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Department of Theology & Religion

MA Optional module
SUMMATIVE ASSIGNMENT

Module code: THEO44630


Module title: The thought of Thomas Aquinas in Context

Name: Z0130765
College: St. John’s
Date: 24th April 2019
Degree programme: MAPGT Christian Theology
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Thomas Aquinas and Divine Friendship

Introduction

For Thomas Aquinas the most rewarding life is a life united with God where, through

the working of the Holy Spirit, one comes to love and be loved by God and receives the

infused virtues of faith, hope, and love; love being the greatest of the three. This essay will

address Thomas Aquinas’ belief that love (​caritas) ​is the same as friendship (​philia), ​and

both are essential to the contemplative life of a Christian. We will see how Aquinas adapts

many of his concepts of friendship from Aristotle’s ​Nicomachean Ethics​, reshaping them into

a cohesive Christian theology of love and friendship beginning with God and progressing

outward until one can come to love even an enemy; without undermining or lessening the

richness of individual relationships.

Aristotelian Influences

Thomas Aquinas was one of the first scholars with opportunity to investigate

Aristotle’s works as they were becoming more available and he found Aristotle to be a wise

source on which to rely.1 He quotes Aristotle with the same amount of respect and repetition

as Church fathers like Augustine. Considering that Aristotle was one of the first to write on

friendship as a virtue and give weight and thought to the relationship,2 Aquinas looks to

Aristotle’s model quite often when crafting his own theology of friendship.3 Aquinas held

Aristotle in such high regard that simply titled him “the Philosopher”.4

Friendship did not have quite the same meaning to Aristotle and Aquinas as it does

today. For Aristotle friendship did not necessarily refer only to particular friendship between

1
Liz Carmichael. ​Friendship: Interpreting Christian Love​. (T&T Clark International, 2007),​ ​104.
2
Marie T. Farrell. “Thomas Aquinas and Friendship with God.”​ Irish Theological Quarterly​, Vol. 61,
no. 3-4, (1995): 212–218. doi:10.1177/002114009506100305. 214
3
Marko Fuchs. “Philia and Caritas: Some Aspects of Aquinas’s Reception of Aristotle’s Theory of
Friendship.” ​Aquinas and the Nicomachean ethics.​ 203–219., doi:10.1017/cbo9780511756313.012. 203
4
Thomas Aquinas. ​ST​ II-II Q. 23 A. I. https://dhspriory.org/thomas/summa/
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individuals or perhaps a small group. Friendship certainly refers to such relationships but it

was broad enough to include family, business, political, and social relationships.5 A

distinction, however is made between kinds of friendships because it is certainly true that a

political friendship is not the same as a close personal friendship. Thus there are friendships

of pleasure, of utility, and then true and virtuous friendship.6 It is this last category of

friendship which seems to most intrigue Aquinas; however, from this true friendship he

seems to work his way back to the lesser forms of friendship and links them together into a

coherent theology of friendship which fits within a theological framework.

Defining Friendship

According to Aristotle some of the defining aspects of friendship include mutual

interests, being useful or pleasing to the other, common concern for each other’s well being,

or as Marko Fuchs writes, “... (a) mutual benevolence; (b) not being hidden from either of the

friends; and (c) being founded in the goodness, pleasantness, or usefulness that each finds in

the other”.7 Aristotle also taught that if one is looking to the highest form of friendship there

will need to be some degree of equality or similitude between the friends.8 If there is an

inequality this does not mean that no friendship can be had but that friendship will face the

challenge of not letting the inequality cause friction in the friendship.9 Aquinas writes that

wishing good for another is not enough to form a friendship, “...for a certain mutual love is

requisite, since friendship is between friend and friend: and this well-wishing is founded on

some kind of communication.”10 Well-wishing is a part of friendship - built upon

5
Fuchs. “Philia and Caritas”, 204.
Daniel Schwartz.​ Aquinas on Friendship​. (Oxford University Press, 2012), 2.
6
Farrell. “Thomas Aquinas and Friendship with God”, Page 213.
7
Fuchs. “Philia and Caritas”, 213.
8
Ibid., 206.
9
Schwartz. ​Aquinas on Friendship​, 43.
10
Aquinas. ​ST​ II-II Q. 23 A. I.
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communication and shared interests. Common interests would ideally be linked to Christian

virtues like love, joy, and peace. Friendship based on common virtues make for better

friendships as the friends grow to be more altruistic.11 This should lead to a requited affection

where love is being returned one to the other. Thus for Aristotle, friendship necessitates that

love be mutual (unlike romantic love which can be passionate but not returned).12 It does not

seem that Aquinas agrees to the same extent, as we will see later on that friendship can be

given even to those who do not return affection, yet it is better when affection is returned.

Returning to virtue, Aquinas agrees with Aristotle that friendship itself is not only

best when virtue is part of the relationship but that friendship itself is a virtue​. ​Aquinas

writes: “The Philosopher...does not deny that friendship is a virtue, but affirms that it is

"either a virtue or with a virtue….For its praiseworthiness and virtuousness are derived

merely from its object, in so far, to wit, as it is based on the moral goodness of the virtues.”13

Furthermore, for the Christian, friendship is a theological virtue - infused into the heart by the

Holy Spirit.14 Aquinas is not saying that only Christians can be friends or participate in

friendship, but that only Christians who have the infused virtue of charity will be able to

participate in the truest form of friendship.15 Thus friendship begins with God - with the

Trinity, “For Aquinas, divine friendship for the human person and for the whole of humanity

springs from the very life of mutual love and knowledge, which is to say eternal friendship,

existing within the godhead.”16 As with all other virtues there is habit which is needed for

11
Mark Vernon. “Plato, Thomas and the Daring Ethics of Friendship.” ​Theology & Sexuality​, vol. 12,
no. 2, (2006), 203–216., doi:10.1177/1355835806061429. 209.
12
Vernon. “Plato, Thomas and the Daring Ethics of Friendship”, 205.
13
​ST​ II-II Q. 23 A. 3. ad.1.
14
Thomas Ryan. “Aquinas on Compassion: Has He Something to Offer Today?” ​Irish Theological
Quarterly​, vol. 75, no. 2, (2010), 157–174., doi:10.1177/0021140009360496. 157.
15
Fuchs. “Philia and Caritas”, 211. :
16
Farrell. “Thomas Aquinas and Friendship with God”, 216.
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virtues to grow and take root. The same is true of friendship, “Aquinas agrees with Aristotle

that friendship is neither a feeling nor an act, but rather a state or habit...”17

Charity as Friendship

Aquinas also defines friendship as interchangeable with charity; or ​agape/caritas

love. For Aquinas friendship can be elevated to this self-sacrificing, abiding, true, and most

beautiful of all loves which is charity​. ​Thus when Aquinas writes about charity, he is also

talking about friendship.​ ​The proof text for his view is found in John 15:15 when Jesus told

his disciples that he calls them not servants but friends. Aquinas writes, “Now this was said to

them by reason of nothing else than charity. Therefore Charity is friendship.”18 He then writes

that charity is the greatest virtue for in it we attain God himself: “Charity attains God Himself

that it may rest in Him….Hence charity is more excellent than faith or hope, and,

consequently, than all the other virtues…”.19 As mentioned previously, friendship is also

based upon communication and Aquinas sees the charity friendship God shows us as a means

of bringing the needed communication, “...inasmuch as He communicates His happiness to

us...of which it is written (1 Cor. 1:9): ‘God is faithful: by Whom you are called unto the

fellowship of His Son.’ The love which is based on this communication, is charity: wherefore

it is evident that charity is the friendship of man for God”,20 and a participation of Divine

charity.21 For Aquinas part of charity is the understanding that it is better to love than to be

loved: “Now to be loved is not the act of the charity of the person loved; for this act is to

love: and to be loved is competent to him as coming under the common notion of good, in so

17
​ST​ II-II Q. 23 A. 2.
Schwartz. ​Aquinas on Friendship, ​8.
18
​ST ​II-II Q. 23 A. I.
19
​ST ​II-II Q. 23 A. 4.
20
Ibid.,A. I.
21
Ibid​.,​ A. 2 ad. 1.
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far as another tends towards his good by an act of charity.”22 Man is first loved by God; God

is the initiator of love which man then reciprocates back to God. Man can learn to grow in

charity for others in that, it being a virtue and thus habitual, one can increase in love for God

and for others.23

Friendship with God

Now that we have a better understanding of what friendship means for Aquinas, and

where some of his foundationl thoughts arose, we can now proceed to understand where

Aquinas believes we find friendship and how such friendship ought to be ordered in the life

of the Christian. While Aquinas goes into great detail about the ordering of relationships, for

the scope of this study we will focus on the three broader categories of: friendship with God,

with friends, and with our neighbours and enemies. Aquinas also takes from St. Augustine

and his notion that, "Charity is a virtue which, when our affections are perfectly ordered,

unites us to God, for by it we love Him."24 But this love is not in us without God - God must

come and show us love first, “… charity can be in us neither naturally, nor through

acquisition by the natural powers, but by the infusion of the Holy Ghost…”.25 An order then

immediately emerges for if one cannot even fully participate in friendship without God, then

God being primary in friendship is necessary for any friendship to exist at all: “...love of

charity tends to God as to the principle of happiness, on the fellowship of which the

friendship of charity is based. Consequently there must needs be some order in things loved

out of charity, which order is in reference to the first principle of that love, which is God.”26

22
​ST​ II-II Q. 27 A.1
23
​ST​ II-II Q. 24. A4 ad. 3.
24
​ST​ II-II Q. 23 A. 3
25
​ST ​II-II Q. 24. A2
Carmichael. ​Friendship, ​110.
26
​ST ​II-II Q. 26 A.1
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Indeed love for God ought to be so significant that comparatively the love you have for others

seems almost like hate. Now, of course, as we will see in the next section - one must not hate

others, but there is use of hyperbole to show just how extraordinarily great ought to be one’s

love for God. Indeed in Scripture we are commanded to love God even more than family:27

Now we ought to hate our neighbor for God's sake, if, to wit, he leads us astray from God,
according to Lk. 14:26: "If any man come to Me and hate not his father, and mother, and wife,
end children, and brethren, and sisters . . . he cannot be My disciple." Therefore we ought to
love God, out of charity, more than our neighbor.28

We are to love God above family, friends, and above ourselves; God is to be our first love.29

This love that man has for God should not be in part but in whole.30 We will see that this is

different from how man is to love people who are imperfect. Friendship with God raises

objections according to Aristotle’s definition of friendship which presents the idea that there

should be some commonality and equality.31 Marko Fuchs responds to this critique when he

writes:

The non-Aristotelian aspects and features of Aquinas’s conception of caritas as friendship


with God can be summarized as follows: unlike Aristotle’s, Aquinas’s highest form of perfect
friendship is not a relation between equals but one between highly unequal partners….
Aquinas uses it to characterize his idea of perfect friendship instead. For an Aristotelian
philosopher on the one hand, this interpretation of what the mutuality of benevolence means
in Aquinas’s perfect friendship may seem odd. The Thomistic theologian, on the other hand,
may argue that at this point we are dealing not with natural but supernatural relations, which
are mediated not primarily by natural knowledge but by faith.32

This means that since God is so ​other​ than humans the rules are a bit more pliable when it

comes to friendship with God. Along with this are the understandings of the deification of

man and the person of Christ.33 Thomas Ryan writes that, “Without belief in human

27
Ibid., A.7 ad.1
28
Ibid., A.2
29
Ibid., A. 3 ad.3
30
​ST ​II-II Q. 27 A.5
31
Fuchs. “Philia and Caritas”, 211.
32
Ibid., 213-14.
33
Carmichael. ​Friendship,​ 111.
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deification in Christ, [Aristotle] could not envisage friendship between God and human

beings.... For Aquinas, on the other hand, these were integral to our graced share in the divine

nature and to the process of divinization.”34 Ryan continues on to say that it is by sharing in

the, “...Trinitarian life,” that we partake in deification, a sort of spiritual transformation which

elevates man to be able to have communion with God.35 This is of course only possible

because of the incarnation. Because Christ came in human flesh and died and rose again to

break apart the dividing wall between God and man and become the mediator, this opened the

door to not only communication between God and man, but to relationship, love, and

friendship.36 Christ also gives us his righteousness and takes our sin so that man might be free

to love God and to be made worthy of God’s love.37 God’s friendship makes man loveable

and grants him the capacity to love in deeper and truer ways than before. In many ways this is

the gospel - that God came to redeem man and make him his friend.38 This is why Friendship

is ​charity and the thing to desire above all else.39

Once man is given the ability to love God and is made His friend by the infusion of

the theological virtues by the indwelling Holy Spirit he is able to share in a friendship with

God where one’s desires can change to mach the desires of God and will the same things. For

this is yet another way in which man gains commonality with God. Of course, there is a limit

to how much humans are able to will what God wills, because man is often left ignorant of

God’s will, or is not able to understand God’s will.40 Nevertheless all we must do is pray that

God’s will be done, and trust when we are limited to understand and act when we do have

34
Thomas. “Aquinas on Compassion”, 169-170.
35
Ibid., 169.
36
​ST I​ I-II Q. 23 A. I
37
Farrell. “Thomas Aquinas and Friendship with God”, 216.
38
Ibid., 215.
39
Schwartz, ​Aquinas on Friendship,​114.
40
Ibid., 45.
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understanding of God’s will.41 This desire to know and live in God’s will is part of the

contemplative life which is the most important part of life according to Aquinas. In being

able to communicate with God, there is the ability to grow “in conformity with God’s will”

through prayer, the sacraments, and contemplation.42 By the grace of God man becomes

better at living and loving according to God’s will and in so doing his love for God and others

blossoms into greater and more self-sacrificial love.43

Love of Self

Aristotle wrote that one must first love themselves before they can love others: “(1)

we must wish him, on account of his virtuous qualities, all the good that we wish for

ourselves, and (2) we must have a well-ordered relation toward ourselves.”44 Aquinas takes

this thought and pushes it to see where friendship with God extends and how God’s

friendship with us orders our loves.45 The first person after God that Aquinas believes one

ought to love is himself. Now this may seem strange and I believe that in many ways it does

not quite fit with the description of friendship, but is more used as a means of understanding

proper and healthy love. First, love of self does not mean selfishness, or even the modern

ideas of “self-care” but rather Aquinas takes from Lev. 19:18 which says that one ought to

love their friend as they love themselves.46 For Aquinas this means that love first begins with

the self and extends outward. Thus the love for self should be upright and good so that the

same love extends to others:

... just as unity is the principle of union, so the love with which a man loves himself is the
form and root of friendship. For if we have friendship with others it is because we do unto

41
Ibid., 48, 51.
42
Carmichael. ​Friendship​, 118.
43
Schwartz, ​Aquinas on Friendship, ​114.
44
Fuchs. “Philia and Caritas”, 207.
45
​ST I​ I-II Q. 25 A. 4
46
Ibid.
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them as we do unto ourselves.... among these other things which he loves out of charity
because they pertain to God, he loves also himself out of charity.47

Aquinas continues:

God is loved as the principle of good, on which the love of charity is founded; while man, out
of charity, loves himself by reason of his being a partaker of the aforesaid good, and loves his
neighbor by reason of his fellowship in that good….Therefore man, out of charity, ought to
love himself more than his neighbor: in sign whereof, a man ought not to give way to any evil
of sin, which counteracts his share of happiness, not even that he may free his neighbor from
sin.48

It seems that Aquinas is wanting to make sure that goodness and truth are never usurped by

what man might think is “love” for his friend. If man loves God first, and then loves his soul

and that his soul would honor God, then when it comes to loving his friend he will only love

his friend so far as that love honors God and does not cause himself to sin. That said, while

the soul must not suffer injury from sin one may suffer bodily injury for the sake of the

friend,49 just as Christ suffered on the cross for the sake of our souls;50 though when not

necessary to suffer bodily for the sake of a friend one ought to love their own body.51 While I

would hesitate to call this self-love friendship,52 in that one cannot have mutual affection,

shared interests, etc. with one’s self, and because a friendship requires at least two persons, I

believe Aquinas’ main idea is that friendship with others will not be properly oriented until

one understands who they are before God and allows their friendship with God to rightly

order their loves by putting their love for God and obedience to his will first.53

Friendship with Others

47
Ibid.
48
ST I​ I-II Q. 26 A. 4
49
​ST I​ I-II Q. 26 A.5
50
​ST I​ I-II Q. 26 A. 4 ad.2
Gerald J Beyer. “The Love of God and Neighbour According to Aquinas: An Interpretation.” ​New
Blackfriars​, vol. 84, no. 985, (2003). 116–132., doi:10.1111/j.1741-2005.2003.tb06281.x.122-23.
51
​ST ​ II-II Q. 25 A.4
52
Vernon. “Plato, Thomas and the Daring Ethics of Friendship”, 206.
53
Fuchs. “Philia and Caritas”, 208.
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With a proper understanding of God first, then one’s soul, man can properly engage

with loving those who are near and dear to his heart. This would include people generally

classified as friends as well as family and other close relationships. For the Christian who has

the infused virtue of charity given by God he or she is now able to love others for God’s sake

and by His love: “for God is the principal object of charity, while our neighbor is loved out of

charity for God's sake.”54 The friend ought to desire that they might share in the joy of God

together.55 For the Christian their joy in friendship is to have their common interest be

primarily united in love for God:56 “Now the aspect under which our neighbor is to be loved,

is God, since what we ought to love in our neighbor is that he may be in God. Hence it is

clear that it is specifically the same act whereby we love God, and whereby we love our

neighbor. Consequently the habit of charity extends not only to the love of God, but also to

the love of our neighbor.”57

Aquinas does spend a good deal of time questioning which of our neighbours out to

be loved first, and what is the order in which we ought to love others, such as does family

come before a friend and do we love those closest to us or those who are more godly first? In

the scope of this essay there is not time to delve deeply into this question; however, it is

important to understand that the ordering of such loves and deciding who is to receive more

time and affection ought to always be related back to God and with whom God will be most

loved and glorified. Thus one ought to obey God’s commands to care for family and care for

one another.58

54
​ST I​ I-II Q. 23 A. 3 ad. 1
55
Ryan. “Thomas: Aquinas on Compassion”, 171.
56
​ST I​ I-II Q. 26 A.2
Carmichael. ​Friendship​, 103.
Schwartz. ​Aquinas on Friendship​, 31.
Fuchs, “Philia and Caritas”, 215.
57
​ST I​ I-II Q. 25 A.1
58
​ST I​ I-II Q. 26. A.6, A.7
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A critique that often comes of Aquinas’ teachings on friendship is that friendship

loses its depth because Aquinas is able to show how friendship love extends out to even our

enemies. However, to assume that Aquinas is dismantling close and intimate friendships is to

misunderstand him. He clearly writes that not all will be loved to the same degree59 and this is

normal and good, for love ought to be stronger with those to whom we are closest: “Love can

be unequal in two ways: first on the part of the good we wish our friend. In this respect we

love all men equally out of charity: because we wish them all one same generic good...

Secondly love is said to be greater through its action being more intense: and in this way we

ought not to love all equally.”60And:

... we love more those who are more nearly connected with us, since we love them in more
ways. For, towards those who are not connected with us we have no other friendship than
charity, whereas for those who are connected with us, we have certain other friendships,
….Consequently this very act of loving someone because he is akin or connected with us...can
be commanded by charity, so that, out of charity both eliciting and commanding, we love in
more ways those who are more nearly connected with us.61

A similar critique of Aquinas on this point is the concern that friends and family

become objects by which to love God rather than people to love for themselves. While it is

true that God’s love enables humans to love and thus they love because of God, it is not fair

to say that Aquinas does not understand the need to love others as themselves rather than as a

means to God.62 Mark Vernon helpfully explains: “... by nurturing good selfishness over bad

selfishness, the best sorts of friendship can become a ‘school of love’ that nurtures godly

characteristics within the Christian.”63 Thus it is by loving our friend well that we also love

God, but if we try and love the friend to get to God we have not truly loved the friend.64 One

59
​ST I​ I-II Q. 26. A.6 ad.1
Beyer, “The Love of God and Neighbour according to Aquinas”, 119.
60
​ST ​II-II Q. 26. A.6
61
​ST I​ I-II Q. 26. A.7
62
Fuchs. “Philia and Caritas”, 218.
63
Vernon. “Plato, Thomas and the Daring Ethics of Friendship”, 207.
64
Beyer. “The Love of God and Neighbour according to Aquinas”, 123, 131
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might say, the Christians’ love for God motivates his or her love for others.65 There is of

course a sense in which the friends we see are more “real” to us than God whom we do not

see, and so Aquinas acknowledges that just as a friendship ought to flow from God, in a

smaller way friendship can also flow back to God from our friendships with others. We can

interact with humans in ways we cannot with God and thus as we learn to love those close to

us we can also learn to understand better God’s love for us and our love for Him.66

Friendship with Neighbours and Enemies

As mentioned previously there are different degrees of love and Aquinas is aware of

the danger of making friendship too generic as just love for everyone. Thus, while

acknowledging that there is a difference between the traditional close friendship based on

common interests etc., which Aristotle speaks of in his ​Nicomachean Ethics​, the Christian is

blessed by the infused virtue of charity which enables his friendship to become so much more

than simply close friends with whom one enjoys spending their time. As the Christian comes

to better understand God’s love for them, and as their love for their friends and family is

transformed by the working of the Holy Spirit in their lives they can learn to extend such love

even to those with whom they do not share things in common and even those who are their

enemies.

There are two important concepts to this point: the first is that Aquinas gives a reason

for why we ought to love our neighbours and friends - which is for the sake of our first

friend: God. Just as one might love a friend’s children or family members while not having a

real relationship with them, it is for the sake of their friend that they learn to show love to the

65
Ibid., 117.
66
S​ T​ II-II Q. 26 A.2 ad.1
Beyer. “The Love of God and Neighbour according to Aquinas”, 128.
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others in their friend’s life.67 If God is this friend and he made all people, then in the same

way we must love them because they belong to God.68 This even extends to sinners - for

whom Christ showed His own love when he died on the cross.69 Thus one might say that

friendship, while it can be interchangeable with charity, the two words provide a helpful

distinction: one has friends whom they love with ​philia ​and ​caritas ​and all others whom are

loved from ​caritas.70

The question that then arises for Aquinas is whether is it greater to love a friend or an

enemy. He seems to believe that neither is better for they both are good and both can be

argued to be above the other: “Now it is better to love one's friend, since it is better to love a

better man...Therefore it is more meritorious to love one's friend than to love one's enemy.”71

But:

... it is better to love one's enemy than one's friend, and this for two reasons. First, because it
is possible to love one's friend for another reason than God, whereas God is the only reason
for loving one's enemy. Secondly, because if we suppose that both are loved for God, our love
for God is proved to be all the stronger through carrying a man's affections to things which
are furthest from him, namely, to the love of his enemies...72

To be clear, when Aquinas is talking about loving one’s enemies he is not saying to love sin

or promote sinful behaviour in our love, but to love them as men and not as sinners.73 As Liz

Carmichael so aptly writes, “...love of enemies is directed to the person ​qua​ human, not ​qua

enemy which would be to love the evil in them ...”74 If one can manage to love God, family

67
Carmichael. ​Friendship​, 121.
68
S​ T I​ I-II Q. 23 A. I
Farrell. “Thomas Aquinas and Friendship with God”, 215.
Beyer. “The Love of God and Neighbour according to Aquinas”, 118.
69
​ST I​ I-II Q. 23 A. I
Carmichael. ​Friendship, ​106.
70
​ST I​ I-II Q. 23 A. I ad 3.
71
​ ​ST ​II-II Q. 23 A. I
72
Ibid.
73
​ST I​ I-II Q. 25 A.8
74
Carmichael. ​Friendship​,123.
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and friend, others, and even one’s enemies, then they have truly begun to understand love in

its perfect form.75

Conclusion

For Aquinas friendship is the greatest relationship man can have both with God and

with other people. If man persists in the habitude of friendship as a virtue he will also grow to

be able to extend his love for others more deeply as well as more broadly. Friendship is a

school to learn how to love better. As Mark Vernon writes, “... if friendship can be an

overarching principle in someone’s life, not merely something shared between two people,

then a close friendship is likely to make those people love others more, even when they

barely know them….To put it another way, Thomas wants to ‘free us’ from a moralist notion

of charity based upon an imitative Christology that merely stresses doing good…”.76 We do

not do good merely for the sake of doing good, but rather we learn to love for the sake of

Charity.

One cannot write about Aquinas without talking about the contemplative life. Tying

friendship back to his overarching topic of the contemplative life, it is clear that friendship for

Aquinas is necessary for the contemplative life, for the contemplative life is about knowing

and loving God. To fully understand this one must, in the active life, love God and neighbour

which will in turn edify and perfect the contemplative life.77 In a similar way, the more one

contemplates the love of God the better one will be able to love their neighbour in the active

life.78 Thus when one allows the Holy Spirit to direct one to love God, self, neighbour, and

even enemies they will be partaking in the true joys of knowing God who is Love itself .

75
​ST ​ II-II Q. 25 A.9
76
Vernon. “Plato, Thomas and the Daring Ethics of Friendship”, 210.
77
Beyer, “The Love of God and Neighbour according to Aquinas”, 126.
Carmichael. ​Friendship,​ 127.
78
Beyer. “The Love of God and Neighbour according to Aquinas”, 127 -128.
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