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How are you doing? Thank you so much for getting back in touch with me, it has
actually made my day go well, if you do not mind I would love to know more about
you?

What is your name? Have you ever been married with kids before?

I'm a widow, I lost my late wife 3 years ago and since then I have been single we
were both married for 21 years, I have son he name is James

So tell me how long have you been into online dating? How has your search been so
far?

I'm to online dating; I really do not have so many clues about dating online.

What are the experiences you have encountered since joining this site,And how long
have you been using the online dating sites?

With the Experience you have had so far do you really believe that you can find
your soul mate through online dating?

As for me I believe and also have the courage that I will find the woman whom I
which to spend the rest of my life with. I do believe in soul mates. I have
friends that have found theirs and live very happily with them, and I have decided
a while ago that I would never "settle" for anyone less than my soul mate.

You see my dear, I am a God fearing nice, caring, honest, sincere, and
Understanding man with good sense of humor. Because I feel understanding and
communication is the most important thing in a relationship to make it strong and
last forever. When two couples understand themselves I don't see anything that will
happen to that relationship. It will be a happy one.

I am looking for someone who is nice, caring, loving, honest and understanding.
someone who I can have trust on and also who have inner beauty because inner
beauty tells the true and real character of a lady because is from the inner side
of her you can tell if she is good or bad....it is not all about the physical
appearance but the inner feelings which is the true feelings.

Are you a God fearing woman?

I am a God fearing man, I do have my Christian faith to credit for my life,
attitude and success; however, I don't use the name of God to attract women for my
character speaks for itself. I am not the type of man who is focused entirely on
himself.

What are Your Hobbies?

I love, swimming, and reading, walking on the beach, fishing, camping, just hanging
out with my friends and also i love cooking and telling stories with my daughter.

What�s Your Favorite color?

 My favorite colors are both white and red, because the white stands for a pure
heart and the red stands for love, so when you add the both of them together you
have a pure hearted love, that is me because I do have a pure heart for love.

So tell me how big is your family? I mean how many brothers and sisters you have?
What about your parents?
Unfortunately my both parents are dead andi am the only child of my late parents.

Are you seeking for a particular age range?

I'm 49 and i am ok with any age.

How often do you like to go out; I mean going partying?

When I am out of work, I like going out weekend with my daughter and my friends.

What are your favorite movies?

The Avengers, patriot, Romeo and Juliet, Pearl Harbor, Fly Boys, Titanic, Superman
so many of them but this few I have just listed are my top list.

What are your favorite TV Shows?

Merlin, Smallville, One Trill Hill, Everybody Hates Chris, Ellen De Generes, Oprah,
TSCC, Heroes, Jerry Springer, Keeping up with the Kadershians�etc.

What brand of music do you like?

I love blues, 80s, 90s, Rnb, Jazz, Hip Hop, Gospel Jams, RocknRoll.

1) Do you have a favorite mucisian in particular?

hmmm Usher Raymond is a nice who inspires me in terms of music for that he is my
number one mucisian

What about your favorite music band?

Mine is ABBA

Do you like been called nick names?

So my dear tell me about the current house that you are living in, do you live
alone?

I live with my lovely Son before in my house but now is gone to school and i'm all
alone in my house anytime i'm off its a 3 bedroom bungalow there In Bronx,and I
also have another bungalow with 4 bedrooms in a confined space of 4 plots of land
including a swimming pool in it, and that�s located at Washington DC.

What are your goals or dreams in life?

My goals and dreams in life are to be with the woman of my life whom I will call my
wife, who I will love and we will both live together and have a loving family
together forever.

Do you like sports? And what are your favorite sports?

I have a passion for sports and my favorite sport is football

Do you have any favorite sport team you support in particular?

Manchester United football club that�s my team, I love their pattern of playing
when I am in town I love travelling going to watch their match together with my Son

2) How do you feel when someone upset you? And what will you do to calm yourself
down?
I do feel unhappy for that moment; go to quite place and listening to a cool music
that will calm me down.
Hi , can we talk I would love to know more about you :)

Do you believe in distance relationship?

Yes I do believe in distance relationship, because I do have the faith I will meet
the woman whom will love and cherish me as I do.

Are you willing to relocate if you find your soul mate?

To me it depends on my soul mate; if she willingly wants me relocate to her house
of living its ok with me, if she wants to relocate to any of my house its ok with
me also, or if she wants us both to relocate to a new location, that again will be
ok with me.

How has your present marital life affected you so far?

Been lonely has affected me a lot, because me living lonely with only my son
without a woman to call my wife, it is not making me happy, and I know my son also
is not happy rather because he has no one to call a mother, I need a woman who will
take me and my son to be her husband and kids,and also make me happy for the rest
of my life.

So tell me what is your favorite food?

My favorite food is Spaghetti and Fried Chicken both stewed.

What�s your favorite drink?

My favorite drinks are Moet, Andre Rose, but I prefer Champagne more likely

Are you a left or right handed?

I am a right handed person

Can you drive a vehicle? Do you have a car?

I can drive, I have three cars, I have a Range Rover 2011 model black color, and a
Camry 2.5 white color, with a white Suzuki........, those are my toys I drive
around when I am back in town.

3) If you have one wish to make; what would it be and why?

My wish is for God to grant me a loving, caring and understanding woman that will
love me and my Daughter, Because that will make me happy for the rest of my life.

What do you want your new partner?

I want my partner, to be caring, understanding, God fearing, with good sense of

humor, who is loyal, honest and truthful to the call that will give me all her love
as I will love her with all my heart and soul. I hope this doesn't sound lame but
here it goes. I am currently looking to have a long term relationship with one lady
and I want my partner to be respectful. If you come home after having a bad day you
won�t even have to ask for a back rub. I will give you one because I care about
you. I want that to be a two way street. A lady who would love to go out and have
fun. Maybe a country drives, or to the beach, a nice dinner at a Quality
restaurant, a lady who loves children because I love children. If you have children
then you should actually enjoy being around them. I want a lady who is NICE I would
like to meet someone who has a good relationship with her parents and siblings,
please if you are that type of person I am in search of don�t hesitate to tell me
my dear, because I do promise I will not let you down, I promise to love and care
for you with all my life.

4) How do you feel sometimes when you are lonely?

Makes me remember about my past, the loss of my late wife, I don�t just like it
been lonely.

So tell me in whom did you find your first love and where, and what happened to
that relationship?
I founded my first love while I was still a teenager with a girl named Amber, we
were both attending the same school she was from Chicago united states, then we
used to see each other everyday helping each other with our assignment,
unfortunately our final exam at high school, she told me that her parents will be
living the country for Canada and she was going with them also, I felt like
wooh!!!, that means that you are going to live me, she said she does not know what
to do, so they left I was really unhappy during that period, years past on when I
have already married I and my late wife was on a summer trip to the Canada, so we
went on shopping at Shoprite we saw a kid who was just wondering around inside the
supermarket I walked unto the kid and ask him where are your parents as I was
talking to the kid immediately a lady walked unto looking at the face of the female
was my first love Amber I was very happy to see her and she also, I introduced my
late wife to her, she also introduced her husband and her children to me, she is
now happily married with 2 kids a boy and a girl, so we all went out for a nice
dinner, I got to know were they were living.

So tell me my dear what are the languages do you speak?

I speak English fluently and understand little Spanish and German, hoping to learn
more if I do have the chance to.

Who is your mentor?

My mentor is my late dad, he was a nice, caring and understanding dad, who loves
and take good care of his family, he always speaks the truth and he is a self
discipline man, my dad is ready to risk everything he has for his loved ones, but I
do feel the pain because he never lived to enjoy me, he was really the best dad in
the world. he always tells me that uneasy lies the head that wears the crown, so
for you to be successful in life you have to face some challenges

What is your biggest fear?

To loose the one I love and I don�t want to loose anyone close to me again.
I enjoy life in a quiet, peaceful and loving manner; I avoid conflicting situations
that may interrupt my inner peace. I enjoy the company of family, friends and my
companion when I find one. Am searching for someone with similar traits, who will
enjoy at least some of the things I like, someone who will appreciate me for who I
am and will support me in all my endeavors to excel in life, who will be my
comforter and share most things with me good or bad, someone I can share my
radiance and sunny disposition with, if you feel you are that person don�t hesitate
go with your mind I can be all you want and more.

What would be the perfect setting for a first meeting with a new date?
As for me I will take her first to a nice fast food, share some ice cream
together, then drive around the town together, while in the evening, we both go
out to the best restaurant to have dinner, candle lights on the table, a nice
loving blues music will be playing, pop some champagne together, look into her eyes
and tell her how much you love her and tell her she means the whole world, and that
she is the air that you breathing, and that you will love and cherish her till you
die, tell her how lovely are lips her, then give her a lovely kiss, after that we
both go out counting stars together, that I think will make my first date very
lovely and romantic.

2) If you are found guilty of a crime, would you admit yourself and accept your
mistakes?
I will admit my self, accept my mistakes, and face the consequences, because I am a
God fearing man, and I do abide to the truth.
If you see somebody you don't know who needs help, would you be of any support?
Yes I would help in anyway, because God in heaven says it is good to help those
that are in need, and he loves a cheerful giver.

In a relationship how do you see a situation whereby the woman earns more money
than the man?
A good relationship where two lovers understand each other, they're concerned for
each other and they respect one another, I don�t think that there will be problem
about that, to me is no problem as far as they both love their selves.

What gives you inspiration in life?

When everyone around me is happy, I feel very lively to do things that are what
inspires me in life.

From your own point of view how do you feel someone can be romantic?
I feel the best way for a person to be romantic is by being your own self; don�t
let others tell you what to do. Pay carefully attention to what your mate tells
you. It's a very easy thing to do, but it is often overshadowed by personal
thoughts or wants Tell them that they are the best, Kiss often and comfort each
other by holding each other, you can come up with something no one would expect.
Like ask your spouse to make love under the kitchen table. Do something creative.
Show who you are, Tell your spouse how you really feel about him/her, that you love
them from the inside not just the outside. Say sweet and loving things like: 'Your
eyes can make the sun rise, or words like 'You�re the reason my heart beats,' or
'You look so good, I wish I could grow a whole field of you, Often the greatest way
to show your love is by giving someone your trust. Open up and tell your mate
something about you that no one else knows.

Do you think you can be trusted by your man?

Yes I can be trusted, because I am ready to lay down my life for the woman I love.

What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships that will help
you succeed in future relationships?
Love, Trust, Understanding.

5)Marriage they say "Is For Better, For Worse" do you believe in this principle?
Yes I do believe in that, because that is where you have to show that you love your
partner very much.

On a serious note; have you ever thought of leaving your country,State,or city in
search of the man you want to be with in the future?
Yes that is why I am here on online dating so that I can find a woman from another
country I learn from her culture and also she learns from my culture.

Do you like holding hands and exchanging casual kisses with your partner?
Yes I do I will hold her very close to my body; make her feel the warmth of my
body.

Have you talked about your feelings with someone else?

Yes and you are the only person whom I am sharing my feelings with.

Hi

I sincerely appreciate what you wrote about yourself and your family,that shows
that you are really a nice person to be with "in person".It's not easy going
through those worst phrase of life. Mine was alittle bit different from what your
experience in life, I am so sorry for your lost of your husband it is really sad
when we lost someone dear to us

Thanks for taking the time to respond to my Email, although the little we wrote
about myself doesn't encompass our whole being but at least it gives us a glimpse
of who we are.Thanks for giving a try!! I do welcome your response and hope that we
will get to know each other deeply. Is just a matter of time and understanding, we
can make a difference in our relationship if we keep steady communication with
each other.

You really sound interesting to me after reading your email, I think we have
alot in common but I believe a meaningful relationship has to begin with meaningful
steps like been just friends, in other for us to share deep truth about ourselves
and to see if it will work out between us, despite the distance.. what do you
think?You wrote alot about yourself but I still want to ask you some few questions
before I write more about my job and so on. how has life been treating you since
you have been alone? Have you tried any relationship since what is your plan for a
new relationship? How many dating site did you registered with? tell me about your
ideal man? what are the qualities you are looking for in man before you called him
a friend ? This are short phrase question from my heart, I dont think i know the
right questions to ask you about your life that will make me trust you within a
second but I want us to be honest with each other because to make the best out of
any form of relationship sincere
communication is the key.

I feel so controlling asking you all this question's but is not my nature, I
really want to get to know you because I see a lot of
possibilities with

I guess am writing too much today, my intention is for you to be able to get to
know me better, I want you to know that! since we are far from each other right
now. I hope all is well with you? as for me am just doing fine and getting busy
with my time all day at work. i know probably, you would be reading my email before
my second mail would come in. it was really lengthy but i want you to enjoy reading
something new from me. i just wish you are having a nice time over there . I�m sure
you would find a better place in my heart with your mail before we met..

My Job experience started when i was in Italy, i always sail with my friends
father to different countries during my holidays back to Italy. i develop interest
in my friend's father job type, so i decided to study Physical
Oceanography/Chemical engineering,I graduated 1985 with an BSc in Chemical
Engineering from Imperial College,Rome and then went on to complete an Msc in
Marine Geology and Geophysics at the University of Rome Oceanography Center.I now
works as a chemical engineer for Shell and a sole contractor in the drilling sector
and also in the course of this contract I do purchase and supply crude oil to
prospective buyers especially from China.

I spent my first year offshore on mobile 'jack-up' and 'semi-sub' drilling

rigs. This was a great period in which I developed an understanding in well Head
Drilling. I assisted the wellsite leader (or 'company man') by compiling casing
tallies, calculating cement job volumes, and reporting progress to the onshore
planning team. By working with some very experienced wellsite leaders I gained an
intensive insight into drilling sector.That made me to gain my first contract job
easily.

As well site life became natural, it was time to demonstrate my new-found

knowledge and I moved into the Marine Field.I enjoy the varied nature of my job. I
can expect to travel nationally and internationally and complete extensive Job.
Currently.I'm working with a multidisciplinary team of engineers, geologists and
other professionals.I live and work on a oil rig most times just as I am here for
this job now. It takes a bit of adjustment when you first join a rig, but life on
board is very comfortable.

The Escravos offshore oil and gas industry only began in the 1960s and so is
still a relatively new area of employment. All the largest and most easily
developed oil fields have now been discovered and are now past their production
peak. In Escravos, activity is currently located mainly off the South coast of
Nigeria, but exploration is also being carried out in the western approaches, the
Meddetarian Sea and west of the Shetlands. Oil production generally has peaked and
is now declining gradually, although gas production is still rising and both will
last well into the current century according to the Oil and Gas UK

I guess with this information, you would know the kind of human i belong to and
why am always busy with my job sometimes.I decided to let you know more about my
job because of the mails you sent me It�s human nature to keep on wanting and
consequently needing. Looking forward to hear from you

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