Charles Cooley developed the concept of the "looking glass self" which describes how individuals see themselves through imagining how others see them. There are three steps: 1) imagining how one appears to others, 2) imagining others' judgments of that appearance, and 3) developing self-feelings based on those perceived judgments. This shapes identity and behavior as people act according to how they believe others view them, even if inaccurate. Cooley also believed individuals and society are not separate but collective and distributed aspects of the same phenomenon.
Charles Cooley developed the concept of the "looking glass self" which describes how individuals see themselves through imagining how others see them. There are three steps: 1) imagining how one appears to others, 2) imagining others' judgments of that appearance, and 3) developing self-feelings based on those perceived judgments. This shapes identity and behavior as people act according to how they believe others view them, even if inaccurate. Cooley also believed individuals and society are not separate but collective and distributed aspects of the same phenomenon.
Charles Cooley developed the concept of the "looking glass self" which describes how individuals see themselves through imagining how others see them. There are three steps: 1) imagining how one appears to others, 2) imagining others' judgments of that appearance, and 3) developing self-feelings based on those perceived judgments. This shapes identity and behavior as people act according to how they believe others view them, even if inaccurate. Cooley also believed individuals and society are not separate but collective and distributed aspects of the same phenomenon.
Understanding Charles Cooley's "Looking Glass Self"
Charles Horton Cooley: Concept of the Looking Glass Self
Introduction Cooley was influenced by approaches such as Pragmatism and Darwinism. Even though Cooley was influenced by Weber, Cooley’s examination was more psychological than Weber’s. Cooley’s most significant contribution was his idea of the “looking-glass-self.” The concept of the looking glass self demonstrates that self-relation, or how one views oneself is not a solitary phenomenon, but rather includes others. Cooley states that society and individuals do not denote separable phenomena, but are simply collective and distributive aspects of the same thing. Developmentally, Cooley theorizes that human beings possess an inherent tendency to reach out, interact, or socialize with those people and objects that surround them. The term looking glass self was created by American sociologist Charles Horton Cooley in 1902,[1] and introduced into his work Human Nature and the Social Order. It is described as our reflection of how we think we appear to others. To further explain would be how oneself imagines how others view him/her.[2] An example would be one's mother would view their child as flawless, while another person would think differently. Cooley takes into account three steps when using "the looking glass self". Step one is how one imagines one looks to other people. Step two is how one imagines the judgment of others based on how one thinks they view them. Step three is how one thinks of how the person views them based on their previous judgments.[3] According to Lisa McIntyre’s The Practical Skeptic: Core Concepts in Sociology, the concept of the looking-glass self expresses the tendency for one to understand oneself through the perception which others may hold of them. [4] Essentially, how one views oneself and acts heavily depends on what the individual believes other people think of the individual. This process is theorized to develop one's sense of identity. Therefore identity, or self, is the result of learning to see ourselves through what we perceive to be the perceptions of others.[5] The looking-glass self comprises three main components that are unique to humans (Shaffer 2005).[6]
1. We imagine how we must appear to others in a social situation.
2. We imagine and react to what we feel their judgment of that appearance must be. 3. We develop our sense of self and respond through this perceived judgments of others. The result is that individuals will change their behavior based on what they feel other people think about them, even if not necessarily true. In this way, social interaction acts as a "mirror" or a "looking-glass," since one's sense of self and self esteem is built off of others. For example, an individual may walk into an job interview with confidence and attempt to display this confidence. A person in this situation most often examines the reactions of the interviewers to see if they are positively or negatively reacting to it. If the individual notices positive reactions, such as nodding heads or smiles, this might further develop the individual's sense of self-confidence. If the individual notices negative reactions, such as a lack of interest, this confidence in self often becomes shaken and reformed in order to better oneself, even if the perceived judgments were not necessarily true.
A separate individual is an abstraction unknown to experience, and so likewise
is society when regarded as something apart from individuals. The real human life, which may be considered either in an individual aspect or in a social aspect, is always both individual and general. In other words, society and individuals do not denote separable phenomena, but are simply collective and distributive aspects of the same thing.
A self-idea of this sort seems to have three principle elements:
1) The imagination of our appearance to the other person 2) The imagination of his judgment of that appearance 3) Some sort of self-feeling such as pride or mortification.