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Soc Psych Notes 5 - Attraction and Close Relationships
Soc Psych Notes 5 - Attraction and Close Relationships
➢ Hikikomori
➢ Need for Affiliation -translates to “pulling away” in English
-defined as a desire to establish social contact with -A form of severe social withdrawal, has been
others. frequently described in Japan and is characterized
by adolescents and young adults.
-is characterized by a full withdrawal from intimate
➢ Loneliness relationships outside of the family.
-is a sad and heart-wrenching emotional state.
➢ Affiliation
-is a necessary first step in the formation of a social
relationship.
➢ Conspicuous Consumption
-If women are drawn to men who have wealth or
the ability to obtain it, then it stands to reason that
men would flaunt their resources the way the male
peacock displays his brilliantly colored tail.
➢ Expressions of Love
-Saying “I love you” is a bold step for people
seeking a mate because the words signal a marked
shift in satisfaction and has implications for
➢ Matching Hypothesis devotion, sacrifice, and commitment.
-the idea that people tend to become involved
romantically with others who are equivalent in
their physical attractiveness. ➢ Jealousy
-“the dangerous passion”—a negative emotional
state that arises from a perceived threat to one’s
➢ Complementarity Hypothesis relationship.
-holds that people seek others whose needs
“oppose” their own—that people who need to
dominate.
• Sexual Infidelity - extramarital affair • comparison level (CL) to refer to this
engaging in sexual intercourse with average expected outcome in relationships.
someone other than one's partner. • comparison level for alternatives
• Emotional Infidelity - falls in love with (CLalt) refer to people’s expectations
another person. one partner shares
about what they would receive in an
emotional intimacy and connection with
alternative situation.
someone other than their partner.
➢ Passionate Love
➢ Lee theorized; these three styles can be
blended together to form new secondary - an emotionally intense and often erotic state of
types of love: absorption in another person
• mania (demanding and possessive
love)
• pragma (pragmatic love) ➢ Companionate Love
• agape (other-oriented, altruistic
love) - a slow-building, secure, trusting, and stable
partnership.
➢ Excitation Transfer ➢ 8 Types of Love
• Nonlove
-arousal–love connection is obvious, as when a
-The first type of love that Sternberg
person feels a surge of sexual desire at the sight of
introduces is nonlove, which is when none
a romantic partner.
of the three components of love are
- arousal triggered by one stimulus can be present in a relationship
transferred or added to the arousal from a second
stimulus.
• Liking (also called friendship)
- The second type of love that Sternberg
introduces is liking, which is when the
➢ Self-disclosure intimacy component of love is present in a
relationship, but the passion and
- willingness to open up and share intimate facts decision/commitment components are not
and feelings.
• Infatuation
➢ Social Penetration Theory - The third type of love that Sternberg
introduces is infatuated love, which is when
- holds that relationships progress from superficial
the passion component of love is present in
exchanges to more intimate ones.
a relationship, but the intimacy and
decision/commitment components are not
➢ Sexual Orientation
- defined as one’s sexual preference for members • Empty Love
of the same sex (homosexuality), the opposite sex - The fourth type of love that Sternberg
(heterosexuality), or both sexes (bisexuality). introduces is empty love, which is when the
decision/commitment component of love is
present in a relationship, but the intimacy
and passion components are not
• Romantic Love
- The fifth type of love that Sternberg
introduces is romantic love, which is when
the intimacy and passion components of
love are present in a relationship, but the
➢ Negative Affect Reciprocity decision/commitment component is not
• Fatuous Love
- The seventh type of love that Sternberg
introduces is fatuous love, which is when
the passion and decision/commitment
components of love are present in a
relationship, but the intimacy component is
not
• Consummate Love
- Finally, the eighth type of love that
Sternberg introduces is consummate love,
which is when all three components of love
are present in a relationship