Big Mistakes You’re Probably Making Keeping

Her From Your Bedroom

There tends to be a few big mistakes that are pretty common I see guys
constantly making with the women they are with.
The first mistake is this idea of “playing it cool.”
I think this stems from guys hearing advice like “don’t seem too
interested” or “you’ve got to be cocky.”
Shy guys tend to fall into this trap a lot because they basically use
‘playing it cool’ as an excuse to avoid putting themselves out there and
making a move. I know, because I used to be very shy and girls very rarely
had any idea that I liked them. This was good for my ego because I hardly
ever got rejected.
But horrible for my sex life because I hardly ever got laid.
But there is an even bigger mistakes guys make.
And that mistake is the idea that the longer you talk to a woman and the
more she likes you the easier it will be to start flirting or getting sexual
with
her.
It’s actually the exact opposite.
The longer you’ve talked to a woman, or known a woman without
getting sexual, the more you’re killing your chances of anything EVER
happening.
And in fact, there is actually an opposite correlation, in which, the more
a woman likes you, the less likely she is to feel sexual attraction toward
you.

The Biggest Reason Guys Wind Up in the

Friend Zone
The biggest reason guys wind up in the friend zone is because they
don’t want to ruin the rapport they have with a woman. They sense the
woman likes them, and they are afraid if they try anything that the she’ll
think they are just another jerk trying to get her in pants.
(Which you actually are) So you’re much better off being honest about
it from the beginning.
Because the fact is, a woman decides extremely quickly if you’re a
potential lover, a potential boyfriend, a potential friend, or just an
annoying
guy she doesn’t want to be talking to.
And most guys present themselves as potential boyfriend.
And they do things like:
1. Trying too hard to find things they have in common.
2. Focus on showing her that you have a good job, like to travel, and
other "boyfriend" traits.