt r husbands
induce the petitioner, a common child,
or a child of the petitioner, to engage in c) Group marriage- two or more
prostitution, or connivance in such husbands and two or more wives.
corruption or inducement;
4. Final judgment sentencing the BASIS ON CHOOSING A MARRIAGE
respondent to imprisonment of more than PARTNER
six yrs; even if pardoned;
1. PARENTAL SELECTION OR ARRANGED
5. Drug addiction or habitual alcoholism of MARRIAGES
the respondent;
 Families that have important stake in the
6. Lesbianism or homosexuality of the type of spouse their son or daughter will
respondent; take usually practice.
2. ROMANTIC LOVE
 Romantic love has become an important
basis for marriage in our society. It is the THEORIES OR PERSPECTIVE ON THE
theme of most of our popular songs, the FAMILY
subject of many of our movies and
Three Theories:
television shows, and made active in
scores of popular books and magazine 1. THE FUNCTIONALIST PERSPECTIVE
articles.
Functionalist says that if a society is to survive
and maintain itself across time, certain
essential functions must be performed.
WHY PEOPLE MARRY
Functions:
1. Love
2. Economic security a) Regulation and sexual behavior;
3. Emotional security
4. Parent’s wishes b) Reproduction;
5. Escape from loneliness c) Biological maintenance;
6. Common interest
7. Parenthood d) Socialization;
8. Physical attraction e) Care and protection function;
9. Compatibility
10. Martial bliss and happiness f) Social placement or group status;
11. Unhappy home situation g) Social control.
12. Money
13. Companionship
14. Protection 2. THE CONFLICT PERSPECTIVE
15. Adventure
16. Sex and sexual attraction Jetse Sprey (1979), agree with the
17. Begetting and rearing of children functionalists’ position that the family
18. Acceptance responsibility institution and other groups in society
19. Death of a former spouse are organized systems of species
20. Care and nurturance happiness survival.

DEFINITION AND NATURE OF FAMILY


3. THE SYMBOLIC INTERACTIONIST
The family is the basis social institution PERSPECTIVE
and the primary group in society.
The symbolic interationist direct
considerable attention to the symbolic
environment in which people carry out
 Burgess and Locke (1963) their daily activities.
 define the family as a group of persons
united by ties of marriage, blood or
adoption, constituting a single PATTERNS OF FAMILY ORGANIZATION
household, interacting and
A. BASED ON INTERNAL
communicating with each other in their
ORGANIZATION OR MEMBERSHIP
respective social roles of husband and
wife, mother and father, son daughter, 1. Nuclear Family
brother and sister, creating and a
 is composed of a husband and his wife
common culture.
and their children in a union recognized
 Light (1985) - defines the family as a by the other members of the society.
group of people who are united by ties
a) The family of the orientation – is the
of marriage, ancestry, or adoption and
family into which a person is born and
who are recognized by the community
where he is reared or socialized.
as constituting a single household and
as having the responsibility for rearing
children.
b) The family of procreation – is the
family that such person established
 Murdock (1949) –defines the family as
a social group characterized by common through marriage and consists of a
husband, a wife, a sons and daughter.
residence, economic cooperation and
reproduction.
2. Extended Family – the children born to them. Family
planning involves three main aspects:
 is composed of two or more nuclear
families, economically and socially 1. Responsible parenthood
related to each other.
2. Proper spacing of children
3. Birth control
Linton (Murdock 1949)
TWO TYPES OF FAMILY:
 Family planning involves the rational
1. CONJUGAL FAMILY
utilization of effective contraceptive
 corresponds to the nuclear family where methods by married couples so they
priority is given to marital ties. space and limit their children to a
desirable size in order for them to attain
2. CONSANGUINEAL FAMILY
quality life. Contraceptive means
 corresponds to the extended family prevention of unwanted pregnancy,
where priority is given to blood ties. while responsible parenthood means
responsible pro-creation and
socialization of children. As responsible
B. BASED ON DESCENT parents, married couples are prepared
for the responsibility of rearing a child
DESCENT who can be properly fed, clothed and
 implies family genealogical ties of a educated.
person with a particular group of
kinsfolk.
NORMS ON FAMILY PLANNING
1. BILATERAL DESCENT- involves the
reckoning of descent through both the 1. SOCIOLOGICAL NORMS
father’s and mother’s families Family planning is the process whereby,
2. PATRILINEAL DESCENT- involves the through interaction, married couples arrive at
reckoning of descent through the an intelligent decision in the number of children
father’s family only. they could provide with quality life.

3. MATRILINEAL descent- involves the


reckoning of descent through the 2. MEDICAL NORMS
mother’s family only.
Family planning through the use of
contraceptives provides protection against
C. BASE ON RESIDENCE unwanted pregnancies. Contraceptives work to
prevent the meeting of the egg sperm. Family
1. PATRILOCAL -the married couple live planning is concerned with the regulation of
with or near the husband’s family. human reproductive capacity. It involves the
2. MATRILOCAL –the husband leaves his prevention of unwanted births by contraceptive
family and sets up housekeeping with or techniques, or by reducing the length of
near his wife’s family. exposure to pregnancy in order to protect the
well-being of the mother, of the family, or of the
3. NEOLOCAL-the married couple larger population.
establish a new home; they reside
independently of the parents of either
groom or bride. 3. LEGAL-JURIDICAL NORMS
4. BILOCAL- it gives the couple a choice Government support of family planning
of staying with either the groom’s is reflected in Article XV,
parents or the bride’s parents.
Sec. 10 of the Philippines Constitution to
achieve and maintain population levels most
FAMILY PLANNING conducive to the national welfare. Measures to
assure its implementation have been made in
 Family planning experts define family law and practice. The Labor Code of the
planning as the process by which Philippines requires the employer of more than
responsible and mature couples, if they 200 workers to provide for family planning
wish, determine by themselves the services to their employees and their spouses (
timing, proper spacing and number of Sec. 11, Rule VII, Book III of the Implementing
Rules ).
 Contraception is not a new idea. Over
thousands of years all kinds of devices
4. ECCLESIASTICAL NORMS
have been tried to prevent pregnancy.
All the major religions of the world believe in Almost 4,000 years ago some Egyptian
the guiding principle that a couple has a right to women put a contraceptive paste into
limit family size. their vaginas, made form honey, sodium
carbonate and crocodile dung!
The Roman Catholic Church is not against
family planning but categorically condemns the
use of artificial methods as they are against the
LITERATURE ON CONTRACEPTION AND
natural laws. The Catholic Church only accepts
BIRTH CONTROL GIVES THE FOLLOWING
the withdrawal, abstinence, and rhythm or
METHODS AND TECHNIQUES:
calendar method.
A. CHEMICAL METHODS

5. PSYCHOLOGICAL NORMS
1. PILL OR ORAL CONTRACEPTIVE
Family planning has psychological
bearing on problems which confront the young  The pill is a tablet made of man-made
today brought about by their development hormones (estrogen and progesterone)
stage and the sexual revolution in the present mimicking the ones your body produces
times. Marlyn Benoit, Executive Director of the monthly on its own. It’s is of two kinds:
Devereux Children’s Center in Washington, COCs or combined oral contraceptives
D.C. agrees that changes in society and family and POPs or progesterone only pills
structure have led to more sexual activity (mini pills). These are available in over-
among teenagers. the counter or prescription forms.

POPULATION POLICY AND PORGRAMS  Estrogen prevents the egg from


maturing and being released from the
Congress, through R.A. 6365, created,
ovary. Progesterone changes the lining
the Population Commission (POPCOM) in
of the uterus and the consistency of
1971.
cervical mucus, making them
Main Goal: To enhance national inhospitable to sperm and the
development by meeting the social implantation of fertilized egg.
challenge of a high rate of population growth
The Department Of Education and the United
 The pill has to be taken for a certain
Nations Fund for Population Activities create
number of days in the menstrual cycle,
programs for population education.
usually 21. Its effectiveness is 96% to
POPULATION EDUCATION is the process 99%, if used properly.
of developing awareness and understanding
of population situations as well as rational
attitude and behavior toward those 2. “MORNING-AFTER PILL”
situations for the attainment of high quality
 The so-called “morning-after pill” is a
of life for the individual, the family, the
form of emergency birth control.
community, the nation, and the world.
Emergency contraception can prevent a
woman from getting pregnant even after
unprotected sex. This method is
CONTRACEPTION (BIRTH CONTROL
especially helpful for those who have
METHODS AND TECHNIQUES)
been raped or whose main birth control
methods have failed. Prescribed by a
health care professional, these pills are
 Reproduction is the basic biological similar to birth control pills but contain a
reason for sexual intercourse. However, higher dose of hormones. The pills will
most people enjoy sex and do not want either inhibit or delay ovulation, or they
to conceive every time they have sex. may alter the uterine lining, preventing
There are many reasons. they may wish the implantation of a fertilized egg. After
to concentrate on a career, they may sexual assault or consensual sex, two of
already have too many children in the these pills are taken within 72 hours,
family, or suffer from certain health and then two more are taken 12 hours
problems, or dislike babies, or fell too later.
young or old, and so on.
hospital on the same day, or a day or
two later.
 In the Philippines, anti-abortion and pro-
life groups insist that the pill previously
marketed here under the brand
2. VASECTOMY
Postinor- is an abortifacient because, as
many of them believe, a fertilized egg is  Male sterilization involves tying, cutting
already considered a life form. Thus, or searing the two vasdeferens, the
preventing it from being implanted into tubes which carry sperm from the testes
the uterus is tantamount to aborting, or to the penis, to prevent the sperm from
killing it. mixing with the seminal fluid. It is a more
or less permanent or irreversible
surgical method for men.
 After much pressure from these groups,
the government relented and pulled
Postinor out of the local market. The 3. MECHANICAL OR BARRIER METHODS
Bureau of Food and drug (BFAD)
likewise delisted the product from its  The barrier methods of contraception
registry of drugs. put a physical barrier between sperm
and egg, so that two cannot meet.

 It is injected by a health care


professional every three months. its A. MALE CONDOM OR PROPHYLACTIC
effectiveness is 99% of preventing LATEX
pregnancy.  The condom is a synthetic latex sheath
worn over the penis during copulation to
prevent the sperm from entering the
3. IMPLANTS woman’s womb. It has a sealed end the
caches the sperm0containing fluid at
 Implants are six matchstick-size
ejaculation (enlarge and rigid) penis
rubber silicone rods, tubes or capsules
before intercourse and unrolled and
containing progestin or progesterone. A
disposed of afterwards. It is advised to
physician surgically implants them under
withdraw the penis immediately after
the skin, usually on the upper arm . The
intercourse, and while still erect.
rods released low doses of hormones to
Delaying may cause sperm to spill out
suppress ovulation and cause a
into the cervix.
thickening of the cervical mucus so that
sperm cannot penetrate. They are B. FEMALE CONDOM
locally available as Norplant and close
to 100% effectiveness for up to five  Female condom is elongated as
years, and they can be removed by a polyurethane sheath about 6.5 inches
doctor at any time. long, with a flexible ring at each end. It
is used to line the inside of the vagina
covers the cervix. It prevents the sperm
from reaching the cervix. It is inserted
B. STERILIZATION OR SURGICAL METHOD
into the vagina before intercourse. Its
In sterilization, the eggs or sperm are effectiveness is more or less 75% to
prevented from going anywhere by cutting, 80% in preventing pregnancy.
knotting or blocking the tubes along which they
normally travel. This is done by a small surgical
operation in the hospital or clinic. Its C. DIAPHRAGM/CERVICAL CAP
effectiveness is 99% to 100%.
 This device is a thin rubber cap or bowl-
shaped rubber disk with flexible rim that
fits into the top of the vagina and covers
1. TUBAL LIGATION
the cervix, the neck or entrance to
 Female sterilization involves tying, womb. It prevents the sperm in the
cutting or searing the two fallopian tubes vagina from entering the uterus and
or oviducts via survey so that the reaching the egg beyond. It is usually
passageway to the uterus is blocked. It fitted 2 or 3 hours before intercourse
is a more or less permanent surgical and removed several hours afterwards.
method for women. The operation is
minor, leaving a small scar on the lower
abdomen. Most women can leave the
d. SPONGE C. BASAL BODY TEMPERATURE
 The sponge is a soft, donut-shaped  The NFP method involves the daily
devise, which is made of spongy recording of the temperature changes in
materials that contains spermicidal. It the woman’s body with a special
must be moistened and inserted before thermometer. She records her
intercourse, and left in place from up to temperature at the same time every day
six hours afterward (although it can be before getting up or doing anything in
worn up to 24 hours with repeated the morning. A rise in the BBT of about
intercourse). It works like the diaphragm half a degree Celsius may mean
and the cervical cap. Its function is to ovulation, and the couple should abstain
block the entry of the sperm into the from intercourse if pregnancy is not
womb. The sponge is available without desired. Effectiveness is more or less
a prescription and is about 85% 95% but only for couples with normal
effectiveness on preventing pregnancy. fertility who follow and use the method
perfectly.

4. NATURAL FAMILY PLANNING METHODS


D. SYMPTO-THERMAL METHOD
o Natural Family Planning, also called
fertility awareness, refers to methods for  This is a combination of the BBT and
planning and preventing pregnancies by the cervical mucus methods and other
observation of the naturally occurring physiological indicators of ovulation,
signs and symptoms of the fertile and such as tenderness of the breast and
infertile phases of the menstrual cycle. mid-cycle pain. This involves recording.
Intercourse is avoided during the fertile If pregnancy is not desired, couples
phase if pregnancy is not desired. The should abstain from intercourse until the
natural methods rely on timing rather 3rd day of elevated temperature or the
that artificial aids or surgery. fourth day after the peak day of mucus,
whichever comes first. Its effectiveness
is 98% but only for couples with normal
THE EIGHT TECHNIQUES OF NFP ARE: fertility who follow and use the method
perfectly.

A. THE RHYTHM (OR CALENDAR) METHOD


5. WITHDRAWAL OR COITUS
 The rhythm method is also known as the INTERRUPTUS
safe period. It is a fertility tracking
method using a calendar. The woman  During sex, the man withdraws his penis
must observe and record her from the woman’s vagina just before the
reproductive cycle (I.e., ovulation and sperm-containing fluid ejaculates.
menstruation). Ovulation occurs about However, this method is not very
12 to 16 days before menstruation reliable. It is difficult to predict the exact
(which is the end of your ovulation timing of ejaculation and some sperm
period or 14 days before the next period may be released before the full
is due.) An egg has a natural life of two ejaculation. Even before the ejaculation.
days in the womb waiting to be fertilized. Even before the ejaculation, the man
A sperm can last for four or five days. releases “pre-ejaculation fluid” which
already contains enough sperm to get a
woman pregnant. It may also lead to
B. CERVICAL MUCUS METHOD frustration for one or both partners. Its
effectiveness is more or less 30% to
 It is an NFP method relying on a 40%.
woman’s familiarity with her body and its
processes. The vagina discharge after a
woman’s period is used as indicators of 6. PROLONGED LACTATION OR
fertility. It is also known as the Billing’s LACTATION AMENORRHEA (LAM)
method, named after an Australian
doctor who discovered it. Observe that  This is considered a natural
the vagina discharge which appears contraceptive and is known to protect a
after menstruation will first be cloudy woman from pregnancy for the first six
and sticky. months after giving birth, depending on
certain factors.
 Breastfeeding is the main factor for and number of children born to them
delaying menstruation (lactaional with the aim of giving them quality life. It
amenorrhea). As the baby sucks, the involves three aspects: responsible
nipples are stimulated, causing the parenthood, proper spacing of children,
woman’s body to produce prolactin, and birth control.
the hormone that includes milk flow.
 There are several norms on
 Prolactin is also believed to suppress family planning: the sociological norms,
ovulation on the nursing mother, in the medical norms, legal-juridical norms,
addition to its main function of the ecclesiastical norms and the
increasing the supply of breast milk; psychological norms. These norms
thus, the more frequent and the longer provide various views and perspectives
the breast feeding, the longer the delay on family planning.
of menstrual period.
 Another aspect of family planning is
 Breastfeeding provides 98% birth control. Various methods and
protection against another techniques of contraception are
pregnancy only as long as: available today. These include:
Chemical Method, Sterilization or
a .The baby is under six months old
Surgical Method, Mechanical or Barrier
b. The mother is fully breastfeeding, a Methods, Natural Family Planning
minimum old six feedings during the daytime Methods, and the Intra-Uterine Devices.
and two at night, and completes emptying of
 Current research on birth control
the breast during every feeding episode.
focuses on contraceptives for men, such
c. The mother is amenorrheic or has not as contraceptive vaccines, hormonal
experienced menstrual bleeding 56 days after contraceptive injections, biodegradable
delivery. implants, and male polyurethane
condom. Advance in birth control are
limited by legal, religious, and financial
CURRENT RESEARCH ON BIRTH concerns.
CONTROL
 A new male condom made of
polyurethane is one type of birth control
currently under development.
Diaphragms may one day include a one-
size-fits-all device and disposable,
spermicide –releasing diaphragms may
also be developed.
 A contraceptive vaccine for men
currently in development contains a
hormone that appears to interfere with
the production of both sperm and the
male sex hormone testosterone. Vaginal
rings that deliver female sex hormones
are another potential method for
preventing pregnancy. These silicone
rubber rings fit in the vagina and release
a steady supply of hormones progestin-
only vaginal rings would be worn
continuously while those containing both
estrogen and progestin would be worn
for three weeks and then removed for
one week to allow menstrual bleeding in
the same pattern as combined oral
contraceptives.

SUMMARY
 Family planning is the process by
which responsible couples determine by
themselves the timing, proper spacing

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