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Sex 4
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“We are energetic bodies, and during sexual intercourse, the energy
of each partner mixes,†explains Po-Chang Hsu, MD. â€Every sex
act is an exchange of energy [because] every sexual act raises or lowers
your energy level.â€
It might sound confusing, but a lot of it comes down to semantics — the
words we use to describe and explain sex.
Emotions are highly transferable, and what goes on between the sheets
is no exception. Your partner’s mood or energy is bound to have you
feeling some type of way.
“Being in touch with our sexual energy involves a high level of self-
awareness and authenticity that’s accessed through mindfulness,
acceptance, intentionality, and being attuned to our body, emotions, and
partners,†explains Elkhatib.
“By being mindful of our body in the present moment, we may be able
to notice that the pit in our stomach is trying to tell us we don’t feel
safe or comfortable with that partner,†adds Elkhatib.
â€By noticing those bodily cues, listening to them, and honoring them,
we’re more likely to sleep with people that align with our sexual
energy,†she says.
I’m not saying you’ll never get bad vibes from less-than-
mediocre sex, but it’ll certainly make it less likely. Sex can be a
powerful force — one that can help us make meaning of ourselves and
the world around us.
“Some people need intimate sex, while others want casual sex,â€
says Sam Nabil, a licensed professional counselor and CEO of Naya
Clinics. “It all depends on what your sexual needs are.â€
â€There can be lopsided power dynamics that can leave them longing
for more,†says Nabil.
So, rather than overanalyzing the energy of your partner, perhaps ask
yourself: “What do I want out of this, and what is my body trying to
tell me right now?†If you’re comfortable with what you find, carry
on!
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Dec 7, 2022
Written By
Sarah Lempa
Edited By
Lori Lawrenz, PsyD
Medically Reviewed By
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