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Unpacking The Self
Unpacking The Self
Unpacking The Self
Unit 3
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We buy things we don’t need using money we don’t have to impress people we
don’t like (The Fight Club). Truly, you have heard the statement, “you are what you eat or
you are who your friends are.” Having a material self simply notches up these statements
into saying, “you are what you have”; “you are what the brands you buy”; and you are
what the things you cannot live without.
2. The Extracorporeal Self – This is the extended self which expresses our
psychological ownership of particular things, objects, places, and even people. It
includes all of the people, places, and things that we regard as “ours.”
2. Body Image
How we look at and value our bodies and how we look like are also
important determiners of the brands and things that we buy and items that
will make us happy.
For example, the body conscious would go to certain lengths like build a home
gym, eat exclusively organic foods, and buy dietary supplements.
3. Self- Esteem
The level of value we give ourselves also has an effect in the material
things we buy. Needless to say, more confident, outgoing people would sport
certain items more beautifully while introverted, socially aloof people who have
been conditioned that they have ceiling points in all aspects of life would not have
the same confidence.
4. Role Performance
The roles we play and the demands of these roles also determine our
sense of materiality.
For example, the academician would invest in books, highlighters, skills
training, forum, symposia and seminars; people in film would flock premiere nights
and block screenings of the most talked-about films; and athletes would spend
more time in gyms and health and well-being facilities than most people.
consumerism. While advertising can shape and reflect cultural values, an excessive
emphasis on commercialization may lead to the gradual erosion of cultural
distinctiveness.
1. Body is the innermost part of material self. You are directly attached to this commodity
that you cannot live without. You strive hard to make sure that this body functions well
and good. Example is Mariah Carey, she was reported to have placed a huge amount for
the insurance of his vocal cords and legs.
2. . Clothes is next to the body that was being influenced by the “the philosophy of dress”
by Herman Lotze. William James believed that an essential part of the material self is
clothing. Lotze stipulated in his book that any time you bring an object into the surface of
your body, you invest that object into any consciousness of your personal existence taking
in its contours to be your own and making it part of the self. (Helps to express who we
are)
- Lotze book: ‘Microsmus’any time we bring an object into the surface of our body,
we invest that object into the consciousness of our personal existence taking in its
contours to be our own and making it part of the self.’ (Watson 2014)
3. Immediate Family is the third in the hierarchy. Your parents and siblings hold
another great important part of yourself. What they do or became affects you. When an
immediate family member dies, part of you dies, too. When their lives are in success, you
feel their victories as if you are the one holding the bacon. In their failures, you are put to
chance or guilt. When they are disadvantage situation, there is an urgent urge to help like
a voluntary instinct of saving one‟s self from danger. ( they are connected to you by blood
and you share their glory as well as shame.)
4. Home is the fourth component of material self. Home is where your heart is. It is the
earliest nest of your selfhood. Your experience inside the home were recorded and
marked on particular parts and things in your home. There was an old cliché about
rooms: “if only walls can speak”. The home thus is an extension of self, because in it, you
can directly connect yourself. “Home is where the heart is” The extension of the multiple
version of who we are. it is where many aspects of your life have been developed, it is
where you feel most comfortable, and it is greatly linked to your identity. This is then
followed by other possessions such as gadgets, cars, collections, etc.
Investment - The collections in different degree of investment of self, becomes part of the
self. As James (1890) described self: “a man’s self is the sum total of all what we CAN call
his.” Possessions then become a part or an extension of the self
what does the statement “We are what we have” mean?
Russel Belk (1988) posits that “… we regard our possessions as part of our selves. We
are what we have and what we possess.” The identification of the self to things stared
in our infancy stage when we make a distinction among self and environment and others
who may desire our possessions. The possessions that we dearly have tell something
about who we are, our self concept, our past, and even our future.