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I Like Ama
I Like Ama
• Anxiety
• Depression
• Low Self-Esteem
This exercise is designed to improve your conversational skills. By practicing the skills
involved in holding a conversation, you will feel more comfortable and relaxed over
time. In this assignment, you will be asked to initiate and hold a conversation with at least
one peer or acquaintance each day (close or regular friends are excluded from this as-
signment). You must make at least five complete statements or thoughts for the interac-
tion to be considered a conversation.
Before initiating the conversation, it may be helpful to choose a specific person with
whom you would like to talk to. Next, brainstorm a list of topics that you could possibly
talk about with this person.
Conversational Topics
1. 6.
2. 7.
3. 8.
4. 9.
5. 10.
After brainstorming, select a topic you think the other person would be interested in
talking about. However, be open to the possibility that the other person may want to talk
about some other topic. Remember to maintain good eye contact when communicating.
Greet the person with a smile and an expression such as “hello,” “it’s good to see you,”
“How are you today?” that have been practiced in the classroom sessions. Actively listen
to what the other person is saying because this will show them that you are genuinely
interested in what they have to say. Don’t be afraid to ask questions and look for
opportunities to share similar experiences. Try to end the conversation on a positive note
by making a remark like, “Have a good day.”
Use the Conversation Log on the next page to record the names of the individuals
whom you’ve conversed with between classroom sessions. Answer the questions and
bring the log to the next classroom session for review. Please feel free to make any
additional comments about your conversations that can also be discussed in sessions.
EXERCISE
CONVERSATION LOG
2. Describe how you felt overall during the conversation with the other person (e.g.,
nervous, tense, embarrassed, happy, content):
3. If the conversation went well, what factor(s) helped you feel comfortable or relaxed?
5. Explain your reasons why you would or would not like to talk to or socialize with this
person in the future: