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independence,
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decisions ontime!
not at any their own too early. Your of what you, his
child should never feel lost or abandoned. parents have done for
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him and others.
serve your children. You are also setting an particular need to feel the unconditional love of
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example for your children by serving each other,Share other her parents and the presence of her father. It is
of caresses. As he grows up, his need does not
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true love.
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those who cannot help back in any way and form. As your
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need language instruction, but it should not be the main part.
children grow up, they will become capable to give and give of
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friends.
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I know with Céline.
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16 – I amway share by
touched love.myyou?
dad's compassion
(sharing, helping, being helpful, etc.), let's encourage and love for my friends who are struggling with drugs.
them! It is important to praise our children, but let's We talk about it sometimes and I listen to his advice.
make sure that our words of praise are both sincere,
For the child to interpret thethe
said at giftright
as antime
expression of attachment
and for specific from
situations.
his parents, he must have his emotional reservoir filled.
 Quality Time Adolescents often ask their parents for quality time when
they are tired or in a hurry! In addition, to get the
attention of their parents, many children do not hesitate
to do objectionable things. They prefer attention in the
form of a reproach than no attention at all.

By offering quality time to their child, adults give of

For an adult coming home tired from the day,
themselves. In short, they are saying "You mean a lot to me".
any given quality time requires preparation.
Their attentive look, their warm words, their whole being
preparation. The more relaxed you are, the
show it.
- Mommy, come play with me! more you can give of yourself to your family.
- Later, darling, I'm making dinner.
Louise, 4 years old, obeys, but soon tries again!
As the child grows, it becomes more
difficult to spend quality time with them.
By giving Louise ten minutes of her time before preparing Set up a schedule, it will help you.
the meal, this mother could have then work without being
disturbed. Louise's emotional tank would have been filled.
Matthew, 7 - I know that Daddy loves me The best time you can take to talk to talk to
small children is at bedtime.
because we wash the car together while
Over the years, these relaxed conversations
my little sister takes a nap. I like to be will prepare the child to deal with his feelings.
alone with my daddy.

When you give your child quality time, the most important thing is not the activity you
choose, but the fact of being together. Later, these moments allow you, parents, to get Charlotte, 17 - I am sure of my parents' love. They
to know your child better, to stay in touch with him. In adolescence, they give take time to listen to me and I can discuss
opportunities for deeper sharing times, bringing up moral or spiritual topics. An everything with them. They are a support in the
appropriate confidence from the parent to the child shows the trust they have in him. choices I have to make.
Franck, 13 – of course Mommy
loves me! She attends all my games
and then we both go out to eat. If your child better understands the love you have for him through
quality time, remember that if you don't give him enough, he will
be consumed by the idea that his parents don't love him.
Share together about the different Quality Times
you’ve had with each of your children.