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0013 - Script Lecture 5 - Negotiation Styles - Galdinis Persuasion
0013 - Script Lecture 5 - Negotiation Styles - Galdinis Persuasion
0013 - Script Lecture 5 - Negotiation Styles - Galdinis Persuasion
In the article you read for today, “The Language of Persuasion”, Robert
Cialdini argues that a “relationship-raising” approach to negotiation is
more effective than either a coercive or purely rational approach.
First, active listening which involves making the other party aware that
you are listening. One technique for doing so is mirroring. This involves
repeating the key words your counterparty uses in a conversation. This
signals to the other party that you are listening to them and understand
their concerns.
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As for the first people, it seems clear that we are more likely to influence
or persuade someone who trusts us, who believes we are credible,
likeable, authoritative, either because of our formal authority or because
of our experience and expertise and attractiveness.
Notice that many of the factors involved in influence also plays a role in
building relationships: liking, reciprocity, authority, consistency and
commitment, social proof, and scarcity.
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After selecting a statement from every pair you were asked to total up
the number of As, Bs, Cs, Ds and Es you recorded. And put the totals in
the “Results” column.
Then you were asked to plot the results of the survey to make a simple
graph.
How many of you have NOT completed the bargain style survey? (If not,
have them do it in the break)
First, you are going to identify yourself with one of the five major
categories: accommodating, compromising, avoiding, collaborating,
competing.
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Accommodators:
Strengths: They often have good relationship skills and are relatively
sensitive to others’ emotional states, body language and verbal signals.
People this this style are sensitive to the (emotional) needs of the other
party and are concerned to preserve the relationship.
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Accommodation as a Strategy
Competitors:
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Competitive as a Strategy:
Advantage: People with this style tend to have strong instincts about
leverage, deadlines, opening, final offers and ultimate. They have
energy and motivation in transaction negotiations where the stakes are
high.
Avoiding Type:
High Avoiders: Avoiders generally don’t like negotiating. try to avoid the
confrontational aspects of a negotiation.
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Weaknesses: could get more of what they want by asking. May result in
dissatisfaction with their situation.
Avoidance as a Strategy:
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You may remember that the story I told of the group of lawyers I was
training in Luxembourg. I was puzzled by the fact that many were
avoiders.
But given the context, this makes sense. They negotiated indirectly by
email; in cases of conflict, they appealed to objective standards or legal
precedents and in their case, the transaction costs of disputes were
high, so they had an interest in resolving the issues for their clients.
Collaborators:
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Collaborating as a Strategy:
Compromising
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Strategic:
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