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How to Know If Your Crush Is Flirting With You

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jessica bedewi (/authors/jessica) jul 17, 2018

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Texting can make for some pretty confusing interactions.

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It's an easy way to stay in contact with someone, but tone of voice
and nonverbal cues are all missing from the conversation, which
can make for quite a few misunderstandings about what
someone really meant. And there's no situation where texting is
more confusing than when you're having a conversation with your
crush.

So how can you know if your convo with your crush is flirty or
friendly? Keep scrolling for a few foolproof signs that your crush is
flirting with you over text.
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 1. They Reply Quickly
Quick replies are always a good sign when it comes to texting. It
shows that your crush genuinely wants to chat with you and get to
know you a little better. Considering how busy everyone is on a daily
basis, quick responses also imply that your crush is making your
conversation a priority. While longer replies aren't necessarily a deal-
breaker, fast responses are a nice sign that your crush is engaged in
the discussion and enjoys texting with you.

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2. They Ask Questions

Questions are essential to a good texting conversation, but that
doesn't mean that everyone asks them, so if your crush is
contributing to your conversation by asking questions, it's a good
sign. Not only does it show that they're actually interested in your life
and have a desire to get to know you better, but it also indicates that
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 and have a desire to get to know you better, but it also indicates that
they don't want the conversation to end. Bonus points if their
questions go beyond, "What are you doing?" and "How was your
day?"

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3. They Send Long Responses

Just as asking questions shows that your crush wants to continue
the conversation, long responses indicate that they want to be a
functioning part of the texting exchange. There's nothing worse than
continuously receiving one-word answers, a single emoji or even the
dreaded "k." Long responses mean your crush put some thought into
their text and wants to contribute to a functional conversation,
whereas short replies are probably an indication that they're not
that interested in talking to you.

4. They Compliment You

This one's pretty obvious, but just in case you didn't know,
compliments are a good thing. Your crush is literally telling you what
they like about you— it's an unquestionable indication that they're
flirting with you.
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5. They Use Emojis

Yes, yes—we all use emojis, but are you really filling your texts with
laughing faces and smileys for someone you don't really care
about? Of course you're not, and the same is true for your crush. Any
emoji use is a good sign, but you should definitely watch out for the
explicitly flirty emojis. Heart eyes, kissy faces, winks and hearts of any
kind are pretty clear indications that your crush wants to be more
than friends.

6. They're Not Afraid of Texting First

The "who texts first" discussion will probably never be fully solved.
Honestly, it doesn't really matter who texts first as long as your crush
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