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Anorexia Is A Disorder Where The Main Characteristic Is The Restriction of Food and The Refusal To Maintain A Minimal Normal Body Weight
Anorexia Is A Disorder Where The Main Characteristic Is The Restriction of Food and The Refusal To Maintain A Minimal Normal Body Weight
Anorexia Is A Disorder Where The Main Characteristic Is The Restriction of Food and The Refusal To Maintain A Minimal Normal Body Weight
food and the refusal to maintain a minimal normal body weight. Any
actual gain or even perceived gain of weight is met with intense fear by
the Anorexic. Not only is there a true feeling of fear, but also once in the
grasp of the disorder, Anorexics experience body image distortions.
Those areas of the body usually representing maturity or sexuality
including the buttocks, hips, thighs and breast are visualized by the
Anorexic as being fat. For some Anorexics, weight loss is so severe
there is a loss of menses. In the obsessive pursuit of thinness, Anorexics
participate in restrictive dieting, compulsive exercise, and laxative and
diuretic abuse. If Anorexia Nervosa is left untreated, it can be fatal.
The Cycle of
Compulsive
Overeating
Compulsive overeaters binge to relieve
depression and begin a destructive cycle.
Binge eating episodes are followed by
resolutions to stop bingeing and adhere to
diets. These resolutions are eventually broken,
filling the Compulsive Overeater with guilt and
depression, leading them back to binge eating
again. The devastating cycle is as follows:
Depression
Br ok en
Resolu ti ons
Binge ea ting
to stop binge
to
ea ting
reli eve st res s
and st ar t
die ti ng
Gui lt and
depr ess ion
over
binge
ea ting
Rader Programs has designed a unique
approach that addresses both Depression and
Compulsive Overeating, effectively ending the
devastating cycle.
Share Your Feelings. Be honest with the person and let them know how the
eating disorder is effecting your life. Try speaking from your own experience and using "I" statements.
Rather than stating "you're too thin" or "you're killing yourself" tell the person how you feel. "I'm scared
and I feel like I'm losing you" or " I heard you throwing up in the bathroom and I'm afraid" are statements
that share the feelings that you are experiencing. Avoid assigning blame, remember eating disorders are
diseases and not a matter of willpower. In addition to feelings of concern, you may be experiencing feelings of
anger and resentment. These are natural and can be expressed without making the eating disordered person
feel abandoned. "Sometimes I get so angry and frustrated seeing you slowly kill yourself, because I'm
concerned and I don't know what to do" is an example of such a statement.
More Than Their Weight. When someone you care about is losing or gaining large amounts of
weight or participating in dangerous purging activities it is difficult to not focus solely on these issues. Eating
disorders do have serious and potentially fatal medical consequences that should not be ignored. But
concentrating only on these physical issues can leave the eating disordered individual feeling misunderstood
and ignored when it comes to their emotional pain. Often, they are already obsessed with their weight,
appearance and food. Any comments regarding these issues will usually be heard as negative or may possibly
cause the person to feel guilt. Eating disordered individuals need to be related to in areas other then their
weight and eating. Make yourself available for these intimate conversations. Concern regarding the emotional
well-being of a person with an eating disorder will be paramount in their eventual recovery.
Don't Give Up. Denial of the disorder and downplaying the seriousness of their behaviors is common
with eating disordered individuals. Be prepared for strong reactions from the eating disordered person.
Anger, embarrassment, withdrawal and betrayal are all emotions that the eating disordered person may use
to hide their true feeling of terror of losing their perceived sense of control, that the eating disorder affords
them. Although, it may seem that the effort and concern you are imparting is falling on deaf ears, do not
resign yourself to the eating disorder. Possibly, the eating disordered individual is just not ready to hear the
message at that time but the next time they just might be ready. Also, the cumulative effect of hearing similar
things from different people can help get the message through.
Find Education and Support. Do not try and handle the eating disorder on your own. Eating
disorders are serious diseases that if left untreated can be deadly. Ten percent of all eating disorders lead to
death. For this reason professional support is often warranted. Make an appointment to see a counselor and
offer to accompany the person to the appointment. You can also recommend books and educational materials
on eating disorders. Many communities offer support groups for eating disorders. Overeaters' Anonymous
(OA) and the National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders (ANAD) can be found in
the phonebook or as links on our website. You may also want to consider getting support for yourself. Find a
counselor, friend or support group where you can receive support for what you are going through. The eating
disorder did not develop overnight nor will recovery take hold overnight. So remember to be patient,
recovery takes time.