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Crucial Conversations Primer
Crucial Conversations Primer
Crucial Conversations Primer
and __________________
LOVE
1) _______________________________________
High Stakes
2) _______________________________________
Strong Emotions
3) _______________________________________
Opposing Opinions
In Nature: _________________________
Fight or _________________________
Flight
Controlling/
avoiding
filibuster
Accusing
In Conversation: ______________________
violence or ________________________
silence redirect
Labeling
- For ________________
MYSELF - For _____________________________
THE OTHER PERSON
- For THE
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RELATIONSHIP - For _____________________________
THE ORGANIZATION
A ________________________________________
ask for other stories. How do you see it? what else should I understand?
T ________________________________________
talk tentatively… avoid broad brush strokes. not definitive ways of talking. embodies humility.
HOW YOU DO IT
E ________________________________________
encourage testing. “how do you see this?” “help me understand” “what am I missing?”
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mutual purpose