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FAMILY OF ORIGIN
1. The spouses are free to marry (freedom to marry is established by the priest or deacon at the
beginning of the process)
2. They freely exchange their consent.
3. In consenting to marry, they have the intention to marry for life, to be faithful to one another
and be open to children.
4. Their consent is giving in the presence of two witnesses and before a properly authorized Church
minister. Exceptions to the last requirement must be approved by church authority.
Human sexuality has the two purposes
Spiritual fruitfulness: adoption, helping children, words of mercy (giving life to other people)
Name 3 things you learned in this first part of the course that you would like to share with your fiancé.
Marriage in the Catholic Church is a sacrament (a symbol that makes Christ present in our
midst).
By living a sacramental life, especially within marriage, we connect to God through creation.
Through marriage, a man and a woman give themselves to one another — to serve each other,
to serve the community, and also to serve God.
Have you ever thought of what the purpose of your marriage will be? Who do you hope to be,
and what do you hope to do as a married couple?
Learning what that means, and being willing to discover more about yourself will be
empowering as you grow together in holy matrimony.
We are excited to be a part of setting the foundation to help you balance all the possibilities,
opportunities, and priorities that are to come as you start your journey through life together.
What do you believe the purpose of marriage is?
The purpose of what you are entering into is to become one.
There is a difference between the words oneness and one.
What foundation are you going to build the basis of your marriage upon?
LOSE YOURSELF
Losing yourself does not mean losing who you are, losing your identity, or losing your
personality.
Losing yourself means to lose the self-centeredness of who you are.
You lose your self-centeredness for the sake of growing your marriage.
LOVE YOUR SPOUSE
Ask yourself, “What can I do to show my spouse that they are my priority?”
When you make your spouse your priority, it allows you to show them that you love them in very
simple ways.
Ask your spouse, “What am I doing well, and what can I be doing more to make you feel like you
are my priority?”
Lift the marriage” means lifting the marriage to the place of priority that it deserves.
Outside of your relationship with God, your marriage should be the most important relationship
in your life.
Change the way you speak — take out of your vocabulary: me, my, and mine. Instead, say: we,
us, and our.
Balancing Values, Careers, and Practical Issues Your Family Mission Statement
Once you establish the dreams, goals, and ambitions you have for your marriage, it’s time to put
it into practice by authoring your Family Mission Statement together.
Why is that important? It helps to lay the foundation of being on the same page as your
marriage grows.
A family mission statement helps you to establish boundaries with outside forces. A family
mission statement allows you to say, “yes” or “no,” eliminating the over abundance of “maybe.”
Relationships are all about communication. Happy, healthy marriages require frequent and honest
communication between husband and wife. This life skill is among the most important, requiring a
commitment to keep learning more effective ways to relate to one another.
The “big three” areas of conflict in almost every marriage are: Money, Sex, and Family.
Whether you have money or don’t have money, you are going to have money issues.
No matter who you are, you have different sexual desire levels.
You are coming from two different families that have done things two different ways.
Conflicting about all three of these things is inevitable and normal.
In the video, Jay and Laura discuss the four phrases that each man needs to hear, and each
woman needs to hear. What are phrases that you need to hear from each other?
Understanding what phrases each of you needs to hear from one another is an important aspect
to communication and edification within your marriage.
What is your favorite place where you can observe God’s creation and connect with Him?
BAPTISM
THE EUCHARIST
CONFIRMATION
PENANCE AND RECONCILIATION
ANOITING OF THE SICK
HOLY ORDERS
MATRIMONY
Sacraments of initiation: baptism, the Eucharist and Confirmation. they are the doors open to the life of
the Church
Sacraments to the service of communion: marriage and Holy orders
MARRIAGE AS SACRAMENT
SERVING GOD
SERVING ONE ANOTHER
SERVING THE CHURCH
Marriage in the Catholic Church is a covenant (an agreement between God and their marriage).
The permanent and exclusive union between husband and wife mirrors the mutual commitment
between God and his people.
God never breaks his promises, God never breaks his covenant. Therefore, in marriage, each
individual continually works toward never breaking promises, and never breaking the covenant.