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Uts - 151 Ashwin Kumar Verma - Understanding The Self - 151 Enrollment No. - 00615702123 Final Final
Uts - 151 Ashwin Kumar Verma - Understanding The Self - 151 Enrollment No. - 00615702123 Final Final
Uts - 151 Ashwin Kumar Verma - Understanding The Self - 151 Enrollment No. - 00615702123 Final Final
SESSION – 2023-2025
SEMESTER – I
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ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
“The Mediocre Teacher TELLS, The good teacher
EXPLAINS, The superior teacher DEMONSTRATES,
But a Great Teacher INSPIRES.”
I would like to thank our principal Dr. Bharti Dimri who has helped me a lot
during the process of understanding of self in a better way and motivated me a lot
to think critically about the incidents which not only helped me in the completion
of this practical file but also develop some new insights towards life.
At last but not least I would also like to thank my friends for providing support
and encouragement during the process of understanding the self and completing
the process in a very significant and fruitful manner. They were always there for
guidance and motivate me to reform into a better individual.
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SERIAL PAGE
NUMBER DATE NAME OF NUMBER
ACTIVITY/WORKSHOP
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WORKSHOP - I
SIGNIFICANT
EVENTS OF MY LIFE
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INTRODUCTION
The cycle of life always keeps moving and in due course of time many events or incidents
happen with everyone which act as so much significant to a person who had gone
through it and lived that feeling for a particular time.
If I need to quote the importance of those events in a line, then I can say that – “The
journey of life is the reflections of the episodes on the canvas of life”. Experience
and knowledge gained through living is known as life experience.
Many of my fellow mates, had shared their significant events with us:
There were several events in their life which is so close to their heart and make them
happy.
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SIGNIFICANT EVENTS OF MY LIFE
I always believed that the ending of the story is more important than its
commencement. During my schooling days, in initial classes, I was a little bit sincere
but later on, my ignorant nature started masking my sincerity and I became so much
lazy in my studies. In due course of time, my academic performance started declining
but I was not getting affected by that too much. I would say that I was lacking the
appropriate motivation to perform well in my studies.
There were my two classmates; one of whose father was a rich businessman and one was
a teacher in a School and, the whole faculty had started to give special attention to them.
That moment was so much demotivating for every student who were believing in hard
work is the key to success. Many students had started to befriend them for building a
good image in front of the teachers, but some students like me had hated this thing.
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One day my tuition teacher of Mathematics Mr. Prahalad Singh Rathore had asked
me jokingly that how many marks in board exams will be satisfactory for me and I had
answered that I will be happy if I will score 60-65 marks (around 6 CGPA) in the final
exams. Then he had scolded me that why you are settling for less, despite having the
potential of scoring good marks. Even he had warned me so many times that my marks
will get deducted only due to my carelessness and ignorant nature. He had pushed me a
lot to do better and had motivated me to do so much hard work. He had conducted so
many revisions classes and test for our batches and maintained much positive
environment.
All of his blessings and hard work get paid off when I had checked my result and I had
scored 10 CGPA in Mathematics. At that moment I had felt so much happy that I can
do something if someone has believed in me and acted as a mentor for me. And also,
after the declaration of the results, the faculty of my school called me to school for
receiving an award for good academic performance from Chairman Dr. Dhanraj
Singh during the annual day celebration of our school.
COVID–19 had affected the lives of so many people around the globe. I was Under-
Graduate in the same year of the outbreak. Lockdown had affected the lives and earnings
of everyone. The situation become more worsen in COVID Second wave. I became 20
years old in the year 2021 but remain unemployed at the same time. During my
graduation time, I started to feel ashamed for asking for the expenses of my regular
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use from my parents. Though, I was taking Tuitions but the exposure and money is
very limited to meet my requirements. My parents had never refused me for money but
I personally think that after attaining that age one should become capable of
spending on his/her requirements of their day to day life. It provides a sense of
responsibility.
After the situation got stable, I started to look for a part-time job or source of more
earnings for a sense of freedom. After so many unsuccessful trials, I started to feel
demotivated. I had become so frustrated at that particular moment. But in February
2022, my teacher Mr. Prahalad Singh Rathore (PGT Science and Mathematics in
Choudhry Baldev Singh School & owner of SANKALP ACADEMY) called me and told
me that I could teach there. He told me that I should focus on the process of learning
and he would be there for my motivation and professional development. He told me that
I just need to give my best.
I joined as faculty the very next day and it helped me to get a teaching experience in
batches and also helped me to earn some more money for my own expenses. After a
month, when I got the remuneration, first of all, I visited the temple to thank God. I also
brought some gifts for my parents as they were always there for me by doing their best
as they can. That day, my father told me to be always faithful to this profession. He
also said not to focus only on earning money but also to work hard to get onto the
next level and on the character building.
That day is so much close to my heart as I not only got sense of responsibility but
also got appreciation from my parents.
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Event 3: Admission in Bachelor of Education
Doing a drop during the period of education is like cutting the feathers of the birds and
it became so much difficult for me to get focused on a particular thing after exams of my
final year of graduation. I subscribed Adda 24*7 course for SSC CGL preparation but
I was not able to focus and work on it with my full potential and around August 2022,
my final year graduation results declared. I can say that it is so much confusing to opt
for a particular option for the betterment of the life and to get the best opportunities.
During my early childhood, I wanted to be get in NDA but during early adolescent
period, I had seen the character of an IAS officer in a movie named Shaadi Mein Zaroor
Aana and then, I always wanted to be an IAS officer to bring out some changes in
society. But it is true that “Man Proposes but God Disposes, as God always have a
better plan for us.” I personally felt becoming an IAS was much difficult for me as
I was not getting sufficient time to prepare. Preparing for SSC CGL was much
problematic for me, so preparing for UPSC was absolutely out of my reach. At that
time, I realized that wasting time can hinder the development of the mindset of the
individuals and society.
As, I was teaching in SANKALP ACADEMY and taking private tuitions, So, in due
course of time, I had started to develop an interest in the teaching field as it is the best
way to bring that change in society to a large extent and I decided to become a teacher.
I simply filled GGSIPU B.Ed. COMMON ENTRANCE TEST form and started
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studying for the entrance test of the Bachelor of Education programme. I can say that
all of my hard work gets paid off when I had secured a good Rank in the entrance test.
All my batch mates were very friendly. Within few days, we got along well.
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WORKSHOP - II
LEARNING TO
OBSERVE
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What is Observation?
Being a pupil-teacher, observation is an integral part for all of us in the learning process
for the fruitful transition into the better teachers. For making all of us better observers,
our teacher in charge Dr. Alka Narula had conducted a workshop.
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Observation on Nature
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7. Recreation and Relaxation: Observing nature provides relaxation and stress
relief, allowing individuals to unwind and rejuvenate in natural surroundings.
8. Renewable Resources: Understanding how natural resources like water, wind,
and sunlight work is essential for harnessing renewable energy and reducing our
reliance on fossil fuels.
9. Agricultural Practices: Farmers rely on observations of nature, like seasonal
changes and animal behaviours, to make informed decisions regarding planting,
harvesting, and managing their crops.
10.Conservation Efforts: Observation of threatened and endangered species in
their natural habitats is crucial for developing effective conservation strategies to
protect these species.
11.Environmental Education: Nature observation enhances environmental
education, helping people of all ages become more aware of environmental issues
and inspiring them to take action to protect the planet.
12.Ecotourism: The observation of nature in its pristine form attracts tourists,
generating revenue for local communities and promoting the conservation of
natural areas.
13.Pollination and Food Production: Understanding the role of pollinators in
nature is vital for ensuring food production through healthy ecosystems and
sustainable agriculture.
14.Mental and Physical Health: Spending time in nature and observing its beauty
has been shown to have positive effects on mental and physical well-being,
reducing stress and promoting overall health.
15.Innovation and Biomimicry: Observing nature has inspired innovative designs
and technologies through biomimicry, where human-made solutions are modeled
after natural processes and structures, leading to more sustainable and efficient
products.
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Observation of Situation Around Me while Travelling
I was very disappointed due to this and tried to find out the baggage with my full
potential but was in vain. That night was sleepless for me; but the next morning, I
found my bag as I approached the holy site. It was a miracle and I experienced God’s
grace at that time.
The atmosphere was serene, with lush green trees and the sound of gentle breezes. It
felt like nature itself was welcoming me to this sacred abode.
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The temple stood tall and magnificent, with intricate carvings and a sense of
divinity in the air. I observed devotees making their way to the temple, some reciting
prayers, and others offering flowers and incense. It was a beautiful sight, a testament to
the faith and devotion that brought people from all walks of life here.
Inside the temple, I watched as the priests performed rituals and ceremonies with
utmost devotion. The smell of incense and the soft chants created an aura of peace
and spirituality. I joined in, bowing my head and offering my own prayers to Lord
Shiva.
The surrounding area had a calm and peaceful vibe. I noticed pilgrims sitting under
trees, reflecting on their spiritual journey. Many shared stories of their connection with
Lord Shiva and the miracles they believed he had bestowed upon them.
As the sun set, I found a quiet spot overlooking the temple. The golden hues of the
twilight bathed the temple in a warm, ethereal light. It was a moment of profound
beauty and tranquility.
During my visit, I observed the locals' kindness and hospitality. They welcomed me
with open hearts, sharing their stories and traditions. It was a reminder of the unity and
inclusiveness that spirituality brings to people, regardless of their backgrounds.
My journey to Baba Dhaam Devgarh was not just about reaching a destination; it was a
soul-stirring experience. It taught me the importance of faith, spirituality, and the power
of connecting with something greater than oneself. The simple yet profound
observations I made during my visit will remain etched in my memory, reminding me
of the peacefulness and divinity of this special place.
My visit to Baba Dhaam Devgarh had been more than just a physical journey; it
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was a journey of the soul. I had observed the unwavering faith of people, the
timeless rituals of worship, and the profound connection between the human spirit
and the divine. This sacred place had left an indelible mark on my heart,
reminding me of the importance of faith and spiritual exploration.
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Active Listening: Throughout the conversation, active listening played a
pivotal role. I made a conscious effort to listen to Kalpana without
interrupting, providing her with the space to express her thoughts and
opinions. This not only demonstrated respect but also fostered an
environment where Kalpana felt comfortable sharing her perspectives.
Empathy and Understanding: One of the key learning outcomes was the
development of empathy and understanding. By listening actively and
putting myself in Kalpana's shoes, I gained insight into her perspective,
challenges, and aspirations. This understanding not only enhanced our
collaboration but also created a more positive and supportive environment.
Learning Outcomes:
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1. Improved Collaboration: The one-to-one communication experience
strengthened our collaborative efforts by fostering open dialogue and a
shared understanding of goals.
2. Enhanced Conflict Resolution Skills: Confronting and resolving
conflicts in a constructive manner contributed to a more effective and
harmonious friendship.
3. Increased Empathy: Actively listening and understanding Kalpana’s
perspective improved my ability to empathize, fostering a more
inclusive and supportive study culture.
4. Building Trust: Transparent communication and active listening, built
trust between Kalpana and me, establishing a foundation for future
collaboration and problem-solving.
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Observation from Communication: One to Many
Guidance and Counselling Session for Students
Learning Outcomes:
1. Doubt Clarification: The session facilitated the clarification of
doubts, ensuring that students had a clear understanding of the subject
matter, which is crucial for effective preparation.
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2. Strategic Preparation: Students gained insights into effective
examination strategies, including time management, understanding
exam patterns, and the importance of regular practice.
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WORKSHOP - III
MINDFULNESS
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“Mindfulness is not difficult. We just need to remember to do it.”
— Sharon Salzberg
Mindfulness is a unique type of meditation in which individuals concentrate on being acutely aware
of what they are sensing and feeling in the present moment, without any specific judgement or
interpretation. According to many experts, the physical practice of yoga may include a mindfulness
component. Mindfulness and yoga are complementary activities that can help each other. As a
result,yoga can be thought of as a mindfulness practice and vice versa.
IMPORTANCE
Mindfulness is the stage in which individuals use their all senses to bring awareness to
them.
Mindfulness techniques can aid in the regulation of emotions, as well as the reduction of
stress, anxiety, and sadness.
It increases the ability to relate to others and with self with compassion, acceptance, and
kindness.
Self-control, objectivity, affect tolerance, increased flexibility, equanimity, greater
attention and mental clarity, and emotional intelligence are some major benefits of
mindfulness.
Mindfulness improves well-being and increasing the capacity for mindfulness supports
many attitudes that contribute to a satisfying life.
Mindfulness often leads to bringing some positive changes in a human that eventually help in
the betterment of the individual.
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To make understand all of us about the basics and importance of
mindfulness in life, our teacher-in-charge Dr. Alka Narula had conducted
activities on Yoga and meditation with the help of a Yoga Instructor named
Rakesh Drall.
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3. Mindful Walking: Walk slowly, being fully present with each step.
4. Mindful Eating: Eat slowly, savoring each bite and being aware of the experience.
5. Guided Meditation: Listen to a guided session focusing on breath, visualization, or relaxation.
6. Mindful Observation: Observe an object or scene with full attention to details.
7. Gratitude Journaling: Reflect on and write down things you are thankful for.
8. Loving-Kindness Meditation: Cultivate feelings of love and compassion.
9. Mindful Coloring: Engage in coloring, focusing on colors and the act itself.
10. Yoga: Practice mindful yoga, connecting breath with movement.
11. Mindful Listening: Focus on sounds in your environment without judgment.
12. Breath Counting: Count breath cycles to enhance focus and awareness.
13. Progressive Muscle Relaxation: Tense and relax muscle groups systematically.
14. Mindful Tea or Coffee Drinking: Engage in the sensory experience of drinking.
15. Mindful Noticing: Pause to observe and appreciate your surroundings.
16. Mindful Technology Use: Be intentional and present when using technology.
17. Grounding Techniques: Acknowledge and engage with the present moment.
18. Mindful Self-Compassion: Accept thoughts and feelings without judgment.
19. Mindful Breathing with Affirmations: Combine breath awareness with positive affirmations.
20. Nature Mindfulness: Spend time in nature, connecting with sights and sounds.
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Mindfulness in Cognitive Development
Mindfulness can play a significant role in decision-making by promoting a heightened awareness of the
present moment, fostering a clearer understanding of one's thoughts and emotions, and enhancing
overall cognitive abilities. Here are several ways in which mindfulness can be applied to decision-
making:
1. Increased Awareness:
• Mindfulness encourages individuals to be fully present and engaged in the current
moment. This heightened awareness can help decision-makers recognize their
thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations in real-time.
• Being mindful allows individuals to step back from automatic reactions and impulsive
decision-making, providing the mental space to consider options more carefully.
2. Reduced Stress and Anxiety:
• Mindfulness practices, such as meditation and deep breathing, can help reduce stress
and anxiety. Decision-making under stress can lead to impulsive choices or an inability
to see the bigger picture.
• By managing stress through mindfulness, individuals can approach decision-making
with a calmer and clearer mindset.
3. Improved Focus and Concentration:
• Mindfulness practices enhance concentration and focus by training the mind to stay
present. This heightened focus can lead to better analysis of available information and
improved decision outcomes.
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• Improved attention to the task at hand enables individuals to gather relevant data and
consider various factors before making decisions.
4. Emotional Regulation:
• Mindfulness helps individuals become more attuned to their emotions without being
overwhelmed by them. This emotional regulation is crucial in decision-making, as it
allows for a more rational and balanced assessment of options.
• By acknowledging and understanding emotions, decision-makers can make choices that
align with their values and long-term goals.
5. Enhanced Cognitive Flexibility:
• Mindfulness practices promote cognitive flexibility, which is the ability to adapt and
consider alternative perspectives. This flexibility is valuable in decision-making,
especially in complex situations with multiple variables.
• A mindful approach encourages individuals to view situations from different angles and
consider diverse solutions, leading to more informed and adaptive decisions.
6. Prevention of Decision Fatigue:
• Mindfulness helps individuals manage mental fatigue and prevent decision fatigue,
which occurs when the quality of decisions deteriorates after making a series of
choices.
• By incorporating mindfulness into daily routines, decision-makers can maintain mental
stamina and make better choices over time.
7. Long-Term Perspective:
• Mindfulness encourages individuals to focus on the present moment while considering
the long-term consequences of their decisions. This can prevent impulsive choices that
may have negative repercussions in the future.
• The ability to connect present actions with future outcomes promotes a more strategic
and thoughtful approach to decision-making.
Incorporating mindfulness into decision-making processes can lead to more thoughtful, informed, and
resilient choices, ultimately contributing to personal and professional well-being.
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Mindfulness in decision making
Mindfulness is like having a mental superpower for making better decisions. It helps you stay focused
on the present moment, reducing stress and keeping your emotions in check. This superpower also
improves your concentration, making it easier to think clearly. By being mindful, you can adapt to
different situations, avoid decision fatigue, and see the bigger picture. It's like having a calm and wise
advisor in your mind, guiding you to make choices that align with your goals and values.
1. Present Moment Awareness:
• Mindfulness helps you stay fully present, avoiding distractions and focusing on the
current decision at hand.
2. Emotional Balance:
• By understanding and regulating your emotions, mindfulness prevents impulsive
decisions driven by stress or anxiety.
3. Clearer Thinking:
• Regular mindfulness practices sharpen your mind, enhancing concentration and
improving your ability to analyze information effectively.
4. Reduced Decision Fatigue:
• Mindfulness prevents mental exhaustion, ensuring that the quality of your decisions
remains high over time.
5. Improved Adaptability:
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• Enhances cognitive flexibility, enabling you to consider various perspectives and adapt
to changing circumstances.
6. Long-Term Perspective:
• Encourages thinking about the future consequences of decisions, promoting strategic
choices aligned with your goals.
7. Enhanced Well-being:
• Overall, mindfulness contributes to a calmer mindset, reducing stress and supporting a
more thoughtful and balanced approach to decision-making.
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BENEFITS OF YOGA AND MEDITATION
Benefits of Yoga:
1. Improved Flexibility: Yoga involves various poses that enhance the flexibility of muscles and
joints.
2. Increased Strength: Many yoga poses require the engagement of different muscle groups,
contributing to overall strength.
3. Enhanced Balance: Balancing poses in yoga help improve stability and coordination.
4. Better Posture: Yoga promotes awareness of body alignment, leading to improved posture.
5. Stress Reduction: Mindful breathing and relaxation in yoga can significantly reduce stress
levels.
6. Mental Clarity: Regular practice of yoga is associated with increased mental focus and clarity.
7. Emotional Well-being: Yoga encourages mindfulness, aiding in emotional balance and
resilience.
8. Pain Relief: Yoga can alleviate chronic pain conditions and improve mobility.
9. Cardiovascular Health: Certain yoga styles incorporate aerobic elements, benefiting heart
health.
10. Improved Breathing: Pranayama (breath control) exercises in yoga enhance lung capacity and
respiratory function.
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Benefits of Meditation:
1. Stress Reduction: Meditation helps activate the relaxation response, reducing stress
hormones.
2. Enhanced Emotional Well-being: Regular meditation is linked to improved mood and
emotional stability.
3. Better Focus and Concentration: Meditation practices cultivate sustained attention and mental
focus.
4. Improved Sleep: Mindfulness meditation can contribute to better sleep quality and duration.
5. Anxiety Reduction: Meditation techniques are effective in managing symptoms of anxiety
disorders.
6. Increased Self-awareness: Meditation encourages self-reflection and heightened awareness of
thoughts and feelings.
7. Pain Management: Mindfulness meditation has been shown to reduce the perception of pain.
8. Lower Blood Pressure: Meditation can contribute to lower blood pressure and overall
cardiovascular health.
9. Mind-Body Connection: Meditation fosters a deeper connection between the mind and body.
10. Enhanced Overall Well-being: Regular meditation is associated with a sense of calm, balance,
and overall well-being.
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Benefits of Breathing Exercises:
1. Stress Reduction: Breathing exercises activate the relaxation response, reducing stress and
promoting calmness.
2. Improved Focus: Deep, mindful breathing enhances concentration and mental clarity.
3. Enhanced Respiratory Function: Breathing exercises increase lung capacity and improve
overall respiratory health.
4. Anxiety Management: Controlled breathing is effective in managing symptoms of anxiety and
panic disorders.
5. Better Sleep: Relaxing breathing techniques contribute to improved sleep quality.
6. Emotional Regulation: Conscious breathing helps regulate emotions and promotes emotional
balance.
7. Increased Energy: Deep breathing increases oxygen supply, providing a natural energy boost.
8. Pain Management: Breathing exercises can be used as a tool to cope with and alleviate pain.
9. Lower Blood Pressure: Certain breathing techniques contribute to lower blood pressure and
cardiovascular health.
10. Mindfulness and Presence: Breathing exercises promote mindfulness, grounding individuals in
the present moment.
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Group exercises
Group exercise refers to physical activities or fitness classes that individuals perform together as a
group, led by an instructor or trainer. These sessions typically take place in a designated fitness
facility, community center, or outdoor space. Group exercise can encompass a wide range of
activities, including cardiovascular workouts, strength training, flexibility exercises, and mind-body
practices like yoga.
1. Community Support: Group yoga fosters a sense of community, providing support and
motivation.
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2. Social Interaction: Group settings encourage socialization, reducing feelings of isolation.
3. Motivation: Practicing yoga in a group can boost motivation and commitment to regular
practice.
4. Structured Environment: Group classes provide a structured and guided environment for yoga
practice.
5. Variety of Skill Levels: Group classes accommodate various skill levels, making yoga accessible
to all.
6. Camaraderie: Shared experiences in a group setting create a sense of camaraderie among
participants.
7. Accountability: Group dynamics promote accountability, encouraging regular attendance.
8. Diverse Perspectives: Group classes offer diverse teaching styles and perspectives from
different instructors.
9. Enhanced Learning: Participants can learn from observing and interacting with others in the
group.
10. Increased Enjoyment: The collective energy in group yoga classes often makes the practice
more enjoyable and engaging.
Steps:
1. Pranamasana (Prayer Pose): Stand with feet together, palms in prayer
position.
2. Hasta Uttanasana (Raised Arms Pose): Inhale, lift arms overhead, arch
back slightly.
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3. Hasta Padasana (Hand to Foot Pose): Exhale, bend forward, touch the
floor or shins.
4. Ashwa Sanchalanasana (Equestrian Pose): Inhale, step right leg back,
look up.
5. Dandasana (Stick Pose): Hold breath, bring left leg back, body in a
straight line.
6. Ashtanga Namaskara (Salute with Eight Parts): Knees, chest, chin on
the floor, hips up.
7. Bhujangasana (Cobra Pose): Inhale, arch back, lift chest, look up.
8. Parvatasana (Mountain Pose): Exhale, lift hips, bring head between
arms, heels on the ground.
9. Ashwa Sanchalanasana (Equestrian Pose): Inhale, step right leg
forward, look up.
10. Hasta Padasana (Hand to Foot Pose): Exhale, bend forward,
touch the floor or shins.
11. Hasta Uttanasana (Raised Arms Pose): Inhale, lift arms overhead,
arch back slightly.
12. Pranamasana (Prayer Pose): Exhale, return to the starting
position.
Precautions:
• Individuals with back issues should practice under supervision.
• People with high blood pressure or heart conditions should modify as
needed.
• Pregnant women should consult a healthcare provider before
practicing.
Benefits:
1. Full-body Workout: Tones and strengthens various muscle groups.
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2. Improved Flexibility: Enhances flexibility in the spine, legs, and
shoulders.
3. Boosts Circulation: Increases blood flow throughout the body.
4. Stress Reduction: Promotes relaxation and reduces stress levels.
5. Balances the Nervous System: Supports a harmonious nervous system
function.
6. Aids Digestion: Stimulates abdominal organs, aiding digestion.
7. Enhances Respiratory Function: Improves lung capacity and breathing.
8. Increases Energy: Boosts overall energy and vitality.
9. Weight Management: Contributes to weight loss and body toning.
10. Mind-Body Connection: Cultivates mindfulness and mental focus.
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Steps:
1. Starting Position: Stand with your feet together, arms by your sides,
and weight evenly distributed.
2. Alignment: Engage your thighs, lift your chest, and roll your shoulders
back. Palms can face forward.
3. Grounding: Press into the ground with all parts of your feet,
maintaining a firm connection.
4. Elongate the Spine: Lengthen your spine upward while relaxing your
shoulders away from your ears.
5. Gaze Forward: Fix your gaze straight ahead, finding a focal point to
maintain balance.
6. Breathing: Inhale deeply, feeling the expansion of your chest and
abdomen.
7. Hold the Pose: Stay in Tadasana for 30 seconds to 1 minute,
maintaining steady breath.
Precautions:
• If you have low blood pressure, avoid locking your knees and keep a
slight bend.
• Individuals with neck issues should keep the head in a neutral position
rather than tilting it back.
Benefits:
1. Posture Improvement: Tadasana helps correct and improve overall
posture.
2. Strengthens Legs: It strengthens the thighs, knees, and ankles.
3. Stability: Promotes stability and balance through the entire body.
4. Awareness of Alignment: Enhances awareness of body alignment and
symmetry.
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5. Energizing: Activates the entire body, promoting a sense of energy and
vitality.
6. Focused Mind: Helps calm the mind and improve concentration.
7. Sciatica Relief: Can provide relief from sciatica discomfort.
8. Digestive Benefits: Aids digestion and regulates the function of
abdominal organs.
9. Reduced Flat Feet: Tadasana can help in reducing flat feet and
improving arches.
10. Prepares for Standing Poses: Serves as a foundational pose for
various standing yoga poses.
3) Shirshasana (Headstand):
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Steps:
1. Preparation: Begin on your hands and knees. Interlace your fingers and
place your forearms on the mat.
2. Placement of Head: Rest the crown of your head on the mat, creating a
triangle with your forearms.
3. Lifting the Hips: Lift your hips toward the ceiling, straightening your
legs and walking your feet in.
4. Stabilize: Engage your core and gradually lift your legs off the ground,
bringing them overhead.
5. Straight Alignment: Extend your legs fully, keeping them in line with
your torso.
6. Balancing: Find a balanced position, with weight evenly distributed on
your forearms and head.
7. Hold the Pose: Hold the headstand for a duration suitable for your
comfort, gradually extending over time.
8. Exiting the Pose: Lower your legs slowly, returning to the starting
position with control.
Precautions:
• Avoid practicing headstand if you have neck injuries or issues.
• Individuals with high blood pressure, heart conditions, or eye problems
should consult a healthcare professional before attempting.
• It's advisable to learn this pose under the guidance of an experienced
yoga instructor.
Benefits:
1. Improved Blood Circulation: Shirshasana enhances blood flow to the
head and brain.
2. Strengthens Upper Body: Builds strength in the shoulders, arms, and
upper back.
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3. Increased Focus and Concentration: The inversion promotes mental
clarity and concentration.
4. Stimulates Endocrine System: Helps in balancing and stimulating the
endocrine glands.
5. Enhanced Core Strength: Engages and strengthens the muscles of the
core.
6. Relieves Stress: Inversions are known for their stress-relieving effects.
7. Improved Balance: Challenges and improves overall balance.
8. Lymphatic System Detoxification: Assists in lymphatic drainage and
detoxification.
9. Therapeutic for Asthma: Can be therapeutic for mild asthma.
10. Increased Mindfulness: Requires full concentration, promoting
mindfulness and presence.
Steps:
1. Sit Comfortably: Start by sitting on the mat with your legs extended.
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2. Cross-Legged Position: Bring one foot onto the opposite thigh, with the
sole facing upward.
3. Second Leg Placement: Place the other foot on the opposite thigh in
the same manner.
4. Alignment: Ensure your knees are on the mat and both feet are
comfortably placed on the thighs.
5. Spine Straightening: Straighten your spine, keeping your shoulders
relaxed.
6. Hands Placement: Rest your hands on your knees with palms facing up
or down.
7. Chin Mudra: Optionally, touch your index finger to your thumb,
forming a circle.
8. Breathing: Breathe deeply and evenly, maintaining a calm and relaxed
state.
9. Gaze Forward: Focus your gaze on a point ahead or close your eyes for
a meditative experience.
10. Hold the Pose: Hold the Lotus Pose for a comfortable duration.
Precautions:
• Avoid practicing Lotus Pose if you have knee or ankle injuries.
• Individuals with hip issues should approach this pose with caution.
• It's advisable to warm up your hips and knees before attempting Lotus
Pose.
Benefits:
1. Improved Posture: Lotus Pose promotes an upright and aligned spine.
2. Enhanced Flexibility: Increases flexibility in the hips, knees, and ankles.
3. Calming Effect: Induces a sense of calmness and tranquility.
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4. Stimulates Digestive Organs: Aids digestion and massages abdominal
organs.
5. Meditative Stability: Creates a stable base for meditation and
mindfulness practices.
6. Strengthens Back: Engages and strengthens the muscles of the back.
7. Opens the Hips: Helps in opening and releasing tension from the hip
joints.
8. Therapeutic for Sciatica: Can be therapeutic for those with sciatica
discomfort.
9. Balancing Energy: Aligns and balances the flow of energy in the body.
10. Cultivates Mindfulness: Supports the cultivation of mindfulness
and inner awareness.
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Steps:
1. Kneel Down: Start by kneeling on the mat with your thighs and knees
close together.
2. Sit Back: Sit back on your heels, keeping your spine straight.
3. Feet Placement: Place your feet slightly apart, with the tops pointing
backward.
4. Hands Resting: Rest your hands on your thighs, palms facing
downward.
5. Relax Shoulders: Relax your shoulders and keep your head and neck
aligned with the spine.
6. Breathing: Breathe deeply and naturally, maintaining a calm and
relaxed breath.
7. Gaze Forward: Keep your gaze forward, looking straight ahead.
8. Hold the Pose: Hold the Thunderbolt Pose for a comfortable duration.
Precautions:
• Individuals with knee or ankle injuries should approach this pose with
caution.
• Those with severe digestive issues or hernia should avoid practicing
Vajrasana.
• It's advisable to practice this pose on a soft surface or with a folded
blanket under the knees.
Benefits:
1. Improved Digestion: Vajrasana aids digestion and reduces acidity.
2. Relieves Gas and Bloating: Helps in relieving gas and bloating.
3. Strengthens Pelvic Muscles: Engages and strengthens pelvic muscles.
4. Enhanced Posture: Promotes an upright and aligned posture.
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5. Reduces Lower Back Pain: Can help in reducing lower back pain.
6. Calms the Mind: Induces a sense of calmness and mental relaxation.
7. Stimulates Vagus Nerve: Activates the vagus nerve, supporting overall
well-being.
8. Cultivates Mindfulness: Aids in cultivating mindfulness and inner
awareness.
9. Improves Blood Circulation: Enhances blood circulation in the lower
part of the body.
10. Accessible Seated Pose: Provides a comfortable and accessible
seated pose for meditation and pranayama.
Steps:
1. Lie Down: Start by lying on your back on a comfortable surface, legs
extended, and arms by your sides.
2. Feet Relaxed: Let your feet fall outward, allowing them to naturally
relax.
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3. Arms Position: Place your arms slightly away from your body, palms
facing up.
4. Relaxation: Close your eyes and let your entire body relax, releasing
tension.
5. Breathing Awareness: Bring attention to your breath, breathing
naturally without force.
6. Scan Your Body: Mentally scan your body from head to toe,
consciously relaxing each part.
7. Let Go of Thoughts: Allow thoughts to come and go without attaching
to them.
8. Deep Relaxation: Sink into a state of deep relaxation, letting go of any
muscular or mental tension.
9. Stay Present: Remain in Shavasana for 5-10 minutes or longer, staying
present and at ease.
10. Gentle Awakening: When ready to end, slowly deepen your
breath, wiggle your fingers and toes, and gradually sit up.
Precautions:
• Individuals with certain medical conditions may need to use props for
comfort.
• If you have lower back issues, you can place a bolster or cushion under
your knees.
• Pregnant women should modify by lying on their side or use props for
support.
Benefits:
1. Stress Reduction: Shavasana is highly effective in reducing stress and
promoting relaxation.
2. Improved Sleep: Regular practice can contribute to better sleep
quality.
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3. Muscle Relaxation: Promotes the release of muscular tension
throughout the body.
4. Mental Clarity: Helps clear the mind and improve mental focus.
5. Lower Blood Pressure: Supports the reduction of blood pressure.
6. Emotional Balance: Fosters emotional balance and a sense of inner
peace.
7. Enhanced Self-Awareness: Cultivates awareness of the body, breath,
and mental state.
8. Fatigue Relief: Provides relief from physical and mental fatigue.
9. Integration of Asana Practice: Allows the body to integrate the
benefits of the preceding yoga practice.
10. Mindfulness Cultivation: Supports the cultivation of mindfulness
and present-moment awareness.
Steps:
1. Starting Position: Sit on the mat with your legs extended.
2. Bend Right Knee: Bring your right knee over the left, placing the foot
beside the left hip.
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3. Cross Legs: Cross your left leg over the right, placing the left foot
beside the right hip.
4. Align Knees: Align the knees directly on top of each other.
5. Arms Positioning: Raise your right arm overhead, bending the elbow
and reaching down the center of your back.
6. Left Arm Positioning: Extend your left arm to the side and bend the
elbow, reaching up the back.
7. Clasp Hands: Attempt to clasp your fingers behind your back, bringing
the hands together.
8. Straighten Spine: Lengthen your spine, keeping your chest open and
shoulders relaxed.
9. Gaze Forward: Look straight ahead, keeping your neck in a neutral
position.
10. Hold the Pose: Maintain the Cow Face Pose for a comfortable
duration, breathing deeply.
Precautions:
• Approach Gomukhasana with caution if you have shoulder or knee
injuries.
• If you are unable to clasp your hands, use a strap or hold a cloth
between your hands.
Benefits:
1. Hip Opening: Stretches and opens the hips, addressing tightness.
2. Shoulder Stretch: Provides a deep stretch for the shoulders and upper
arms.
3. Spine Alignment: Promotes alignment and lengthening of the spine.
4. Chest Expansion: Opens the chest, improving respiratory function.
5. Therapeutic for Sciatica: Can be therapeutic for those with sciatica
discomfort.
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6. Improved Posture: Engages and strengthens the muscles that support
good posture.
7. Stress Reduction: Encourages relaxation and helps reduce stress.
8. Balances Energy: Aligns and balances the flow of energy in the body.
9. Enhanced Concentration: The meditative nature of the pose can
enhance mental focus.
10. Improved Digestion: Aids in digestion by massaging abdominal
organs.
Steps:
1. Starting Position: Begin by standing with your feet about 3 to 4 feet
apart, toes pointing forward.
2. Arm Extension: Extend your arms parallel to the floor, palms facing
down.
3. Alignment: Turn your right foot out 90 degrees and the left foot slightly
inward.
4. Bending to the Right: Inhale and reach your right hand towards the
right, lowering it to your shin, ankle, or the floor.
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5. Arm Position: Extend your left arm straight up, creating a straight line
from the left fingertips to the left foot.
6. Gaze: Turn your head to gaze at your left thumb or look straight ahead,
depending on your neck comfort.
7. Hip Alignment: Keep your hips in line with each other, avoiding tilting
forward or backward.
8. Hold the Pose: Hold the Triangle Pose for 30 seconds to 1 minute,
maintaining steady breathing.
9. Repeat on the Other Side: Come back to the starting position and
repeat the steps on the opposite side.
Precautions:
• Individuals with neck problems should keep the gaze straight ahead or
down.
• People with low blood pressure should be cautious and avoid
overextending.
Benefits:
1. Stretches and Strengthens: Triangle Pose stretches and strengthens
the thighs, knees, and ankles.
2. Improves Digestion: The twist in the pose aids in better digestion and
stimulates abdominal organs.
3. Enhances Balance: Helps improve balance and stability.
4. Stimulates Abdominal Organs: Massages and stimulates the
abdominal organs.
5. Alleviates Back Pain: Triangle Pose can provide relief from mild back
pain.
6. Strengthens Core Muscles: Engages and strengthens the muscles of
the core.
7. Increases Hip Flexibility: Opens and increases flexibility in the hips.
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8. Reduces Stress: The pose can help alleviate stress and calm the mind.
9. Improves Focus: Holding the pose requires concentration, enhancing
mental focus.
10. Aligns the Spine: Contributes to better spinal alignment and
posture.
Steps:
1. Starting Position: Lie on your stomach with legs extended, tops of the
feet resting on the mat.
2. Hand Placement: Place your hands beneath your shoulders, fingers
pointing forward.
3. Elbow Tuck: Elbows should be tucked close to the body.
4. Inhale and Lift: Inhale, press into your hands, and lift your chest off the
mat.
5. Gaze Forward: Lift your head and gaze forward, keeping your neck in
line with the spine.
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6. Shoulder Blades Together: Draw your shoulder blades together,
opening the chest.
7. Engage Core: Engage your core muscles to support the lower back.
8. Legs Activation: Press the tops of your feet into the mat to engage the
leg muscles.
9. Breathing: Breathe deeply while holding the pose.
10. Hold the Pose: Maintain the Cobra Pose for a comfortable
duration.
Precautions:
• Avoid overextending the neck; keep the gaze forward to protect the
cervical spine.
• Individuals with back injuries or herniated discs should practice with
caution.
• Pregnant women should modify the pose by keeping the belly on the
mat.
Benefits:
1. Strengthens Back Muscles: Bhujangasana strengthens the muscles
along the spine and lower back.
2. Improves Posture: Regular practice helps in improving overall posture.
3. Stretches Abdominals: Stretches and strengthens the abdominal
muscles.
4. Chest Opening: Opens up and expands the chest, improving lung
capacity.
5. Relieves Stress: The pose can have a calming effect on the mind and
reduce stress.
6. Stimulates Abdominal Organs: Aids digestion and stimulates
abdominal organs.
7. Increases Flexibility: Enhances flexibility in the spine and shoulders.
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8. Alleviates Sciatica: Can provide relief for individuals with mild sciatica.
9. Elevates Mood: Backbends like Cobra Pose are associated with an
uplifted mood.
10. Energizes the Body: Activates and energizes the entire body,
promoting vitality.
Steps:
1. Starting Position: Begin on your hands and knees in a tabletop
position.
2. Hand Placement: Align your wrists under your shoulders and your
knees under your hips.
3. Tuck Toes: Tuck your toes, lifting your hips toward the ceiling.
4. Straighten Legs: Straighten your legs, bringing your heels toward the
mat (they don't need to touch).
5. Lengthen the Spine: Extend your spine, reaching your tailbone toward
the ceiling.
6. Head Position: Keep your head between your arms, facing toward your
knees.
7. Engage Core Muscles: Engage your core muscles for stability.
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8. Heels Grounded: Ideally, keep your heels grounded, but it's okay if
they don't touch the mat.
9. Hold the Pose: Hold Downward-Facing Dog for 30 seconds to 1 minute,
focusing on your breath.
Precautions:
• Individuals with wrist or shoulder issues should be cautious and modify
as needed.
• If you have high blood pressure, eye problems, or are pregnant, avoid
keeping your head below your heart for an extended period.
Benefits:
1. Full Body Stretch: Stretches and lengthens the entire body, from heels
to fingertips.
2. Strengthens Core Muscles: Engages and strengthens the muscles of
the core and arms.
3. Improves Posture: Aids in improving overall posture and alignment.
4. Enhances Flexibility: Increases flexibility in the shoulders, hamstrings,
and calves.
5. Relieves Tension: Relieves tension in the back, neck, and shoulders.
6. Energizing: Provides an invigorating stretch, promoting a sense of
energy.
7. Stimulates Circulation: Facilitates blood flow and circulation
throughout the body.
8. Calms the Mind: Offers a mild inversion, promoting a calming effect on
the nervous system.
9. Builds Focus and Concentration: Requires concentration, contributing
to mental focus.
10. Prepares for Standing Poses: Serves as a foundational pose, often
used as a transition in yoga sequences.
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CONCLUSION - MINDFULNESS
Mindfulness is crucial for our well-being as it helps us
stay present and focused on the current moment. It
involves paying attention to our thoughts, feelings, and
surroundings without judgment. By practicing
mindfulness, we can reduce stress, anxiety, and
negative emotions. It allows us to make better
decisions, improve concentration, and enhance overall
mental health. Mindfulness also promotes self-
awareness, helping us understand our emotions and
reactions. It encourages a positive perspective,
fostering gratitude and a sense of fulfillment.
Incorporating mindfulness into daily life can lead to
better relationships and a deeper appreciation for the
simple joys of each moment. Ultimately, mindfulness
empowers us to navigate life's challenges with greater
resilience and a more balanced mindset.
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WORKSHOP - IV
UNDERSTANDING
WORKING IN GROUP
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Pradeep Memorial Comprehensive College of Education, Kirari organised a workshop
on “Understanding Working in Groups”, followed by doing some theatre activities on
Tuesday, October 10, 2023. The workshop is part of the Bachelor of Education
curriculum, paper code 151, titled “Understanding the Self”. The main purpose of the
workshop was to teach us about the importance and effectiveness of teamwork in Education
and how group work help in teaching and learning.
This session was for the improvisation of students by performing a skit or play. There were
4 groups whose topics were :-
All students took part in the activities held by the Teacher-in-charge Dr. Alka Narula and
the whole class was very much involved in the discussion for the whole time. Overall the
entire workshop was fun as well as interesting, unique, knowledgeable, creative and very
involving for the students.
This workshop is done to inculcate the importance of the group work in the pupil teachers
which may help them in future to maximize the overall development of the students.
This workshop had conducted so many interesting activities which are explained further.
SUPERSTITION
Superstition refers to beliefs or practices that are not based on scientific
evidence but are often rooted in tradition, or cultural habits. People may
believe in superstitions due to cultural, religious, or societal influences, even
if there is no rational explanation for them.
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In the context of India, superstitions can have harmful consequences in
various ways:
1. Social Practices: Superstitions can lead to harmful social practices, such
as the mistreatment of certain individuals or groups based on
superstitious beliefs. For example, in some cases, people might be
ostracized or discriminated against because they are believed to bring
bad luck.
2. Exploitation: Some individuals take advantage of superstitions for
personal gain. They may pose as healers, claiming to have supernatural
powers, and exploit vulnerable people by offering supposed remedies
or solutions in exchange for money.
3. Medical Neglect: Superstitions can sometimes hinder proper medical
care. People may rely on superstitious practices instead of seeking
professional medical help, leading to delayed or inadequate treatment
for illnesses.
4. Violence: In extreme cases, superstitions can lead to violence. For
example, there have been instances of witch-hunting, where
individuals, especially women, are accused of practicing witchcraft
based on superstitious beliefs and subjected to violence or even killed.
5. Educational Impact: Superstitions can affect education by promoting
irrational thinking and discouraging a scientific mindset. This can hinder
intellectual growth and the development of critical thinking skills,
which are crucial for societal progress.
6. Economic Consequences: Superstitions may influence economic
decisions. For example, an individual might make financial choices
based on superstitions rather than sound economic principles, leading
to economic losses.
It's essential to promote education and critical thinking to help dispel
superstitions and mitigate their harmful consequences. Encouraging a
rational and evidence-based approach to decision-making can contribute to
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individual well-being and societal development. To do so we prepared a skit
on this.
Members of group 1 with their characters: -
-Ashish as Chintu
-Kalpana as Chintu’s Grandmother & Tantrik’s assistant
-Sushma as Chintu’s Father
-Aradhna as Chintu’s Mother
-Pooja as Chintu’s Neighbour (Aunt)
-Riya as Chintu’s Sister
-Mehak as Tantric
-Ashwin as Doctor
The skit started with Chintu’s unnatural behaviour due to depression, which
created a tension in family among Chintu’s Parents and his grandmother.
Chintu’s neighbour aunt suggested them to go to a tantric. The disciple of
tantric arranged a meeting. When they visited tantric, the tantric gave them
a packet of vibhuta and after eating that vibhuta, Chintu’s became more ill.
When Chintu’s sister came there, she had an argument with his parents and
told them to consult a doctor. The doctor cured him and told his parents to
spend more time with him as he is suffering from stress. He also advised
them to be away from these kinds of evil practices.
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STEPS UNDER GROUP WORK IN ROLE PLAY
1. Choose a Scenario:
• First, decide on a situation or story that you want to act out. It
could be a scene from a book, a historical event, or a made-up
scenario.
2. Assign Roles:
• Each person in the group gets a specific role or character to play.
For example, if you're doing a role play about a doctor's office,
one person might be the doctor, another the patient, and so on.
3. Discuss and Plan:
• Take some time as a group to talk about your roles and the
scenario. Discuss how each character feels, what they want, and
what might happen during the role play. Plan out the key points
or actions.
4. Practice Together:
• Before the actual role play, practice your scenes together. This
helps everyone get comfortable with their roles and ensures that
the performance flows smoothly.
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5. Set the Scene:
• Decide where you'll perform the role play. It could be in front of
the class, in a designated area, or even using props. Make sure
the setting matches your scenario.
6. Start the Role Play:
• When you're ready, begin acting out the scenario. Remember
your roles and the key points you planned. Try to stay in
character and react as your character would in the given
situation.
7. Encourage Interaction:
• Actively engage with each other during the role play. Respond to
what the other characters are saying and doing. This makes the
performance more realistic and interesting.
8. Handle Challenges:
• If something unexpected happens during the role play, handle it
as a team. Adapt and keep the story going. This is a chance to
think on your feet, just like actors do!
9. Reflect and Discuss:
• After the role play, talk as a group about how it went. Discuss
what went well, what could be improved, and how you felt in
your roles. This reflection helps everyone learn and do better
next time.
10. Applaud and Appreciate:
• Celebrate each other's efforts. Whether it's a round of applause
or a simple acknowledgment, appreciating everyone's
contributions encourages a positive group dynamic.
Remember, the key is to have fun, learn from each other, and enjoy the
process of working together to create a mini-drama or scenario. Role play is
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a fantastic way to develop communication skills and understand different
perspectives.
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WORKSHOP - V
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Celebrating iconic figures is a wonderful way to acknowledge and appreciate
individuals who have made significant contributions in various fields.
Whether they are historical figures, cultural icons, or modern-day heroes,
recognizing their achievements can be inspiring and educational.
PMC College of Education, Kirari organized a workshop on “Celebrating the
Work of 4 Iconic Figures – Rabindranath Tagore, Mirabai, Kabir and Surya
Kant Tripathi Nirala” on October 19, 2023.
RABINDRANATH TAGORE
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Born – May 7, 1861
“Leave out my name from the gift if it is a burden but keep my song.” –
Rabindranath Tagore
His father Debendranath Tagore was a Hindu philosopher and religious reformer and
his mother
Sarada Devi was a housemaker.
As Rabindranath belongs to the Brahmin family and had done some education in
England due to which there is a blend of Indian and Western thoughts in his ideology.
He reshaped Bengali literature and music as well as Indian art with Contextual
Modernism.
He was a fellow of the Royal Asiatic Society and referred to as "the Bard of Bengal".
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Tagore was also known as the Gurudev, Kobiguru, and Biswakobi.
Rabindranath Tagore began to write verses in his starting days and in 1890 he published
various poetries along with a book named “Manasi”. He often wrote in verses form and
he gained popularity by writing social and political satire that was critical in nature.
In 1913, he became the first non-European and the first lyricist to win the Nobel Prize in
Literature.
His compositions were chosen by two nations as national anthems: India's "Jana
Gana Mana" and Bangladesh's "Amar Shonar Bangla". The Sri Lankan national
anthem was inspired by his work.
Years of sadness arising from the deaths of his wife and two children between 1902 and
1907 are reflected in his later poetry, which was introduced to the West in Gitanjali
(1902). This book contains Tagore’s English prose translations of religious poems from
several of his Bengali verse collections, including Gitanjali was hailed by W.B. Yeats
and Andre Gide and won him the Nobel Prize in 1913.
MIRABAI
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Mirabai, or Meera, was a 16th-century Hindu mystic and
poet-saint whose life and poetry are deeply intertwined
with the Bhakti movement in India.
Early Life and Background: Mirabai was born in 1498 in Kurki,
a small village near Merta, Rajasthan, India. She belonged to the
Rathore clan, part of the Rajput nobility. From a young age,
Mirabai displayed an intense spiritual inclination, and her love for
Lord Krishna became the focal point of her life.
Marriage to Rana Sanga: At the age of around 14, Mirabai was
married to Rana Sanga of Mewar, a powerful Rajput king.
However, her heart was devoted to Lord Krishna, and she
considered herself married to him. This spiritual commitment
became a central theme in her poetry.
Devotion to Lord Krishna: Mirabai's devotion to Lord Krishna
was passionate and unconventional. She often composed and sang
devotional songs (bhajans) expressing her deep love, longing, and
surrender to Krishna. Her poetry conveyed the mystical union she
felt with the divine.
Challenges and Persecution: Mirabai faced societal opposition
and criticism due to her unorthodox devotion and withdrawal from
traditional wifely duties. Her refusal to conform to societal norms
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led to persecution, including attempts on her life. Despite these
challenges, Mirabai remained resolute in her devotion.
Pilgrimages: In response to the challenges she faced, Mirabai
undertook extensive pilgrimages to various Krishna temples and
holy sites. Her travels allowed her to connect with like-minded
devotees and share her devotional message.
Mystical Experiences: Mirabai is said to have experienced
mystical moments and miracles during her devotion to Krishna.
These experiences reinforced her unwavering faith and deepened
her connection with the divine.
Legacy: Mirabai's legacy endures through her poetry, which has
been passed down through generations. Her compositions, known
as "Meera Bhajans," continue to be sung in temples and devotional
gatherings across India. Mirabai is revered as a symbol of pure,
selfless devotion, and her life has inspired countless individuals on
their spiritual journeys.
Cultural Impact: Mirabai's life and poetry have left an indelible
mark on Indian culture. Her story has been depicted in various
forms of art, literature, and music. Several films, books, and plays
have explored the mystique and spiritual fervor of Mirabai.
In essence, Mirabai's life is a testament to the
transformative power of love and devotion, and her poetry
remains a timeless expression of spiritual longing and
union with the divine.
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KABIR
Early Life:
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• Birth: Kabir is believed to have been born around 1440 in
Varanasi, India. The exact details of his birth and parentage
are unclear, and there are various legends surrounding his
origins. He is often considered to be born to a Muslim family.
Spiritual Journey:
• Influences: Kabir's spiritual journey was shaped by a
synthesis of Hindu and Sufi philosophies. He was influenced
by the teachings of the Sant tradition, which emphasized the
direct experience of the divine and rejected ritualistic
practices.
• Guru: It is said that Kabir found a Guru in Ramananda, a
prominent Hindu saint. This cross-cultural association is
significant in understanding Kabir's inclusive and
universalistic approach to spirituality.
Teachings:
• Unity of God: Kabir emphasized the oneness of God,
rejecting sectarian divisions between religions. His poetry
often reflects a monotheistic and formless understanding of
the divine.
• Equality: Kabir advocated for the equality of all people,
irrespective of their religious or social backgrounds. His verses
spoke against caste discrimination and emphasized the idea
that the divine is equally accessible to all.
Literary Contributions:
• Dohas: Kabir's teachings are primarily conveyed through
"Dohas," short couplets in vernacular language. These are
simple yet profound verses that convey spiritual wisdom and
ethical principles.
• Bijak: The "Bijak" is a collection of Kabir's verses compiled
after his death. It is considered one of the primary sources of
his teachings.
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Legacy:
• Influence on Bhakti Movement: Kabir played a crucial role
in the Bhakti movement, a medieval Indian movement that
emphasized devotion to a personal god. His ideas influenced
later saints and poets, contributing to the development of a
syncretic and inclusive spiritual ethos in India.
• Cultural Impact: Kabir's verses have transcended religious
boundaries and continue to be revered by people of various
faiths. His impact is not limited to India; his poetry has
inspired scholars, musicians, and thinkers globally.
Death:
• Death Date: The exact date of Kabir's death is uncertain, but
it is generally accepted to be around 1518.
• Mausoleum: His legacy is honored at the Kabir Chaura Math
in Varanasi, a mausoleum that is considered to be his final
resting place.
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SURYA KANT TRIPATHI NIRALA
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Suryakant Tripathi was born on February 21, 1896, in
Midnapore, Bengal (now in West Bengal, India). He spent
much of his early life in a challenging financial situation,
which influenced his later works.
Literary Contributions:
1. Poetry:
• Nirala's poetry is characterized by its emotional depth
and reflection of societal issues. His notable poetry
collections include "Anamika" (1921), "Geetika"
(1928), and "Saroj Smriti" (1933).
• "Parimal" (1942) is considered one of his
masterpieces, reflecting a deep sense of
introspection and philosophical musings. The
collection explores themes of love, nature, and
human existence.
2. Novels:
• Nirala also wrote novels that dealt with social issues and
the human condition. His most famous novel is
"Apsara" (1945), which addresses the conflict
between traditional values and modernity.
• Another notable novel is "Alka" (1932), which
explores the struggles of a woman in a patriarchal
society.
3. Essays and Literary Criticism:
• Nirala was an influential essayist and literary critic. His
essays often delved into social and cultural issues. He
advocated for the use of Hindi as a literary language and
explored the relationship between literature and society.
Style and Influence:
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Nirala's poetry is known for its lyrical quality and exploration of
diverse themes. He combined traditional Indian cultural elements
with modern sensibilities. His writing was deeply influenced by the
socio-political milieu of his time, including the struggle for
independence and the impact of industrialization.
Legacy:
Suryakant Tripathi Nirala's contributions to Hindi literature have
left an enduring impact. His poetry is celebrated for its emotional
intensity, philosophical depth, and its ability to resonate with the
human experience. Nirala's exploration of societal issues and his
call for social reform continue to make him a revered figure in
Hindi literature.
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SEMINAR - I
GLIMPSES OF
DIFFERENT
CHILHOOD IN INDIA
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MEANING OF CHILDHOOD
Childhood is the time in which child’s growth and
development takes place. In this age children’s grow, play,
study, learn and become active of doing physical activities.
It is the precious time for children’s as well as parents as
childhood pays a major role in our lives the things we learn,
do in that period. It is the second major phase after infancy
stage.
DEFINITION OF CHILDHOOD
• The time during which one is a child, from between
infancy and puberty.
• A person's childhood is the period of their life when
they are a child.
STAGES IN CHILDHOOD
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CHILDHOOD
• COGNITIVE DEVELOPMENT
• SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT
• LANGUAGE AND SPEECH DEVELOPMENT
• FINE MOTOR SKILL DEVELOPMENT
• GROSS MOTOR SKILL DEVELOPMENT
• EMOTIONAL DEVELOPMENT
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DELIQUENT CHILD
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Differently Abled Children
Introduction:
Differently abled children, also known as children with disabilities, have
unique physical, cognitive, sensory, or developmental characteristics that
may affect their ability to perform everyday activities. Disabilities can vary
widely, encompassing conditions such as intellectual disabilities, physical
disabilities, sensory impairments, and developmental disorders. It is
essential to recognize and address the diverse needs of differently abled
children to ensure their inclusion and well-being in society.
Causes of Disabilities in Children:
The causes of disabilities in children are multifaceted and can be attributed
to genetic factors, prenatal exposure to infections or substances,
complications during childbirth, and postnatal infections or injuries.
Additionally, environmental factors, poverty, and lack of access to proper
healthcare can contribute to the prevalence of disabilities in children.
What the Law Says about Discrimination of Differently Abled
Children:
Various laws and international conventions emphasize the rights and
protection of differently abled children. In India, the Rights of Persons with
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Disabilities Act, 2016, is a comprehensive legislation that safeguards the
rights and interests of persons with disabilities, including children. The Act
aims to promote an inclusive society and prohibits discrimination on the
grounds of disability.
Steps and Initiatives Taken by the Indian Government:
1. Rights of Persons with Disabilities Act, 2016: This Act replaced
the Persons with Disabilities (Equal Opportunities, Protection of Rights
and Full Participation) Act, 1995, and broadened the scope of
disabilities. It mandates equal opportunities, protection of rights, and
full participation for persons with disabilities, including children.
2. Inclusive Education: The government has initiated efforts to promote
inclusive education, ensuring that differently abled children have
access to mainstream schools with necessary support systems. The
Sarva Shiksha Abhiyan (SSA) program has been instrumental in this
regard.
3. Accessible Infrastructure: Efforts have been made to create
accessible infrastructure, including schools, public buildings, and
transportation facilities, to facilitate the mobility and inclusion of
differently abled individuals.
4. Reservation in Jobs and Education: The government has
implemented reservation policies in education and employment to
ensure that differently abled individuals, including children, have
equal opportunities.
5. Financial Assistance Schemes: Various financial assistance schemes
and scholarships are in place to support differently abled children in
their education and overall development.
6. National Trust Act, 1999: The National Trust Act focuses on the
welfare of persons with autism, cerebral palsy, mental retardation, and
multiple disabilities. It establishes the National Trust, which
implements various programs and schemes for the well-being of
individuals with these disabilities, including children.
7. Accessible Information and Communication: Efforts are being
made to ensure that information and communication are accessible to
differently abled individuals. This includes making educational
materials available in formats suitable for children with visual or
hearing impairments.
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ROLE OF TEACHERS FOR DIFFERENTLY ABLED CHILDREN
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Create activities and projects that promote collaboration and
teamwork among all students.
4. Effective Communication:
• Clear Instructions: Providing clear and concise instructions is
essential for all students, especially those with cognitive or
language-related challenges. Teachers should use multiple forms
of communication, such as visual aids, to enhance understanding.
• Regular Feedback: Regular and constructive feedback is crucial
for differently abled children to track their progress and identify
areas for improvement. This feedback should be delivered in a
supportive and encouraging manner.
5. Collaboration with Support Services:
• Team Collaboration: Teachers should collaborate with special
education professionals, speech therapists, occupational
therapists, and other support staff to ensure a coordinated and
comprehensive approach to the education of differently abled
children.
• Professional Development: Ongoing professional development
opportunities can help teachers stay informed about best
practices in inclusive education and strategies for meeting the
diverse needs of their students.
6. Emotional and Social Support:
• Building a Supportive Community: Teachers should create a
classroom environment that fosters empathy, understanding, and
respect for differences. Addressing bullying or discriminatory
behavior is essential to maintaining a safe and supportive
community.
• Emotional Support: Recognize the social and emotional needs of
differently abled children. Provide emotional support, and
promote a positive and inclusive atmosphere where students feel
valued and accepted.
7. Advocacy and Empowerment:
• Advocacy for Students: Teachers can advocate for the rights
and needs of differently abled children within the school and
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community. This may involve participating in Individualized
Education Program (IEP) meetings, collaborating with parents,
and ensuring that appropriate accommodations are in place.
• Promoting Self-Advocacy: Encourage and empower differently
abled children to advocate for themselves as they progress
through their education. Teach them skills for self-advocacy and
help build their confidence.
By embracing these roles and responsibilities, teachers contribute
significantly to creating an inclusive and supportive learning environment
where differently abled children can thrive academically, socially, and
emotionally.
It's important to note that while significant progress has been made,
there are still challenges to overcome in fully integrating differently
abled children into mainstream society. Continuous efforts are
needed to raise awareness, eliminate societal stigmas, and provide
adequate support for the holistic development of these children.
CHILD LABOUR
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Child labour refers to the exploitation of children through any form of work
that deprives them of their childhood, interferes with their ability to attend
regular schools, and is mentally, physically, socially, or morally harmful. It is
a widespread and serious problem that deprives children of their
fundamental rights and compromises their development.
Causes of Child Labour:
1. Poverty: Families in poverty often rely on the income of their children
to make ends meet.
2. Lack of Education: Inadequate access to quality education can force
children into the workforce.
3. Cultural Factors: Some societies may normalize child labor as part of
their cultural practices.
4. Lack of Legislation: Weak or poorly enforced labor laws contribute to
the prevalence of child labor.
5. Demand for Cheap Labour: Unscrupulous employers exploit
children for cheap and easily manipulated labor.
What the Law Says:
In India, the government has implemented several laws to address the issue
of child labor. The key legislation is the Child Labour (Prohibition and
Regulation) Act, 1986, which prohibits the employment of children below
the age of 14 in hazardous occupations and processes. In 2016, the Indian
government further strengthened its stance on child labor by amending the
Act, extending the prohibition on employing children under 14 to all
occupations. The law also prohibits the employment of adolescents (14-18
years) in hazardous occupations.
Steps and Initiatives by the Indian Government:
1. National Child Labour Project (NCLP): The NCLP is a central
sector scheme launched to rehabilitate working children and provide
them with education and vocational training.
2. Integrated Child Development Services (ICDS): This program
aims to improve the health, nutrition, and education of children, with a
focus on those below six years of age.
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3. Rashtriya Bal Swasthya Karyakram (RBSK): This initiative
focuses on the health of children, including those engaged in labor, by
providing free health check-ups and treatments.
4. MGNREGA (Mahatma Gandhi National Rural Employment
Guarantee Act): While not directly addressing child labor,
MGNREGA aims to enhance livelihood security in rural areas and
could indirectly reduce the economic pressure leading to child labor.
5. Sarva Shiksha Abhiyan (SSA): SSA is a flagship program for
universalization of elementary education, working towards providing
free and compulsory education for all children up to the age of 14.
6. National Policy on Child Labour: The government has a National
Policy on Child Labour that focuses on rehabilitation and
mainstreaming of children withdrawn from work.
7. Strict Implementation and Monitoring: Efforts have been made to
strengthen the enforcement machinery to ensure that the existing laws
are implemented effectively.
Despite these initiatives, the challenge remains significant, and
addressing the root causes of child labor requires a multifaceted
approach involving education, poverty alleviation, and societal
awareness. Ongoing efforts are crucial to creating a society where
every child can enjoy their right to a childhood and education.
Teachers play a crucial role in the fight against child labor by contributing to
awareness, education, and advocacy efforts. Here are some ways in which
teachers can actively work to stop child labor:
1. Education and Awareness:
• Classroom Discussions: Teachers can facilitate discussions on
child labor, its consequences, and the importance of education.
• Guest Speakers: Invite experts or activists working against child
labor to speak to students, providing real-life examples and
insights.
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• Multimedia Resources: Use documentaries, films, and literature
that highlight the impact of child labor on children's lives.
2. Promoting Education:
• Emphasize the Value of Education: Teachers can stress the
importance of education in breaking the cycle of poverty and
ensuring a better future for children.
• Identify At-Risk Students: Pay attention to signs that may
indicate a student is at risk of dropping out due to economic
pressures. Provide additional support and resources to these
students.
3. Advocacy and Community Engagement:
• Community Workshops: Teachers can organize workshops for
parents and community members to raise awareness about the
detrimental effects of child labor and the benefits of education.
• Partnerships with NGOs: Collaborate with non-governmental
organizations (NGOs) working to eliminate child labor,
participating in or organizing events and campaigns.
4. Creating a Supportive Environment:
• Safe Spaces: Foster a safe and supportive environment in the
classroom where students feel comfortable discussing their
concerns.
• Counseling Services: Offer counseling services for students who
may be facing challenges at home or are at risk of dropping out to
work.
5. Curriculum Integration:
• Incorporate Relevant Topics: Integrate discussions about child
rights, child labor laws, and the consequences of child labor into
the curriculum.
• Highlight Success Stories: Share stories of individuals who have
overcome challenges through education, emphasizing the
transformative power of learning.
6. Reporting Mechanisms:
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• Educate on Reporting Procedures: Ensure that teachers are
aware of reporting mechanisms for child labor violations and
encourage them to report any suspected cases.
• Collaborate with Authorities: Work closely with local
authorities and child protection agencies to address and prevent
child labor in the community.
7. Promoting Ethical Consumption:
• Consumer Awareness: Teach students about ethical
consumerism, emphasizing the impact of their choices on global
supply chains.
• Fair Trade Initiatives: Encourage students to support fair trade
products that ensure ethical labor practices.
8. Teacher Advocacy:
• Joining Campaigns: Teachers can participate in or support
campaigns against child labor organized by NGOs, governmental
bodies, or international organizations.
• Professional Development: Attend workshops and training
sessions on child rights and child labor prevention to stay informed
and share knowledge with colleagues.
By actively engaging in these efforts, teachers can contribute significantly to
the prevention of child labor and the promotion of education, ultimately
empowering children to build a brighter future for themselves and their
communities.
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Children with Learning Disabilities
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3. Inclusive Education for Disabled at Secondary Stage (IEDSS): A
scheme supporting the inclusive education of students with disabilities
in secondary schools.
4. National Policy on Education (NPE): Emphasizes inclusive
education and the creation of a barrier-free environment for students
with disabilities.
5. Accessible India Campaign (Sugamya Bharat Abhiyan): Aims to
make public spaces and information accessible to persons with
disabilities, including children with learning disabilities.
In conclusion, supporting children with learning disabilities involves a holistic
approach, including early identification, individualized plans, and
collaborative efforts from educators, parents, and the government. India has
taken steps through various initiatives to promote inclusive education and
address the needs of children with learning disabilities.
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WHO
AM
I?
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WORD THAT DESCRIBES ME
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MY PERSONAL IDENTITY
ROLES
LEARNING
PERSONAL CORE
I had learned to enjoy in the
An imperfect person in the
process of betterment.
present and get better with
time. I hope that I can learn
some new skills to become
better.
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A PORTRAIT OF MYSELF
➢ The best thing(s) I ever did was (were) to be honest to myself, and
become concerned with the process rather than the results.
➢ I wish, I could lose my fear of losing true people and about future.
➢ I know, I have the talent to be more productive and mke people happy
around me.
➢ My idea of fun is playing with small kids and listening 90s songs.
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➢ The best advice I ever got was that there is magic in everyone, identify
it and make the life happy; and remember that you can achieve
anything if you hav believe.
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AN UNSENT LETTER TO SELF
Dear self,
Hey you, I know we have been together for a very long period in so many
varying situations. We have seen a lot of moments of joy, sorrow, tension and
many others altogether. I just need to share a few things with you in an
attempt to make you feel loved and inspired.
Do not always depend on external validations in your life. You always know
yourself in a better way than anyone else and accept yourself with a good note
and embrace what makes you unique. I know you are coming from a very low
profile and conservative background but try to create a life that you and your
family will be proud of. Never settle for less and learn a lot of things that will
help you achieve as much you dreamt of.
Although you feel demotivated and like a failure sometimes, you might feel
you had not what you wished for. Just believe in yourself and remain honest
with yourself, you will be always facilitated by the best. Just accept it with an
open heart and give your best as much you can.
Learn to move on easily in life, just forgive people but do not forget the lesson,
try to understand the other side of the story and think about every perspective
to find a better solution. I know in your childhood everyone advised a lot that
marks and studies are the only important things to achieve something in life.
But in reality, you should learn as many skills for your personal, professional
and social growth. Never hesitate to say that you do not know it right now but
you will learn it too in a very well manner soon.
I often observed lots of times that you feel very shy and behave like an
introvert during interacting in classes, in discussions and within the peer
group. I would like to advise that you should try to overcome your hesitation
and fear of being judged during expressing your views and while giving
answers. No one is completely perfect in this world, everyone has something
special and unique in themselves. So just try to embrace the change and focus
on the growth and if any mistake takes place during discourse then remember
that you are imperfect in search of your perfection.
I had observed that you become sad when someone left you and when someone
you love the most betrayed you. I would like to say that do not get attached so
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much quicker with anyone and do not expect anything from anyone. And do
not worry about the bond if the bond has to persist it will take care of itself
just stay true, spend some time and keep doing appropriate efforts for that
neither too much nor less.
And more thing that you fear of trying something new and often push the
work up to the deadline. It will cause lots of mental pressure on you
unnecessarily and make you frustrated. You should be more creative, more
presentable and a little bit punctual with your work as you are punctual in
real life for any event. And for work especially follow the phrase “simple but
sophisticated” try new things but do not be messy.
Belittle bit punctual with your essential needs of routine and be a little bit
patient to get your dreams fulfilled but never stop doing hard work to
achieve your goal and chase them. Always remain humble and sustain
simplicity in life like your idols. Never let your success get into your mind
and failure get into your heart. Also, never get sad about separation because
every end is a new beginning.
At last but not least I would like to advise to you be honest with yourself,
respect everyone, build your network, and make the best use of your time,
resource and attitude. And do not worry you will look great and smart one
day just keep growing. Be genuine with your feelings. I will be always there
for you.
Just be in present and enjoy every moment of life. Just maintain good vibes,
you will overcome all your odds and bad habits. Just keep learning without
fearing being judged as no one is perfect dear.
Keep smiling and maintain your enthusiasm. All the very best for
your future.
Yours sincerely,
Me.
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HAPPY LIST
Everyone has lots of reasons, moments, objects and people which make them
happy and smile. These things can vary from person to person as per their
understanding and interests. If I should talk about the things which make me
smile or happy and some of which can sound a little bit childish to another
person.
Spending time with kids: Playing with kids makes me happy from
bottom of my heart. Their definition of life is somewhat very different
from the older ones. They are always filled without enthusiasm and
eager to learn new things. They are always filled with energy while
doing any activity and never fear failure. Playing with small children
and spending time with them not only helps me to relieve my stress and
make me happy but also provides some unique motivation and
attributes of life.
Spending time with friends: Friends are some unique creatures in
the life of every person who will become advisors, guides, comedians,
irritating all at the same time. But spending time with those friends
who are your well-wisher and accept you and your friendship from
heart, makes me so much happiness. They have weird solutions for my
problem and sometimes we become kids altogether and do some random
activities which are of no sense at all. But in some situations, we become
so much mature and handle each other. Even I had seen my first movie
in the theatre with my friends on my birthday. I can say that my friends
and the time I had spent with them made me happy and emotional at
the same time.
Appreciation from parents: I had never been that much capable and
better child as my parents wanted me to be. I keep doing blunders lots
of times and always get scolded by them. But sometimes when I do
something by putting so much effort and they appreciate me gives me
so much happiness. I wish that I can be like they wanted and make
them proud one day.
Motivation from teachers: During my initial days of education, I was
somewhat sincere do not how was that. But later on after the mid-term
of class 9, I started to lose my interest in studies and got more fascinated
with pro-casting and delaying the work till the deadline. In other words,
I can say that my pace get started to decline and my attitude towards
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studies become adjusting to get passing marks. But during my first pre-
board exam of class 10, when my Maths teacher had asked me that how
many marks I am expecting in board exams and I said 50-55 marks is
enough for me. I remembered how much I got roasted for that target.
He had motivated me that I can achieve more than whatever I dreamed.
His words touched my heart and I started to do hard work due to which
I did not only get 10 CGPA in Maths but managed to get 10 CGPA
overall in class 10. And from till now when someone believes me, I feel
happy that I can do something good.
After replying with actions: Right from my childhood I was an
introvert child but I had a lot of self-respect even for my failures. I feel
ashamed when I get failed but had this belief that I will be able to do it
not now but someday definitely. And I have some ego issues that if
somebody makes me feel inferior, I will forgive them but I make sure
that I will prove them wrong by becoming much more capable and better
than they assumed me to be.
After growing: My parenting and family background had developed
some pre-conceived notions in my mind that a person should become
great and capable if he or she has brilliant academic skills and scores.
But at now I realised that good academic background is fine but to
become compatible only if they have all-round development. From that
time, I have always been keen on something new in my life and after
learning a new skill, I feel so much happy. I was very happy when I had
learned to drive a scooter in just 10 days, as I had never cycled before
that on my own.
Getting new stuff: This is something very common in every individual.
Even after becoming 22 years old, I feel very happy after getting or
buying new stuff for myself, it can be clothes, shoes, etc. and I will never
deny if anyone wants to give me a gift.
Giving something from my own earnings: I feel very ashamed
about asking for money from my parents for something other than
essential needs. I prefer that I should gift and buy something for myself
from my earnings or savings.
Get love: I get so much happiness if someone loves me from the heart
not faking the love to get something from me. Love is something that
should be unconditional and will become happy if you just talk with love
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and I will give my best to make them happy by doing as much my
potential allows me.
After doing something for society: We all are social beings and I feel
very happy when I can do something for society even on a short level.
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I BELIEVE
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ABUNDANCE
No one in this world can say that he or she is completely happy with their life.
Everyone has something missing in their life, for me, I feel that if these things
should be present in my life then it should be much better.
Attractive personality: I have a very mundane and monotonous life.
I am the kind of person with who people might avoid spending time.
Even look-wise I may look like an average guy but I do have a pure soul.
And I have very bad dressing sense too. No one wants to befriend me
and I am not good at stealing the spotlight for myself. I have always
been a third person in my peer group. My friends usually knock on my
door whenever they needed something. In the end, I only want to say
that, I am the kind of person nobody wants to be. I wish I could have an
interesting personality and attractive appearance.
Intelligent mind: I was always an average person in my studies and
life too. I had no idea how to behave appropriately in front of everyone.
I had never scored good marks in any exams and never shown any
brilliant performance on any academic stage. I know my lazy nature is
the main reason behind it, but my intellectual thinking is always one
reason for it. Also, I am a very slow learner and have a very low pace to
do any activity which makes me inferior every time.
Appreciation from parents: Being an elder son of a family, I was
always moulded as a role model and expected to do all of my stuff all my
own but my parents have always controlled me whenever I wish to do
something for myself. Even when I opted for a Bachelor of education
and started teaching at a tuitions centre, I got lots of criticism and have
to do everything according to them. For them, there is no such thing as
personal space, life and choices. Parents are the ultimate right person
to guide us and want us to act accordingly to them. And due to orthodox
background friendship is just to fulfil personal sake and opposite gender
cannot befriend and if you are being a friend then you are the wrong
person. If you are presenting your views in front of your parents, you
are disrespecting them and you will be considered outspoken if you
cannot according to them. You just have to keep quiet and listen to
them, then you are on the right path. They can be partial sometimes but
you cannot say question them and being only son you have to do all
kinds of stuff besides studying and if you are asking for help and say it
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to a younger sibling then you are jealous of them. Just be a puppet of
their hand and then you are the ideal one if you ever discuss it with
anyone then be prepared for the criticism you are going to face and your
all bad qualities will start to be presented to everyone.
Confidence: I have so much fear of doing something new and
expressing my views. I have very poor speaking and presenting skills. I
often try to ignore speaking despite thinking correct answers or correct
approaches. I have so much fear of getting trolled in front of lots of
people and fear of missing out in my peer group. Also, my schooling was
happened in a government school due to which, my fluency in the
English language is extremely poor. Even I am not capable to express
my points clearly during arguments with my known ones. I lack the
courage to express what is going on in my heart.
Creative skills: My creativity skills in art and craft is so much worse.
Although my drawing skill gets a little bit improved after taking Biology
in class 11. But I lag in the representation of ideas interactively and my
handwriting is also moderate to understand which makes me feel so
much inferior. Also, I am very weak in co-curricular activities.
Good financial background: As we all know that money is so much
necessary in everyone’s life. And being a middle-class person you have
to adjust in your life during so many phases. We have to plan everything
accordingly to the necessity of the situation and you are not free to do
something for yourself. We have to re-think all our plans according to
the budget and it feels so much inferior when you have to suffer due to
money in front of a lot of people.
A person who understands me: I have some persons who mentor me,
believe in me and expect from me. I have a lot of people to scold me and
explain to me what to do or what to do not do. But there is rarely a
person who will understand me and have empathy towards me.
Face pace to learn: I am a very slow learner, thinker and I do all
things very late due to which I have to suffer a lot. I wish that I would
be able to do everything efficiently and timely to get a better result in
my life.
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GOOD JOB TO ME
As we know that we all had done lots of such acts which neither got
appreciated by anyone else nor we had received any reward for that.
But deep down we feel that we had done something good which does
not make happy to the doer but some other people also. Some activities
were also not appreciated because it was never disclosed in front of
anyone. There are some activities which I had done back in my life and
try to appreciate myself.
Choosing happiness over holding – Many times due to
hormonal imbalance and improper exposure to many things, I
had attached to many persons who are there with me for just
their own sake and to fulfil their needs they were ready to hurt
me. Many times, they had insulted me in front of many people
just for sake of fun. Some of them had shown affection with me
that too for the getting the required thing from. Due to my
emotional nature of myself, I tried to hold that relationship and
expected that they will understand me which makes the
scenario better. After getting hurt so many, one day I finally
decided to stay away from that people and to observe people for
a better understanding of their nature. I appreciate myself for
this decision as this decision will help me to get into a better
circle and promote my mental health.
Not judging the person for their past – In my journey, I had
received so many preconceived notions that might or might not
remain deep in my mind and might affect my point of view when
making the image of a particular person in my mind. Sometimes
reality is far different from the notions that analyze every
person, thing, event etc. at the same scale and what is the
benefit of those perceptions which makes people a part of each
other. But I had decided that proper knowledge of the situation
and nature of the person should be key elements to
understanding a person and I appreciate myself for that.
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Embracing the change – Due to my shy and introverted
nature, I feel too much uncomfortable and have difficulties in
learning new skills and in trying something new in my life
which need to be learned for betterment but I still challenge
myself every day to become a better version of myself and try to
improve the skills and overcome the fear of failure. I really
appreciate myself for this because according to my point of view
the only way to respect time is to get updated with the time as
change is the only constant. And during this time when
everyone is preferring multi-tasking resources, this will help me
in my personal life as well as in my professional life.
Choosing self-respect – Many times I had heard that one
should respect everyone especially the elder despite they insult
you, misunderstanding you. You just need to calmly listen to
them and say sorry to them despite that they are making you
feel inferior and guilty. But I personally think that one should
respect elders and everyone but not at the cost of self-respect.
You should express yourself and your point of view for clarity
and that too without disrespecting the other person. And I feel
it is important.
Listening to the heart – Many times there is so much chaos
in which I have to choose between instinct and logic. There are
always equal chances that the decision might be correct or
wrong and can prove as the step between success or loss. I had
always followed my instincts or heart during that time despite
having so much criticism. According to me, this criticism will
last only until I had not received success. After that, the
criticisers will become my biggest supporters and I appreciate
myself for this.
Teaching my juniors – Right after my board exams I had
taught one of my juniors in school as he had scored bad marks
in English and I was considered one of the bright students of
English. So he had approached me for help and he had said that
kindly help me to score 50% marks. I remembered that we had
studied for 2 hours daily as friends and he had scored 75%
marks in his final exams in English. As he had never talked
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with me after that I appreciate myself for this work also I feel
privileged that I can help someone in that work.
Choosing quality over money – A year back, I started to take
the tuition of the students in secondary classes. One of my
students had opted for humanities as her discipline in class 11.
As she belongs to a family where that cannot afford the tuition
of each subject and she has so much interest in her studies, so
then I had decided to teach political science to her without
charging any money from her as it will help me to gain some
knowledge of this particular subject despite belonging to science
background. As this is unknown to many peoples but I feel
appreciated for this decision.
Being in the present – Many times we get depressed by
thinking of either the past or future and forget to enjoy the
present moment. I try to be in the present and enjoy the
privilege which is provided to me by god. Everything happens
for a good reason and I have to just give my best.
Being emotional – Now a day, everyone is becoming so much
practical in their lives. I am trying to be a little bit emotional
and empathetic and I appreciate myself for this.
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CONCLUSION
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THANK- YOU NOTE
Dear Mom, Dad, Relatives, Friends, and Teachers,
I want to express my heartfelt gratitude for your unwavering
support in helping me understand myself better. Your love,
guidance, and encouragement have been like a guiding light
on my journey of self-discovery. You've shared valuable
insights, listened to my thoughts, and offered perspectives
that have shaped my understanding of who I am.
To my parents, your unconditional love has been my anchor.
To relatives and friends, your acceptance has given me a
sense of belonging. Teachers, your wisdom has been a source
of inspiration.
Together, you've taught me the importance of self-reflection
and embracing my uniqueness. Your influence has been
instrumental in shaping my character and values. Thank you
for being my pillars of strength on this incredible journey of
self-awareness.
With heartfelt appreciation,
ASHWIN KUMAR VERMA
B.Ed. 1st Year
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