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Helping Skills
Helping Skills
Facilitated By-
Jannatul Ferdous
Assistant Professor
Department of Psychology,
Jagannath University
What is Helping?
Helping is a broad term which is more specific than the term
counseling and psychotherapy.
Observation Skills
Attending Behavior
Attending Behavior concepts were first introduced by
Ivey, Millar, Hause, 1968.
a. Ownership of speech:
➢ You message (e.g., You’re not listening to me properly),
➢ I message (e.g., I am experiencing not being heard correctly)
Vocal Skills
a. Volume: loudness or softness; maintain a level of audibility that
is comfortable and easy to hear.
• Selective Attention
• Redirect Attention
• Silence or Pause
• Talk Time
Unhelpful Attending Behavior
• Interruptions
• Note-taking
• Touch
Hearing
• Simply the act of perceiving sound
• It is involuntary
• A selective activity that involves the reception and
the interpretation of auditory stimuli.
Active Passive
Listening Listening
Passive Listening
• Little more than hearing.
Encouraging
(Encourager+ Paraphrasing Summarizing
Restatement)
Encouraging
• Refers to give short responses that help
clients keep talking.
• Extended encouragers
Counselor:
“Picnic?”, “Disappointment!”, “Complain?”- (Encouragers)
“Your sister complained”, “You work hard”- (Restatement)
Paraphrasing
Reflection of content
• Regarding Time:
– Does the client consistently come late for sessions?
– Is she early or always on time?