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Understanding Empathy:
Integrating Counseling, Developmental, and
Social Psychology Perspectives
Gerald A. Gladstein
University of Rochester
In the counseling and psychotherapy lit- ments concerning identification and em-
erature, empathy has been identified, as pathy.
crucial to successful outcomes. Stimulated The importance to psychotherapy out-
by Rogers's (1957) discussion of empathy as comes was apparently well established by
one of the "necessary and sufficient condi- Traux and Carkhufr (1967). Yet, in recent
tions for therapeutic personality change," years, others have challenged their conclu-
numerous theory, research, and application sion. For example, Bergin and Suinn (1975,
publications have appeared. At the same p. 515) finished their review of the literature
time, psychoanalysts such as Stewart (1956), by suggesting that empathy and other fa-
Greenson (1967, 1978), and Kohut (1977, cilitative conditions are probably not suffi-
1978) have written about empathy, ex- cient "except in highly specific, client-cen-
panding on Preud's (1921/1923) brief com- tered type conditions." In other reviews,
Lambert, DeJulio, and Stein (1978) and
Parloff, Waskow, and Wolfe (1978) also
This article was originally presented as part of a questioned empathy's role in psychotherapy.
symposium at the meeting of the American Psycho-
logical Association, Los Angeles, August 25,1981. After separating counseling from psycho-
For their comments and suggestions on earlier drafts, therapy studies, Gladstein (1970, 1977)
speqial thanks go to Mark Davis, JoAnn Feldstein, found that the evidence was mixed. "In
Barbara Gladstein, Harold Munson, Harry Ries, Ladd effect, despite the large number of theory,
Wheeler, Larry Yagoda, Miron Zuckerman, and three discussion, case, and process articles de-
anonymous reviewers.
Most of the work for this article was completed while scribing the positive relationship between
the author was on sabbatical from the University of empathy and counseling outcome the em-
Rochester; appreciation is hereby acknowledged. pirical evidence still remains equivocal"
Requests for reprints should be sent to Gerald A. (1977, p. 75). Contemporary theorists and
Gladstein, Graduate School of Education and Human
Development, Center for Counseling, Family, and researchers continue to investigate whether
Worklife Studies, University of Rochester, Rochester, empathy is crucial to counseling and psy-
New York 14627. chotherapy success. For example, Bar-
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rett-Lennard (1981) described the theoret- Affective empathy refers to responding with
ical empathy cycle in human interactions, the same emotion to another person's emo-
including psychotherapy. He supported his tion. That is, feeling the same way as an-
concepts by referring to research studies in other person does. Gladstein (1977) pointed
which the clients' perceptions of empathy out that Rogers's (1975, p. 4) definition in-
were positively related to counseling out- cluded both:
comes. Other researchers have used em-
pathy as a measure of successful counseling It means entering the private perceptual world of the
outcome. other and becoming thoroughly at home in it. It in-
Reflecting a more psychoanalytic per- volves being sensitive, moment to moment, to the
changing felt meanings which flow in this other person,
spective, Bordin (1979) recently wrote about to the fear or rage or tenderness or confusion or what-
empathy and the therapeutic working alli- ever, that he/she is experiencing. It means temporarily
ance. Drawing on the work of writers such living in his/her life, moving about in it delicately
as Reik (1964) and Greenson (1967), he in- without making judgments, sensing meanings of which
dicated that empathy could be one of the he/she is scarcely aware, but not trying to uncover
feelings of which the person is totally unaware, since this
elements involved in creating working al- would be too threatening. It includes communicating
liances. However, he also noted that em- your sensings of his/her world as you look with fresh and
pathy would have less importance in creating unfrightened eyes at elements of which the individual
this alliance in behavior therapy, compared is fearful.
to other therapies.
Textbooks and training manuals also Hackney (1978) also discussed the con-
document the continued interest in empa- fusion mentioned above. In his tracing of
thy. They typically assume its importance the changes in definitions from 1958 to 1978,
in counseling and psychotherapy or support he noted that recently stress has been put on
its inclusion by referring to writers such as empathy as a communication skill (only part
Carkhuff (1969,1980). For example, Han- of Rogers,'s definition). By communication
sen, Stevic, and Warner (1982) discussed its skill he meant the ability to give accurate
significance in the early stage of establishing and adequate responses to a client's message
a counseling relationship. Egan (1975), in (p. 37). He called for more concern with the
a training manual, presented eight rules for affective or emotional components. In his
communicating more accurate empathy. recent theoretical paper Barrett-Lennard
Thus, despite the recently published re- (1981) agreed with this concern. He also
views that question empathy's importance traced the evolution of his own thinking
in counseling/psychotherapy, it continues to (stimulated originally by Rogers's ideas) and
be viewed as an important construct. Why presented an empathy cycle involving three
does this situation exist? This is probably types of empathy. These are (a) empathic
related to the mixed findings in the research resonation (in which the empathizer re-
literature. Some studies show only positive sponds emotionally to the other); (b) ex-
relationships (e.g., Altaian, 1973), whereas pressed empathy (the communicative act);
others do not (e.g., Irwin, 1973). Hence, and (c) received empathy (how the other
researchers are stimulated to continue to receives the empathizer's response).
explore the topic; practitioners continue to This is a very helpful model because, as
use empathy. Barrett-Lennard (1981, pp. 97-98) demon-
Why have these mixed research findings strated, it can provide some explanation to
occurred? One reason for this confusion confusing research findings. Further, it
seems to be the way counseling/psycho- provides a connection to another perspective
therapy theorists and researchers have de- of empathy that did not emanate from
fined empathy. Earlier Gladstein (1977) Rogers but that has been important in the
showed that some emphasized the cognitive psychotherapy literature. Barrett-Len-
aspects, whereas others concentrated on the nard's term "empathic resonation" appears
affective. Simply stated, cognitive empathy to be quite similar to Stewart's (1956) first
refers to intellectually taking the role or stage—identification. Stewart used Freud's
perspective of another person. That is, ideas (1921/1923) about identification and
seeing the world as the other person does. its relationship to empathy. This first or
UNDERSTANDING EMPATHY 469
prestage involves raw identification—that was the squared discrepancy between the
is, unconscious emotional connections. The patient's self-description and the therapist's
second is deliberate identification. "This is attempt to predict the patient's self de-
a conscious process involving an emotional scription" (p. 139). This can be called a
tie between two people striving for a com- predictive, cognitive empathy measure.
mon goal" (Stewart, 1956, p. 40). This view Using an entirely different approach, Kagan,
appears similar to Bordin's (1979) suggestion Krathwohl, and Associates (1967) created
that emotional bonding between the thera- the Affective Sensitivity Scale. This is a
pist and client is effected by empathy. The standardized decoding measure based on an
third is resistance, or distancing, which al- affect approach. Although objective in na-
lows the empathizer to gain a better under- ture, this scale has counselors respond not to
standing of the other. The fourth is delib- their own counseling sessions but to filmed
erate reidentification, also a conscious act (p. scenes. Counselors select multichoice
97). Although Stewart's ideas have not led statements that they believe represent best
to empirical research, Katz (1963) used them the person's feelings.
and those of Freud in writing about the uses Although all of these scales and tests were
of empathy by counselors, ministers, and designed to measure empathy, it appears
social workers. He explained that empathy that they may be tapping different empathic
can be used for diagnostic as well as thera- aspects or that they are assessing some
peutic purposes. qualities related to but different from em-
These differing perspectives on empa- pathy. Several research studies suggest they
thy—as an affective response, as raw iden- are measuring different aspects of the same
tification, as resonation, as cognitive un- construct. For example, Kurtz and Grum-
derstanding (role taking), as a communica- mon (1972) correlated six commonly used
tion skill, as received by the other—exist in empathy scales—including Kagan's Affec-
the counseling/psychotherapy literature. tive Sensitivity Scale, Carkhuff's Empathic
Alongside these perspectives various em- Understanding Scale, and Barrett-Lennard's
pathy measures also exist. Differences in Relationship Inventory. They found no
these tests and rating systems add to the statistically significant relationships among
confusion too. these measures. Ham (1980) also found no
As Feldstein and Gladstein (1980) indi- significant relationship between the Affec-
cated, most of these measures can be labeled tive Sensitivity Scale and Hogan's (1969,
as either objective or subjective. Objective 1975) Empathy Scale. The latter uses sets
refers to external, independent judgments of personality scale items that represent
of actual counseling sessions. These judg- what people believe to be true about the
ments are usually made from audio or video "empathic man." In effect, it is a trait
material. Truax's Accurate Empathy Scale measure of cognitive empathy.
(Truax & Carkhuff, 1967) and Carkhuff s In addition to this overall measurement
Empathic Understanding in Interpersonal concern, some writers have questioned the
Process Scale (Carkhuff, 1969) are the two validity of Truax's Accurate Empathy and
most widely used examples. Subjective re- Carkhuff s Empathic Understanding Scales.
fers to the counselor's or client's perceptions Beginning with Chinsky and Rappaport's
of their counseling sessions. Two frequently (1970) critique, the problem has centered on
used ones are the Barrett-Lennard Rela- using audiotapes judged by independent
tionship Inventory (Barrett-Lennard, 1962, raters. Gormally and Hill (1974), Hill and
1978) and the Truax Relationship Ques- King (1976), Gladstein (1977), Fridman and
tionnaire (Truax & Carkhuff, 1967). Stone (1978), and Feldstein and Gladstein
However, other types of empathy mea- (1980), among others, have pointed out
sures have also been created. Cartwright problems concerning the material rated, the
and Lerner (1963) used role construct con- training of the raters, and the inconsistencies
cepts to develop a comparison of a thera- between stated empathy definitions and
pist's rating of how the patient saw himself actual measures. Perhaps Hackney's (1978)
or herself versus how the patient rated comment that too much attention has been
himself or herself. "The empathy measure put on measuring empathic communication
470 GERALD A. GLADSTEIN
skill and not enough on the empathic expe- stitutes a powerful psychological bond be-
rience best summarizes the concerns with tween individuals that—more perhaps than
the two scales. love, the expression and sublimation of the
Thus, the confusion regarding the signif- sexual drive—counteracts man's destruc-
icance of empathy in counseling/psycho- tiveness against his fellows" (p. 705). In
therapy can be traced to variations in defi- psychoanalysis, Kohut (1978, p. 700) called
nitions and measures used in empirical empathy "vicarious introspection" and ex-
studies. As Gladstein (1977, p. 77) sug- plained what the analyst does:
gested earlier, perhaps we should be looking
at which type of measure to use for which He uses his sensory impressions, of course, as he hears
type of empathy for what type of desired the analysand's words and observes his gestures and
movements, but these sensory data would remain
counseling outcome. Barrett-Lennard meaningless were it not for his ability to recognize
(1981), in viewing this same confusion, ar- complex psychological configurations that only empa-
gued that each phase of the empathy cycle thy, the human echo to human experience, can pro-
requires its own unique measurement. vide.
From another perspective, this confusion
could be expected. Psychological research Certainly, these views of empathy reflect
concerning empathy has assumed this com- a different philosophical set of assumptions
plex phenomenon can be reduced to quan- from those of Truax and Carkhuff, for ex-
tifiable elements. Further, it has created (as ample, who created measures of the coun-
noted earlier) measures that have tended to selor's empathic communication skills.
isolate the affective from the cognitive com- In view of these different philosophical
ponents. This approach is certainly con- and theoretical approaches to describing
sistent with reductionism but inconsistent empathy, it should not surprise us that the
with a holistic philosophical perspective. results of studies of empathy and counsel-
The latter is best represented by psychoan- ing/psychotherapy outcome have been in-
alytic writers such as Stewart (1956), who terpreted differently.1
argued that empathy cannot be studied by Within this context, it would seem rea-
using traditional scientific, psychological sonable to go beyond the counseling/psy-
methods. By inserting the outsider's ob- chotherapy literature in quest of deriving
jective measurements, he said, we destroy some ideas that can give us greater under-
what we are trying to measure (p. 120). standing. After all, neither of the two major
Thus, the confusion that exists results from models—identification or role taking—is
studying only a part or parts of a totality that unique in psychology (Smither, 1977).
do not lend themselves to traditional scien- Likewise, the various empathy measures
tific analysis. If one were to follow this line exist alongside many others. Perhaps by
of reasoning, empathy would be studied looking at other psychological areas it would
holistically. be possible to derive a broader perspective
Other psychoanalytic writers (e.g., and thus obtain a better understanding of
Greenson, 1967, 1968; Kohut, 1977, 1978), the confusing findings.
while not directly addressing this point, have
described empathy's subtle aspects, which Concepts from Social and Developmental
would appear to elude the usual psycholog- Psychology
ical research methods. For example, as
Greenson (1967, pp. 368-369) observed: To achieve this goal, I turned to social and
developmental psychology—the two
Empathy means to share, to experience the feelings of specialties that have contributed the most to
another human being, One partakes of the quality of empathy theory and research. As I analyzed
the feelings and not the quantity ... It is essentially the literatures, I hoped to find additional
a preconscious phenomenon; it can be consciously in-
stigated or interrupted; and it can occur silently and
automatically oscillating with other forms of relating 1
to people, [italics added] For a more complete historical tracing of the phil-
osophical, sociological and psychological bases for
contemporary research on empathy, see Gladstein
Kohut (1978) argued that empathy "con- (Note 1).
UNDERSTANDING EMPATHY 471
views and definitions, ideas for tests and pathy as role taking is largely based on
measures, and new research questions and Mead's (1934) and CottrellV(1942) ideas.
designs. Although Mead did not refer to empathy per
The first thing that struck me was that se, he did use the phrase "putting yourself in
these specialties (as well as counseling/psy- his place" (1934, p. 366). He argued that
chotherapy) have their own empathy liter- this ability was learned as a result of inter-
atures—and usually they do not overlap or actions with parents and others. Cottrell
intersect! For example, recent reviews by (1942) used Mead's ideas in developing his
Deutsch and Madle (1975), Smither (1977), theory of human social interaction. He said
and Ford (1979) in developmental psychol- that the trait approach to understanding
ogy barely refer to studies in the social area. interpersonal behavior was inadequate. To
The second observation was that each spe- take its place, he developed a theoretical
cialty has essentially two models of empathy: model that included 16 propositions that
(a) role taking and (b) emotional contagion. defined and explained self-other patterns.
Role taking refers to the ability to under- In Proposition Number 2, he presented a
stand another's thinking or feeling—that is, description of a process between two people
perceiving the world as the other person that he labeled empathy. It involved re-
does. This is similar to the first part of the sponding to another by reproducing the acts
Rogers definition quoted earlier. Emotional of the other. This reproduction depended
contagion refers to a person's emotional re- upon perception and an internal attitude.
sponse while observing another person's CottrelFs ideas were crucial because they
actual or anticipated condition. For exam- greatly influenced Dymond (1949), who
ple, if a counselor responded to a client's created the first widely used (but later
sadness by feeling sad also, this would be widely criticized) role-taking empathy
emotional contagion. These terms seem to measure. Here, role taking refers to being
fit the definitions of cognitive and affective able to predict another person's thoughts.
empathy presented earlier. In develop- Her Rating Test had four parts, which re-
mental psychology, role taking is based pri- quired the person to rate himself or herself
marily on Piaget's writings (1929/1975; and others on six items. She then calculated
1932/1965), whereas in social psychology it the way the person rated another in com-
is based on Mead (1934) and Cottrell (1942). parison to the way that person rated himself
Concepts regarding emotional contagion in or herself. This was essentially a cognitive,
both the developmental and social areas can predictive, role-taking empathy measure.
be traced back to early psychologists such as Other early attempts to develop empathy
Floyd AUport (1924), McDougall (1908), and tests were also based on this approach. For
Wundt (1892/1897). The third observation example, Kerr and Speroff (1954) created
was that each specialty has created its own the Empathy Test, which was used in in-
empathy measures. To illustrate, in social, dustry during the 1950s. In this case, how-
Dymond's (1949) Rating Test set an early ever, the subject responded to items ac-
pattern for measuring role taking; Hogan's cording to the way he or she believed certain
(1969) test is a more recent example. In population groups would respond.
developmental, Feffer (1959), Chandler In more recent times, two other role-tak-
(1972), and Selman (1980) created their own ing teats were developed. Although Hogan's
role- or perspective-taking measures. (1969) did not use Dymond's approach, it did
Because these two models and several focus on the cognitive domain. Hogan was
measures have some similarities but con- interested in moral behavior and saw em-
siderable differences with those in counsel- pathy related to it. Subjects were required
ing/psychotherapy, I will now discuss the to answer 64 items that were keyed to how an
social and developmental perspectives in empathic person would answer. The va-
more detail. lidity and reliability data for this test are
much better than for Dymond's or Kerr and
Social Concepts and Measures Speroff s.
The second measure—Emotional Em-
In the social psychology literature, em- pathic Tendency—was developed by
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Mehrabian and Epstein (1972). Their in- tagion does not require cognition. Without
terest was primarily in studying personality being aware of their actions, people can re-
characteristics. Although they indicated spond to others' stress, fear, or delight.
they were interested in measuring emotional Beginning in the mid-1960s a whole group of
empathy as responses to others, they actu- social psychologists became interested in
ally created a trait, affective role-taking empathy and used this emotional contagion
measure. In this case, affective role taking model. (According to Latane and Darley
means whether a person typically perceives (1970) a violent 1964 murder witnessed by 38
himself or herself as responding emotionally unaiding neighbors alerted researchers to the
to others' emotional behaviors. The subject problems of social indifference.) In the so-
answered 33 items that described how he or cial psychologists' studies of prosocial or
she responded to certain situations. So far, helping behavior, they frequently used em-
the reliability and validity data are encour- pathy as an important variable, or assumed
aging. it was present. In reviewing some of these
This brief review of the role-taking model studies, Rushton (1980) pointed out that
in social psychology shows that the primary although emotional contagion is related to
focus has been on cognitive role taking. altruism, role-taking empathy may not be.
Further, tests have either been situational or In recent research, Batson, Duncan, Acker-
trait in nature. Although the early measures man, Buckley, and Birch (1981) showed that
have proved to be questionable, recent ones emotional, empathic responses can be
have better validity and reliability. Davis created that are either egotistic or altruistic
(1980) used this history in creating a mul- in nature.
tielement empathy measure that taps cog- In carrying out these studies various
nitive and affective role taking. Future re- measures were used. Stotland and Dunn
search will establish whether the positive, (1963) used palmar sweating as a physio-
preliminary validity findings stand up. logical index of empathy. Aronfreed (1970)
By contrast, the second model—affective defined empathy in terms of experimental
contagion or reaction—focuses on the ob- conditions. He argued for very explicit
server's emotional responses to another conditions that had to be met before saying
person's actual or anticipated condition. that empathy was present. There must be
Empathy is present if the observer acquires a differentiation between "the observer's
the same emotional state as the other affective response to the perception of an-
(Rushton, 1980, p. 37). Recent social psy- other person's experience and the observer's
chologists, such as Stotland (1969), using this more direct response to the information that
model typically trace their ideas back to is carried in the observed reward or punish-
Floyd Allport (1924), who wrote about the ment itself (p. 107). To achieve this de-
conditioning process involved in sympa- termination, Aronfreed set up conditioning
thetic responses. They also note that experiments that involved social learning
McDougall (1908) and Wundt (1892/1897) through modeling.
referred to emotional contagion as a basis for Aderman, Brehm, and Katz (1974) also
one person's response to another. Rushton used an experimental learning model to
(1980) discussed this type of empathy as measure empathy. They combined differ-
crucial to understanding altruistic behavior. ent role-taking instructions with a videotape
It is one of two (the other being "personal presentation of an electric shock victim's
norms") motivational systems we can hy- affective reactions. Empathy was measured
pothesize as mediating mechanisms that by analyzing the subject's answers to the
lead to altruism. In a recent review, Hoff- Nowlis Mood Questionnaire in describing his
man (1977) also described how "empathic or her reactions in watching the victim.
distress" fits this general model. He was In a series of studies, Stotland and his
referring to an emotional reaction to another colleagues (Stotland, Mathews, Jr., Sher-
person's negative emotional condition. man, Hansson, & Richardson, 1978) com-
It would appear that this emotional reac- bined physiological and role-taking empathy
tion model of empathy is not closely related measures. At first they used palmar
to the role-taking model. Emotional con- sweating, basal skin conductance, and
UNDERSTANDING EMPATHY 473
vasoconstriction. When these proved to of thought" (p. 244). After Age 7-8, argu-
result in mixed findings in several experi- ment can be "what it is for the adult, namely
ments, they developed the Fantasy-Empa- the change from one point of view to the
thy Scale, a three-item questionnaire that other, accompanied by the effort to motivate
indicated some promising validity. one's own and to understand that of the in-
All of these emotional contagion research terlocutor" (p. 206).
programs drew from traditional social psy- From about the age of 11-12, Piaget
chology experimental approaches. They theorized, the child begins a new era (p.
used classical conditioning, modeling, ex- 253):
pectancy and set, and aggression-type par-
adigms. They usually created empathy by Social life starts on a new phase, and this obviously has
giving particular instructions to the subjects. the effect of leading children to a greater mutual un-
derstanding, and consequently of giving them the habit
Typically, they were also interested in the of constantly placing themselves at points of view which
relationship of empathy to helping or pro- they did not previously hold.
social behavior. (I shall come back to this
point later.) Although several researchers Thus, role taking is possible by this age.
also included role-taking empathy measures, Egocentrism gives way to perceiving others'
typically these studies were quite different views. What was an unconscious, ego-cen-
from the role-taking work of Dymond and tered thought process becomes an interactive
Hogan, referred to earlier. awareness of others.
These concepts became the basis for nu-
Developmental Concepts and Measures merous studies beginning about 1957.
Several fine reviews (e.g., Deutsch & Madle,
The development literature has been 1975; Ford, 1979; Smither, 1977) have traced
greatly influenced by Piaget's role-taking or the evolution and controversy in the litera-
decentering model of empathy. Although ture. Essentially, researchers have at-
Piaget did not refer to empathy per se, in tempted to establish age-related changes in
several of his early works he wrote of the cognitive or affective role-taking abilities.
child's problems as a result of egocentrism Here, cognitive role taking refers to the
(inability to differentiate self from objects person's ability to perceive how the other is
or others). He indicated that during the thinking. Affective role taking refers to the
early years the infant "confuses self with the person's ability to perceive how the other is
universe," and he or she is "unconscious of feeling. For example, Burns and Cavey
his self." It is not possible for him or her to (1957) showed pictures to groups of younger
separate the conceptual from the affective and older children. Some of the pictures
elements (Piaget, 1929/1975, p. 202). showed incongruous facial expressions. The
From the third to the seventh year, ego- children were asked how the boy or girl in the.
centric language is predominant. It is picture felt. Similar studies were conducted
greater between 3 and 5 than from 5 to 7 by Feffer and Gourevitch (1960) and Borke
years (Piaget, 1928/1959, p. 206). The child (1971). Other researchers, such as Green-
is "ignorant of his own ego, takes his own span, Barenboim, and Chandler (1976),
point of view as absolute, and fails to estab- conducted more complicated experiments
lish between himself and the external world with more difficult empathic tasks. They
of things that reciprocity which alone would tried to measure the combination of cogni-
ensure objectivity" (p. 197). Further, "the tive and affective role taking. Selman
child experiences the greatest difficulty in (1980), although originally stimulated by
entering into anyone else's point of view" (p. Piaget's ideas, drew on Mead's (1934) belief
216). In effect, Piaget believed that the that people are uniquely perspective-taking
child below Age 7 is incapable of empathy animals. He used Mead's distinction be-
(role taking). tween the self as "I" (the perspective taker)
However, after this age, egocentrism di- and the self as "me" (the object). "It is the
minishes and logical thought evolves: "We integration of these two components that
have here a remarkable instance of the in- makes perspective taking truly social, and
fluence of social factors on the functioning not simply the application of a developing
474 GERALD A. GLADSTEIN
reflexive or recursive thinking ability to some behavior. For example, Chandler (1973)
arbitrary social content area" (Selman, 1980, showed in an experimental study that spe-
p. 34). In other words, Selman moved be- cific filmmaking and similar activities that
yond Piaget's concepts to concentrate on involved cooperation and role taking re-
social cognition. sulted in higher role-taking skills when
Overall, these studies suggest that role- compared to a control group. These chil-
taking abilities do increase with age. How- dren also showed less antisocial behavior.
ever, Ford's (1979) review of this literature As Rushton (1980, pp. 107-109) noted, other
raised some pointed criticism of Piaget's studies have supported these findings and
concept of egocentrism. Ford's data indi- shown that role-taking abilities can be
cate that there is very little relationship learned even by preschoolers.
among the affective and cognitive role-tak-
ing and perspective-taking measures. Empathy and Helping
Evidence concerning children's emotional
contagion type of empathy does not seem so The social and developmental literatures
controversial. (Emotional contagion, or also provide some ideas concerning empathy
affective reaction, empathy refers to one and helping behaviors. Several of the early
person taking on the same emotion as the social psychology writers described a com-
other's existing emotion. This is the same plex relationship. For example, McDougall
way it was defined in the social literature.) (1908) said that emotional reactions to an-
This is probably due to the fact that only one other may or may not lead to helping. If the
measure has been frequently used. Fesh- observer becomes too close, distress can set
bach and Roe (1968) created the Affective in. Floyd Allport (1924) went even further.
Situations Test, which has been used by He argued that "the emotion sympatheti-
Feshbach and Feshbach (1969) and Roe cally aroused leads us primarily to the re-
(1980) among others. This test requires moval of the unpleasant state in ourselves
children to indicate how they feel when pre- rather than in those whose suffering aroused
sented with certain stimuli—usually pic- it in us" (p. 237). However, he noted that
tures, slides, or videotapes. In a recent re- when pity was added this could lead to
view of studies using this test, Feshbach helping.
(1978) discussed the relationship of empathy More recent writers, such as Hoffman
to social comprehension (role taking), (1977), have also described the complex re-
aggression, age and sex. She also stated a lationship between empathy and helping.
generalization that would seem to apply to After reviewing the theories and empirical
not only this area but to the social and evidence, he concluded that "although dis-
counseling/psychotherapy literatures as well: tress cues from another may trigger em-
"It should be clear that no one approach, no pathic distress (emotional contagion) in
single measuring instrument, no one cogni- observers and an initial tendency to act, they
tive skill is sufficient to encompass the psy- may or may not help, depending on the cir-
chological complexity of a major social be- cumstances" (p. 203). These circumstances
havior such as empathy" (p. 41). This was appear to be related to expectancies, group
her way of indicating that emotional conta- dynamics, and egotistic motives. For ex-
gion empathy need not be the same as role- ample, Batson et al. (1981) found that em-
taking empathy. This view would be con- pathy could lead to altruistic motivation to
sistent with the finding (Hoffman, 1977) that help (not egoistic). However, in their study,
boys and girls seem to have the same role- Stotland et al. (1978) found that high em-
taking abilities, whereas girls tend to be pathy student nurses did not display more
higher in emotional contagion empathy. In helping behavior. Perhaps they were more
effect, age-related changes in empathy could egoistically than altruistically motivated.
vary, depending on whether role taking or In the developmental literature, Piaget
emotional empathy was being measured. (1932/1965) differentiated role taking and
The developmental literature also emotional reactions in terms of helping. He
suggests that children can learn empathic indicated that the infant had the raw mate-
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understand better the raw identification or more of the role-taking measures developed
resonation stage. For example, as discussed by Borke (1971), Chandler (1972), or Feffer
earlier, developmental theory and research and Gourevitch (1960). In effect, I believe
indicate that even very young children have we need to broaden our perspective as to the
the capacity to react emotionally (the af- multiple stages and aspects of empathy.
fective stage) when observing others. The This would lead us to use additional tests
social literature, however, shows that adults' and measures. In this way we could test
emotional empathic responses may or may hypotheses regarding several aspects of
not lead to altruistic behavior. Thus, we can empathy and counseling.
assume that counselors have the capacity for If we accept this first point, it gives a new
the first stage (emotional empathy) but that view to the confusion in the counseling/
social norms and situational factors may psychotherapy outcome and empathy re-
interfere with effective helping. (Perhaps search findings. The fact that researchers
the therapist has internalized a norm of have found very little relationship among the
"keeping aloof" and not showing emotions. various empathy tests appears to make sense
In this case, he or she might not even be now. As Barrett-Lennard (1981) has
aware of his or her emotional response.) pointed out, these tests are measuring dif-
The social and developmental literatures ferent aspects and stages of a complex phe-
also show that empathy can be viewed as role nomenon. Therefore we would not expect
taking. Apparently, this is the second major them to be highly correlated. Further, it
stage. As a conscious, deliberate, cognitive should not surprise us to find that some
process, role taking appears to be similar to studies result in positive findings while
what Stewart (1956) described as "deliberate others do not. For example, studies of
identification" and Rogers (1975) discussed client-centered counseling/psychotherapy
as the "as if" quality of empathic under- using client-perceived, role-taking empathy
standing. Both literatures also demonstrate typically have had positive outcomes. The
that role taking can be taught to children measures used have been generally consis-
through social modeling as well as cogni- tent with Rogers's (1975) theory of empathy
tive-behavioral methods. Hence, it appears and its relationship to therapy.
that therapists are capable of experiencing
emotional contagion and learning role tak- Age Differences in Empathy
ing—both theorized as crucial to empathy in
the counseling/psychotherapy literature. Second, it is proposed that empathy in
The social and developmental areas also childhood is probably different from (but
provide some ideas and methods for related to) empathy in adolescence and
studying this multistage, interpersonal em- adulthood. The developmental literature,
pathic process. Counseling/psychotherapy both theory and research, indicates that al-
researchers could adapt some of the experi- though very young children (below Age 3)
mental designs and measures used by can be empathic emotionally, they probably
Aronfreed (1970) and Stotland et al. (1978) cannot be empathic cognitively. Taking
in the social literature, and of Feshbach another's role in complex interpersonal sit-
(1978) and Roe (1980) in the developmental uations probably cannot occur until later
literature. Further, Hogan's (1969) and childhood (above Age 7). However, typical
Mehrabian and Epstein's (1972) role-taking adolescents and adults are capable of role
tests—trait measures—could be used in taking.
conjunction with interpersonal process state How does this point relate to the coun-
measures such as Truax's Relationship seling/psychotherapy literature? We have
Questionnaire (Truax & Carkhuff, 1967). A always assumed that counselors are capable
new multidimential test developed by Davis of taking another's role. Yet, evidence from
(1980) seems promising. This 28-item, Hogan's (1969) and Mehrabian and Ep-
four-factor measure of empathy could pro- stein's (1972) studies indicate the wide range
vide an efficient way of measuring emotional of cognitive and affective role-taking abili-
and cognitive role taking. Counseling ties. Ham's (1980) dissertation further
studies involving children could use one or documented this with 100 counselors. Thus,
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it seems quite reasonable to expect that some when emotional reactions occur and for
counselors' role-taking empathic abilities are discovering when their levels are not facili-
more "childlike" than "adultlike." Al- tative. As I have noted earlier (Gladstein,
though they may have the intellectual ca- 1977), some type of physiological measure
pacity, because of their cognitive develop- could be used. Such an approach was re-
ment stage, they are still essentially ego- cently reported by Robinson, Herman, and
centric. In this sense they are acting like Kaplan (1982). Finger skin temperature
young children. Assuming this to be true, and skin conductance measures were used
it should not surprise us that some therapists with counselor-client pairs during inter-
are not easily able to learn «mpathic re- views. These data were correlated with
sponses. Certainly, various studies (see scores from the Barrett-Lennard (1981)
Bath & Calhoun, 1977) document this to be Relationship Inventory. Although these
true. One practical implication of this sit- physiological measures have been used from
uation concerns counselor education. Some time to time in the counseling/psychother-
graduate students would need special help apy field, by contrast they are frequently
regarding their cognitive development before used in social psychology studies (e.g.,
empathy training could be successful. Stotland et al, 1978, discussed earlier). We
can learn a great deal more as to the
Empathy May Not Lead to Helping strengths and limitations of these indices by
studying this body of research.
Third, it is proposed that empathy can, Understanding what the appropriate
but does not necessarily lead to helping be- empathic emotional reaction should be can
haviors. We have seen that the social liter- also be viewed in terms of psychoanalytic
ature, in theory and research, supports this concepts. As noted earlier, Stewart's (1956)
point. In this instance, I am referring pri- four stages of empathy are raw identifica-
marily to emotional or affective empathy. tion, deliberate identification, resistance,
Apparently, when emotional contagion af- and deliberate reidentification. These can
fects an observer, an overreaction or in- also be thought of as one type of transfer*
volvement can take place. As Hoffman ence/countertransference process. As-
(1977) noted, empathic distress can lead a suming that there is client transference,
person away from helping. countertransference would occur—-and
I believe we can easily see the connection probably not be helpful—when the coun-
to the counseling/psychotherapy literature. selor is unable to go beyond the raw identi-
If a therapist has too great an emotional re- fication stage. Theoretically, when the
action to his or her client—too much em- counselor is able to carry out the four stages,
pathic distress—he or she will probably he or she is able to go beyond deliberate
move away psychologically from the client. distancing (resistance) to reidentification,
As noted above, Rogers (1975) referred to a conscious process. In effect,.the counselor
this by saying there must be an appropriate can regulate the initial empathic emotional
amount of "as if quality, and Stewart (1956) reaction and use it productively.
argued that deliberate distancing must occur A recent analog study offers some support
after emotional involvement. for these ideas. Although Peabody and
This point has great importance in terms Gelso (1982) did not draw upon Stewart's
of the counseling/psychotherapy outcome concepts, they did use Freudian and neo-
studies. The mixed findings probably re- > Freudian definitions of countertransference.
flect the fact that we have not sorted out this Their operational definition—withdrawal of
element. We have not known when thera- personal involvement—suggests they were
pists have had too much empathic distress, measuring Stewart's resistance stage.
even though they have been able to say the Twenty clients rated their counselor on
correct words in communicating back what empathy (using the Barrett-Lennard Rela-
the client has said. In effect, they have had tionship Inventory). One week after the
empathic communication skills but lacked counseling session, the counselors responded
the proper empathic emotional contagion. to audiotapes of three types of clients (hos-
We need to develop methods for determining tile, seductive, and neutral) by selecting one
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stopped counseling after the first session. resolve the existing confused picture con-
Accurate Empathy scores were significantly cerning empathy and counseling/psycho-
higher for the "stayers." This positive therapy outcomes, but we may begin to un-
finding could be explained by Table 1 in that ravel some of the enormous complexities
the Accurate Empathy Scale measures pri- involved.
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