During a happy family dinner, everything was fine until the teenager's aunt said

some mean things, predicting the teenager wouldn't do well in life, wouldn't finish
school, and would get married and have a baby early. This made everyone tense,
and the teenager began worrying about how these words might influence her
future choices.
What a Taoist Might Do:
The teenager would stay calm and listen, aiming to keep a peaceful atmosphere.
Despite negative comments, she'd reflect on her goals, express understanding,
and stay true to herself.

What a Taoist Might Not Do:

She would not react with anger or defensiveness, seek approval from others, or
blindly follow societal expectations. Instead, she'd maintain emotional control,
find contentment within, and make choices aligned with her understanding of a
balanced life.